How do you guys get busted?

[Rebecca]

I've always wondered this, and while I've been to one or two other boards, they seemed less ... accomodating or friendly. So I thought I'd ask it here.

I'm assuming that many of you don't find much in the way of fulfillment of your fantasies. That is unless you're lucky enough to have a partner who shares, or at least participates in your interest.
But the rest of you who do manage to get some busts, how do you do it?
Do you go to escorts/hookers?
Have some of you actually asked girls/women on the street? I did read an account somewhere of a guy who was approached by a couple of teen girls who asked him to buy smokes for them. He agreed, and when he came back, he said they could have the smoked and their money back if they each kicked him in the nuts, which they did.
Now maybe that was BS, but it seems plausible enough, especially given the age of the girls.

So, to you guys who do find some way to get busted. how do you do it?

I'm hoping the BF is up for something tonight. :)

Rebecca

[me_no_wimp]

I guess in your teens you can be a open as that, and girls will do that sort of things.

At my age, at least in the UK, it doesn't happen that way anyway. If you walked up to strangers in the street and asked them to kick you in the balls you could be done for harassment.

Maybe in a fetish club one could get away with it. I might be interested in going to such a club but very often fetish clubs are not really what I'm looking for, i.e. they are very stereotyped.

You asked about prostitutes - there are "professional mistresses" who are not really prostitutes in the normal sense in that they don't engage in regular sex, but in some ways they might be classified as such because they give people sexual arousal (in the form of whipping, caning, busting, trampling etc) in exchange for money. Now many of them will say that they have to charge money to make a living, although I would prefer to meet up with women who have day jobs to pay the bills and are just interested in going out and giving me a bust. No relationship required, no need for fancy costumes (albeit they must wear shoes I like) or fancy equipment or a "dungeon", just meet me in an "open" setting (maybe a club specifically for this kind of purpose) and give me a good kicking.

It's always nice, by the way, to meet a woman on here who likes to bust. A shame for me you are in Canada but if you ever come to London, (i.e. in England, not Ontario), do meet up and give me a busting...

[jm1803]

I guess there are alot of ppl out there who just dont fulfill there fantasies, this is extremely unfortunate, however i do...
This can be achieved in many ways. Firstly my last girl friend absolutely loved busting me, i dont think there is any harm in sharing your sexual interests with someone. i simply asked her to do it, so be BOLD!! This will only reinforce the element of "trust" in a relationship. I do not believe someone should hold back something like this. A second way to achieve this would be to join a call-up-dating service, my friend and i have had TREMENDOUS sucess with this. Whether your interest is busting or gay, you will find what you are seeking. I hope this answers your question, and if you have any ideas you could share i would appreciate that.

JM

[Rebecca]

I guess in your teens you can be a open as that, and girls will do that sort of things.

It's always nice, by the way, to meet a woman on here who likes to bust. A shame for me you are in Canada but if you ever come to London, (i.e. in England, not Ontario), do meet up and give me a busting...

Hi

No the guy in the tale was not a teen. He was a middle-aged man if memory serves. I thought it was probably a lie as well. Then again, if a guy had me that offer when I was a teenager, I think I would have done it. So long as I was with another girl and he didn't look too creepy.

Maybe there should be a club where you pay for a membership, and men and women can go to specifically get kicked/kick in the nuts! I'd go!

:) I'm impressed that you know there is a London in Canada as well as England.

Rebecca

[me_no_wimp]

My wife does, and we even made a video, but I am not always convinced she really enjoys doing it.

I'd like to be kicked by someone who really really wants to do it without anything for themselves in return (except the enjoyment of kicking me).

[Su0]

I'm probably very much younger than most of the members here (I'm 19, is it really weird for me to be here?? :p). And atleast where I live, a lot of girls find kicking someone in the nuts very funny.

It's quite easy to ask someone for me. I take a lot humour, then ask a girl something like "Hi :) Could you kick me in the balls? I've always wanted to know how it feels! :D Yeah, for real!"

Some think I'm a really funny guy, and some think it's really weird. I've even got few good friends from the girls I've asked, they found it funny. But yeah, don't harrass the girls too much, it can be annoying.

[Rebecca]

I guess there are alot of ppl out there who just dont fulfill there fantasies, this is extremely unfortunate, however i do...
This can be achieved in many ways. Firstly my last girl friend absolutely loved busting me, i dont think there is any harm in sharing your sexual interests with someone. i simply asked her to do it, so be BOLD!! This will only reinforce the element of "trust" in a relationship. I do not believe someone should hold back something like this. A second way to achieve this would be to join a call-up-dating service, my friend and i have had TREMENDOUS sucess with this. Whether your interest is busting or gay, you will find what you are seeking. I hope this answers your question, and if you have any ideas you could share i would appreciate that.

JM

JM is right guys!

I agree that there's nothing wrong, and everything right about sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner. My boyfriend and I have done so, and it has only made our sex life that much better! Just fortunate for both of us that we share the ballbusting interest. :)

I have a question though. What is a "call-up-dating service"? I've never heard of that.

Rebecca

[flippy]

I asked a group of girls outside a bar to kick me in the nuts once... they all said they would love to, but when they realized I was serious, only one ended up actually doing it. And she was GOOD. In the long run, I could have gotten in trouble asking for this stuff in public, but I didn't and it was awesome. went to bed with sore nuts though. lol

[maimedmuc]

My Dear Wife busts me ( she takes it easy though, she wants to use'em) she has let her sister bust me, first the sister war allowed squeezes,, the first time, I lost my voice and coulnt tell her she was doing me too hard,, I just sunk to my knees still voiceless, she loved it and then let me go,,, I talked to her , that they are just called nuts , ant to start off lighter so she can see what I can take,, then she did some punches and a few knees , she laughed so much when I crumpled to the floor, my dear wife and her sister were laughing so hard at me on the floor, then the sister ORDERD me to get up for another bust, I was really scared.
Most women , that one is intimate with dont mind slapping or squeezing balls at all and a palyful kick is always ok too. That is at least my experiance.
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[me_no_wimp]

I'm not brave enough to ask total strangers to kick me and I don't even publicly reveal it to people in my circles or they really would think I'm mad. I am 42 though, so maybe not so easy at my age.

[Castratrix's pet]

JM is right guys!

I agree that there's nothing wrong, and everything right about sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner. My boyfriend and I have done so, and it has only made our sex life that much better! Just fortunate for both of us that we share the ballbusting interest. :)Rebecca


Actually, you and your partner should be this open and sharing with each other about everything, not just sex. It has often been said, and I firmly believe, one of the primary reasons that relationships and marriages fail is because of a lack of communication between the two partners. And to keep a relationship or a marriage going the two of you have to freely and openly communicate with each other. By the way, that does not just mean talking, it also means listening as well. And you listening is just as important as you talking, after all, it is a two way street.

[Richter]

In high school I was on the wrestling team. Every wrestling team has a girl on it and I always made it my business to let her know she had no business on the mat by beating her with one hand behind my back or on my knees or dry hump her on the mat. Eventually, she would resort to crotch attack.

Since I really got into bb though, I haven't had a gf yet who wasn't up for it and my wife loves it. It's not hard to get a girl into bb. It's hard to get them to stop when it's not appropriate (at work, etc).

[Bustmyballz2000]

I haven't had the nerve to ask a woman to bust me yet but I would love to have it done. I have a clamp that squished them which I use and love but it would be alot better to have someone tightening it up for me.

[turok7870]

I agree... just tell your partner about it. Anytime mine wants attention she knows exactly what to do with her knee :-)

[zakbflat]

My partner loves to bust me and she has been doing it for years. Also, I've had really good success in strip clubs getting the occasional girl to kick or knee me. You have to feel the girl out, though... find out if she's the dominant type, or ask if she's into any martial arts. These are the girls that that seem to be the most willing to kick you. Generally, they find that they really enjoy kicking a guy in the groin, so you're practically doing them a favor! :D

[poolman2]

Hi Rebecca,

My wife busts me pretty much whenever I want it. :bananajum Our main complication is that I tend to stay up 2-3 hours later than she does. I usually work a couple of hours after the kids go to bed at 10 o'clock and she goes to sleep around 10:30. Still she'll always give me at least a basic bust. And if don't ask her to get out of bed, she can usually be counted on to work me over pretty good. If I ask her by 11 o'clock, and she hasn't dozed off yet, she'll give Dicky and the Twins a really good going over. I guess I'm pretty lucky. In fact, I've often asked myself just how I got so really lucky. :iluvu:

poolman2

[Hasta]

Good question, Rebecca. I've wondered about this myself. I've not had much of a problem. Sometimes girls won't do some things but will do others. Typically, they start with "no, I can't do that" and really get into it once they are turned on enough. :)

[cuckollie]

I know the original question was about
guys who did NOT have GFs who did this, but nevertheless, here is my story:


This has been only an occassional fantasy of mine over the years,
butI had it more when with dominant women, and sometimes when alone. My GF at the moment still lives far away, so we chat often. One time I was joking about defrosting the freezer, how some ice somehwo fell into my pants and this reminded me of something a former GF once did to me, and Aggie said "What'S that, take an icepick to your balls?" I only responded with the ubiquitous "LOL"
and she said "Well, that'S waht I would do, anyway."
From that point on it was clear that she liked the idea of hurting my balls, and it turned me on so much that I quickly admitted that it turned me on too.

Since then, she squeezes them every time we see each other.
During sex, during the day, etc. At first she was hesitant to be too hard, but as she tested it out, she has learned that she can do much more, and squeeze very hard. The last time I was there, she squeezed them for an extended period, then squeezed them again as she said goodbye, so that I drove off with very sore balls. It was really nice to feel my sore balls for an hour or so as I drove away, and be reminded of her squeezing them.


For Christmas she is (hopefully) going to kick me HARD in the nuts, but she hasn't done that yet. Can hardly wait!

[jm1803]

JM is right guys!

I agree that there's nothing wrong, and everything right about sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner. My boyfriend and I have done so, and it has only made our sex life that much better! Just fortunate for both of us that we share the ballbusting interest. :)

I have a question though. What is a "call-up-dating service"? I've never heard of that.

Rebecca

Rebecca i was informed of this service through a friend who is also a member. In my area it is called "tellemates". The services are simple, you list your sexual interests, (bdsm, gay, lesbien, looking for couples, etc), and you are given a mailbox, where i ASSURE you ppl will call. After that a meeting place is aggreed upon, such as meeting for coffee, and if you like what you see, lace up those boots, and start swinging, yayyyyy, lol.

[Busted Balz]

I've busted myself a few times and gotten the wife to squeeze me a couple times.
:cryingblu

[me_no_wimp]

Rebecca i was informed of this service through a friend who is also a member. In my area it is called "tellemates". The services are simple, you list your sexual interests, (bdsm, gay, lesbien, looking for couples, etc), and you are given a mailbox, where i ASSURE you ppl will call. After that a meeting place is aggreed upon, such as meeting for coffee, and if you like what you see, lace up those boots, and start swinging, yayyyyy, lol.

Sounds good to me. Arrange to meet up for coffee and she boots me in the balls.

[Makarov]

So far it's been a never for me, without counting a hit from a soccer ball back in high school. And self busting has no appeal to me. So it's pretty much remained a fantasy.

[ballstothewalls]

I dont know if I ever could ask a stranger. I'm to worried of some woman kicking me to hard. I have been kicked to hard before and it was a little to painful. Not so painful as to be turned away from the fetish but fearful of going to far. I like meduim kicks, which works out because my g/f likes to knock me to the floor but not to knock me to the floor for hours.

[Hasta]

Okay, so I've seen where a few guys say they haven't been busted or can't get anyone to do it. Is it something that is unique to ballbusting? Can they get girls to give them blowjobs? Show their tits? Anything? I've never had trouble getting girls to do it (I'd review here but it'd sound like bragging). Again, is it just a lack of persuasion? Is it that guys are afraid to admit their desires?

I usually tell a girl that I like something a little odd. Their curiosity usually gets the best of them and they want to know...I make them wait a little. You can guage whether they might go for it or not by their reaction to being make to wait to hear it. If they don't act like they really care much, they probably won't do it. If they are eager to hear, they most likely will do it. After I tell them what I like, I then point out that I used to think I was weird until I got the internet and saw all the weird shit people were doing (they usually see my point). Also, a lot of times they say they could never do it but if you continue to get them fired up they usually come around. The key there being that you need to get them turned on. I shared a story recently where a girl told me she absolutely could not punch my sack but she ended up squeezing my balls one at a time and she loved it. I got a text from her today saying she wants to do it again.

[the_tree]

I did read an account somewhere of a guy who was approached by a couple of teen girls who asked him to buy smokes for them. He agreed, and when he came back, he said they could have the smoked and their money back if they each kicked him in the nuts, which they did.
Now maybe that was BS, but it seems plausible enough, especially given the age of the girls.


That's actually an excellent idea, being asked to go buy booze and cigs is pretty common up in the north of england, I might give it a try next time it happens to me.