Massages, happy endings, & BB talk

[Winterlover]

Got a birthday coming up in a couple of months, and I thought I'd step out of the fantasy arena and into the real world. I'd like to visit a girl, or have her visit me, for a "body rub," as backpage calls 'em, with a happy ending and some BB talk while she's working me. (I'm not into the pain thing, I just like thinking about what a woman can do to a man's nuts.)

I see more than a few ads on the local backpage. Some say incall only (which means, I guess, I'd go to her place), some outcall (so she'd come to my house or hotel room, right?), some say "Not an escort." Some mention "shared shower," which sounds great, some say "no draping" (?) and "fetish friendly."

Anybody done this? What kind of wording in the ad did you look for, and did it work out? Should I just plain ask about the happy ending, or hint some way? As for the BB talk, I can be upfront with her and say, "Hell NO, I don't want you to DO it! I just want you to talk about it, tell me you know how it hurts (and that you know how excited you're making me), what happened if you ever did it, do you like knowing you can hurt a guy like that," etc.

Any advice from the experienced out there?

[bbslut88]

You're in a bit of a limbo there mate, a Pro Domme will have done BB and probably talk about it, but good luck getting a happy ending. Best bet would be a more experienced escort who also does domination. You should be able to find one who's had experience there and will be happy to talk. Of course you can email to ask, but (speaking from experience here) if you try and be too specific you can come off as time wasting.

Try *adultwork dot com*

There's pretty gorgeous escorts there, depending on your location, quite a few who'll have done that kind of thing. I just select domination in the likes search and look for the ones that mention doing BDSM. Remember search engines are your friend. Have fun

[Winterlover]

Thanks, guv, but there ares no listings at all for my state! I'll poke around and see if there might be something fairly close by, but I think you're right, I'm a bit stuck. Some of the ladies on backpage say specifically they are "fetish friendly," and I guess I should check them out.

[bbslut88]

I've found that "fetish friendly" usually means kissing their feet or something. Remember that "fetish" is a vague term, so wanting a tit-wank is a fetish for example.

It may be to your advantage that more women are willing to talk about that kind of thing. It's getting them to do it that's hard!

[jakkisan]

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