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iron horse
12-10-2004, 01:19 PM
Hi again sultry Sara!

One aspect of ballbusting often played with is the sexual arousal of the male subject. This can only be explored when he is naked and his cock is on display for those involved to observe and watch his arousal. I think it is great that you make your male subjects strip completely naked first as it opens up this area of eroticism to your ballbusting activities.

In numerous videos shown at femaledom.com, the females, particularly Shania, Maria, Sandra, etc., will pricktease the nude guy by perhaps holding his penis between the bottom of their feet and stroking it, or, rubbing his balls and dick with the balls of their feet with the clear intention of getting him aroused and having him produce an erection. Prickteasing a man only to deny him has erotic overtones because it reveals a devious side of these girls in that they "outwit" the guy using his own dick against him, making him look all the more the fool. It shows all watching that men can be controlled by these clever girls through their manipulating the lower-order intellect of the men, who are so focused on the hopes of having sex (like firehydrant humping dogs).

Once these girls get the male subject erect, they then relish in kicking his balls *hard* such that he immediately loses his erection, and I often see the girls smile or laugh immediately afterwards as he lays their holding his balls in agony evidencing their knowing they made him look like such a fool by surprising him with a kick in the balls instead of sex. It is a wonderfully erotic game these sexy girls play on these guys that is a delight to watch making me applaud their clever trickery. Sharon has also indicated she delights in these moments, and has promised more of them! :bananajum

In other ballbusting videos I've seen outside of femaldom.com, they incorporate male masturbation into their play. Some I've seen they give the naked guy a set period of time to jack off and come, or they kick him in his balls. Others I've seen the girls actually kicking the guy in his balls as he is jacking off. Yet others simply like to watch a man masturbate and have him do it at various times just to witness. Sharon indicated she doesn't want Femaledom.com to become a porno site with sex, and therefore, the girls that she films do not give the guy a handjob...and I completely agree; however, if he is masturbating himslef, or, the women do it just to tease, kick and humiliate him, I think it is not only appropriate, but really adds an erotic twist to it - particularly if the women remain covered/clothed, and he is left naked, denied and holding his balls in pain.

How do you feel about sexual arousal of the man during your sessions? Do you like to tease him making him erect just so you can trick him with a hard kick in his balls to prove he's an idiot? Do you like to observe the guy jacking off and getting hard?

PS: I'm attaching some examples of mens' cocks being teased to erections during ballbusting and femdom encounters.

SadisticSara
12-10-2004, 08:47 PM
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Sharon indicated she doesn't want Femaledom.com to become a porno site with sex, and therefore, the girls that she films do not give the guy a handjob...and I completely agree; however, if he is masturbating himslef, or, the women do it just to tease, kick and humiliate him, I think it is not only appropriate, but really adds an erotic twist to it - particularly if the women remain covered/clothed, and he is left naked, denied and holding his balls in pain.
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I'm not going to tell Sharon what she should or shouldn't have on her website, even if I disagree with both of you.
Sure, what you mention about the humiliation is erotic. And Femaledom.com is meant to be erotic, not pornographic.
But in real life, during ballbusting sessions I prefer to give handjobs and more.
Pleasure and pain. Combined and balanced.
I'm definitely not exclusively into inflicting pain to a guy's balls.



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How do you feel about sexual arousal of the man during your sessions? Do you like to tease him making him erect just so you can trick him with a hard kick in his balls to prove he's an idiot? Do you like to observe the guy jacking off and getting hard?
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Yes. I do plenty of prolonged teasing.
And yes, I like to watch a guy getting hard (and jacking off) while I'm busting him.
If he doesn't jack off, I jack him off or give him some other form of release.
But that's probably because I'm not a "pro".
I only do sessions with boyfriends and intimate friends.
If the guy doesn't get a hard-on, it's not fun for me.
And at the end of a session, I make sure not to leave him with "blue-balls".

- Sara :)

iron horse
12-11-2004, 10:28 AM
Sara,

I think your response is wonderful. The fact that you only do it with intimate relationships such are your boyfriend, in my mind, makes it a different experience that anything on femaledom.com, which is supposed to reflect a fantasy encounter between a woman and a non-companion male.

The fact that your partner's arousal and enjoyment, inclusive of understanding his limits and calculating the amount of pain reflects intimacy and closeness and a much deeper level than what many of us who post in here are focused upon (and therefore, do not fantasize about). The abstract fantasy world of the dommes who do not want the sexual connection provides alternative erotic thoughts that are inconsistent with having a relationship with your partner.

In the end, we all want that closeness and connection with someone special, and incorporating the fetish into it is a wonderful way of enjoying eroticism together. And I think it is great that you enjoy such erotic play with the ones you are close to.

high_voice
12-11-2004, 12:05 PM
And at the end of a session, I make sure not to leave him with "blue-balls".

- Sara :)

If you don't like leaving guys with "blue-balls" then I wouldn't ask too many of the guys on this forum about what reading your posts does to us.

I'm sure I'm not the only one on this forum who'll willingly admit to getting a pretty serious case of "testicular frustration" from reading your posts.

I realize since we're not your b/f's or intimate friends we do fall into another catagory. It isn't your goal...it's just a consequence and below you'll find the "blue-balls" to prove it!

Jennifer tv
12-11-2004, 07:47 PM
Iron horse.....where did u find the blk n white school pics?
They are so sexy!!

Trouble
12-11-2004, 09:09 PM
In the end, we all want that closeness and connection with someone special, and incorporating the fetish into it is a wonderful way of enjoying eroticism together. And I think it is great that you enjoy such erotic play with the ones you are close to.
This was ptobably the best message I have read of late on this topic -- Iron Horse, you really ought to have put this in any one of the "Why do guys like this?" threads.

Ballbusting became erotic for me when women for whom I had a desire to be close to (emotional/physical) kicked or hit me in the nuts. I'm hooked on THAT -- the desire to be close to someone (whether I am actually close to her is not so important) and getting hurt in the testicles by her.

Weeeeird fetish, hunh?

iron horse
12-18-2004, 02:56 PM
Jennifer, I agree those are some pretty sexy cartoons. Last night I discovered a site where they could be found, as well as just about any other femdom cartoon artist works. The challenge is it's in Russian, but you can get an Internet translator and read their site. It really works!

You will find a series of these pics under "unknown" icon at the very bottom of the page; however, I believe they are black and white sketches done by the artist "severin" who is also listed on that same site.

Here's that web site, and a couple of more that should keep you surfing for hours.

http://www.femdomart.ru/home.htm

This is another one, but is in Italian:

http://www.anastassja.org

http://www.sademarchese.org/illsm/