Why are most slaves limp during ballbusting?

[slavejes81]

I mean, don't most of them have a sexual fetish for it and having said that, wouldn't you think more of them would be hard during the filming of the ballbusting?

But I have seen lots and lots of video shoots where it's the opposite that I see, the male slaves are usually flaccid, We Love Ballbusting, We Bully Balls, SpikeyStep, Brat Princess, Femaledom etc etc.

Any thoughts about this phenomenon from the forum?

[EricaBB]

I used to think this as well,

Talking about ballbusting got my man hard, but when we actually did it, for some reason he went soft...

Idk what it is...

[Castratrix's pet]

Also, my understanding is that in some countries they allow pornography including female domination but with some interesting restrictions. For example you can show things like ballbusting, but you can't show an erection. So either with camera tricks or with meds to prevent an erection, the ballbusting is shown with the slave limp. At lease that's what I read somewhere.

[blancanvas]

There's sometimes a difference between fantasizing about ball-busting and actually experiencing ball-busting. The fantasy can make for an excellent jerk-off session, but when you are actually having your balls busted, the pain can at times overwhelm any pleasure that a woody would provide.

[Alec Anaconda]

In real life, a good woman knows how much pain she can apply to induce and maintain an erection.

I find that too much pain, for too long, will either produce an ejaculation or become non-sexual.

Alec Anaconda

[skweezme]

I've noticed the same thing, seeing videos etc but also from experience. I was surprised and disappointed that I didn't have a constant hard-on in my first session. Too embarrassed to draw my Mistress's attention to it but didn't seem to bother her and she didn't make anything of it. Seems like it's not uncommon.

When exploring pain-play with more vanilla partners, I agree with Alex that a good partner will keep on the side of sexually exciting you. That's the vanilla understanding of things. My Mistress goes beyond this. It's still tremendously erotic and a load of other things but my body's under threat and in a physical state of shock by the time She's halfway finished with me. My bodily response to reproduce just doesn't come into it. I'm overwhelmed. I'm in subspace.

[crushee]

Hi,

I remember having read words from a professionnal Mistress saying that she had never seen hard ball torture leading to a hard cock.

On the other hand, there are on the net lots of ball torture videos with a decent hard-on. Especially vids with a male sub with shaven head, who receives heavy kicks, knees or squeezes and shows throughout the session a gorgeous erection: perfectly straight and well above the horizontal when he is standing (around 45 degrees up!)

So both situations seem to occur. I don't know if the latter has been "chemically" helped.

[kickpom]

When i get busted, at the start of the session i have a raging hard-on, but after the pain kicks in after some good hard kicks, my cock goes limp every time.

Prolonged ballbusting does make you lose your erection (or ballbusting that stretches your limits)

If you can handle the busting then you can keep an erection for longer.

That said it doesnt take much to make me hard again.

[gary4279]

I'm hard the whole time but busting never last that long that probaly why. we use it as forplay. Come to think about it, i never cum if we don't incorporate some busting before hand. Weird?

[skipperbob]

For me I would start with a hard on but heavy kicking took care of that. Just light kicking, especially to my cock and I would get the hardest erections I ever had! Women liked kicking and slapping my stiff boy around!

[likelyjohn]

I think it really depends on the person. Generally, when getting my balls busted, I get the hardest erections I am capable of, and they maintain throughout. The more my balls ache, the more aroused I become. I'm not in a slave/mistress relationship, but we do play it out sometimes in the bedroom.

Not entirely sure why others who enjoy bb'ing would lose their erections - my pain threshold sometimes gets surpassed, but that doesn't force me to lose my erection. It just means we take a break from the bb'ing for a minute and get into the sex. Bouncing aching balls while deep inside my woman - just more hard. Meh, different strokes, folks.

[darkwing]

Just remember that what you expect is fantasy. In real life, they can't take so much punishment without distracting your arousal with pain.:(

[balltoyca]

In real life, a good woman knows how much pain she can apply to induce and maintain an erection.

I find that too much pain, for too long, will either produce an ejaculation or become non-sexual.

Alec Anaconda


Pretty much my experience as well. Though I do enjoy the pain after going softer. I've cum many times from the intense pain, good solid ejaculation but from a limp cock, really quite the sight so I'm told.

[Alec Anaconda]

Skweezme:

I've noticed the same thing, seeing videos etc but also from experience. I was surprised and disappointed that I didn't have a constant hard-on in my first session. Too embarrassed to draw my Mistress's attention to it but didn't seem to bother her and she didn't make anything of it. Seems like it's not uncommon.



When exploring pain-play with more vanilla partners, I agree with Alex that a good partner will keep on the side of sexually exciting you. That's the vanilla understanding of things. My Mistress goes beyond this. It's still tremendously erotic and a load of other things but my body's under threat and in a physical state of shock by the time She's halfway finished with me. My bodily response to reproduce just doesn't come into it. I'm overwhelmed. I'm in subspace.





Although I still enjoy the occasional intense session with the “out of body” experience, I tend to keep matters lighter these days.

For a start, it’s less selfish and allows me to attend to her needs as well as mine.

However, this is not vanilla, as lemonade is not strong ale.

When I was a player, I often challenged woman to try to force me to submit, using one hand (but not nails) to squeeze my balls using whatever method they wanted for as long as they liked.

Almost all failed, most ending up with cramp in their hand.

I still enjoy this level of testicular stimulation.

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For the record my name is Alec; Alec Anaconda.

Alec Anaconda

[v15]

well... i for one get har when i get busted :thumbup

[subsenmartin]

I applaud guys who are hard 100% of the time when getting busted. It is difficult for me at times. Especially when the pain is intense or the shoot is late in the day. I just did some content for Sidney Scarlet and although the scene was highly erotic and there was awesome busting and cbt in it, I was not hard for all of it. I had a semi for part, but there was not way on earth I could remain hard. The pain was way too intense. I actually bled in that scene so, yeah...

usually I can get hard when the chemistry of the scene or the shoot is spot on. As with everything in life chemistry is everything...

Hope that answers your question (from a guy who gets kicked now and then perspective at least)!

Marty

[stman]

As with everything in life chemistry is everything...

Agreed! Additionally, we all have a similar masochistic drive/fetish so it's easy to think it is all the same, but all subs and masochists have their own particularities in terms of CBT/ballbusting. Personally, just like sex, chemistry and intimacy is what makes it really work for me.

Also from a technical standpoint, it sometimes takes me a while to get into a masochistic headspace! Even though I found it hot, the first session I had, I didn't actually get aroused until it was over. And that session was with some great dommes.

Another thing too, I've read experiences of female masochists who like being spanked, but they only come when the pain is consistent.. eg being spanked repeatedly and working your way up in intensity. I find this somewhat similar to my own experience. The first time I really got full on aroused during a BB session was when I was being whipped repeatedly, and was looking right into my lovely partner's eyes... there's other factors too, personality aside, for example I totally have fetishes for certain clothes, etc, and while I don't need those particularities fulfilled, I'll be hella more aroused if they are.

I'm sure there are other guys out there with this fetish who feel quite different from me on the above points. And if so, that would be a case in point--we're all different individuals!

[thesealion]

any chance of bringing back gia or sarah
I applaud guys who are hard 100% of the time when getting busted. It is difficult for me at times. Especially when the pain is intense or the shoot is late in the day. I just did some content for Sidney Scarlet and although the scene was highly erotic and there was awesome busting and cbt in it, I was not hard for all of it. I had a semi for part, but there was not way on earth I could remain hard. The pain was way too intense. I actually bled in that scene so, yeah...

usually I can get hard when the chemistry of the scene or the shoot is spot on. As with everything in life chemistry is everything...

Hope that answers your question (from a guy who gets kicked now and then perspective at least)!

Marty

[thesealion]

my 2 cents is this I am hard at first with light contact but the more it hurts I lose it and she has to do "nice stuff" to make me hard again to have fun.

[SuperNeck]

Regarding Ballbusting "fantasy" vs. "reality", have any of you discovered that the reality is not as good as the fantasy? In other words, the fantasy of geting kicked in the balls is a huge turn-on to you (as it is to me). But then when you actually got your balls kicked, it turned out to not turn you on as much, or not at all.....maybe because it hurt so bad.

Maybe its one thing to WATCH someone else get his balls destroyed, but if the same thing were to actually happen to YOUR balls, maybe that would be different?

Just wondering, since I'm getting close to an actual balls kicking experience.
I hope I don't regret my decision, if I go ahead. Thanks



There's sometimes a difference between fantasizing about ball-busting and actually experiencing ball-busting. The fantasy can make for an excellent jerk-off session, but when you are actually having your balls busted, the pain can at times overwhelm any pleasure that a woody would provide.

[pete40]

Regarding Ballbusting "fantasy" vs. "reality", have any of you discovered that the reality is not as good as the fantasy? In other words, the fantasy of geting kicked in the balls is a huge turn-on to you (as it is to me). But then when you actually got your balls kicked, it turned out to not turn you on as much, or not at all.....maybe because it hurt so bad.

Maybe its one thing to WATCH someone else get his balls destroyed, but if the same thing were to actually happen to YOUR balls, maybe that would be different?

Just wondering, since I'm getting close to an actual balls kicking experience.
I hope I don't regret my decision, if I go ahead. Thanks


Start slow with light hits,i am sure you will enjoy it.

[kickpom]

Regarding Ballbusting "fantasy" vs. "reality", have any of you discovered that the reality is not as good as the fantasy? In other words, the fantasy of geting kicked in the balls is a huge turn-on to you (as it is to me). But then when you actually got your balls kicked, it turned out to not turn you on as much, or not at all.....maybe because it hurt so bad.

Maybe its one thing to WATCH someone else get his balls destroyed, but if the same thing were to actually happen to YOUR balls, maybe that would be different?

Just wondering, since I'm getting close to an actual balls kicking experience.
I hope I don't regret my decision, if I go ahead. Thanks

Stay within your pain threshold and you'll love it. Dont be afraid to stretch it either. It can be nerve racking at first but you'll be eased into the experience.

One thing i love is getting myself filmed while being busted - so i can enjoy watchin it afterwards as well as experiencing it.

[balltoyca]

Yes I agree, start off light and work up to hard.

I find the reality at least as good as the fantasy, sometimes even moreso.

The only time it falls short is if the Domme doesn't take it to a high enough level. That can be a little disappointing, depending on what all else goes on.