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ilbb11

01-06-2012, 05:00 PM

Well i've booked my first session in a couple of weeks.
I booked with an escort as I feel they are much more attractive and I can coach them more. She seems very interested in doing it lol. Plus its only $90 for the hour :)

Im planning on starting off with her kicking
lightly in barefeet and then progressing onto heels.

Is there anything I should do beforehand?
Any tips for a bettter session?
Anything anyone can add would be great.

Thanks :)

TangledPanda

01-06-2012, 05:53 PM

I would have thought escorts would be more expensive due to the nature of their more intimate work?

Other than the street, druggie kind.

skweezme

01-07-2012, 06:42 PM

I booked with an escort as I feel they are much more attractive and I can coach them more.

Much more attractive than who? Sounds like you'll be happy to hire a pretty girl you can "coach" to do your pervy bidding and good luck!

When I took the plunge I was looking for someone who wouldn't need any "coaching", who was experienced enough to enjoy hurting balls without damaging them. And also, I just didn't want to be the one in control, wanted it to be more real. Does that make sense? So I went to a Pro Domme. Which has been and still is amazing. I'm benefiting from her experience and enthusiasm and She's coaching me!

darkwing

01-09-2012, 07:33 PM

I recommend being VERY cautious. Be certain that you are dealing with a reputable business (if that is even possible in this line of work:( ).

Trust is probably the biggest issue.

Can you trust the worker (and the company) not to take advantage of your situation and drain your credit card to the limit (and potentially other accounts)? Will you have a say in the location of the transaction? Will you have anyone covering you for security (personal safety) while you are having this interaction.

You will need to decide if the potential risk is worth what you are paying for.

Let us know how it all turns out.

blancanvas

01-10-2012, 12:58 AM

yeah be careful...she should have a listing on some escort service site like myredbook or backpage ....also, it helps to ask, "can i get a preview of what i'm in for?" she should flash your her tits or something, which no undercover cop would do...i'm assuming you plan on screwing her at some point...

ilbb11

01-18-2012, 11:12 AM

Thanks for the concern guys, however ive contacted her and decided not to go through with it.
Ive heard too many storys of guys getting mugged and it all seemed a little too good to be true with the price and her being very keen.

Looks like i'll have to remain unbusted a little longer.

skweezme

01-18-2012, 02:35 PM

I'm sure you made a wise decision. Save your money towards a Pro Domme session is my advice :)

suckmesideways

01-19-2012, 04:03 AM

Gutted, oh well there is always next time.

Richy

01-19-2012, 04:34 AM

It seems a shame that your own doubts have put you off. Where did you make contact with her? Sites such as adultwork or punternet are good sources of information to help you make an informed choice about the lady. If her profile looks honest and she has lots of good reviews, I don't see the problem with using an escort. £90 to £100ph is the going rate for lots of escorts so not unduly cheap. Do your homework and you will be fine.
Where abouts in the UK are you?

ilbb11

01-19-2012, 11:59 AM

I'm sure you made a wise decision. Save your money towards a Pro Domme session is my advice :)

Thanks man, the only problem with that is i'm 18 so I don't think any pro dommes would cater for me.
Its easy to find an 18/19 year old escort though.

skweezme

01-19-2012, 01:27 PM

Age shouldn't be a problem, minimum not usually stipulated on Mistresses' websites. A polite query would help.

mick_sl8ter

01-19-2012, 01:37 PM

I'm sure you made a wise decision. Save your money towards a Pro Domme session is my advice :)

:D LOL , I was reading this thread and for one second I thought you wrote:
"I'm sure your wife made this decision."

Would that not be the perfect life ? Fucking whores all day, and no more working ever :D Such a lifestyle requires a lot of money though.

Maybe you should consider how to become a millionaire first ;)

kestrel

01-19-2012, 03:04 PM

and it's totally safe. You let them know what you want (a long form!) and you get it. I said I was new and had a bb fetish, wanted control, and didn't want submission. I decided not to be tied up (with a safe word it would have been) and she did exactly as I wanted (repeated 30% knees were good for me a first time --- my gf's didn't really like hitting my balls; just wanted straight sex).

She was an expert and a nice, normal woman (looks --- 9 of 10). She said many came to her because gf's/others would hit too hard and lacked experience/control. The second time she was out but had trained a truly gorgeous (in lingerie --- a 9.8 out of 10) young woman as her stand-in. She had never busted balls but respected my desires and her never having busted before made it more exciting as it was new for her (some guys would go to the diaper room --- to each his own). During my 2nd visit I heard a guy scream --- don't know what caused it and the walls are thick, but I'm sure he asked for it. It was $200 an hour and worth it. $90 seems too cheap for an escort; in my town they'd be at least $500/hr.
for a quality, intelligent woman with looks.

Good luck. Don't get rolled, mugged, or have your balls crushed.

ilbb11

01-20-2012, 10:47 AM

Im going to look into going to a domme then, the only problem is that im not submissive and would rather we where both on the same level. Also im not really into the whole 'leather boots' thing i'd rather she was more a cute 'girl next door' type.

skweezme

01-20-2012, 01:22 PM

I know what you mean about not being submissive and wanting it to be respect both ways. That's the way I am too and it works with my Mistress. Most Mistresses don't like working to a script with the client in control and calling all the shots, though. Tell her what you want and she'll put it together her own way. Which is half the fun :jumpsmile

mick_sl8ter

01-20-2012, 03:47 PM

My true opinion:
Shoes are for walking.
Cars are for driving.
Prostitutes are for fucking.
Professional dominatrixes are for ballbusting.

But you can try to drive your shoes if you want to.
;) Dont forget to videotape it and share it online.

skweezme

01-20-2012, 05:43 PM

Don't expect last post by mick was very helpful. Ignore. Sounds like he's not talking from (hard-earned) experience. Pro Dommes do much more than ballbusting and his attitude to girls working as prostitutes ("...are for...") is crass.

v15

03-05-2012, 12:01 AM

HI, don't want to insult anyone here who dosen't like prostitutes... but i want to share that i've been getting busted by prostitutes for quite some time now. The first one was about a year a go, i've been going to this fine looking prostitute, and the 3'rd time i went to her i introduced her to ballbusting. She really liked it, she was sqeezing my balls (hard) kneeing my balls while i lay on the bed, kneeing my balls while i stood up, slaping, and she was giggling and smiling all the way :). It was my first time as well, i had a really good time with her, but something occured and i couldn't go to that particullar one anymore. A few months later i went to this other one, i asked her to bust me, and she did it, but this one wasn't very into it... she was really squeemish about hurting me. After a long time of being sqeezed, about 2 months while going to her, i got busted by her again, by kicks and knees. Then i decided to go to another. So this is just it, i went to another one about a week ago and i told her from the start what i want and she said: " ok, we can try" and so we did, i had sex with her at first and then i asked her to sqeeze me :) and she did. While she was squeezing me i said : " squeeze me harder, then i said: "can you squeeze me harder ?" and she said: " I can even pull them out for you if you want... !!" Me: "... ? Nooo...! noo...! I still want them attached to my body ;)" and later on i had a real hard time cumming and i began masturbating to finnaly finish it and she sqeezed my balls through it... suddenly she sqeezed one of my balls really hard and kept sqeezing on for like 7-8 seconds, i almost cried, that's when i came. I really enjoyed myself with her. I can't really aford a mistress because they're more expensive and i can't find one in my area and finding a girl that likes it is really hard. So i like being busted and this far prostitutes were the only way, i hope for better days tho... I apollagise if i used some vulgar words.
Bye and cheers to evryone !!!

mick_sl8ter

03-05-2012, 01:38 PM

Sounds like he's not talking from (hard-earned) experience.

Been there, done that.
It's dangerous !

I was still a minor, first ballbusting by a prostitute.
She squeezed my balls while sucking my cock.
I asked her to sqeeze them harder and she did and continued to do so.

Seems like fun, but there is no safety whatsoever.
Don't do it. Unless you are crazy like me a horny teenage boy.

skweezme

03-05-2012, 02:33 PM

Been there, done that.
It's dangerous !

I was still a minor, first ballbusting by a prostitute.
She squeezed my balls while sucking my cock.
I asked her to sqeeze them harder and she did and continued to do so.

Seems like fun, but there is no safety whatsoever.
Don't do it. Unless you are crazy like me a horny teenage boy.

Sorry mick, didn't mean to denigrate your experience, thanks for sharing.

mick_sl8ter

03-06-2012, 12:13 AM

I personally strongly support the individual freedom of people.
So I will never make a moral plea against prostitution, because I refuse to support those who seek to restrict our personal freedom even more by law.

In the clear context of my statement above: I do feel it is not desirable to enage in sexual relationships based on a financial transaction.

BeatMyBallsHard

03-07-2012, 04:01 AM

Seriously, going to a brothel can be safe. I've done it plenty, just for ballbusting.

Tips:
Find them under "massage" or "introductions agencies" in the local paper.

Phone first & agree EXACTLY what you will want/can get for your money. I find you can get a better price if you state you don't want sex. I've had excellent ballbusting sessions for £40 / half hour with a blowjob.

Leave your wallet & any ID in the car (which you've parked around the corner, right?)

Only bring the amount of cash you have talked about on the phone. Pay cash.

Before you pay, have another chat with the girls - tell them what you want & pick the one who sounds the most keen, NOT just the prettiest - better to have a hot & horny ballbuster who is a bit ugly but is really into it, than a gorgeous girl who is bored/lazy/freaked out by ballbusting & will give you a lame session. IMHO - very annoying paying money for a shit session.

Don't get tied up.

Don't be afraid to ask for anything - they're hookers, there is no need for embarrasment. They will either say yes/no/ask for extra money.

If it's not what you wanted, there are no refunds. Just don't use that girl again.

Get your balls busted & have fun! :thumbup

csac0801

03-07-2012, 04:36 AM

Very nice, guys! I have been going to prostitutes for busting for quite some time now and never had a single bad experience. Most of the times, the girls are just chill about it, kinda lika : that is what you want? really? okay!

and then it is all fun. Of course, there are the same problems such as health issues but that has been discussed extensively in here so i wont bore anyone.

Down here in brasil, ballbusting is not really big and most girls have never done it before, so you have to kinda get them on it first and then go for it.

kestrel

03-08-2012, 12:50 AM

Ballbusting at a dungeon may not even be illegal. The girls are scantily clad, but clad. There is no sex allowed. They won't jerk you off --- you can if you want.

It's pretty cool. They have pictures of the girls along with descriptions of what they like to do. They make suggestions. I could choose one of a bout six rooms. Total privacy. A surprisingly good price. Good looking women. No diseases. (Virtually anything goes and the two I met are "normal," intelligent women that actually like men.)

My first followed what I wanted to the letter and knew better than I did how hard she could kick without injuring me (she definitely could have). She suggested a cod word and tying me up. Since it was my first hour of bb, I declined (I will next time.) I asked if she enjoy ed it --- she said she has a mostly straight boyfriend but added what woman wouldn't want to kick a man in the balls (FINALLY, after all those girlfriends who didn't really enjoy it, but did it for me).

The second time she was out but had trained a new girl. I was her first ball bust as I said and knowing she had never done it before was a blast.
The second was absolutely gorgeous.

Throughout I was treated with respect. I called the shots (literally and figuratively)>

I even learned where to squeeze the balls so it hurts the most --- this was done softly. Trust me, I took really hard normal squeezes and pain really well but being squeezed 100% in that one place would floor anyone and I don't know when they would get up. It might cause real serious damage, too. So, if you think you're too tough to enjoy ballbusting... :)

TangledPanda

03-09-2012, 04:28 PM

Leave your wallet & any ID in the car

Why?.................

BeatMyBallsHard

03-10-2012, 03:51 PM

Why?.................

As people have previously said, there is a small potential for danger. Some brothels are in less than salubrious parts of town etc..

Also it may be slightly flexing the law.

Incidents are probably rare, but it makes sense not to have ID/cards on your person.

Just my 2 cents.

darthsidius

03-11-2012, 09:39 AM

I have had a lot of experiences with Doms and prostitutes. Generally I have found prostitutes better value for money. The best busts with only one exception have come from prostitutes. The thing I like about them is once you show them what you want and are quite explicit before hand then you are likely to get it and give it to you. I was once squeezed full force by a female body builder which was very hard but I have met one girl in a brothel ,and she was the cheapest, who was able to do it even harder. She was the best I ever had and she has now left unfortunately.

I have also been with one woman who advertised herself and primarily a female wrestler who also did domination and she was quite good,

I think the issue of safety is a fair point but it also depends about on the country you are in and the setting. The most dangerous are street encounters, which I have never done.

BeatMyBallsHard

03-13-2012, 05:49 PM

I agree, prostitutes are excellent value & give excellent ballbusts.

I think it's because they are so used to being used all day, that to have the essence of man to abuse for half an hour is a lot of fun!

I've had severe beatings :) One had the pointiest toed stillettos on, & kept giving me toe shots, I said "can you kick with the ankle bit instead, & she just looked me in the eyes & said "yes sure" while just continuing to toe kick me hard & accurately... I let her carry on because she was such a horny bitch!

I was "interviewing" whores in Amsterdam, & wanted a good busting, most were not giving out the vibes... until I was asking this GORGEOUS blonde if she would kick, punch & squeeze, she said yes, so I asked if she would do it really hard? She just looked me straight in the eyes & with a coquettish grin replied "I'll chop them off & eat them if you like" & batted her eyelinds.... She got a client.... she was amazing. Half an hour for £50 & memories for a lifetime.

Also pro dommes can be too structured & formal, whereas with a ho' you're going rogue :wooow

darthsidius

11-02-2012, 01:24 PM