Tips

[Uglyshoes]

Anyone have any ideas of how to get a girlfriend into this lifestyle? She's already into bondage and a few other things, I just need help opening the door the rest of the way.

[michael_k3]

Hi,
if you love her and she loves you, it should not be a big problem to talk about sexual fantasies. You said she already likes bondage, so it should not be a big thing. What are you afraid for?

Michael

[tiny301]

I'm with Michael. It took me years to tell my wife about my fantasies and then I kicked myself for not telling her sooner. She doesn't share all my fantasies but she was pretty receptive. I would suggest you not hit her with your most extreme fantasies right off the bat though. Maybe start with asking her to spank you before you ask her to dress you in a cheerleader costume and invite the boys over to gangbang you.