Story

[imlost568]

On an average day I am visiting Detroit and get to my hotel. I have a strange hotel room there is nothing much in it except a bed, tv, and a tropical plant in the corner, with nice wood floors. I sit on the bed and unexpectedly somebody pops out from behind me and puts me in a sleeper headlock until I pass out. I wake up and there I am tied to the bed with this beautiful girl standing on me with one foot on my balls and one half way inside my mouth. She was wearing a black leather mini-skirt and a tight black tank top. She tells me in order to let be released I have to give her the best orgasm she has ever experienced. She kicks stands back and kicks me in the balls 3 times unbelievingly hard. I am almost about to pass out from the pain she takes her miniskirt off and sits on my face as I eat her out. She grabs my balls and squeezes them and tells me that I am horrible and instructs me to lick deeper, then suddenly she cums all over the inside of my mouth. She stands up and ****** me to swallow it by stomping on my balls at least 5 or 6 times. I swallow it and she wipes up some of the cum on my face with her foot and makes me lick it off. Then she unties me and has my stand up with my legs wide open. She says that we are going to play a game and I have to stay stood up for at least five kicks. I make it through the first one and on the second kick I collapsed. She started kicking my balls repeatedly while I was on the ground and when she stoped I kissed all over her feet and ankles and up her leg for as long as I could before I would curl up in pain from the next kick. Then she finally stops and says she has to leave and says that tomorrow I will be punished for not standing up for the five kicks and that if I did not show up that she would make sure that I was very sorry. She tells me to kiss both her feet, up her leg and her breasts and up to her mouth, so I do and she leaves. My balls are so sore that I could barely breathe and I manage to sleep it off.

[Tamakeri]

Never wanted to visit Detroit before, but damn it's lookin' pretty good now! I gotta start staying in a better class of hotel. This doesn't sound like a Holiday Inn Express moment.

-Tamakeri

[imlost568]

Detroit is'nt like LA but it has some good doms. I have'nt actually tried any but i want to. Its just too expensive like $300 an hour.

[Tamakeri]

$300 Dommes- big mistake.
It's different if you are excited by latex and dungeon furnishings and want somebody to overall act like you are worthless dirt- dommes are good at that. And it's different too if you want to have sex with a stranger while being dominated. That calls for a kinky escort, not a true domme. But if what you want is just good, hot ballbusting, there's no need to pay $300 an hour for a domme or an escort. This isn't a popular opinion among dommes and may catch some flames here, but here goes. I used to pay dommes back when I didn't know any better. Then I discovered that amateur women, especially hot young college girls are just waiting to bust your balls, and they overall look better, do a better job, and listen to what you want better than a pro-domme does (on average- lots of room for exceptions here). Of course the amateur lady isn't going to do that for free with a perfect stranger, but I've found that $50 or so, along with making them feel safe and making sure they understand that there's no sex or nudity expected of them, will get you at least a half hour of their attention. Of course, most dommes come with a dungeon and most young college hotties don't. So you need a private place to do this. If you're living in a non-private setting you may even have to rent a room (worst case) although parks and trails and my favorite- racquetball courts, could provide you the setting you need for free. 2nd problem with amateur ladies is that YOU have to advertise for them. Plenty of personal ads in the Detroit paper- or try college papers. Try http://detroit.craigslist.com -it's free and anonymous. Advertise for physically agressive college girls for a self defense study. Or advertise for an agressive personal trainer. Make sure you offer money in your ad. Nobody is giving freebies here. Emphasize no nudity and no sex- especially on craigslist. Offer them reasonable pay for their time, and tell them they can bring a friend with them for safety. When they answer your ad, tell them exactly what you want and how much you will pay. Re-emphasize no nudity, no sex. 4 or 5 girls out of 10 will be interested enough to talk about it. 1 or 2 girls out of 10 will follow through and give you the ball-busting of your life. Do you know how many hot college cuties there are between Detroit, Ypsi and Ann Arbor who need $50 with Christmas coming up?
You can do this!

-Tamakeri

[imlost568]

Thats a great idea, I think I may do that someday. Except that only covers one fetish which is the ballbusting fetish what do I do about my facesitting fetish and i have a smaller footfetish. I just kinda wanted them to be all mixed together like they show on femaledom.com


I need a girl to bust my nuts!

[Tamakeri]

I have no doubt that if you find a girl who is willing to bust your balls for a small fee, she won't have any problem standing or sitting on your face if you behave yourself while she is sitting there. You're not going to be able to take having your balls kicked for a solid half hour to an hour anyway without taking a few breaks in the action. She'll have nothing better to do while you are recovering from the last round of kicks, so a little face sitting should be fine, although likely you will need all the breath you can take right at that point.

-Tamakeri

[BMBY2003]

What are your ideas for making the young hottie feel safe? Seems like handcuffing yourself and giving her the keys wouldn't be so smart.

[Tamakeri]

You emphasize no sex and no nudity- then DON'T try to go back on your promise and try to talk her into it later. You offer to meet in a semi-public place like a park, or somewhere where there are other people around in shouting distance but you are shielded from view and far enough away to make at least a little noise. I have met in parking structures, city parks, racquetball courts, side-yards, etc. You offer to meet her first in a very public place like a coffee shop to discuss exactly what you are interested in. You offer to pay her for her time- even at the coffee shop. You allow and encourage her to bring a friend or two to observe (or to participate) for her safety. You give her your phone number and be honest about what you want, and what you are willing to pay. Remember that this is "self defense training", you are paying for her time not for any kind of sex or nudity, and it's all legal, so just act like everything is on the up-and-up. Don't sneak around trying to hide things and end up making her nervous and suspicious.

-Tamakeri

[Trouble]

I must respectfully disagree with Tamakeri. His approach is respectful of the woman's privacy and safety, but disrespectful of her person; what he proposes is basically treating women like prostitutes, which is a treatment that only feminists deserve. Oops, scratch that. This is not Japan (unfortunately -- unless, of course, you like having a lot of space); what is acceptable there is not necessarily so here. Offering women money for ballbusting, if they know that you get a thrill (sexual or otherwise, but, basically, sexual) is treating women as if they were all hookers.

Fortunately, I'm no angel, and have done plenty of things I shouldn't have in order to get a bust, so I understand. I don't know much, never have, and about the only thing I ever learned is this: women are not whores. Well, okay, some of them are, but even of those that are, most of them don't want to be. A REAL ballbuster is, first and foremost, a woman who has plenty of self-respect and confidence; and the only way we can really help maintain that is to avoid eroding that self-respect.

I like a ballbuster who wants to bust because she just wants to bust. Those women are great and far too few. I've baited feminists and they get that look in their eye, but they don't go for it. I push their buttons and try to goad them, but that's disagreement, not, necessarily, disrespect (I throw in some disrespect right when I think they are about warmed up -- so far, no go -- but that means mu methods are no better than Tamakeri's when it comes to offe4ring disrespect, and I am not trying to pretend oherwise).

Here's one: would you rather be busted by a ho' or by a Goddess? Treat the woman like how you want her to be.

For example, I have been known to treat feminists like they are rational. So far, it hasn't worked to encourage any of 'em to act like it, but I'll keep trying.

Let me stress again that I am not trying to impugn the character of Tamakeri or say that he should do X or should not do Y, but that I just have a different take on how to do things. I think Tamakeri's method might, overall, be denigrating to women. I do not mean to offer offense or face.

[imlost568]

ya thats true but how else am i gonna get them to kick me in the balls? i do like the idea of finding a girl that will kick me and kick me more and get enjoyment out of it but where am i gonna find a girl like that? trust me i have looked and there are none around here.

[Tamakeri]

What can I say. It works for me, feeds my fetish, and the ladies I work with are very happy to do something they like to do and make some money on the side. If you want to chase pie in the sky, go for it. If you want your balls busted on a regular basis by beautiful women who are doing it because they like to, for whatever reason- then you can take my advice. I don't care. I have what I want and the ladies I play with do too, and neither of us cares if it's what Mr. Trouble wants or not. We're happy with our arrangement. He sounds like he is still looking for his own happy place.

Tamakeri

[Tamakeri]

The other thing is that for many ladies, all they want is the $$, even though they will say that they are really excited by it. I can tell the difference after about 2 minutes just by watching their faces, and I tell them so up-front. The ladies I see more than once are the ones who enjoy ball-busting and for whom the $$ are like icing on the cake. But they never would have tried with me as a complete stranger unless I offered them the $$ incentive to start with.
None of the women I work a second time with are "whores". I treat them all -even the first time, with respect and dignity. I just am not hesitant to pay them for their time. I don't expect freebies in life, myself. I would never insult or threaten someone to get a bust. I think it's clear to me which is the better way to treat a lady. You must pick your own path.
-Tamakeri

[Trouble]

Relax, Tamakeri, not saying you are a bad person or anything; like you put it, you and those with whom you have fun are both happy with the arrangement. Not hurting anyone. But I would not advise that route; disagreeing doesn't mean disapproval.

As for imlost, I find myself wondering where you might be on the planet where chicks don't want to kick your nutsack. Please do utmost to find a person who does it out of enjoyment.

As for my own "happy place", have found it, but it is denied me. In love with one woman, who doesn't do ballbusting; and have a ballbuster, whom I do not love. And, no, I don't get to have both. Conscience keeps getting in the way.