penispuppet
06-04-2012, 11:09 PM
I'm in my mid 40s, and I've been intriqued and into female domination since before adolescence. I used to sneak my brother's Penthouse & Variations magazines and read whatever I could about Female Domination. In my adult years, I frequented several houses of domination and Leather clubs in NYC, the Vault and the Hellfire Club in particular. And while there was certainly CBT and bondage, and an occasional slapping or whipping of a man's balls (oftentimes my own), I never saw any instances of "Ballbusting" at these clubs, nor did any Pro Dommes advertise this as a service offered. Furthermore, most of the lame VHS FemDom movies available at the time, while adequate for providing whack-off ammo, were actually quite tame in comparison to the typical C$s files. Books like SM101 or "Screw the Roses, Give Me the Thorns" warned aspiring Dominas to be particularly careful when it came to the testicles.
That's not to say that I didn't enjoy my share of ball squeezes. I remember this girl I dated in the mid 90s. Best ball squeezer! What a rush. But still, it wasn't kicking, and it certainly wasn't dozens or hundreds of repeated kicks... And there was always those self-defense videos from the 70s and 80s, which did it for some.
Then, perhaps because of the advent of the Internet, around 1999, I began seeing, in the deepest fringes of the FemDom world, the then "almost unthinkable" fetish known as ballbusting. No doubt many of us rubbed many a load out watching that Italian guy who always wore those Chinos, or that Asianballbust.net guy. And from there, it seemed to become ubiquitous.
Fastforward 13 years later, and it seems that most every dominatrix offers ballbusting not only as a service, but as a personal favorite. Indeed, it seems that the boundaries and limits of what is unthinkable have been completely destroyed. I just watched Elise UK "Relentless Insanity Until He Pukes," and I am finding it difficult to believe that this type of play existed at anytime before the past decade. For most of this past weekend, my eyes were glued to my monitor and my hand was glued to my dick watching her and Deanna Storm as well as many other extreme ballbusters - in utter fascination - Amazed that any man could endure such abuse, trying to vicariously place myself in his situation, and all the while envying women who get paid big money to destroy willing victims (and to do enjoy doing it).
In similar fasion, 15 years ago, I had never heard of the concept of enforced male chastity; today, chastity and cuckoldry are now prominent parts of FemDom, as is "Financial Domination," which, I'm sorry to say, offers little "bang for the buck" in my estimation. Regardless, these subfetishes are now big parts of the FemDom world. It's definitely not sex play - it is the REAL DEAL.
So, while the evolution of these aspects of female domination extend beyond the narrow realm of ballbusting, I'm curious to hear from some old-timers in particular; was this stuff going on in the 70s or earlier? I see in most of the Merciless Ballbusting videos out there that most of the men being busted are at least in their 60s (or they're much younger, but all that ballbusting has caused them to age prematurely). Were these older men into this stuff when they were in the Korean War?
And if that wasn't enough: Do you think that these more-degrading and devauling aspects of female domination have risen in popularity as women have risen in power (while men have skipped) in general society? Are these higher-octane fetishes a more blunt manifestation of feelings of inferiority?
Sorry to Killjoy this forum with a more philosophical post, but I figure if anybody would want to discuss it, it would be someone here.
Are these trends in Female Domination "New" or is there really nothing under the sun?
That's not to say that I didn't enjoy my share of ball squeezes. I remember this girl I dated in the mid 90s. Best ball squeezer! What a rush. But still, it wasn't kicking, and it certainly wasn't dozens or hundreds of repeated kicks... And there was always those self-defense videos from the 70s and 80s, which did it for some.
Then, perhaps because of the advent of the Internet, around 1999, I began seeing, in the deepest fringes of the FemDom world, the then "almost unthinkable" fetish known as ballbusting. No doubt many of us rubbed many a load out watching that Italian guy who always wore those Chinos, or that Asianballbust.net guy. And from there, it seemed to become ubiquitous.
Fastforward 13 years later, and it seems that most every dominatrix offers ballbusting not only as a service, but as a personal favorite. Indeed, it seems that the boundaries and limits of what is unthinkable have been completely destroyed. I just watched Elise UK "Relentless Insanity Until He Pukes," and I am finding it difficult to believe that this type of play existed at anytime before the past decade. For most of this past weekend, my eyes were glued to my monitor and my hand was glued to my dick watching her and Deanna Storm as well as many other extreme ballbusters - in utter fascination - Amazed that any man could endure such abuse, trying to vicariously place myself in his situation, and all the while envying women who get paid big money to destroy willing victims (and to do enjoy doing it).
In similar fasion, 15 years ago, I had never heard of the concept of enforced male chastity; today, chastity and cuckoldry are now prominent parts of FemDom, as is "Financial Domination," which, I'm sorry to say, offers little "bang for the buck" in my estimation. Regardless, these subfetishes are now big parts of the FemDom world. It's definitely not sex play - it is the REAL DEAL.
So, while the evolution of these aspects of female domination extend beyond the narrow realm of ballbusting, I'm curious to hear from some old-timers in particular; was this stuff going on in the 70s or earlier? I see in most of the Merciless Ballbusting videos out there that most of the men being busted are at least in their 60s (or they're much younger, but all that ballbusting has caused them to age prematurely). Were these older men into this stuff when they were in the Korean War?
And if that wasn't enough: Do you think that these more-degrading and devauling aspects of female domination have risen in popularity as women have risen in power (while men have skipped) in general society? Are these higher-octane fetishes a more blunt manifestation of feelings of inferiority?
Sorry to Killjoy this forum with a more philosophical post, but I figure if anybody would want to discuss it, it would be someone here.
Are these trends in Female Domination "New" or is there really nothing under the sun?