Balloney
08-22-2021, 04:56 PM
I've had my wife spank my balls since probably about the first year of marriage. It has mostly been a once-a-month thing, but ball busting, squeezing and hard hitting, got more intense and more frequent last year. I think my balls are more desensitized to it. I was getting maximum strength squeezes and her pulling out the balls and pounding them hard with the palm of her hand for five or ten minutes maybe, a smack every second and a half or so.
But those who have read my posts know I've had some problems with low testosterone production. I was on testosterone which can shrink balls, but maybe it was a ball crusher with tens electroshock. I found out later testosterone can cause balls to atrophe and shrink and reduce natural production, and electricity can kill testosterone-producing cells.
So I have weaned myself down to about one good ball busting session a month, usually after a too-hard testicle self-examination to see if the balls are in the mood for a beating and to warm them up.
My wife has been making a more concerted effort to put out recently, full intercourse. As a matter of sexual ethics, if she wants intercourse, I try to provide that for her. In the past, I express an interest, often she'll offer a handjob. I like intercourse, and if I'm having a lot of that, I don't usually get worked up for ball busting.
Anyway, today, I've expressed an interest in sex. We just got home. She asked to rest a while. Secretly, I'm hoping for an offer of a hand job to get my balls spanked. It has been about a month.
But I'm also getting older, and I don't know if I get the horniness back behind the balls to really make the ball busting worth the damage that may be inflicted on myself. I hope I am not gambling future testosterone production for short term sexual satisfaction.
I have also written how I have gotten my wife to the point where she just beats and squeezes my balls too hard." I explained this in my "I've created a monster" thread. I've been fantasizing about her playing a ball-busting game with me for over a year, and she always expresses a lack of interest and starts whacking my balls. After that happens, I'm in no position to argue or think much, and go with the flow.
The last time, she got into teasing me. She kept squeezing me hard and asking me if a stranger squeezed my balls to interrogate I would enjoy it, wouldn't I. Stuff like that. It was probably too severe, but too hot to object to in the moment, and I wasn't in any position to do much objecting.
I think this time if she offers a hand job, I'll ask for attention to the balls, but tell her she's been hitting me too hard and ask her to do something to minimize how much damage she causes-- since I need my balls for testosterone--and still get the same effect.
I have the following materials for a ball-busting game:
- A rubbery cock ring
- A rubbery ball-divider cock ring
- 50 or 60 fake plastic rubies in a zip-lock bag.
- two lids for the little plastic boxes I keep some of the sex toys in in the sex toy suitcase.
- A velcro strap 12 or 18 inches long are so, fuzzy on one side, prickly on the other with a little carabiner or key ring in the middle.
- Two tiny bells
- 20 or 30 second timer on my cell phone.
- Ball bat (dowel rod glued into a swimming noodle) for whacking balls hard.
I have mentioned the game in the past. I've thought through some rule revisions. Please post and share your experiences if you have played a version of the ball busting game
Here is the idea. First, we strap the velcro straps around my thighs near the knees. I got the bells for a dollar a piece at the dollar tree, 'Ring for a Kiss' and 'Ring for a Smile.' <https://www.dollartree.com/mini-ringing-bell-keychains-with-sentiments-2375x15-in/308226>. The bells come with a plastic caribiner.
The rules of the game go like this. I lay on my back with the soles of my feet on the bed with my knees up. There are different rounds
Round 1: Ball Beating/Spanking
She hits the balls for 20 seconds until the timer goes off. If I move my thighs enough to ring the bells she gets a point. If I do not, I get a point.
If she gets a point, I puts a plastic ruby in the box lid designated for her. if I get a point, I put a ruby in the box lid designated for me.
Round 2: Ball Squeezing
She squeezes my balls for 20 seconds. If the bell rings, she gets a point. If not, I get a point.
Round 3: Hand Job
Pretty obvious, she strokes my penis for 20 seconds
Possible Alternate Rounds
Another round could be added for free for all, where she can hit, slap squeeze, stroke the penis, etc. A Ball Bat Beating Round could be added for beating the balls with the bat or that could substitute one of the other rounds if her hands get tired.
Setting Pregame Maximum Hits and Squeezes
I plan to have her squeeze and get gradually stronger until I cry 'mercy', then just a little less than that is the maximum squeeze. Alternatively, she could squeeze until I ring the bell with my legs and that is the maximum squeeze. We can do this with all kinds of squeezes, squeezes with balls isolated between fingers and one hand squeezes of the whole scrotum.
The same can be done for different types of hits with hands or the ball bat. We can set a level for maximum smacks, double hand hand clap. I can probably let her flick with her fingers as hard as she can if she so chooses.
Why set maximum hits? My concern is for health. I want some fun ball busting, but I still want my testes to produce testosterone. But I also noticed I suggested a game once, and she preferred to just lay into my balls with the ball bat, and I was really writhing all over the place and there is no way I could have won.
I am thinking of a rule where she can only use one maximum hit per round, or maybe 3. Or this could change half-way through the game.
The Stakes of the Game.
I'd like to wager with her something sexual. I'd like to get 21 days straight of intercourse if I win, or getting awakened mid-intercourse/'raped' in my sleep or something like that. Maybe a full body massage with no expectation of sex would interest her. Not sure about that since really she just has to ask most of the time. Maybe something stupid like shopping for girly stuff with her might be more appealing, but I don't want to even suggest it.
Changing Cock Rings
She has the right to change out cock ring around my balls to 'set up' the busts she wants for a round, or to remove it altogether. For me personally, I am wanting to rule out actually pulling out the ball and squeezing it while hitting it to prevent excessive damage. That might be appropriate for a mixed round. She could announce she wants to change the cock ring and I can wait to restart the timer until she is done. Or she can have me do it. I'd like her to take the initiative and be more invested in this sort of thing.
Various Female Strategies
I plan to give her some strategic ideas for things she can do to win the game, things that may make the game a bit more 'dangerous' and exciting for me, too.
One is to use surprise Light hits followed by a large smack, pauses before a hit, etc. might cause an impact to lead to surprise and enough of a wiggle to ring the bells. Also, focusing on only one ball could lead to a level of discomfort and wiggling.
One strategy is to keep ball busting after ejaculation. I want to set it up where the game does not end at ejaculation. She keeps on with all three rounds, at the same level of intensity. But there is a chance I could be like jello after ejaculation and I might wiggle uncontrollable if she keeps up the attacks. So that might be a way for her to win the rubies fast. I have lost senstivity to post-ejaculatory penis stroking either due to age or because I had my wife do it to me so much. But for those who are sensitive post orgasm, the penis-stroking round might elicit some bell-ringing until the penis-head sensitivity subsides-- which could be fast for a lot of men if she doesn't keep up penis stroking constantly after ejaculation. For some men, though, she'll get a point on every penis stroking round after ejaculation for a while. These men may need to be tied up to play the game with some slack for their knees to move around to ring the bell.
If we are playing for stakes and I can bring out that competitive streak out of her, I am hoping she will enjoy herself and might keep up busting after ejaculation to win the bet.
She could also try Ruined Orgasms. It would probably make post-ejaculatory busting more bearable since they may have the internal desire to ejaculate again, if she did this, but she might get a bell-ringing out of the round where she gives a ruined orgasm. Strictly following the timer after ejaculation starts can be fun, too. Ejaculation starts, the timer beeps, so BAM! She starts hitting the balls.
Cheating
If a woman is competitive, she could easily cheat by hitting way harder than agreed upon, assuming the maximum hit agreed upon is not the maximum he can dish out. I am planning on being able to reset or remind her of maximum strength by crying mercy and explaining that as a rule a the beginning. My wife is not a sadist. I've just gotten her used to busting harder and harder over time. If you want a bit of cheating, you can just not cry mercy if she hits too hard. It might be kind of cheating for a guy to say 'mercy' after ejaculation to signal that the girl is hitting harder than agreed-upon, just to offset his sensitivity post ejaculation.
If you play this, let me know how it goes.
When I suggested a game with my wife, she said, "That's too complicated." I have gotten her to switch between squeezes and hits when the timer goes off, though.
But those who have read my posts know I've had some problems with low testosterone production. I was on testosterone which can shrink balls, but maybe it was a ball crusher with tens electroshock. I found out later testosterone can cause balls to atrophe and shrink and reduce natural production, and electricity can kill testosterone-producing cells.
So I have weaned myself down to about one good ball busting session a month, usually after a too-hard testicle self-examination to see if the balls are in the mood for a beating and to warm them up.
My wife has been making a more concerted effort to put out recently, full intercourse. As a matter of sexual ethics, if she wants intercourse, I try to provide that for her. In the past, I express an interest, often she'll offer a handjob. I like intercourse, and if I'm having a lot of that, I don't usually get worked up for ball busting.
Anyway, today, I've expressed an interest in sex. We just got home. She asked to rest a while. Secretly, I'm hoping for an offer of a hand job to get my balls spanked. It has been about a month.
But I'm also getting older, and I don't know if I get the horniness back behind the balls to really make the ball busting worth the damage that may be inflicted on myself. I hope I am not gambling future testosterone production for short term sexual satisfaction.
I have also written how I have gotten my wife to the point where she just beats and squeezes my balls too hard." I explained this in my "I've created a monster" thread. I've been fantasizing about her playing a ball-busting game with me for over a year, and she always expresses a lack of interest and starts whacking my balls. After that happens, I'm in no position to argue or think much, and go with the flow.
The last time, she got into teasing me. She kept squeezing me hard and asking me if a stranger squeezed my balls to interrogate I would enjoy it, wouldn't I. Stuff like that. It was probably too severe, but too hot to object to in the moment, and I wasn't in any position to do much objecting.
I think this time if she offers a hand job, I'll ask for attention to the balls, but tell her she's been hitting me too hard and ask her to do something to minimize how much damage she causes-- since I need my balls for testosterone--and still get the same effect.
I have the following materials for a ball-busting game:
- A rubbery cock ring
- A rubbery ball-divider cock ring
- 50 or 60 fake plastic rubies in a zip-lock bag.
- two lids for the little plastic boxes I keep some of the sex toys in in the sex toy suitcase.
- A velcro strap 12 or 18 inches long are so, fuzzy on one side, prickly on the other with a little carabiner or key ring in the middle.
- Two tiny bells
- 20 or 30 second timer on my cell phone.
- Ball bat (dowel rod glued into a swimming noodle) for whacking balls hard.
I have mentioned the game in the past. I've thought through some rule revisions. Please post and share your experiences if you have played a version of the ball busting game
Here is the idea. First, we strap the velcro straps around my thighs near the knees. I got the bells for a dollar a piece at the dollar tree, 'Ring for a Kiss' and 'Ring for a Smile.' <https://www.dollartree.com/mini-ringing-bell-keychains-with-sentiments-2375x15-in/308226>. The bells come with a plastic caribiner.
The rules of the game go like this. I lay on my back with the soles of my feet on the bed with my knees up. There are different rounds
Round 1: Ball Beating/Spanking
She hits the balls for 20 seconds until the timer goes off. If I move my thighs enough to ring the bells she gets a point. If I do not, I get a point.
If she gets a point, I puts a plastic ruby in the box lid designated for her. if I get a point, I put a ruby in the box lid designated for me.
Round 2: Ball Squeezing
She squeezes my balls for 20 seconds. If the bell rings, she gets a point. If not, I get a point.
Round 3: Hand Job
Pretty obvious, she strokes my penis for 20 seconds
Possible Alternate Rounds
Another round could be added for free for all, where she can hit, slap squeeze, stroke the penis, etc. A Ball Bat Beating Round could be added for beating the balls with the bat or that could substitute one of the other rounds if her hands get tired.
Setting Pregame Maximum Hits and Squeezes
I plan to have her squeeze and get gradually stronger until I cry 'mercy', then just a little less than that is the maximum squeeze. Alternatively, she could squeeze until I ring the bell with my legs and that is the maximum squeeze. We can do this with all kinds of squeezes, squeezes with balls isolated between fingers and one hand squeezes of the whole scrotum.
The same can be done for different types of hits with hands or the ball bat. We can set a level for maximum smacks, double hand hand clap. I can probably let her flick with her fingers as hard as she can if she so chooses.
Why set maximum hits? My concern is for health. I want some fun ball busting, but I still want my testes to produce testosterone. But I also noticed I suggested a game once, and she preferred to just lay into my balls with the ball bat, and I was really writhing all over the place and there is no way I could have won.
I am thinking of a rule where she can only use one maximum hit per round, or maybe 3. Or this could change half-way through the game.
The Stakes of the Game.
I'd like to wager with her something sexual. I'd like to get 21 days straight of intercourse if I win, or getting awakened mid-intercourse/'raped' in my sleep or something like that. Maybe a full body massage with no expectation of sex would interest her. Not sure about that since really she just has to ask most of the time. Maybe something stupid like shopping for girly stuff with her might be more appealing, but I don't want to even suggest it.
Changing Cock Rings
She has the right to change out cock ring around my balls to 'set up' the busts she wants for a round, or to remove it altogether. For me personally, I am wanting to rule out actually pulling out the ball and squeezing it while hitting it to prevent excessive damage. That might be appropriate for a mixed round. She could announce she wants to change the cock ring and I can wait to restart the timer until she is done. Or she can have me do it. I'd like her to take the initiative and be more invested in this sort of thing.
Various Female Strategies
I plan to give her some strategic ideas for things she can do to win the game, things that may make the game a bit more 'dangerous' and exciting for me, too.
One is to use surprise Light hits followed by a large smack, pauses before a hit, etc. might cause an impact to lead to surprise and enough of a wiggle to ring the bells. Also, focusing on only one ball could lead to a level of discomfort and wiggling.
One strategy is to keep ball busting after ejaculation. I want to set it up where the game does not end at ejaculation. She keeps on with all three rounds, at the same level of intensity. But there is a chance I could be like jello after ejaculation and I might wiggle uncontrollable if she keeps up the attacks. So that might be a way for her to win the rubies fast. I have lost senstivity to post-ejaculatory penis stroking either due to age or because I had my wife do it to me so much. But for those who are sensitive post orgasm, the penis-stroking round might elicit some bell-ringing until the penis-head sensitivity subsides-- which could be fast for a lot of men if she doesn't keep up penis stroking constantly after ejaculation. For some men, though, she'll get a point on every penis stroking round after ejaculation for a while. These men may need to be tied up to play the game with some slack for their knees to move around to ring the bell.
If we are playing for stakes and I can bring out that competitive streak out of her, I am hoping she will enjoy herself and might keep up busting after ejaculation to win the bet.
She could also try Ruined Orgasms. It would probably make post-ejaculatory busting more bearable since they may have the internal desire to ejaculate again, if she did this, but she might get a bell-ringing out of the round where she gives a ruined orgasm. Strictly following the timer after ejaculation starts can be fun, too. Ejaculation starts, the timer beeps, so BAM! She starts hitting the balls.
Cheating
If a woman is competitive, she could easily cheat by hitting way harder than agreed upon, assuming the maximum hit agreed upon is not the maximum he can dish out. I am planning on being able to reset or remind her of maximum strength by crying mercy and explaining that as a rule a the beginning. My wife is not a sadist. I've just gotten her used to busting harder and harder over time. If you want a bit of cheating, you can just not cry mercy if she hits too hard. It might be kind of cheating for a guy to say 'mercy' after ejaculation to signal that the girl is hitting harder than agreed-upon, just to offset his sensitivity post ejaculation.
If you play this, let me know how it goes.
When I suggested a game with my wife, she said, "That's too complicated." I have gotten her to switch between squeezes and hits when the timer goes off, though.