Is it the sound of her voice?

[agnetha]

hello,

this follows from the "Men in Pain" video clip recently posted via:

http://www.darkporn.net/7/Brooke/Brooke.html

I thought it was excellent, not just because of the domination, but because the dark haired girl used her voice so well in controlling the man, she was very strong although her blonde friend wasn't so forward. I especially liked the scissors bit !
It would be great if there were more vids with sound, it is so overlooked an aspect of all things sexual.


So, how much part does the woman's voice and attitiude play in your bb life? I suppose also, does what you say and how you act make a difference to the kicks, squeezes etc you receive, or how you recall them later when you have recovered?

I personally like to keep my voice quiet and quite lowas I handle him, I have a lot in reserve if I choose to add to his fear. This works best if he is tied so I can be very soft physically while I take him as far as I think his pain can go. I think this allows his male/pride to take over so he wants to "compete" with the pain and makes the experience more fulfilling.

Aggie

[Magnum]

I love it when my wife tells me she is going to stomp on my balls or crush them. Sometimes she will say that she is going to kick or stomp my naked balls as hard as she can with her baddest boots on. it really adds to the whole thing.

[Trouble]

So, how much part does the woman's voice and attitiude play in your bb life? I suppose also, does what you say and how you act make a difference to the kicks, squeezes etc you receive, or how you recall them later when you have recovered?
Hey, Aggie.

The woman's voice, so far, makes a lot of difference in the play leading up to bb, but, as yet, have not met a buster who does anything with her voice during bb. Nothing I say seems to moderate what happens; even to the point that I usually have the SafeWord ignored.

Women.

[toybag_cellphone]

A low, sexy, semi-threatening voice works wonders. Then again, it's not always how she says it, sometimes it's what is said.

[agnetha]

Hello,

I thought I might do a script of my most recent bb session with the bf, as in the Icey Cold post.

A is Aggie, bouncy, excited, ready to kick!
B is bf, slightly wary, confident though!

----
A hey, aren't you cold in that
B colder the better, I won't feel a thing,

A so have you got frost on them just for me?
B yep, cold 1, cold 2,

A think you might need it,
B ok but just be careful
A c'mon spread those legs, let me see, wow, snowballs (pinches balls which retract into bf), they really are cold, rakes nails down testicles
B ouch! f**k...ok, lets get this over with

A but they're so big and hard, I just wanted to see. Anyway, how high do you want me to kick them first?
B gently gently

A its going to be like on the telly when the rugby ball gets kicked over the posts, will they make a sound like that?
B go gently

A ok

A takes a pace and lands first kick
B falls, gets up after a few seconds
A that was fun (bouncing around), did you feel it, I loved it, loved it
B err I'm ok, not too bad

A you saw it coming, I saw you jump up! Stand still
B no I didn't you just missed a little

A ok I want to kick them again, I want to feel your balls on my trainers, no messing around, right now, spread em, big nuts
B smiling, ready
A no, eyes closed, no cheating

A this time, no missing, my foots going to just love your balls,
B gently
B closes eyes, reluctantly
A best kick the left one, its closer, hows the left ball doing bf, is it ready for my reeboks
B very gently baby
A this turns me on

A full force kick into bf's sac
B bf falls, stays down, groans
A jumps around, loved it loved it, felt them, what a turn on! later, hey, all ok with the snowballs?

B staggers upright, well no, I'm going for a shower
A no, no, one kick left

B no way, this is really starting to hurt
A you love it and I'll make up for the pain later on
B smiling ok
A just remember I have a surprise for you
B makes it up the stairs and has a shower


Later
A meets B on stairs

A feeling better now? That was such a turn on, ready for me now?
B well no, the hot shower has brought the pain out, my balls ache

A fondles B's balls, B jumps back
B ouch thats enough, I'm sore and thats it, no more kicks, pushes past A

A we had a deal, 3 goes, but if you can only take two, I'll give you your surprise, smiling, A kisses B who responds,
A pulls away, holding the tip of B's hard cock and says, all warmed up?
B smiles, a bit of unusual foreplay works wonders, so...ready for the main event?

A Not quite, I'm all wet thinking about your surprise
A runs hands up B's chest slowly a few times and grips his shoulders
A so wet
B o..
A knees B full force in the balls

Aggie x

[jtomin32]

Personally, the voice doesn't as matter as much to me, relative to the 'attitude'. I am a huge fan of having fun with the ballbusting. I like being dared ("bet you can't take 10 punches in 10 seconds) and other 'games'. I like being encouraged ("I *know* you can take another one!").

The biggest downer to me is a girl who is clearly not into it, whether a girlfriend who just doesn't enjoy it, or a pro who is just there for the money.

Recently I was lucky enough to have a session with 2 dommes, and the three of us had a ton of fun. Best part was them prodding each other on ("I can hit harder than you...") and then engaging me with it ("so who hit harder?"). Favorite moment was a 'game' where each girl would get three hits in a row, then they'd swap. If I safeworded during one girl's hits, she 'won' and got solo time with my balls for a bit while the other one held me down (or held my balls in place). Was truly the most memorable "fantasy-like" experience of my life!

[bustme2hard]

I love it when my wife tells me she is going to stomp on my balls or crush them. Sometimes she will say that she is going to kick or stomp my naked balls as hard as she can with her baddest boots on. it really adds to the whole thing.

I once kiddingly asked if my wife would wear her flat-heeled leather boots, and with me lying on my stomach on the floor, deliberately stomp on and completely break my balls. She said, in a serious tone that actually scared me, "LET'S GO," and got up and walked toward the bathroom with her boots. Well, I didn't dare follow her in there, and to this day I believe she very likely would have done it, and just for fun too! She's my ex-wife now, so no worries :) But it's hot to think about anyway.

[bustme2hard]

A is Aggie, bouncy, excited, ready to kick!
B is bf, slightly wary, confident though!

A full force kick into bf's sac
B bf falls, stays down, groans
A jumps around, loved it loved it, felt them, what a turn on! later, hey, all ok with the snowballs?


Agnetha, your bb personality reminds me very much of my ex-wife's. She was gleeful when busting, and always ready to push me past my limit. The more I resisted, the more turned on to do it she got. (She once slapped them {while I was trapping them tight to explain something to her} so hard that SHE hurt her own hand on them!! There we were afterwards, she, holding her hand in real pain, and I, wondering if I was completely done-for down there!)

Unfortunately for me, while I was married I had only heard how "fragile" balls were, so I was willing to let her do whatever she wanted to them except kicking, because I didn't know that balls are as tough as they really are, I and thought she could possible break them with one kick. Regrets, regrets... :o

[bustme2hard]

hello,

I personally like to keep my voice quiet and quite lowas I handle him, I have a lot in reserve if I choose to add to his fear. This works best if he is tied so I can be very soft physically while I take him as far as I think his pain can go. I think this allows his male/pride to take over so he wants to "compete" with the pain and makes the experience more fulfilling.

Aggie


Aggie X, what an understanding of the male mind you have!

[agnetha]

Hello,

more on the competetive male instinct...!!

its been a good few days, the bf has been very very sexual and attentive, its as if he is trying to prove that he is ok, in fact better than ok ! I've no complaints :) .

I wonder if this'll go round again and if he'll have more "tolerance" to my kicks than our first go - I know he can take a lot of squeezing and enjoys this a lot.

Maybe get the reeboks out in a week or two?

Aggie

[Trouble]

Maybe get the reeboks out in a week or two?

Aggie
Probably. I was just thinking about the part where you kneed him -- now, technically, THAT was not consensual. It's the nonconsensual bit that it's important you do not repeat too often for THESE reasons:

1) A guy can really get sick of being busted without permission if it happens a lot; if it happens now and then, that should be fine to spice things up; and

2) If you do it "by surprise" too often, it will be less of a surprise. It may not take the fun out of it for you, but it probably will for him. Submissive males don't like to be submissive 24/7. Well, except for some of us... ;)

I have had partners who would go for the occasional nonconsensual bust; the one who did it too often got dumped. The others were just, y'know, spicey.

Mmmmmm. Spicey.

[agnetha]

Hello,

looks good advice to me and no need to add any more spice just yet, ;)


Aggie

[Gripcrush]

I remember watching this porno movie (many years ago), and the woman was stroking the man's - well, EVERYTHING.

But as she talked to him, she would do something that would sound very odd to some people... but to me, it got me instantly turned on.

She would purr like a cat after everything she said. A low soft purr. After watching this for several minutes, I got a rock hard erection that wouldn't quit.

I realized it was what she was saying and NOT what she was doing.

There is also something a woman can do to me that will have me doing anything she wants. I would even eat dirt if she asked. Yes, again - what she says and how she says it. It would get me crazy!! :D