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takingknees
12-11-2014, 02:49 AM
Hi, I've been trying to move away from BB for a long time, and have only done self-busting and looked at BB stuff a few times the past couple years. One of those times was about 1.5-2 weeks ago. I mildly self-busted one nut on and off for a couple days, completely hypnotized. Anyway, when did that a couple weeks ago I had a normal erection, but about a day later, I couldn't get it completely hard, and I assumed it was merely because it had been erect for hours on end and was exhausted. But since finishing that experience, things have seem to have gotten worse. When I ejaculated, too--which I don't know if this is relevant--it was completely watery; no white or stick at all. I ejaculated a couple days later and it was normal, but I couldn't get it completely hard then, either.

I'm a young guy (20's), but since then I have not been able to get a complete erection. I have had a couple of wet dreams, but that's because I started taking some ZMA (test booster) in hopes that would do the trick, but to no avail. My dick feels limper than normal when even flaccid. This situation is scary and emasculating. My libido has also been down since the event, which is typical (my guess is it's psychological), but it's been nearly 2 weeks and by now I should be feeling back to normal.

Any advice or knowledge to share?

EDIT: I was just able to get fairly hard, but it quickly went away, and doesn't seem to have the strength at the base that it did a couple weeks ago.

targz
12-11-2014, 11:51 AM
We are no medical experts here. If in doubt ask a doctor for advice. Seriously!

Are you using a lot of porn? Maybe this science talk can give you a hint what is happening to you:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

Good luck and be safe!

Tinchen
12-11-2014, 02:12 PM
Hi,
after all you said (mild busting of one nut only, etc...) I assume it is more or less a mental thing. The ability of "getting hard" physically has nothing to do with your testicles.
Either your testosterone is very very low for other reasons, or you are mentally not excited... Even if you like BB, you should be able to get aroused without thinking of BB.
Maybe any other reasons?? lack of sleep, drugs, etc...

But since i am no big expert, i can only suggest for you to search for medical advice of experts...

uspsfanalan
12-12-2014, 06:32 PM
I concur with the two prior posters that you may want to seek medical attention. Even though that's what you should do, it's probably not what you're going to do. It would definitely be a difficult conversation to have with a doctor, worse yet they may prescribe you an ED drug which would be counter productive. You've most likely just been fapping to way to much porn for way too long. The younger you start the more it messes up your head. You could try an experiment and give up porn for a few months, what I've read said it will take about 3-6 months for you to be fully recovered. Worst case scenario, there will be lots of new BB videos when you come back. Best case scenario you give your mind a chance to heal and you decide you don't need this crap.

I was having a similar issue, though not nearly to the same extent you are. I was at the point that I was skipping sex with my wife to fap to porn. It was causing an issue between us so I gave porn a long break and things got much better. I actually installed blocking software on my computer and phone now, which was free. I keep my password at work because I know if I were to have access at home I'd be on here twice a day. Once or twice a month I bring home the password and have a little fun. I read this book about quitting porn and found it pretty helpful. I know I should just quit this stuff all together but I slip up from time to time. I just try not to do it too often and not to worry about it.

http://www.amazon.com/Porned-Out-erectile-dysfunction-depression-ebook/dp/B00A5X2FV4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1418429598&sr=8-1&keywords=selfish+reasons+to+quit+porn

Best of luck, I hope this helps. All things in moderation I suppose.

sebi40
12-13-2014, 01:20 AM
I bet is pure psychological.
The name of this is called performance anxiety or sexual anxiety.
It starts with a failure that is normal. Every man fail once in a while. I also have years ago a similar experience with soft penis ejaculation after some long lasting erection combined with soft ball-busting.
Then you become worry that is something wrong with you, after that you start to become a bit anxious.
This is like a snowball, you will start going to doctors, checking your testosterone, your penis, but all is in your head.
You cannot move in one month from working to non-working penis, even testosterone cannot have sudden changes.
Advise is to cut drugs, make longer brakes between masturbation episodes. Ideally is to find a woman to play with. I just find one that completely cure me and now I enjoy having sex combined with ball-busting and this is healthiest. I think that BB without sex and combined with too much porn could also generate ED.