10 Things That Annoy Me About The BB Community

[Richter]

10. Not specifing when the BB is male/male.

If you're not gay, there's nothing in it for you.

9. The cross over from other fetishes.

I have nothing against the **********, pantyhose, strap-on, CFNM, asian, bicurious, beastiality, self mutiliation, or costume fetishists, but you don't want to deal with other people's fetishes, just your own.

8. Homoerotic or psuedo-transgender undertones

Yes, it's true that if you were born a girl you wouldn't have pain in your balls. Where the hell did that comment come from?

7. Troll stories

When people post one paragraph of a story and refuse to continue until people lavish praise on them for badly written smut.

6. Requests

Please send me videos to my email. Please upload them to a server I like better. Please take a picture of yourself covered in honey lifting two men by the scrotum. Like people looking for porn are intent on getting you off and not themselves.

5. Propositions to female community members.

I don't even care about the "UR R HOTZ! SEND ME PIX!" morons. I hate the graduated moron that is trying to get a female member to say something jack off worthy by saying things like "What would you do if I told you to kick me?" or annoying them in anyway with the hopes they'll post some three page description of them fulfilling your fantasies.

4. "Ballbusting porn" being used as a euphemism for "really hot porn"

Since when did the word "ballbusting" ever mean really hot? Does it mean I'm going to cum so hard I'll bust my balls or what?

3. Bad actors with no heads.

Old men and monotone disinterested women each with their heads above the frame of the camera so that no one can know their into a fetish. The professional porn stars have done a thousand other fetishes, why is this one so hard to "break" into?

2. Strange film busts.

The bizarre thigh knee that ends with the guy grabbing his groin and making an "O" face. The "boing" sound effect for a kick to the groin.

1. Weak busts.

Grabs that look like pats, squeezes that look like fondles, kicks that look like footjobs, knees that look like foreplay. I watch BB porn when the wife isn't home to give it to me or she's on the rag. Then I want just good, realistic ballbusting.

[cold8889]

One thing that annoys me is some of the delusional people that think women are superior and need to be worshipped.
I remember one guy on here talking about how only women should be doctors or whatever..
Some people are just crazy

[agent_mouse]

:weryfun....yeah, i agree on about all of the 10.

[moosh]

Number 4 there is the most annoying for me. The 1st time i searched for "ballbusting blowjobs" I was very pleased to see a lot of things that seemed to fit, then very displeased to see that it was things like "these girls give totally ballbusting blowjobs" :(

6 and 10 seem contradictory though, 10 is another form of expecting someone to care about getting you off!

[snack marvin]

I think most of the complaints are not typical for BB, but for fetish boards in general. You're right, those things are annoying, but at the same time I don't see them as a real problem. In my opinion, this board for example works quite fine.

For my part I don't like the ********** thing or the transgender topic. But I do like facesitting. So I liked the thread where facesitting and ballbusting combined were discussed.

The problem is, when splitting the small ballbusting community into several sub-boards, there won't be much life in each board. So probably it's better having a general ballbusting forum and hoping that there are enough interesting threads for oneself...?!

Regarding the professional porn stars, personally I would prefer that they won't do ballbusting at all. The porn stars act ONLY for the money and the result is a bulk of mediocre ballbusting clips. Would be better if only those, who know the thrill and like ballbusting personally, would make the movies...

[BustedBoySean1985]

How do I break into making a ballbusting clip? Does this website do videos and feature films like movies? I'm asking because I would be willing to participate in a session if I could meet some of the girls... errr... I mean women, you have to be over 18 for this sort of thing.

I am currently 22 years old and want to somehow break into this err... wha... "Thing". ;) I also know how to use and create stuff using programs like Photoshop, Illustrator, After Effects (http://www.adobe.com/products/aftereffects/index.html), Premiere, Flash, Dreamweaver, 3D Studio MAX (http://www.discreet.com/3dsmax), Maya, XSI (http://www.softimage.com), and Unreal Engine. Is there anything I could use my talents for in that space? I'm trying to find a way to combine my abilities with my love and fetish with ballbusting. Anyone here live in the Northeast Ohio area? We could do something together. What do you say?

[abused berries]

that list about sums it up.

[finally]

that list about sums it up.No.
BustedBoySean1985 sums it up:
Nobody cares about anything, but him-beautiful-self.

:bananajum

[Thumper]

:autogun Yes I do agree but my biggest gripe is old fat trolls in BB vids I am neither and find it hard to identify with those dudes. If there has to be vids with them as target centers please vid only their balls

[daradles]

Well, BustedBoySean, you could try making some cg movies involving BallBusting. Sounds like you are rained in all the programs needs to get something like that off the ground. Using CG, you could get away with things real life just doesn't allow. At least, not without permanently injuring your actors.

[flippy]

Loved this post. lots of people were thinking it, no one said anything til now

[smackMyNuts]

I don't understand complaint number 1. You complain that you think that some of the ball busting you see looks to weak, but then you say that you want it realistic. Well, as someone who makes videos, I have to say that some of the stuff which hurts the most isn't always what looks the most impressive. So, do you want stuff which looks really hard or do you want it realistic?

I also think that your third complaint just indicates that you should try some different sites. There are like twenty different places which sell BB porn. I haven't bought a lot of it, but what I have bought doesn't fit your description at all. Maybe you just need to be more selective with your purchasing.

More to the point, if you really think that the quality of BB porn is that bad, why not just make some of your own. All it requires is a camera, a girl, and some balls.

Smack

[Bok the Gargoyle]

Great post :)

I wan't to add people that just bang on and on and on about the same thing to the girls here in a "rolled up sleeves" kind of way to this list too ;)

[agnetha]

Hello,

Thank you for the list, its bound to stimulate some debate!

I had to laugh at your 6 and 5 in the list. I've lost count of the number of times I've been asked for photos of various parts of me, me with and without Amy, my bf, his balls, my shoes etc. It makes a change from other pm's asking for private correspondence or to meet, and so on.
I've been a member for a couple of years and am quite used to this now, although I am a little bit more wary of what I say when I do post.

On a broader note I would say that the forum generally runs just fine. Its inescapable that there will be a number of fantasy, repetetive and just mundane posts but underneath is a community of adults doing what they do.



Agnetha x

[Selftailer]

7. Troll stories

When people post one paragraph of a story and refuse to continue until people lavish praise on them for badly written smut.

Richter, I agree with You with almost all points you mentioned, however please consider that just a little bit of appreciation from forum's people could represent a good stimulation for members who post stories. As Agnetha said, your post will probably (and hopefully) raise a discussion which is anyway good as it will contribute to improve the general forum behaviour, but anyway, why blaming just a request of judgment? I consider it as a good reason to continue or stop. That's all. I do not want to annoy anybody not only with this kind of request but mainly with my stories, if they are not pleasant for readers.

[ballstothewalls]

I gotta say I do agree with most of your points. Number ten is dead on, nothing will ruin a good mood like seeing two dudes going at each other, it makes me want to ralph just thinking about it. As for the cross over stuff some is ok but I'd just like it to be specified as bb/asian/costume or whatever. Seeing some guy get his nuts crushed is awesome but when the girl slaps on a huge strap-on I'm looking for a knife so I can gouge my eyes out.

Number eight is hilarious, I love it when people ask those questions it make me fell like a genius. And yes I am implying that the people who ask those questions might be a little short on brain power (sorry). I dont mind the troll stories as sometimes they turn out rather well. I just dont pay attention to the requests there was a time when I might and I do mean might think about switching something over to another format or setting up a download site but those days are over now.

As for number five.... CAN SOME HOT GIRL FROM HERE PLEASE KICK ME IN THE NUTS!!! I'm just kidding obviously. But seriously any hot girls email me any time... I've never heard of the "ballbusting-really hot" euphemism before. But when I think about it it's pretty hilarious. I'm almost positive it comes from the term "bust a nut" which refers to a huge ejaculation.

As for number three I understand people want there fetishes secret but jeez put on a mask or something, and by that I mean girls put on a sexy mask and guys throw on anything who cares. Number two is pretty agreeable, no one who likes ballbusting likes the childish sound effects or comical fake stuff. Comical real stuff however is greaT. Yeah thats right it's great with a capital "T"

Weak busts are like softcore porn. Why. I understand if you're making a home video for yourself do whatever floats your boat. But if you're gonna post something post the greaT stuff. But still thanks to everyone who contributes to this forum. Even the bad stuff is a heck of a lot better than no stuff.

In case you're wondering why I went on and on about "Richter's" post. I dont really know why. I guess I just had a shared opinion. Hope you enjoyed my ramblings and Ladies I really was kidding about what I said after number five. But seriously my legs are open. Kidding

[Hasta]

Okay, maybe it is but I totally understand and will add to it. The thing that annoys me (in real life, I could give a rat's arse what people on the net think) is when someone finds out you like your balls abused and they think you want to be tied up, call someone Mistress, and need a safe word. To me, ball-busting is just part of sex...not some seperate entity/game/show.

[Paddy]

Well said Hasta. I also don't like the requirement for FemDom with ballbusting. I'm very dominant in my relationships with women but I still like to have my nuts busted. It often seems that the two aren't allowed to fit together in this community.

Paddy

[Richter]

Just want to give a :thumbup to tothewalls' post, which was really cool. (I think you're right about "bust a nut" evolving to "ballbusting")

A few people echoed Hasta's opinion and I'm going to throw my hat in to. I like to be dominated sometimes, but it's a totally separate thing. Sometimes I dominate her. To equate ballbusting with the rest of bondage/domination stuff is understandable, but not always true.


btw, I love this board. I kept thinking that while typing the list. If I was going to list my favorite thing about the BB community, this board would be #2, right after "Video sharing." :)

[agnetha]

Hello,

and this is proving to be a very interesting thread so to add to the posts so far...

I'm not sure what I'd say if my bf called me mistress, its a word with so much baggage. I've been called mistress Agnetha on here, and thats fine, it doesn't affect me in my real life. I also agree that female domination doesn't necessarily mean bb, or a submissive guy.

I believe that bb is consentual. However, during some sessions its quite clear that he can't take as much as during others so a safe word is a good idea (for us).

Stories take a time to compose, there may be an emotional involvement and some darker memories too (well for some of mine, especially the early ones), so asking if people are interested for you to continue is a good idea. If its going nowhere then best stop. I can understand this too if authors need a mental pause.
I see creating a story, either from fantasy or a previous experience as a much more giving, personal and involving activity than perhaps posting a picture or two and inviting comments.

On a broader note I find the variety of posts generally interesting and I'm glad to be part of the forum.

Its late so goodnight,

Agnetha xx

[poolman2]

This is a good thread. I hope the film makers read it.

I agree with most of the posts above.

I would add the further complaint about unbelievable scenes where the woman is supposedly busting balls, but she obviously misses them or barely touches them and the man still acts as if he has received a devastatingly hard bust to the balls. The fakery is a total turnoff.

I'm not bothered by the occasional miss where the guy could believably be faked out. It's the consistently missed or light busts that just don't hurt much if at all. The exageration is flagrant and incredible.

poolman2

[Tamakeri]

...I would add the further complaint about unbelievable scenes where the woman is supposedly busting balls, but she obviously misses them or barely touches them and the man still acts as if he has received a devastatingly hard bust to the balls.
...
It's the consistently missed or light busts that just don't hurt much if at all. The exageration is flagrant and incredible.
poolman2

No doubt there are many cases of fakery and exaggeration. The only thing I would caution you on here is that in the cases where there is contact but it appears to be light, you really have no idea what the other guy is feeling. Assuming everybody feels the same thing that you feel is a mistake. Different guys DO have different thresholds of pain and of tolerance for pain (yes- those two are different). Also they may be coming off a previous video where they were totally smashed by steel-toed boots (for example) and be already quite bruised and battered where even a light touch is excruciating. Our website (Cali Mean Girls) uses about 6 different guys and the tolerance differences among them are amazing.

[Richter]

agnetha, what's your safe word? We decide it had to be something totally impossible to come up during naughtiness. Like "PANCAKES!"



Of course now I keep wanting to yell "You're squishing them flat as pancakes!" Just to mess with her.

[xrahvinx]

I would say my biggest complaint would be the you tube commenters.

I donno how many times you guys have seen like a playful but hard bust on youtube get taken down, but I am willing to bet sometimes its because the users see the
"wow I wish that girl would kick me make more videos of her kicking balls please"
and
"great video make more, try to put in more knees and kicks next time"

I dont know why that bothers me but it really does haha

Another thing thats bothered me lately is a lot of lost content. I've been pretty into the BB Community since I was like 12 (is that weird?) and I am 22 now, and I feel like when I didn't have a credit card I missed out on a lot of the best stuff. Mostly thinking of Knackers on that one

Thats all I can think of for now

[CBTFanAR]

Well said Hasta. I also don't like the requirement for FemDom with ballbusting. I'm very dominant in my relationships with women but I still like to have my nuts busted. It often seems that the two aren't allowed to fit together in this community.

Paddy


This seems to be a common problem in BDSM in general that one can't be both dominant AND masochistic unless you are a switch. It's the fallacy of sweeping generalization (from formalized logic) that dominant (enjoying power and being in control) automatically equals sadistic (enjoying the infliction of pain on another) while submissive (enjoying being controlled or subserviant to another's whims) means masochistic. Please, no one take my inclusion of definitions as insulting... it's a habit from philosophical debates in college.

I'm in a similar situation with you on this one. I'm not submissive to my gf in any way, although I am not strictly "dominant" either... we work very much as equals as much as possible... however, when it comes to sexplay, we are both fortunate in that our individual tastes mesh well. I enjoy receiving pain and she enjoys dealing it and watching my reactions; but there is never any outright degradation/humiliation involved.

[poolman2]

I have a couple of other gripes/turnoffs:

1. The use of fetishistic, kinky, or bizarre clothing and gear: I dislike seeing women dressed in PVC or leather clothing. Normal dresses, skirts, shorts, bathing suits complement the women's appearance. Bizarre clothing detracts from the errotic atmosphere. I also don't like canes and whips. They're just too abnormal.

2. Sexually ambiguous ballbusters. I'm just not into M/m or trannies. I want the busters to be clearly and definitively female. I've investigated a few ambiguous ones, and they turned out to be male. :machine: That's a big turnoff. I'm just not interested in the sexually unclear busters.

poolman2

[poolman2]

Tamakeri,

You have noted that seeming overreactions to light or missed ballbusts might be due to extenuating circumstances. That is absolutely true. However, if the film maker has not somehow revealed those circumstances to the audience, then he has lessened the credibility and appeal of his film product.

The main reason I prefer to see the male genitalia naked, is that the force, nature, and accuracy of the impact are apparent. Nakedness also discloses the condition of the genitals including bruising, cuts, and scrapes. That shows the preexisting injuries that would account for unusual sensitivity. It can also reveal real time injuries which validate the reactions which would otherwise be concealed by clothing.

I, and every other member of the audience, are judging the realism and credibility of the ballbusts and the man's reactions to them by our own frame of reference including our own pain thresholds. But that is all that is available to the audience of non-experts. We're mostly not physicians or pornographers. We have to make our own assessments of ballbusting just as we do in every other aspect of life based on our own personal apperceptions, responses, and standards. If the film maker is good enough, he will make believable ballbusting films where the audience identifies with the ballbusted character and is thereby satisfied. The plot is not that important. The film maker will then receive the appropriate financial reward. If the film maker (of course including the actors) is too unrealistic, then he will dissatisfy the audience and suffer the resultant financial penalty.

FWIW, I think you make good, pics. I also like the films of our host, Femaledom.com: the blows may be light and the targets clothed, but the girls are so gorgeous I love them anyway. :)

poolman2

[snack marvin]

After all, Richter, you are right: This whole ********** stuff is annoying. It has nothing to do with ballbusting and is clearly off topic in this forum.

[moosh]

Seeing some guy get his nuts crushed is awesome but when the girl slaps on a huge strap-on I'm looking for a knife so I can gouge my eyes out.

Yeah, that sucks...

Big turn off for me in videos is when the girl spits into the guys mouth - I can almost feel it in my own! :machine:

[misterbill71]

The thing that annoys me is when someone finds out you like your balls abused and they think you want to be tied up, call someone Mistress, and need a safe word. To me, ball-busting is just part of sex...not some seperate entity/game/show.

That brings up two concepts. First, I just had to pipe up and comment on that association between BB and dom/sub... Simple straight masochism doesn't necessarily require a leather/vinyl outfit and whips/chains and all the holiday trimmings for the turkey. Sometimes, it's just good old-fashioned playful vanilla masochism.

Secondly, the word game show. I knew this girl named Nikki (Prince lyric, "Darling Nykki",seriously, look it up, 1984 purple rain cassette, yeah cassette!)... I knew this girl named Nikki (northern ohio, too far away for most of you horndogs) and Nikki had this idea about saying to a man: "You're the weakest link." while cutting a man. I thought that was funny.

[me_no_wimp]

10. Not specifing when the BB is male/male.
When you say "not specifying" I assume you mean when they ask you do download a video which is going to use a lot of bandwidth and they just give a comment like "great ballbusting video.." or such. Yes, I also ask for more detail but that is possibly because of your next subject...


9. The cross over from other fetishes.

But for me it is the fact that you come to almost every site and they list as separate categories "ballbusting", "trampling", "shoe fetish" and then even shoe fetish is sometimes split into different ones, and nothing that actually describes what my fetish is, which means that I have to search around in these areas for the bits that what I actually want overlaps.

Actually I find that "trampling" fetish fans are usually fairly open to kicks and busts as well as actually tread-on trampling but "ballbusting" fans don't generally enjoy action that doesn't involve the balls. Maybe why I have had more positive responses to my videos on another site which is more trample-fetish based.


5. Propositions to female community members.

For many men though they just want to know how to get themselves busted. And if they come across a woman who claims to actually enjoy doing it, it is natural to ask them "would you do it to me"? For many, busting is a "sexual" act and to bust many people would feel like sleeping around, but not everyone thinks that way. Many people may have a sexual relationship with one person in an exclusive relationship but would not extend that exclusivity to ballbusting.


3. Bad actors with no heads.

Old men and monotone disinterested women each with their heads above the frame of the camera so that no one can know their into a fetish. The professional porn stars have done a thousand other fetishes, why is this one so hard to "break" into?

Maybe because if they are going to post it for free on the internet they don't necessarily want to let everyone in the world who knows them to see what they do. But they are happy to share it with you in the forums. Now if these are pay videos you can decide which ones you want to pay for and which you would not spend your money on, nobody ****** you to buy anything. As for free ones, well really you have no case.


1. Weak busts.

Grabs that look like pats, squeezes that look like fondles, kicks that look like footjobs, knees that look like foreplay. I watch BB porn when the wife isn't home to give it to me or she's on the rag. Then I want just good, realistic ballbusting.

You might be surprised, the hardest kicks are not always the ones that hurt the most, sometimes the little prod that hits the target perfectly is the really painful one, the big "thwack" will often hit more leg muscle, and even if the balls do get hit, the leg muscle may well have taken a lot of the impact out of the blow.

I think it is also a defensive thing. Your reflexes are more likely to defend yourself against the big thwack, whereas for the little prod, you can sometimes leave yourself open because you don't realise how much it is going to hurt you until it is too late.