agnetha
11-14-2007, 07:21 AM
Hello,
and as some of you will know, I am in a relationship with a very competetive bf. He is so driven and this, I think, is why bb works so well with him. Also, he is away a lot so when he is back things can get very itense:D This suits me just fine and his pain really can become my pleasure, (especially if I use my favourite vibrator whilst working on him, just to let him know he's not really required ;) ).
Over the months we've been together he has really got into busting and now requires some serious attention as his little addiction takes him. He can take a lot more in the way of punches and slaps than before and although I need to put more effort in, its always worth it for me :D. He is much more trusting too and does not mind being restrained now, this is the biggest change.
Some days he'll be quite tender though (usually the second day after the sesson) and this has become part (or all of for all I know) the attraction as he beats the pain. All well and good you say but these sore days do need my time to keep him controlled so I've begun a new phase of ball pleasuring (well me-pleasuring really, and as he's here he may as well be useful).
This is essentially a very light ball massage with no busting; its all about long soft strokes, light finger rotations, and gentle cupping, (oops, guess who went on a massage course this summer!) and I take some time too. It works best if I stand or kneel next to him when he is lying down, rather than kneel between his legs (I find this very submissive at any time) and I sometimes extend the massage to his legs and cock, keeping to my theme of soft and light. It is so tempting to lean over and gently suck a ball into my mouth, but that creates fear in him, I can feel it, and I'm after a relaxed feeling.
The other ingredient is that I talk to him, quietly, I'll tell him how perfect he is, how smooth his balls are, and how I can feel the sperm in them. He likes to hear anything saying how strong they are, and how much of a man he is, just a few words but he loves it! I can really get into my little speech and sometime feel like a self-help tape! Its a slow senual turn on for me and quite often I'll be rummaging around in the bedside drawer for a dildo soon afterwards :o. He'll just be asleep, doubtless dreaming dreams of greatness.
Agnetha xxx
and as some of you will know, I am in a relationship with a very competetive bf. He is so driven and this, I think, is why bb works so well with him. Also, he is away a lot so when he is back things can get very itense:D This suits me just fine and his pain really can become my pleasure, (especially if I use my favourite vibrator whilst working on him, just to let him know he's not really required ;) ).
Over the months we've been together he has really got into busting and now requires some serious attention as his little addiction takes him. He can take a lot more in the way of punches and slaps than before and although I need to put more effort in, its always worth it for me :D. He is much more trusting too and does not mind being restrained now, this is the biggest change.
Some days he'll be quite tender though (usually the second day after the sesson) and this has become part (or all of for all I know) the attraction as he beats the pain. All well and good you say but these sore days do need my time to keep him controlled so I've begun a new phase of ball pleasuring (well me-pleasuring really, and as he's here he may as well be useful).
This is essentially a very light ball massage with no busting; its all about long soft strokes, light finger rotations, and gentle cupping, (oops, guess who went on a massage course this summer!) and I take some time too. It works best if I stand or kneel next to him when he is lying down, rather than kneel between his legs (I find this very submissive at any time) and I sometimes extend the massage to his legs and cock, keeping to my theme of soft and light. It is so tempting to lean over and gently suck a ball into my mouth, but that creates fear in him, I can feel it, and I'm after a relaxed feeling.
The other ingredient is that I talk to him, quietly, I'll tell him how perfect he is, how smooth his balls are, and how I can feel the sperm in them. He likes to hear anything saying how strong they are, and how much of a man he is, just a few words but he loves it! I can really get into my little speech and sometime feel like a self-help tape! Its a slow senual turn on for me and quite often I'll be rummaging around in the bedside drawer for a dildo soon afterwards :o. He'll just be asleep, doubtless dreaming dreams of greatness.
Agnetha xxx