iron horse
01-06-2005, 11:16 AM
A certain "bj" has posted a very negative commentary about this forum. Rather than give it recognition, I'll simply post some positive things about this forum, and why I really enjoy it.
Sara moderating - most fetish forums are created and moderated by men, or men masquerading as women. We have a rare situation here where a young, lovely female moderator who loves the fetish keeps it alive and actively participates. She is very active, responsive and has provided me an incredible amount of insight into this fetish that I did not have coming in. I am still learning, and she still teaches.
True exchange - most fetish forums are dedicated for men, and only men, to log on and download pics for their daily appetite of masturbation material. This forum allows posting of photos, but is not about that. It is to post discussions, ask questions, learn and explore. Indeed, many men may be upset because they cannot add this to the 12,354 links they already have for just another repository of porn photos and video files. But that's o.k., they have the many msn and yahoo groups for that.
Removal of inactive members - given the intent for dialogue in here, those that are here to lurk and collect visual images but do not participate are removed. This takes a lot of work, but is done freely by our moderator. It keeps the forum focused and true to its intent.
A beautiful female moderator with passion about this fetish - it is so rare to find any woman willing to discuss a fetish like this, very rare. But here we have this gorgeous girl that is articulate, intelligent and so desirous of discussing this fetish that she insists that if you are going to stay a member, you *must* participate.
Lastly, if you don't like this forum, well, I suggest getting a refund on your dues and leaving. Oh wait, there IS no dues! And to think people bitch about something given to them absolutely free....
Either off a big thank you and contribute in here, or quietly leave. Doing anything else just establishes you as a whining, selfish jerk.
So to Sara and the others that contribute, I say thank you...
Sara moderating - most fetish forums are created and moderated by men, or men masquerading as women. We have a rare situation here where a young, lovely female moderator who loves the fetish keeps it alive and actively participates. She is very active, responsive and has provided me an incredible amount of insight into this fetish that I did not have coming in. I am still learning, and she still teaches.
True exchange - most fetish forums are dedicated for men, and only men, to log on and download pics for their daily appetite of masturbation material. This forum allows posting of photos, but is not about that. It is to post discussions, ask questions, learn and explore. Indeed, many men may be upset because they cannot add this to the 12,354 links they already have for just another repository of porn photos and video files. But that's o.k., they have the many msn and yahoo groups for that.
Removal of inactive members - given the intent for dialogue in here, those that are here to lurk and collect visual images but do not participate are removed. This takes a lot of work, but is done freely by our moderator. It keeps the forum focused and true to its intent.
A beautiful female moderator with passion about this fetish - it is so rare to find any woman willing to discuss a fetish like this, very rare. But here we have this gorgeous girl that is articulate, intelligent and so desirous of discussing this fetish that she insists that if you are going to stay a member, you *must* participate.
Lastly, if you don't like this forum, well, I suggest getting a refund on your dues and leaving. Oh wait, there IS no dues! And to think people bitch about something given to them absolutely free....
Either off a big thank you and contribute in here, or quietly leave. Doing anything else just establishes you as a whining, selfish jerk.
So to Sara and the others that contribute, I say thank you...