Balloney
01-27-2014, 11:27 PM
I had a great sex session yesterday. I have high sex drive, so my wife is rarely horny. She was horny yesterday, so I 'did' her. She had at least a few orgasms and squirted all over me. Lot's of fun. Instead of getting on top like she'd planned, I asked for a handjob to finish up.
Rarely does my penis head get sensitive enough for decent penis head 'torture.' But yesterday either she was doing something a little different or I was just sensitive. She spanked and squeezed my balls for me, too. I wasn't really in the mood for too much of that. The balls were sensitive in the wrong way yesterday She worked my head over really good with door knobs and palming until it was really sensitive. I don't like the feeling of semen as a lube for post ejaculatory stroking. It's just not slick enough. So normally, I lay on my side to ejaculate onto this mat she uses to keep from squirting on the bed when she ejaculates. The problem is when I do that, if she strokes the head after I'm done, I'll lean it and prevent her strokes. I pointed out this problem to her yesterday. So I got a wet wipe. The plan was to lay on my back and catch the ejaculation so she could have better access to do the non-stop jerking on the head of my penis and really work the head over when I was done. I reminded her I'll try to lay still to get out of it. I had her get a good squeeze grip my balls to squeeze me if I tried to get out of the penis head torture that she was doing with the other hand. I told her to keep going and going.
So I ejaculated into the wet wipe (regular tissue breaks up ruining the texture.) But I held that tissue there protecting the most sensitive part of the head. She was still diligently stroking me good up to the area where I was holding the tissue over the head. She didn't squeeze my balls for it. I didn't dare remove the tissue. It was just too intense as it was. After the sensation subsided a bit, I removed the tissue and let her stroke the head a little. She quit a little too soon, giving me the relief I craved.
In the moment, of course I wanted it to stop while she was doing it. She didn't squeeze my balls to 'make me take it' or to make me move the tissue. I wish she would have now. At the time I didn't. Before I ejaculated I would have wanted that. I tell her to be strict with me, to be tough with me when I ejaculate. But she's sweet and gives me what I want at the moment, relief. She doesn't have that playful sadistic edge. I certainly wouldn't trade her. She's a good wife, and generally submissive in a nonkinky way.
I've talked to her about rope. I'd like her to tie my hands and legs to help with the penis head torture. She has an aversion to rope, so that's out of the question. Neither of us want to bring porn into the marriage, so showing her examples is out of the question. The question is, how do I get her to take charge at the moment of ejaculation and torture me mercilessly? In terms of logistics, without rope, if I don't want semen messing up the viscosity of the lube, how can I get her some good access I can't block by leaning over if I'm laying on my side, or with me catching the ejaculate? We also want to be in a comfortable position, and we don't want to buy props.
Next time, I'll request she take the ball squeezing seriously, that I really want a hard ball squeeze if I try to get out of it. When we were first married, she didn't want to hurt my balls, but I've got this sweet thing squeezing and spanking my balls, and sometimes she can squeeze me pretty hard. I think it's funny she doesn't want to use rope. I don't think she knows what the ball squeezing feels like and how much kinkier it is than some of the stuff she doesn't want to do.
Rarely does my penis head get sensitive enough for decent penis head 'torture.' But yesterday either she was doing something a little different or I was just sensitive. She spanked and squeezed my balls for me, too. I wasn't really in the mood for too much of that. The balls were sensitive in the wrong way yesterday She worked my head over really good with door knobs and palming until it was really sensitive. I don't like the feeling of semen as a lube for post ejaculatory stroking. It's just not slick enough. So normally, I lay on my side to ejaculate onto this mat she uses to keep from squirting on the bed when she ejaculates. The problem is when I do that, if she strokes the head after I'm done, I'll lean it and prevent her strokes. I pointed out this problem to her yesterday. So I got a wet wipe. The plan was to lay on my back and catch the ejaculation so she could have better access to do the non-stop jerking on the head of my penis and really work the head over when I was done. I reminded her I'll try to lay still to get out of it. I had her get a good squeeze grip my balls to squeeze me if I tried to get out of the penis head torture that she was doing with the other hand. I told her to keep going and going.
So I ejaculated into the wet wipe (regular tissue breaks up ruining the texture.) But I held that tissue there protecting the most sensitive part of the head. She was still diligently stroking me good up to the area where I was holding the tissue over the head. She didn't squeeze my balls for it. I didn't dare remove the tissue. It was just too intense as it was. After the sensation subsided a bit, I removed the tissue and let her stroke the head a little. She quit a little too soon, giving me the relief I craved.
In the moment, of course I wanted it to stop while she was doing it. She didn't squeeze my balls to 'make me take it' or to make me move the tissue. I wish she would have now. At the time I didn't. Before I ejaculated I would have wanted that. I tell her to be strict with me, to be tough with me when I ejaculate. But she's sweet and gives me what I want at the moment, relief. She doesn't have that playful sadistic edge. I certainly wouldn't trade her. She's a good wife, and generally submissive in a nonkinky way.
I've talked to her about rope. I'd like her to tie my hands and legs to help with the penis head torture. She has an aversion to rope, so that's out of the question. Neither of us want to bring porn into the marriage, so showing her examples is out of the question. The question is, how do I get her to take charge at the moment of ejaculation and torture me mercilessly? In terms of logistics, without rope, if I don't want semen messing up the viscosity of the lube, how can I get her some good access I can't block by leaning over if I'm laying on my side, or with me catching the ejaculate? We also want to be in a comfortable position, and we don't want to buy props.
Next time, I'll request she take the ball squeezing seriously, that I really want a hard ball squeeze if I try to get out of it. When we were first married, she didn't want to hurt my balls, but I've got this sweet thing squeezing and spanking my balls, and sometimes she can squeeze me pretty hard. I think it's funny she doesn't want to use rope. I don't think she knows what the ball squeezing feels like and how much kinkier it is than some of the stuff she doesn't want to do.