Erection during a body massage?

[mrballs]

Sara

i learned today that when u get a full body massage that you should be in the nude with only a sheet over you...? any guys out there if the women is pretty get an erection while on your their back and lift the sheet.... is that rude...would you as the message person be offended? i wonder cause if i got one i would have to keep my undes on to prevent such an event if the lady is pretty?
men ever happen to you
Sara how would you react?
any other ladies how would you react?

[SadisticSara]

I wouldn't be offended. Just the opposite.
It would mean that the guy is normal, and that he finds me sexually interesting.

At many (not all) "massage parlors", that's when the woman would ask you what kind of "extra service" you'd like, and you'd negotiate the price.
- Sara :)

[play with my plums]

I was in a situation 2 years ago where an atractive chiropracter was popping a rib back in line for me and massaging all the surrounding area & after the initial pain, it felt really good & I did start to get aroused & had to quickly think really borring thoughts as it was an embarrassing situation & I definately don`t think she was into offering extra`s. :o

[TaTeReDaNdToRn]

I'm going to the massage parlor...

[Trouble]

A friend of mine worked as a Licensed Massage Therapist. She did not discuss that part of work with me, but gave me a massage once and her feeling on the general subject was, as best I recall, "sharing" my thoughts or my appearance was one thing, just don't touch her inappropriately. So, no special services, no extras, with that one. However, the LMT types are licensed professionals and, while they may not be doctors, they tend to be clinical. "Hunh. Male patient, complaining of lower back pain. Try Lumbar-7 rotating rub, then ask patient if that is working. Oh, patient drops towel, has alert proboscis. Tell patient to zip it up; keep working on lower lumbar area, then switch to see if pelvic roll allieves pain. Buy milk on way home from this stupid job."

Since there are a lot of "special services" types working as massage people, the LMT types are probably loaded with a few gentle lines like, "You want WHAT?!? Thank you, but no, my degree doesn't cover that, and neither does my insurance policy."

[mrballs]

I wouldn't be offended. Just the opposite.
It would mean that the guy is normal, and that he finds me sexually interesting.

At many (not all) "massage parlors", that's when the woman would ask you what kind of "extra service" you'd like, and you'd negotiate the price.
- Sara :)


thanks for sharing your thoughts...love your insight...i thought she might be offended and say ha...this is a massage not sex what are you doing getting hard..i am a professaional massage person not a hooker...

or better yet...how should i word it before we start...should i say, "i would like to go nude but my little buddy has a mind of his own and may start dancing, if that happens would that offend you or should i just keep my shorts on to keep him caged"


if you dont think that is good how would should i word it?

also when she says it will be a full body message does that mean the penis and balls will be massaged also? i dont suppose so..but i have seen a porno where the woman takes out the penis and balls and messages them..but that is probably with the extra services you described

[Magnum]

I used to get weekly messages and the first couple of times I got a hard-on and when she told me to roll over I said that I would have to wait a couple of minutes. She started laughing and said errections are expected and not to be embarassed but just turn over when you feel comfortable and don't make a big deal out of it. This reminds me of a true story I think you all would like to read. Please go yo the stories thread to read. :)

[Rico]

Hey Mr. Balls,

A few years back I went to get a massage in a small town in Florida and it was about 2 or 3 in the afternoon. Anyway this great looking blonde came into the room and told me to remove all my clothes and handed me a small towel. She instructed me that when I had removed my clothes, to lie face down on the table with the towel accross my butt. She then left the room and said she would be back.

I did as she said and when she returned, she proceeded to sprinkle powder over my lower legs and feet and began to gently massage each leg and foot. She continued her massage very professionally all the way up each leg to the back of my thighs stopping just short of my butt. She probably spent a good 10 minutes on my legs and feet and then proceeded to my lower back, just above my ass crack. The gentle pressing and massaging in this area was getting me really worked up and her hands felt so soft but yet firm as she methodically massaged my entire back up to my shoulders and neck.

She told me I could remove the towel if it didn't bother me and that she always told her clients it was up to them. Well at this point I was very excited and it seemed like a good idea. I did have an erection, but stupid me was thinking (it's ok, she can't see it because I'm lying face down), however after about another 10 minutes or so of this wonderful massage, she instructed me to turn over on my back so she could massage the front of my body. (OH BOY!) Was I ever embarrassed, my cock was erect and leaking pre-cum, but I did as she requested and closed my eyes. Much to my amazement she continued with her massage and took the towel to dab the tip of my cock where the pre-cum was driping down.

She never said a word and started massaging the front of my thighs and legs and worked her way up my body to my lower stomach area just above my pubic region. She never put her hands on my genital area or made any comments whatsoever. She completed my massage and told me she was done and that I could get up from the table and get dressed now. She told me to pay at the desk on my way out.

I thanked her for the wonderful massage and said I really felt very relaxed now. I jokingly said I was embarrased about the erection I had gotten, but she just chuckled and said she always expects this to happen when she is massaging a man and that not to feel embarrased by it, its normal.

I left her a $10 tip and went out to the desk and paid my bill and drove home re-living the massage. When I did get home, I couldn't get out of my clothes fast enough because all I could think about was this beautiful womans hands gently rubbing over my entire body and I had one helluva hard on that I had to take care of right away! I jerked off twice within an hour and had something to eat and I was ready to go at it again. What an experience!

I have since had the opportunity to go to the other kind of massage parlor where the girls ask you if there is anything else you would like. That's a whole other experience. I'll have to post those experiences at another time.

Rico

[Trouble]

(The following is one of Trouble's theories, the like of which has earned him the prestigious titles of "crank", "looney, and "freak" -- read on at your own risk!)

Most people whom I meet who do massage work are female. There are men who get degrees and/or training in the same thing but they don't seem to be as numerous. In a way, this is a job which allows the application of female domination.

Women know that guys get sexually excited by things like contact with strong, soft female hands and/or just about anything else, really. However; for the professionals who just do massage, they know that typical guys (let's assume Rico is a typical guy, until he proves otherwise, of course) are going to get hard for them when they are working on them -- but that the guy can't do anything about it. The woman is safe; she's at a massage parlor, and the room may hve a closed door, but she is safe; if the guy gets pushy, she can call for help.

Most of the women to whom I have spoken enjoy being desirable -- the fat and ugly chicks, on the other hand, seem to really wish that they were desireable. Women like men to want them, but not to give it out to every guy. And they know they can have the effect of stimulating a guy when they touch him, and that a guy really, really wants her and feels good from the massage but tortuchred from the sexual excitement but lack of opportunity to release. It's not ballbusting, but it's domination of a kind.

The LMT I knew invited me to go with her to see a documentary on the Marquis de Sade; a few minutes later, she changed her mind and went with her boyfriend, instead. I say she's into more than one kind of domination, if ya get my meaning.

[Mistress Cat]

(The following is one of Trouble's theories, the like of which has earned him the prestigious titles of "crank", "looney, and "freak" -- read on at your own risk!)
:weryfun

I would say your "theory" is pretty damn insightful Mr Trouble!! (Damn, we've been caught!)

(((smoochies))) Ms Cat

[mrballs]

[QUOTE=Trouble]
(The following is one of Trouble's theories, the like of which has earned him the prestigious titles of "crank", "looney, and "freak" -- read on at your own risk!)

:weryfun

I would say your "theory" is pretty damn insightful Mr Trouble!! (Damn, we've been caught!)

(((smoochies))) Ms Cat

cat have you ever given a massage,
how would you respond if you were giving one and a guy had that happen

[Mistress Cat]

cat have you ever given a massage,
how would you respond if you were giving one and a guy had that happen

Yes, Mr. Balls, I have given many massages. I do "Tantric" massages, which is an Eastern method of working with sexual energies. This can, and when I do them, does include genital and sometimes prostate massage. I guess you could say it is a true *full body* massage. LOL

I do not find erections offensive. Erections cum.. er.. ah .. I mean come and go. When a fell'a is 18 years old, a slight breeze causes an erection.

What I do find offensive is if a man with an erection, gets that glazed, lecherous look on his face, hoping I might be shocked by it. :rolleyes:

I think most women have been flashed at one time or another, from *that* kind of man. I have a great line to use. "Honey, I've seen bigger and better, get over yourself!" :Baahaha:

Human sexuality is a delightful gift from the Creator of The Universe, in all it many forms and practices. No need to make it dirty, naughty, Yes!! Dirty, never.

((((smoochies)))) Ms Cat

[Trouble]

I think most women have been flashed at one time or another, from *that* kind of man. I have a great line to use. "Honey, I've seen bigger and better, get over yourself!" :Baahaha:
When that happens to me-- er, I mean, *IF*, if that happened to me, I'd go with, "You know, I might be able to help you with that problem. I got an e-mail just the other day about an invention that could increase the size of your penis. They might even be able to make you at least of average length. Good luck, Stubby."


Human sexuality is a delightful gift from the Creator of The Universe, in all it many forms and practices.
You mean Allah, of course. ;)

[mrballs]

Yes, Mr. Balls, I have given many massages. I do "Tantric" massages, which is an Eastern method of working with sexual energies. This can, and when I do them, does include genital and sometimes prostate massage. I guess you could say it is a true *full body* massage. LOL

I do not find erections offensive. Erections cum.. er.. ah .. I mean come and go. When a fell'a is 18 years old, a slight breeze causes an erection.

What I do find offensive is if a man with an erection, gets that glazed, lecherous look on his face, hoping I might be shocked by it. :rolleyes:

I think most women have been flashed at one time or another, from *that* kind of man. I have a great line to use. "Honey, I've seen bigger and better, get over yourself!" :Baahaha:

Human sexuality is a delightful gift from the Creator of The Universe, in all it many forms and practices. No need to make it dirty, naughty, Yes!! Dirty, never.

((((smoochies)))) Ms Cat
where can a guy get a trantic message, they sound nice?

[Mistress Cat]

When that happens to me-- er, I mean, *IF*, if that happened to me, I'd go with, "You know, I might be able to help you with that problem. I got an e-mail just the other day about an invention that could increase the size of your penis. They might even be able to make you at least of average length. Good luck, Stubby."


Rolling On The Floor, Laughing My Ass Off!!!!!! Oh My.. ::note to self::: "Update my smart ass remark to flashers. Be sure to include the name Stubby"

You mean Allah, of course. ;)

Ohh Right... yeah... (what ever Her name is) ;)

(((smoochies)))) Ms Cat

[Mistress Cat]

where can a guy get a trantic message, they sound nice?

:::chuckle::: They DO sound nice.. don't they? I just don't know Mr Balls how to help you find a nice ball busting girl, or a Tantrica. Yellow pages, the want adds in a local alternative news paper, at www.craigslist.com?

Good Luck, Ms Cat

[mrballs]

thanks

[iron horse]

I used to go to a clothing optional spa in Los Angeles. One of the girls that worked there was a very attractive young blonde who gave massages. Since it was clothing optional, most men would not use a towel.

Eventually, I ended up dating this girl. She had taken all types of courses on massage and did it professionally. She told me it was natural for a guy to get physically excited and laughed about it. She said that if he laid there without a towel and fully erect, she would keep massaging him and if he asked, she told him it was perfectly alright for him to be sexually aroused.

However, when men suggested she massage more than his thighs, she would fire back at him that she didn't take all the courses and training she did just to give hand jobs.

Although the sexual arousal was perfectly fine, and, even though she was o.k. with the men not being covered with a towel while flying full mast with an erection, she got offended when they suggested any type of sexual encounter. She was also offended if they started to masturbate in front of her, not because the masturbation offended her, but that their masturbating took away from the benefit she brought as a trained masseuse. But she did say that a couple of times, if the guy was attractive, she would stay and chat with him while he masturbated, provided it was *after* the massage was over.