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iron horse
09-09-2010, 06:49 PM
Hey all,
I hope this thread catches on!
We need a thread that features **real** unpaid ladies that are into ballbusting solely for the enjoyment of it. For years I've been chatting with Sharon (founder of this forum and femaledom.com) on the member's only forum about what her models truly think about ballbusting. Her response has been that after they understand they will not be stripping naked, not have to engage in sex, and, can kick men in their balls all they want, they love it. Sharon has said she never has to advertise for new girls as they hear about it and contact her with interest as she indicates that kicking men in their balls is something that women naturally enjoy. Indeed, after seeing many hours of her videos, although their scripts and lines reveal some very poor, amateur acting, when the girls see a guy getting busted hard in his balls they break into immediate laughter as he drops, it is too real and they aren't acting (they just aren't that good of actors!) It's witnessing those precious moments when they stand around laughing at some poor naked fool holding his balls and moaning that has had me coming back to her site for all these years. :thumbup
I've also talked to "baz" or "jedi" from Kinky Kicks that concur. Their female models DO really enjoy ballbusting men. Ballbusting Legends guy who posts on here also concurs, the girls relish the opportunity.
And for those that like CFNM ballbusting, all of the above producers concur that many (if not almost all) of the models prefer kicking the men in their balls when the guys are completely naked.
BUT....
All the above are paid models. The question is this - if girls had the opportunity to kick a man in his balls solely for the enjoyment of it and no other reasons, how many would?
I think the number would be a lot higher than what most would think. Girls enjoy the natural vulnerability men have with their balls, and they want to exploit it.
Here's a video of a girl filming her friend chasing a young boy around trying to bust him in his balls. It is a real video of kids at play, and although there's no actual ballbusting, it evidences that for many girls the desire to kick boys in their balls begins at an early age:
Short 2mb video:
http://depositfiles.com/files/gvb3lwatz
Here's another of a high school party where the girls laugh and film one of their friends kicking a boy in the balls:
Short 4mb video:
http://depositfiles.com/files/dyeksyzzv
Finally, I ran across this girl that has a video blog. She's a pretty girl that talks about why she and other girls so much love to kick men in their balls. She even reveals that when she was in the army she once watched a girl kick a guy in his balls, and despite her not even knowing why, she tells us she really wanted to see him get kicked a lot harder and talks about how much she would have loved to go over and kicked him in his balls hard enough to really take him down (again, without even knowing the guy or why he was busted). Although there's lots of videos of ballbusting girls being interviewed, and, although they *seem* real and honest, we all know those girls are being paid. But the following video (which was on Myspace) is of a girl not being paid, but just telling it truthfully and like it is...girls thoroughly enjoy kicking men in their balls:
Video - 85mb:
http://depositfiles.com/files/qayz1681u
http://thumb.dumparump.com/116/0uD4D1q.jpg (http://www.dumparump.com/view.php?id=0uD4D1q)
A member in our forum here, LightningJack, has ballbusting parties in London. There are many ladies that come to them without partners, and without being paid. The parties, which are mostly CFNM in nature, are all about letting ladies have fun busting the guys balls. Although most can't attend, he has wonderful stories that we can all learn from. Here's his thread:
http://femaledom.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9529
SO, this thread is dedicated to the real female side of ballbusting and celebrating it when they have a chance to do it for real, and solely for their pleasure. It would be fantastic for the real ladies of this forum to talk to us about why they like ballbusting.
And if any of you have any videos, stories, or links featuring real, unpaid females that want to ballbust men, please post! ;)
Jewels_4Me
09-10-2010, 01:32 PM
I'm glad this thread addresses this question. Females that pursue ballbusting aren't open about it for obvious reasons - lighteningjack's discussion exemplifies that.
But over the years I've heard many girls saying how much they would like to kick some boy in his balls. What I think that girl in the interview and the two videos you posted imply, as well as a fundamental premise of this thread, is something I fully agree with, and that is...many girls would simply love to kick a man in his balls soley for the enjoyment of doing it and not necessarily for any reason. In fact, not even knowing the guy might add to the pleasure.
It comes down to our embracing hidden urges everyone on this planet harbors. For me, it would be the sadistic pleasure of walking up to a guy I don't know, and for no reason other than my own enjoyment and complete disregard as to what it meant to him - kicking him hard enough in his balls to make him drop to the ground writhing with pain. I'd then walk away with a big smile on my face never wanting to know him, comfortable (if not elated) in what I just did. And if he were naked at the time and I could hear and feel that loud slap, it would be even better. And yes, i would sleep quite comfortable in knowing what I did. :Baahaha:
With the Internet and introduction of ballbusting as a main form of fetish, let's all hope it will become much more mainstream such that that girl in the video interview can actually enjoy the opportunity of kicking you guys in your balls. ;)
john m w
09-10-2010, 05:29 PM
they tell there true feelings about kicking guys square in the nuts, and laugh about it, and love it, for free :Baahaha:
EricaBB
09-11-2010, 03:32 PM
I definitely do love to kick men in the balls.
I have for a very long time, since childhood. I'm not going to be open about it anywhere but on ballbusting websites with a false name, but I do.
It's easier for men to say they like to get kicked in the balls(although still hard) -- because they run the risk of being called weird. Women run the risk of being labeled as insensitive bitches.
ndguy58503
09-11-2010, 08:51 PM
Erica you could kick me in the balls anytime :)
Kyore000
09-12-2010, 01:47 AM
Me too...:iluvu:
skipperbob
09-12-2010, 11:51 AM
Had many sessions through the years, several with women who were not sure they would like kicking me in the balls, but once they got going they found out they loved it! Gave them a feeling of power and control and to see how helpless I was after they kicked me - it was a real turn on for them! I had two of them offer to meet me whenever I was in town just so they could kick me for fun. They said it was hard for them to ask guys about this and they wished more would bring it up - so if you think she might be into it, don't hesitate to ask her, you might find them more willing than you thought! Just don't force it and make sure you respect the limits she sets if any and you could be in for a great time!
iron horse
09-12-2010, 01:49 PM
Had many sessions through the years, several with women who were not sure they would like kicking me in the balls, but once they got going they found out they loved it! Gave them a feeling of power and control and to see how helpless I was after they kicked me - it was a real turn on for them! I had two of them offer to meet me whenever I was in town just so they could kick me for fun. They said it was hard for them to ask guys about this and they wished more would bring it up - so if you think she might be into it, don't hesitate to ask her, you might find them more willing than you thought! Just don't force it and make sure you respect the limits she sets if any and you could be in for a great time!
A guy once started a website for dommes into ballbusting. What he did was simple - he contacted various dommes around told them that if the responded to a Q&A about balllbusting, he in turn would do a quick bio of them and show their website.
He had about 20 such interviews. One of the girls said it was a "cathartic" act, which prompted me to look up that word. Catharsis is a Greek word meaning "cleansing", "purging", and a cathartic act is one in which emotions and tension are purged or released. She spoke of ballbusting as a way if getting out feelings of anger, and the men's balls were a type of punching bag. But she said that unlike a punching bag, seeing the men drop in agony as a result form her kick was the real catharsis.
Most of the other dommes answered in a somewhat similar way. So it is not surprising to see that like Jewels, girls share in such a release in ballbusting.
And I agree with Jewels in that ballbusting is growing in popularity and becoming a more mainstream fetish, which is a good thing!
sub4her2
09-12-2010, 05:12 PM
A former member in here tried to see if a ball busting party was feasable in and around the Chicagoland area. He said he got very little response to his post in various other forums. I was wondering if such a party could actually take place here in America.:confused:
iron horse
09-12-2010, 11:22 PM
A former member in here tried to see if a ball busting party was feasable in and around the Chicagoland area. He said he got very little response to his post in various other forums. I was wondering if such a party could actually take place here in America.:confused:
Read LighteningJack's post about that. He talks about how he was successful, but, how forums like this are a waste of time for people that wan real life hookups. I don't know why people think forums like this could possibly be a way to start such a party. It is the wrong place to get participants and would never work. I know as I've tried other similar type of gatherings. Boards like this are 90% comprised of guys wanting to fantasize, and you'll never find more than just one or two in your area on a forum, if that.
One needs to advertise in the local rags and mags that are dedicated to the fetish. Craigslist is a good place to talk about the events (not as in "adult services" but in just party gatherings. When i got off the sex forums and went with standard ways of getting a gathering, it was surprising how well it worked.
Nadzilla
09-13-2010, 10:47 PM
I kick my boyfriend in the balls and love it. Honestly. I'm not embarrased or care what others think about what we do.
I openly tell my friends about it, and even bust him in public. I mean its not for everybody, but I love sharing what I love with people. :iluvu:
finally
09-14-2010, 11:47 AM
Females that pursue ballbusting aren't open about it for obvious reasons...:confused:
I'm not embarrased or care what others think about what we do.:)
Ok, not everybody may be so very free to tell about it. But at least here on the internet I can see no reason to hold back. Still there are quite few women. There has to be something else.
Btw, women also laugh or grin if it's about a pecker beeing amputated. That doesn't mean anything. Woman laugh if they don't know what to do else.
jake68
09-15-2010, 06:57 PM
I ONLY film with girls that enjoy kicking a guy in the balls, rather than just filming with girls beacuse of how they look and are only doing it for the money. Yes a lot of the girls on my site are paid as well, but a lot of them are not, and some of them get off on it almost a little too much, which they say is payment enough :) oh and all of them are indeed real girls..is there any other kind? :D
My site is a c.l.i.p.s.4.s.a.l.e site called Sniff that Kick store number 7106
jake68
mick_sl8ter
09-15-2010, 09:39 PM
I definitely do love to kick men in the balls.
I have for a very long time, since childhood. I'm not going to be open about it anywhere but on ballbusting websites with a false name, but I do.
It's easier for men to say they like to get kicked in the balls(although still hard) -- because they run the risk of being called weird. Women run the risk of being labeled as insensitive bitches.
Then the internet definitely is a good thing for you.
iron horse
09-17-2010, 11:05 AM
I ONLY film with girls that enjoy kicking a guy in the balls, rather than just filming with girls beacuse of how they look and are only doing it for the money. Yes a lot of the girls on my site are paid as well, but a lot of them are not, and some of them get off on it almost a little too much, which they say is payment enough :) oh and all of them are indeed real girls..is there any other kind? :D
My site is a c.l.i.p.s.4.s.a.l.e site called Sniff that Kick store number 7106
jake68
Hey Jake, thanks!
You're quite the legend insofar as taking CFNM ballbusting to new levels. I LOVE your work, and know you have other fans.
One thing that I think many producers have avoided, which I wish I'd see more of, are ballbusting videos that aren't a contrived plot - ergo, bad husband, secret agent, etc. What would be really refreshing is to introduce the girls in the beginning, let them talk a minute as to why they enjoy kicking men in the balls, them bring out the naked guy and let them go to town. It's very erotic when they constantly inspect his balls up close, or if one holds up his penis exposing his entire nut bag to the other girl for easy targeting. It really rocks when a girl delivers a particularly debilitating blow to the boy's balls with a loud pop and his immediate yell in pain while we watch the girls gleefully laugh, give thumbs up/high five and compliment her on her hard blow...all the while he's laying on the floor holding his balls moaning. And when those moments are real, it (in my opinion) doesn't get any better. I know the Kinky Kicks guy has started to keep the camera rolling to get the girls *real* reaction after the video seems to be over. He says that they often stand around giggling about the busts showing their enthusiasm and enjoyment while thinking the camera is off. Brat Princess even did post-video interviews with the girls following up on what they enjoyed most about the session...awesome stuff.
I hope that in the future you can do videos that are less campy and staged (no offense, all producer's videos are), and more about the girls not acting but being themselves and displaying *real* enjoyment of ballbusting. I think that female sadism is an attractive and hot aspect of ballbusting, and when the girls can say, without concern or reprisal or guilt, that they simply love hurting a man by kicking his balls and we give them the opportunity to do that, for real, it is incredibly hot!
:thumbup
finally
09-17-2010, 11:08 PM
[...] Her response has been that after they understand they will not be stripping naked, not have to engage in sex, and, can kick men in their balls all they want, they love it.
That's exacly why the news about the guy, who payed a group of young street whores to make him horny for some time and then bite his dick off, is so erotic.
I love to pay a woman in advance to bind me and to give me the full show, and not to listen to me, should I change my mind ...:D:D:D
:bananajum
iron horse
09-18-2010, 12:12 AM
I kick my boyfriend in the balls and love it. Honestly. I'm not embarrased or care what others think about what we do.
I openly tell my friends about it, and even bust him in public. I mean its not for everybody, but I love sharing what I love with people. :iluvu:
Nadzilla - be careful or you'll be having ALL the men in this forum falling helpless in love with you! :iluvu:
Nadzilla
09-18-2010, 01:01 AM
Nadzilla - be careful or you'll be having ALL the men in this forum falling helpless in love with you! :iluvu:
Aww, you're so sweet. :D
I just like being honest, and sharing my love for BB with people that accept me. Most of my friends know what we do - but don't want to talk about it. Or feel quite uncomfortable when I mention it.
You guys make me feel very at home. :)
iron horse
09-18-2010, 01:08 AM
Aww, you're so sweet. :D
I just like being honest, and sharing my love for BB with people that accept me. Most of my friends know what we do - but don't want to talk about it. Or feel quite uncomfortable when I mention it.
You guys make me feel very at home. :)
For many of us, we harbor deep passions that we dare not discuss with anyone. And we fantasize about having a woman that would not only *not* just us, but would want to explore it with us. So you come along, you're beautiful, sweet and want to meet our dreams for us. Although I'm out of your age requirements, I still feel blessed to chat with you on this board - you really bring life here!
I how you enjoy CFNM ballbusting, that's the ultimate for me ;)
gbpopol
09-18-2010, 09:29 AM
this short clip is from a site where the girls are (obviously) paid.
But here it seems to me that her laughs are genuine while the man is clearly acting.
What do you think?
http://www.pornofilmetrailer.com/brutalballbusting/
gbpopol
09-18-2010, 09:35 AM
another small clip with the same girl
http://www.darkx3m.com/noticias.item.872/19-year-old-ballbuster-loves-extreme-nut-kicking.html
iron horse
09-18-2010, 12:28 PM
this short clip is from a site where the girls are (obviously) paid.
But here it seems to me that her laughs are genuine while the man is clearly acting.
What do you think?
http://www.pornofilmetrailer.com/brutalballbusting/
Although the vid says "brutalballbusting.com", those videos are actually produced by Ballbusting Porn Stars. I never cared too much for that production company because the actors are all from the porn industry, and many of the vids digress to that.
For me, the best has always been femaledom.com because Sharon has never relied on the adult industry, but instead, the girls come through word of mouth from friends, and few have ever been in front of a camera. And their reactions are very real. I particularly like some of the older Shania's and Sandra's in that they get the case of the giggles and can't stop laughing as they kick and knee the men in their balls.
Here Shania who just turned 18 and this is her first affiliation due to her young age, is mocking the guy after she delivered a particular hard kick in his balls and he's in pain and shows her natural, unrehearsed playfulness and enjoyment of ballbusting. She then kicks him even harder afterward taking him down in agony while the girls laugh hysterically afterward:
http://i52.tinypic.com/157j4oj.jpg
Kickball08
11-16-2010, 12:45 PM
I definitely do love to kick men in the balls.
I have for a very long time, since childhood. I'm not going to be open about it anywhere but on ballbusting websites with a false name, but I do.
It's easier for men to say they like to get kicked in the balls(although still hard) -- because they run the risk of being called weird. Women run the risk of being labeled as insensitive bitches.
Brilliant - Most people I know admire women who have got the guts to kick men in the balls. Many men deserve it and a few men crave to be ballbusted (like me). I think I am in the majority of men and women who admire women like you.
femmefatale1983
12-20-2011, 03:41 PM
I cant see the top 2 videos. Are they good?
velvetfog
12-21-2011, 12:12 AM
Iron Horse, can you please re-up the second clip:
http://depositfiles.com/files/dyeksyzzv
It has been taken down, and if you can use a host other than DF (which I don't like at all), that would be great.
On the topic of girls liking it, there are different kinds of balbusting. One is the sexy sex related bb which occurs when there is sex and a cumshot involved. The girl should definitely be into it, but it's easier because of the hormones going. Another sort of bb is the Spikey steps kind of videos. I don't know if the women in all their videos are into it, apart from getting paid. I do know I like women who truly want to hurt testicles, to the point that they are indifferent to whether they cause lasting damage, and perhaps may even get more enjoyment if their is an "accident". I should addd that the point is to prolong and intensify that certain kind of agony, not just haphazard brutality. Therefore, the beatdown videos where homeless and retarded people are assaulted are garbage.The women have no skill, and I hope bad luck follows the producers and female performers.
On the other hand, there are videos which show cruel women with skill, busting sane men able to make informed decisions. The think I really want to see is that the action starts off consensual, and descends into not non-consensual but edge play. That is the skill of a truly dominant woman, and when combined with real sadism in a woman, it is a thing of beauty.
obedientesticle
12-22-2011, 12:16 PM
I'm glad this thread addresses this question. Females that pursue ballbusting aren't open about it for obvious reasons - lighteningjack's discussion exemplifies that.
But over the years I've heard many girls saying how much they would like to kick some boy in his balls. What I think that girl in the interview and the two videos you posted imply, as well as a fundamental premise of this thread, is something I fully agree with, and that is...many girls would simply love to kick a man in his balls soley for the enjoyment of doing it and not necessarily for any reason. In fact, not even knowing the guy might add to the pleasure.
It comes down to our embracing hidden urges everyone on this planet harbors. For me, it would be the sadistic pleasure of walking up to a guy I don't know, and for no reason other than my own enjoyment and complete disregard as to what it meant to him - kicking him hard enough in his balls to make him drop to the ground writhing with pain. I'd then walk away with a big smile on my face never wanting to know him, comfortable (if not elated) in what I just did. And if he were naked at the time and I could hear and feel that loud slap, it would be even better. And yes, i would sleep quite comfortable in knowing what I did. :Baahaha:
With the Internet and introduction of ballbusting as a main form of fetish, let's all hope it will become much more mainstream such that that girl in the video interview can actually enjoy the opportunity of kicking you guys in your balls. ;)
After a long time watching the growth of ballbusting porn AND also free sites like you-tube and kicke-dinth-egroin, I think there can be no doubt that there are girls who would like to do it or actually like doing it.
I still did'nt try it in real life, and if I had the opportunity, I would go slow to try it. But my fantasy is compatible with yours, dear Jewel, I like to dream of being that victim of yours...:iluvu:
komodov
12-23-2011, 02:57 PM
another small clip with the same girl
http://www.darkx3m.com/noticias.item.872/19-year-old-ballbuster-loves-extreme-nut-kicking.html
She certainly acts like she is 19. Her giggles sould like a young girl who is enjoying herself.
komodov
12-23-2011, 03:02 PM
this short clip is from a site where the girls are (obviously) paid.
But here it seems to me that her laughs are genuine while the man is clearly acting.
What do you think?
http://www.pornofilmetrailer.com/brutalballbusting/
Check out this clip if you want to see a gorgeous girl abuse this guys balls.
sexy Regan Rees shows off her body while delivering wicked kicks to Erics tender balls
fittizzioh
12-24-2011, 03:37 AM
I am really glad to see a post about this!
Here where I live (south of Italy) sexual costumes are really strict, thanks Vatican!!!
Even if in the last years this is changing, women are still not comfortable to speak about what they like in sex and some girls don't even know how much they love to hit and squeeze balls!
Many women describe the experience as empowering, funny and arousing, so why is it not like that for all the others? It's all good for them, why don't the majority of them do it all the time?
Mainly because they never tried that (but many secretly want to) and some consider it a violent act or a perversion.
Think about some examples: girls in school like to use that, it's like a superpower to them, even if doing it can cause troubles with "authority" later!
Think about what EricaBB said: she will not admit her taste in real life, but she loves to kick balls!
The real challenge here is letting them get over the initial barrier and do the first bust... then they will start to love it!
I always introduced my gfs into this, slowly and softly, and all of them (yeah, 100%) ended loving it and doing it even more than i wanted them to!!
I love squeezes, but many of them punched and kicked and kneed (and elbowed and bite) me for fun even if I was not asking (and i cannot endure as much pain as they do on regular bb videos)!!!
And they all smiled and giggled while doing this and also used that as a threat when they went jealous or mad at me!
They also keep doing it with their actual partners!
I think the most important thing about this is how you speak about it: if it all starts in private, in a playful context, and slowly, I assure you will end down on the ground clutching your groin!
Maybe some women will never admit how much they like it and some really will not like it at all, but i think that is 1% of the women out there!
Finally i think in a couple there should be no secrets, especially in sex!
If you love your woman you don't end up chasing others to kick and squeeze your testicles!!!
nefarious
12-25-2011, 11:14 PM
i think that it is way more erotic when a woman is there with you doing what she's doing because she wants to be and not because she's paid to be
mick_sl8ter
12-26-2011, 03:49 AM
I think the video productions with paid actors were a good boost for getting people familiar with and intrested in this fetish.
Since ballbusting has become a sexual genre, it is no longer extremely rare, and less bizar to enage in.
Anyone who is intrested should feel free to discuss this fetish with their sexual partners to see if perhaps they share this passion.
I have had several relationships; and casual sex partners between those. In my case I have found only 1 woman who LOVED ballbusting. Others were only lightly intrested at first and more involved & passionate over time.
I have not encountered a single woman who was absolutely not intrested.
Free advice: That's why you should not bring on this subject during first sex in a new relationship. Just let her handle your cock and balls during fellatio. You will find out soon enough if she likes to sqeeze / bite your cock & balls. And if she does, show your appreciation or even ask for more ;)
From there on, just see where it ends.
I have had a girl who was not into ballbusting, but she had a fetish of her own: she wanted me to sqeeze & slap her ass, pull her hair and fuck her really hard. And she kept asking me to do it harder and harder, to a point where I felt it was abuse... I then stopped, continued normal sex. But later discussed with her why she likes it and what my limits are. And how we could find a compromise. On several occasions I have had some really rough sex with her, although I am not at all into slapping women etc,... In return she would do me a favor: the roughest hardest ballbusting ever. Sometimes to a point where I thought it would have damaged my balls for good.
Fisherman
12-26-2011, 09:20 AM
I have never found a woman that was into it. I have found some that were more than willing to talk about it and claimed they were into it, but they never actually came through with the action of doing it. I have had several cases where I would do something for them I wasn't completely into for the busting in return. I'm not a hundred percent sure in which theory I believe in as to why women do not participate in this fun as much as we'd like to think they would. I have met women that do like to bite the cock and slap the cock, but it seems like the balls are just not of interest.
obedientesticle
12-26-2011, 12:59 PM
This is just an example of some people doing ballbusting videos. The poster of this video HAS a shop, so the girls make some money out of it, but I if you look around a bit, you will find videos without moneymaking. Of course, if people post videos on the net and feel some success, they might start to make money out of it. For them it would be almost stupid not to do it, as it's on the net anyway, so why not get money out of it, that is the simple logic which probably starts a lot of (porn) business...
http://www.you--tube.com/watch?v=OuwCyMqKvAw
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