Ballbusting progress with my wife

[shamed]

Hi all

For those of you not familiar with my "drama," things still going wonderfully in the sexual area with my wife, and still geared exclusively to ballbusting as a "foreplay" activity.

Remarkable how I needed viagra or cialys to get and stay hard from 2000 - 2006, BUT since last summer, I haven't needed it at ALL. It's all about the emotions in my case (guilt and anxiety was disabling my erectile function).

In any case, we are having sex a minimum 4x a week this past two months, up from 3x this year. I would estimate that we have had more intercourse in 2007 so far than we had in the last 6-8 years. No exaggeration. We are in our 50s, so that is great news.

This weekend, our "heat" and circumstances allowed me to take, for the first time, five backhand "fists" just prior to entry.

I was on my knees, just over my wife (missionary), about to go in, and she reached down and began slapping my balls in an upward motion. I reached down, turned her palm face down, balled it into a fist for her, and indicated an upward motion. (Apologies to all you "Topping from the bottom"-centric folks. As I've noted, I am a masochist, but not a submissive.)

She then punched up once, I winced. She gestured for me to stroke my cock. She then hit again, harder. I stroked, she hit again, harder, then twice more.

Amazing. The pain radiated through my thighs and gut, but I got hard as a rock, and we have what I call "911 Sex."

From what she says, this works wonderfully for her, and our rhythm and frequency would indicate the same. She and I both agreed that this was the hardest she has hit me to date. My state of excitement during all this definitely contributed to my ability to take more.

My question -- and she asked this too -- what could be done for her to easily apply pain to my balls DURING intercourse, that SHE can control? We have a pinprick parachute, to which I was thinking of attaching some kind of Rube Goldberg contraption, but ideal would be a "chinese handcuff" of some kind that the tighter she pulled, the tighter it would squeeze, or crush the balls.

Purple Passion in NY had nothing really good. Maybe one of the more gay-oriented shops (Leatherman, etc.) in the Village would work. I saw a wire-mesh device for the cock that seems to be interesting, but it is very expensive and not adaptable to the balls.

Any suggestions?

Thank you for listening and caring.

shamed

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[linklierok]

For myself I find it difficult to want to have intercourse when she is dominating me, as I am myself a submissive, but I have had some experiences with a simple shoelace. Just tie a small loop into one end of it, maybe an inch across, then thread the remaining shoe lace thru the loop to make sort of a "choke chain". Put the balls thru the created cinchable loop, and then she pulls tight enough for them to be trapped there. Then while fucking, she can pull tighter/looser, as she wishes. Now this doesnt cause much squeezing pain to the balls if thats what you were specifically looking for but its a very cheap option.

If its squeezing/crushing youre after, what about her being on top, facing away from you, so she can reach down and squeeze as she wishes?

[shamed]

Having clothespins attached zipperstyle to my balls with her in control of the shoelace would be great.

I am trying to think of a contraption that would tighten more than pull. If you remember the old "Chinese fingercuffs" when you were a kid, you'd try to pull and it would tighten. Like a basketweave. Very hot idea.

I will report progress on this. A summer construction project. :thumbup

Thanks for your response.

shamed

[Richter]

My wife (and past girlfriends) have always been able to squeeze my balls during missionary position. It takes a little flexibility and you aren't able to "slam fuck" but it's good. It gets the woman off to have a man by the balls and "*******" the man to fuck her, and the man gets off with having his balls squeezed. More than that, with the muscle contractions caused by orgasms, if you do really well, she'll squeeze you harder than she normally would.

[toybag_cellphone]

You can refine the "ball leash" to include variable constriction.

Start by making any one of the several variable loops. I like a looped overhand, but you could use any noose. Place it around the base of the scrotum, then take the rest of the "leash" and loop it around several times to build up a bit of a base. If you really want to be mean, start with a longer cord and make a stretcher out of it.

Next, tuck the "leash" under the loops around the scrotum, loop it through, then take it over and loop it through again. You should have several loops around the scrotum, and one loop around the loops. Pass the "leash" across the testicles horizontally. If you do it vertically, it will nestle between the testicles and make a divider, which is fun in itself but not what we're doing now.

Once you reach the other side of the scrotum, pass the "leash" through the scrotum-side of the loops on that side, but don't wrap it around again. Now, when you pull on the leash, it tightens the horizontal band and squeezes the testicles, with the force directly determined by how hard the leash was pulled.

If you use a prominent knot and start it at the top or bottom of the scrotum, you can pass the "leash" past it and through to center the leash, but you don't have to.

[shamed]

Toybag, this sounds great. :ibow4u: The result is JUST what we want. A device, the crushing pressure of which on the testicles, is determined by how hard one pulls the reins, BUT would loosen immediately.

I do admit that -- Not being a Mechanical Engineer :) -- it will be tough riddling it out and putting it into practice.

I am going to work on a diagram of what I am thinking of, and will try to post it here in .jpg format. The components, I would think, would be a soft leather bag, with counter cords or laces running across it that would constrict the entire pouch when pulled, BUT loosen up immediately when the reins are loosened.

If it comes out good, and there are any toymakers who feel that they have the ability to produce a prototype, great. It might make a nice item for the Stockroom or some other online retailer.

shamed

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