How to take the next step? into ballbusting.

[twistayours]

I've been joining sites for years now and it good watching n' all, but was wondering how to get involved and take the next step? e.g finding someone, private session etc.

How did anyone else it get going for ballbusting?

Probably a stupid post, but looking to start going further.....

[helios]

All I can recommend, from personal experience, is to find a girl who you like, and who likes you back (this is great isn't it, I should be an agony aunt) and who seems open minded. Everyone has mixed success in this way, I think: some girls who seem like they might be open to trying new things can turn out to be rather conservative, and some girls who seem reserved are very free spirited in bed. But if there is mutual trust and interest in giving each other pleasure, then you have a good chance.

As far as paying an escort/domme/etc, I wouldn't know, but I would be wary of making myself vulnerable to someone I didn't trust (or know well enough to trust). That said, lots of guys on this and other forums seem to have had plenty of success with strippers, prostitutes and dommes, and indeed through things like craigslist and other noticeboard type places. I think in those cases it is a question of phrasing your request the right way - so it does not sound threatening to a woman, but possibly intriguing/fun. If anyone remembers a guy called Knackers, he used to just go up to women and proposition them, and he often ended up having a session and filming it. But then his shamelessness was also a factor in his downfall...

I'd be interested to hear other people's opinions on this question...


helios

[Trouble]

Definitely get the committed partner and go for adding that to your relationship. Most chicks seem to love kicking guys in the nuts. I was at a bar with a friend of mine recently; she knows I am sorta, you know, "with" somebody ("So what were you doing with this nice lady AT A BAR, Trouble???" "Um. I'm taken the fifth on that, Your Honour."), so what we were sort of, kind of heading into (pleading the fifth! all the way!) is now derailed, but I might still suggest BB to her. I brought it up to let it penetrate her ears so that the thought could wiggle its way into her brain and try to find something in her fertile imagination...

You know, I am just EVIL. Also, probably doomed, 'cuz these two chicks know each other... ("What were you THINKING, Trouble?" "I plead the fifth!!")

[metalun]

I actually convinced my gf at the time to BB me. I found it isn't too hard to convince a woman you are in a relationship to do it. Just make sure you read up on the proper methods and 'train her' (and by all means start out lightly at first). A beginner buster can really do some damage so you have to teach them what to do and what to avoid.

From that point forward I have found that I could convince every woman that I have been in a relationship with to bust. Maybe I have just been lucky.

Personally, I would not get a complete stranger to bust. You are really asking for trouble then IMHO.


Regards and good luck,
Metalun

[aak4]

In major cities, there's usually a house of domination where you can choose a domme.

[ron25]

I've been joining sites for years now and it good watching n' all, but was wondering how to get involved and take the next step? e.g finding someone, private session etc.

How did anyone else it get going for ballbusting?

Probably a stupid post, but looking to start going further.....

Not stupid at all. sometimes you just need to ask. I asked a g/f once to hit may nuts. I was naked, she was dressed, they were sitting out there ready... and she declined. Wouldn't do it. It didn't do anything to our relationship though. We did eventually break up, but not because of that