Is it the pain or the humiliation?

[Rebecca]

Okay boys! I have a question for you!

What exactly is it you enjoy about a girl kicking you in the nuts? Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect; being brought down by a woman who is probably physically weaker than you, and doing it by attacking that which signifies your male-ness?

If it is more the later which I suspect, do you like additional humiliation along with the kicking/kneeing etc?

Rebecca

[Richter]

Nope, it's all pain for me.

[atteone76]

It is mainly the humiliation to me... Also when a girls threatens me with hurting (or worse removing) my dick. Knowing that our most intimate parts are so exposed and vulnerable. Knowing that she knows that - and takes advantage of it.

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[nutslave]

for me it's a combination of few things ... personally i do enjoy the pain a bit, a bit of humiliation like when a girl starts gigglig/laughing or making comments like ohh is that where it hurts or she'll grab her own crotch and pretend that she's in pain and then giggle about it, but i also enjoy the power exchange. Having a girl squeeze my balls pretty hard and having her tell me to keep my hands away or having my hands tied up behind my back so that i can't grab my balls when they are in agony is very hot.

[needbud77]

its both but its WAY more humiliation than pain

[nutslave]

Rebecca what is it about ballbusting that does it for you? Why do you enjoy it?

[Castratrix's pet]

For me the most important aspect is neither the pain or the humiliation. For me it is that the woman is in complete and total control.

I'm not into ballbusting at all. Kneeing and kicking even turn me off. Femdom ball grabbing and squeezing holds some appeal for me. My fantasies are of femdom surgical **********.

I think this question of pain or humiliation is relevent to both femdom ballbusting and to femdom surgical **********.

For me, the humiliation and pain are a part of it. Being ********* from a male into a sterile impotent eunuch, being turned from a male into a thing at the hands of a woman would involve humiliation. Also surgical ********** performed without anesthesia would be extremely painful.

But what really does it for me is that it puts the woman in complete and total control. It puts me completely in her hands and completely at her mercy. For me it's a female power/male weakness, female dominance/male submission thing. It puts the woman in the position of being God Herself over me. Whether it is ballbusting, or femdom surgical **********, or whatever aspect of femdom it is, what does it for me is that it puts the woman in complete and total control over me as if she is God Herself.

[Castratrix's pet]

Rebecca what is it about ballbusting that does it for you? Why do you enjoy it?

That is an interesting question Rebecca. That's the kind of insights I have been trying to get from women about femdom surgical **********. I understand you are more into femdom ballbusting than you are into performing ********** surgery on a man. But when you are doing whatever to a man, which does it for you, the pain you inflict on the man, or humiliating him by doing it to him? Also, are you turned on at all by the power and control that you as a woman have over the man you are busting or doing something to?

Why do you enjoy ballbusting a man or any other aspect of female domination?

[Richter]

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"I'm not into ballbusting at all"

YOU'RE ON A BALLBUSTING FORUM! GO TO A ********** FORUM!


Sorry. I know it's bad etiquette, but I really felt the need.

[hallo26nl]

For me it must be the humiliation. I really get turned on by the idea of a
big strong man put in his place by a swift kick between his legs by a woman.

[Zaphod]

Thought I'd make a rare appearance and post. Hi Rebecca, welcome to the site :)

For me, definitely humilation than pain...I very much doubt I'd get anything out of, say, just being racked in the street...it doesn't have any form of sexual build-up, which all of my busting experiences have been. Essentially, whilst the humiliation is good at the time, it can feel a bit odd thinking about it afterwards (espcially with a partner); the pain provides a more lingering memory with fewer thoughts other than the usual "Oooowwww"...There's also the reaction of the girl following the bust, which is usually the best thing about it for me. Anybody else noticed the face that most women seem to adopt after doing something painful to the boys? The sort of mocking pout, "Oooh poor baby, does it hurt? I wouldn't know 'cause I haven't got them, so you can't do that back to me, hee hee" expression. Or have I lost everyone there?

Zaphod

[me_no_wimp]

I have a major fetish for the shoes or boots. The fact that they are being rammed into me in order to cause me pain is just the most erotic thing ever.

For me though ballbusting is just one of the things I enjoy, but it has to be done by kicking with shoes or boots that I like. I also like being kicked in the body and shins and being trodden on and generally any action whereby the woman digs her shoes into me.

[clack013]

Prob a mixture of both and some other factors too. I think part of it is that society labels kicking someone in the balls as taboo and it's the thing that everyone knows about and is curious about (like will a kick in the balls randomly some day really put a guy down) but does not openly discuss. I know girls are curious if it really hurts as bad as they say because they try to kick boys in the balls at a young age.

For me I have 2 sisters and it would always be akward when the topic of groin shots came up around them. Like they went to a self defense class one time then came back and told me how they learned to hit men in the testicles. Of course in front of them I don't like to admit it and I'm like u know that doesn't really work.

It's kind of misunderstood by women as well because they think if anything comes near your balls you are in an incredible amount of pain and society puts this idea that men must fall to the ground holding their balls if anything came close when in reality u can cause a lot of pain but u must be accurate.

The last part is seeing the female groin that I am obviously attracted to and looking at how they can wear panties right up against them and their pants go all the way up and the difference is we have balls there.

The other part is how girls are taught to be so careful around balls. Like I had a girlfriend who would tell me to wear a cup whenever I played sports and stuff, it seems like many videos miss this, part of the fantasy is to get a girl to kick u in the balls but have her be innocent and be like won't that hurt u and stuff and then laugh as a reaction when u go down cuz she can't help it.

[poolman2]

For me ballbusting has a mixture of several appeals:

1. I have a strong attraction for women's feet. The sight, smell, taste, and feel of a woman's foot is almost overwhelmingly errotic to me. The sight of her legs and feet in pointy, svelte high heels can be very errotic. But having her barefoot or even in hose is usually the best. So kicks and stomps are much preferred over any other way of ballbusting.

2. Humiliation and submission: It is highly errotic to be subservient to a woman and be under her feet.

3. Pain: It's factor, but a lessor one. Indeed, when I'm horny enough, her kicks/stomps even though they may be moderate to medium hard register as instant pleasure if I'm pshyched up sufficiently, and that is definitely a strong attraction. But if it's pure pain, it's not as good.

Rebecca, this is a good question, but it's hard to answer. :bananawin

poolman2

[snack marvin]

For me most times it has the character of personal revenge. Busting balls means at first humiliation, but humiliation through pain. Intense pain or threat, in consequence losing control and the humiliation of surrender.
She supports this through her evil laughter and some words aiming at defeat.

Once I read in a newspaper, that in Turkey female police officers are using ballsqueezing techniques for breaking the prisoner (of course legally it's torture). Regarding the devaluation of women in islamic countries it has proven to be very humiliating and effective. It destroys completely the self esteem and feeling of superiority of the male prisoner and he feels his complete helplessness.
So his ability to resist diminishes and he opens up for some offers by the interrogation officers, if he cooperates – the well known "good guy/bad girl" phenomenon... :D

[Busted Balz]

The pain is good in measured amounts, especially at the moment of ecstasy. There is also the attention that is given to the testicles. I mean let’s face it most women don’t even want to touch a man there much less squeeze or strike them. I also enjoy the fact that a woman is expressing herself in a way that “traditionally” isn’t considered the norm. I enjoy pushing the boundaries of what is considered normal by mainstream society. Humiliation can play a part but isn’t something I need from BB. One should keep in mind that the “submissive” partner is the one reaping the benefits of all the attention if that is what he or she seeks. For me it is a combination of things.
:bananajum :bananad:

[Rebecca]

Rebecca what is it about ballbusting that does it for you? Why do you enjoy it?

Well, there are a couple things that I like about it.

First, I like the power dynamic of it. I am about average height, and average build. Pretty in shape, but am not nearly as strong as the average guy. With not too much effort, I can bring a man to his knees (literally) with one hard, well placed kick. If I so desired, I could destroy one of THE things that make him male.

I also enjoy the humiliation aspects of it. This is closely tied to the above power dynamic. To make a male helpless at my feet, totally at the mercy of my whims. Do I stop, or do I keep kicking him? It's up to me!

An extreme example of the aforementioned qualities also explains my (growing) interest in ********** and (more so) removal of the dick. But I suppose that's for another thread.

Rebecca

[Chaboy]

i agree with busted balz.....a lot of the reason i love this fetish is because of the attention shown by a beautiful women towards my testicles and it is so much better when she has violent intentions towards them

[Castratrix's pet]

Well, there are a couple things that I like about it.

First, I like the power dynamic of it. I am about average height, and average build. Pretty in shape, but am not nearly as strong as the average guy. With not too much effort, I can bring a man to his knees (literally) with one hard, well placed kick. If I so desired, I could destroy one of THE things that make him male.

I also enjoy the humiliation aspects of it. This is closely tied to the above power dynamic. To make a male helpless at my feet, totally at the mercy of my whims. Do I stop, or do I keep kicking him? It's up to me![QUOTE]

So then the power aspect of it is a major and important aspect for you. As I said, that's the most important aspect to me, being completely under the power and control of a woman and being completely at her mercy, especially if she was completely unmerciful.


[QUOTE=Rebecca]An extreme example of the aforementioned qualities also explains my (growing) interest in ********** and (more so) removal of the dick. But I suppose that's for another thread.

Rebecca

Which would be more of a power trip or more arousing or whatever to you, taking or destroying a man's testicles, or removing his penis? Just removing his penis leaves him able to feel full sexual arousal but be unable to do anything with or about that arousal, which some feel would be very frustrating for him. Or removing or destroying his testicles which destroys his manhood turning him from a man into a eunuch? From what I've read, ********** has some very dramatic and drastic effects on a man both physically and psychologically. Which gives you more of a feeling of power, cutting out or destroying the testicles, removing the penis, or perhaps removing or destorying all three?

[chasityx]

Nice question. :)

For me it's definitely NOT the pain itself. For me the pain is more an aspect, that makes me (physically) realize that it's true and that it's truely frightening.
I'm also not into ballbusting and pain in my balls doesn't do anything for me, but my cock..., thinks different. :D

What get's me on is the fear, the prospect, of beeing emaculated by a woman, that she just takes my cock away and not by "charm" but by slicing all through it with a sharp knife (or anything ;) )
Not even "because she is weaker" than me. More because she knows that she IS what I want, but enjoys the feeling, that I won't ever again GET what I want.
I guess that is on the side of "the humiliation". :)

[Hasta]

Rebecca, excellent question again. Personally, I like the pain...I'm not really into any humiliation. However, the attitude of the girl makes all the difference. I love it when a girl didn't know she would like it. Also, if they make a face, like biting their lip, it is the best!!

[finally]

But then again, I can't stand women acting like silly dominas in stupid porn movies (sorry my profanity, it's just the way I feel :)). Calling me "slave" is definitely a turn off. :D
It's the cruelty, the cold or hot recklessness towards my ...(I have to look up the words) ...physical - my sexual - inviolability.
That may then include the recklessness towards the pain it gives me.

But in general I rather phanatsize about realizing what she is about do do AND seeing it happen inescapably. I like to imagine that I'd have to watch her doing it; also that I'd have to watch her mocking me afterwards (that is a great turn on)!
But without painkillers one would probably notice nothing more but pain.
So to me it's the "humiliation", I guess.

:bananajum

[exstudent]

I just love the attention to my balls. :Baahaha:

[abadox]

Not the pain, and really, not even the humiliation-- at least, when I've had it done by girls, I didn't think it was humiliating.

Its definitely a power aspect... I am bigger and stronger than most women, but as one gal told me... when she's got me by the balls, she has my life in her hands :)

[Girthtron]

[quote=Rebecca;36918]Well, there are a couple things that I like about it.

First, I like the power dynamic of it. I am about average height, and average build. Pretty in shape, but am not nearly as strong as the average guy. With not too much effort, I can bring a man to his knees (literally) with one hard, well placed kick. If I so desired, I could destroy one of THE things that make him male.

I also enjoy the humiliation aspects of it. This is closely tied to the above power dynamic. To make a male helpless at my feet, totally at the mercy of my whims. Do I stop, or do I keep kicking him? It's up to me!

An extreme example of the aforementioned qualities also explains my (growing) interest in ********** and (more so) removal of the dick. But I suppose that's for another thread.



I think Rebecca is right about the power dynamics of it all! It's an exchange of power between a male and female when she takes him by the balls. He knows it, and she knows it. There's no bull shit between either sexes as to who's in control of the other when a women holds a male by his balls!

I'm a big man with a big set of balls Rebecca but I'd be putty in your hands girl!

P.S.

Rebecca it's so refreshing to have your point of view as a women, a women who comprehends and understands the inter physiolocical workings of the male. I think your a very intalligent Women : ) xxx

[stewart999us]

It's definitely the humiliation for me. I've never had a particular enjoyment of pain, and I suppose I generally try to avoid it, though it's funny that many of the things that turn me on involve pain.

Every since I was young, I've enjoyed being controlled and dominated by women. Well, when I was really young I guess I was being dominated by girls. Looking back, I see that I've always had a submissive streak.

It's the power a woman has to say through a simple kick: "You're a man, and this is the center of your power? The thing you think with, the thing you glorify, well, this is what I think of that. Now who's the most powerful, dominant force in the world?"

I generally like to think that as a man, I'm at the top of the higherarchy of life, at the top of the food chain, I'm part of the group of people who control the destiny of the planet. To have a woman take me down a notch, to put me in my place so effortlessly, and by using my perceived center of power against me, is both humbling and erotic.

This would probably be categorized as a humiliating experience, but I think that it is far more of a positive experience than the term humiliation would describe.

There are few things sexier than seeing a woman's true power and ability to dominate men demonstrated through an act so simple.

I have also greatly enjoyed other activities and fantasized about other activities that show this female power. I've enjoyed trampling in the past and look forward to finding a woman who will let me kiss and lick her feet, preferably after she's kicked me with them.

[TVEE]

well ... Itz da humiliation for me .....! :)

[cuckollie]

Hi Rebecca and all,

good question, it is both the pain and the humiliation, but more the humiliation.

I am naturally quite submissive (well, only to women I am attracted, to, actually, otherwise no), and I fantasise about being under the control of a woman. So my balls are the perfect mechanism-- vulnerable, sensitive, and of course, sexual and erotically charged. The pain, if not overwhelming, is nice. It really makes me focus on that part of my body, again, a sexual part. A hard, painful kick or squeeze also makes it clear that she is in control, she can make or break me as she wishes, and it makes it clear that she is focused on the sexual aspect of me. The pain helps me remember this, as it lasts long after the event itself is over.

As for the humiliation, well, they are all rolled up into one, really-- getting kicked in the balls and reduced to a helpless ball of pity makes it clear that I, the male, have been defeated by the superior female. (And I LOVE it!) This defeat at her hands shows that she can do whatever she wants to me, I am at her mercy. So the humiliation really puts mein my place, which feels nice. Heavenly, in fact.

[cuckollie]

PS:

also, Rebecca mentioned her growing interest in taking off a man's balls or cock. My GF and I also really get off on this. Not in practice, of course, but the idea. Again, it is just that i am totally at her mercy, under her complete control, and she can do anythign she likes to me, including taking away my masculinity. A nice idea, but of course she would never really do it, because she lives to get fucked.

[Rebecca]

a women who comprehends and understands the inter physiolocical workings of the male. I think your a very intalligent Women : ) xxx

It's not hard to figure boys out!

Yes. I am a very intelligent woman. :)

Seriously, thank you!

There are more women/girls into this then I think you guys realise.

Rebecca

[bort2001]

i don't know if i'd call it either. There's just something about a woman crushing a man's ball's permanently after he tries to **** her that is incredibly sexy.

[finally]

It's not hard to figure boys out!

Smartie. Of course it isn't: Boys talk because they want to be figured out. :bananawin


There are more women/girls into this then I think you guys realise.Don't know what you think, I think I'm too bad with my own rating.
:)

[bbbb]

I enjoy both (pain & humiliation) on similar levels.

The pain is just... awesome - but the humiliation, the knowledge that I can never do to her what she has done to me just blows me away.

I recall being into b/b since i was a very, very young child. God knows I got into it, per se, but I've enjoyed being humbled by a woman via her manipulation of what makes me a man. When I was in school a girl threatened to cut use a fork on my cock and I couldnt' get her words out of my head for eons and the ... feelings I had to go with that were quite distracting. When I grew older, I'd hang around girls I knew were most likely into busting (though I didn't have a name for it back then).. I just knew if I wound them up somehow, they'd floor me :D

My first 'real' g/f was a ballbuster - I'd known for her years and from about 12 upwards she'd been bashing my nads on & off. We both knew we both enjoyed it - but neither said as much directly.

The first sexual encounter I had with her, she offered to kick me in the balls claiming she'd 'heard' some guys liked it. I (stupidly) declined (still pretending I wasn't into it). If I pissed her off, she'd get them good.

We split though because she took it too far - she'd hit me in front of friends & family... which is just not on.

Since then, I've converted my wife into doing this - including the tying down to a bed, facesitting and all that good stuff. It's definately a pain issue for me - but the 'private' humiliation is just as good and most certainly adds to the general pleasure.

Sadly, now I'm divorced - even if I messing around wind her up - she still won't give me a kicking :(

[zemane25]

Wow!!
This is very good

[caratball]

I like both sensations: pain and humiliation. I love when the woman laughs after kick and squeze my balls.

Kisses for you, Rebecca!!!

[Cosmic Boy]

The pain is probably a part of it, but I guess it's mostly humiliation. Stuff like ****** nudity and mockery of my manly bits I find to be a bit arrousing, as well.

[Androcles]

I "like" both the pain and the humiliation, but I agree that humiliation is much more significant. Much more (for me). Verbal abuse is the best additional humiliation. Making fun of the pain and weakness, etc is good. I don't care about trampling, facesitting or other stuff. In fact, I dislike it.

[hosuyo]

For me is the humilliation. Pain is a part of it, but isn't what I look for.
I also like when I am joked about it or when watching a movie with a girl she starts laughing (almost always do it) when a ballbusting scene appears.

[maimedmuc]

I like the humilation and the helplessnes of having my balls at her mercy.
Her mercy can be a squeeze until I cant even breath, or education, what I have to do , or she drops me to the floor and laughs and says get up,,
My dear Wife treats my( HER) balls better, but her sister is really gruel.

[Castratrix's pet]

Ballbusting is a form of female domination. Whatever the femdom act or fantasy may be, no matter what it is, I still feel it is about power. It's about female power and male weakness, female domination and male submission. The pain and humiliation are things through which the female power and male weakness, the female domination and male submission are worked. But I still think it is really about female power and male weakness, female domination and male submission.

[try]

I also like when I am joked about it or when watching a movie with a girl she starts laughing (almost always do it) when a ballbusting scene appears.

Or in a crowded cinema and the film has a girl busting a guy. Most women in the audience laugh, and some, with big smiles on their faces, say stuff like "Nice one!" or "Right in the nuts!".

[reginauld]

Okay boys! I have a question for you!

What exactly is it you enjoy about a girl kicking you in the nuts? Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect; being brought down by a woman who is probably physically weaker than you, and doing it by attacking that which signifies your male-ness?

If it is more the later which I suspect, do you like additional humiliation along with the kicking/kneeing etc?

Rebecca
It's more about the feeling for me. I'm not a big fan of the humiliation.

[Mike2B]

I might be a little different in that it is all about sex for me. If there is even a hint of anger in the woman's attitude it turns me off. To that end I only like it with someone that I could end up sleeping with and she has to at least appear to enjoy the "game"

Having said that it is a combination, as others have said, that is the appeal. The power trip is a big part of it and for sure it is the main appeal for most women that get into this. The idea that a much smaller and weaker woman can so easily disable a man with so little effort is exciting. And it is an action that the woman can so easily do to a man but he can not do it back. I think you see that attitude in a lot in women. If a man and woman are play fighting and she hit him in the face that is hardly exciting or funny for most women. But let her catch the man in the testicles and the resulting reaction is enough to cause most women to at least smile knowingly. It is that little smile, or giggle that gets me going. And finally when I am very aroused the pain adds to the excitement as long as it is not too heavy.

[agent_mouse]

However, the attitude of the girl makes all the difference. I love it when a girl didn't know she would like it. Also, if they make a face, like biting their lip, it is the best!!

i sooo agree! :wooow

[martin87-]

Definitely the humiliation. When she grabs your balls and looks into your eyes with cute but malicious smile. Then she starts giggling and teasing you. I have been kicked in the balls by girls but at the moment you can only feel the pain and pain is no good. When you think about it later you think about the humiliation not the pain. And that when it gets sexy.

[eunice]

For me it must be the humiliation. I really get turned on by the idea of a
big strong man put in his place by a swift kick between his legs by a woman.

Yes, for me too. This is it exactly. Although I wouldn't mind having my balls kicked by a big, strong woman, the thing that most excites me is to be dominated by a small woman, who knows that she is my superior just simply because she is a woman and I am a man.

[ballpn]

Great question Rebecca!!! For me iy is both the pain and humiliation. I absolutely love when a woman laughs when a guy gets kicked in the nuts

[jeenie123]

For me, one point is the envy factor. Knowing that the girl cannot possibly feel the agony of testicle pain, so her sex is superior, no silly balls to get kicked, just a lovely smooth little slit. I also think humiliation is a point, particularly if she is able to describe the pain she's about to give you. And all because you have testicles, she doesn;'t and she's taking advantage of that fact.

[Magnum]

Well, there are a couple things that I like about it.

First, I like the power dynamic of it. I am about average height, and average build. Pretty in shape, but am not nearly as strong as the average guy. With not too much effort, I can bring a man to his knees (literally) with one hard, well placed kick. If I so desired, I could destroy one of THE things that make him male.

I also enjoy the humiliation aspects of it. This is closely tied to the above power dynamic. To make a male helpless at my feet, totally at the mercy of my whims. Do I stop, or do I keep kicking him? It's up to me!

An extreme example of the aforementioned qualities also explains my (growing) interest in ********** and (more so) removal of the dick. But I suppose that's for another thread.

Rebecca

This about sums it up for me.:D

[blkpatent]

I have a major fetish for the shoes or boots. The fact that they are being rammed into me in order to cause me pain is just the most erotic thing ever.

For me though ballbusting is just one of the things I enjoy, but it has to be done by kicking with shoes or boots that I like.I agree with this. It's a foot fetish and I just enjoy the shoes on or near my package.

[Dereknor]

I like the humiliation. The pain is important to make it humiliate, but its not the thing that I like. Actually I really hate pain ;)

But I like most is that its some kind of "usuall" domination. Its no whip, no bounds, its something every women can do to every men. I like it when a woman do it, just cause she can do it. Without caring about the pain the male has. the point is, that she just take the right to do it without feeling guilty, that she feel that its right to do it and she has the previleg to do it to a man.

I have never been kicked in the balls, and I would absolutly hate it. But thats what I like about it, that man hate it but women just do it. When the male want it or like it, its no thrill to me. Then its the male who gets what he want. I think I would get really hot when a woman would just kick me in the balls, but not right then, but maybe 2 days later, when I remember it ;)

Its this "I am a woman and you are JUST a man" thing, and a kick into the balls is the absolute visualisation of that philosophy, the highest act of supremacy. Its like kicking not just the balls, but the maleness itself, cause balls are the symbol of manhood. No, of cause ********** is the highest act of supremacy, but thats just for the fantasy-world ;)

But a girl that just thinks about ******** or half-******** a man, is really what makes me hot. She is not doing it, but she would consider to do it.

Its about the female side of it thats hot, what she feels and things, not the male part for me. The male is pretty much just a supernumerary (hope thats the right word).

Dereknor

[hjchamp32]

I agree with most of the guys on here - it is the idea of a girl knowing and even better LIKING to kick you in the nuts. But of course you have to cop some to have the real feeling :), so the pain has to be there, its a necessary part but not the real attraction for me.

[iron horse]

For me it is a combination of both, but must include his being nude too. It goes something like this:

1. He desires her, but will never get her, so...
2. She ****** him to strip (or strips him) completely naked so she can view his penis and balls and mock them if she so likes, but he is denied viewing her in any similar way, then...
3. She takes advantage of his naked vulnerability by delivering surprisingly hard swift kicks into his balls dropping him in pain
4. She then looks at him laying there naked holding his balls moaning and laughs with delight about her successful emasculation of him and dominating him knowing she has used a man's balls for her own means to make him out to be quite the fool.

All the elements of female dominating a man, female emasculation and utter humiliation of him. I find such scenarios thoroughly enjoyable and erotic, and femaledom.com does this better than any site. :thumbup

[johnny_cockNballs]

Is it pain or humiliation? I love this question.

It is both, but more the humiliation (and joy) of being defeated by a woman. The woman standing proud in her superiority, after she has ballbust the male, a winning smile on her face is so erotic.

In my mind, Femdom starts with the ballbusting. To me ballbusting is a demonstration of feminine power, and women’s superiority. There is so much banter and myth of male supremacy, but any woman can bring a man down with her critical tongue, or a ballbust. Even proud Hercules can be defeated by a kick to his balls by a small schoolgirl. The truth is, male is the weaker sex, and his “proud” penis and balls are the foundation of male inferiority.

I grew up mostly in the company of females, so I have always looked up to them as smarter and wiser, and I believe in their natural superiority. I will confess a submissive mindset to the females I know (family or work), but I’m not a weak person. Should anyone critisize or attack the women I know, I will defend them quickly. I don’t like to see women getting hurt, so I’ll fight for them.

I think my fetish for the ballbust or ********** fetish come from being raised mostly by women. This is not a criticism of women. I have always viewed women as more powerful than the male, and submitting to that power is very satisfying to me. To serve and obey the women I know gives me alot of pride.

I have the ********** fetish from my admiration of feminine power. I love the shape and look of the female body/form. I love how it looks so smooth and clean between a woman’s legs, especially when she is wearing a bikini or panties. I think nowdays it is called “Venus Envy” (envy of women). I have Venus Envy. I envy the smooth look between their legs, it is so impressive in my mind. No stupid penis or fragile balls flopping about when moving. Just “smooth and clean.”

In my ********** fantasy, I lay naked on a table in the middle of a room. I am not tied or strapped down to the table. I am there willingly. Around the table are females of all ages, from young to old, all beautiful females. They are present to see my emasculation/**********. There is a very beautiful woman standing before me. She is very polite and kind to me, and parts my legs and stands between them. Calmly speaking to me, she explains that I have a strong Venus Envy and she will help me. She examines my cock n balls, pursing her lips she says, “these must go, no good.” I tremble and shake, not with fear but excitement. I say “Can you cure me? Only a woman can save me.” She leans over and whispers in my ear, “Yes. Soon you’ll be closer to us, and just like a woman.” (In my fantasy this means smooth and clean between my legs. I think the most purest form of human love is, woman to woman.)

All the women present are excited and cheering, not cheering for me. They are praising the woman that is going to ******** me now. She is the hero. Standing between my legs, the woman emasculating me wraps her thumb and forefinger aroung my penis and testicles, pulling them away from my body. This causes my ass to raise above the table. I feel the sharp blade of her knife against the side of my male genitals, and she aks me "Are you ready?" "Yes!" I nod quickly. In a swift experienced upward motion of her hand (she has done this many times before), the sharp steel blade forever separates the male parts from my body. Slowly my ass falls back on the table, and a sense of freedom awakens in me. There is no pain or blood, remember this is a fantasy.

I am surpised at how quickly my cock n balls are removed. All the male myths of “penis power” are false in my quick **********. I hear the women cheering and applause for the castratrix. She takes my hand and moves it together with her hand between my legs, and we feel the smoothness now there, no more silly male things flopping around. Penis and testicles forever gone, I am now free! Its so smooth and clean, and she whispers in my ear as she rubes my smooth crotch “Just like a woman.”

I hear a commotion in the room. The severed “male parts” have been placed on a large plate and its being passed around the room. The women are examining the set of cock n balls, looking at them, pinching them, poking them, criticizing them, and finally laughing and the male genitalia. Confident in their feminine superiority, they are ridiculing the male genitalia.

I don’t care, those male things are not a part of my body anymore. I feel the smoothness between my legs and a smile appears on my face, and I think to myself “Just like a woman.”

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Sorry boys & girls, I get carried away in my fantasies. Flame me if you want.
See the pix. Smooth & clean between their legs. I just love this look, its so visual to me.

[BustedCouple]

Well, I definitely love it when my short frail sexy little wife completely controls me. The pain and humiliation come in second and third depending on my mood. Also, definitely have a great foot fetish :)

[smegmatic]

humiliation aspect.

[sunk]

Definitely the humiliation aspect. But you know not really even that. More the idea of the powerful woman enjoying herself it is sexually attractive. And in many societies a general role-reversal. Something completely different, taboo.

[ChiefSoreballs]

first, ballbusting is for me only a fantasy. I imagine situtations where a guy is kicked, squeezed or whatever. in some way I imagine that I would be the guy, but this is not the important thing. the core of it is, that I have some billion scenarios inside my head that I would like to see on TV or the internet. as I will never see them, I have to invent them myself.

its definitely the humiliation aspect that turns me on.

there are two main aspects that constitue the humiliation for me:

1) the girl must have somehow "tricked" the guy into the situation by using her sexuality as a weapon, either by seducing him or by distracting him. it should not be a situation that was inevitable to him, but one in which he was "led by his dick" (respectively his balls). the best humiliation is when the girl then innocently points out to him, for example, that nobody ****** him to look at her tits when they were fighting (although she knows damn well that she DID force him by her actions - her sexuality controlling his sexuality). its kind of complicated, maybe I will elaborate this aspect later.

2) the girl must be "weaker" than the guy. this may either be in a physical way, or in a social way. think of a poor peasant during the middle ages, who for whatever reason, has his balls mistreated by some evil queen. his friends will feel solidarity and sympathy for him, not laugh at him. there is no humiliation. now think of a nobleman who has to (temporarily) follow every command of some farmers daughter, because she literally has him "by the balls". he will not only feel the pain, but can be sure to be the subject of jokes from all his peers during the following years. THIS is the scenario Im looking for !

[Black Sky]

Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect
Neither. It's certainly not the actual pain, since when it comes to ballbusting, I've never tried it for real and I don't think I would actually want to. I prefer lighter pain or fantasy only.

Yet, it's not humiliation either (so that would be a "no" on the "additional humiliation" question for me). What I like is probably the "mental domination" aspect itself, the idea of voluntarily letting a woman do whatever she wants to you. And on that note, I also prefer to be physically in control; to be the stronger part and easily able to stop her at any time, but choose not to.

[cdinwixom]

to me for sure I crave the humiliation. I especially love when more than one woman is involved.
thanks

[squashmysac]

Okay boys! I have a question for you!

What exactly is it you enjoy about a girl kicking you in the nuts? Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect; being brought down by a woman who is probably physically weaker than you, and doing it by attacking that which signifies your male-ness?

If it is more the later which I suspect, do you like additional humiliation along with the kicking/kneeing etc?

Rebecca

Going to have to go with the humiliation aspect, and some additional humiliation is nice too.

[Dreihundert]

It's a sensation, not quite pain.

The humiliation is just a foreign aspect to me.

[fantasizer]

For me, it's a combination of things. Some of it is the pain. I like the humiliation, but mainly as a by-product of the power exchange. I think it's a turn on when a hot woman is deriving some sort of pleasure (amused, aroused or both) from violently hurting a guy. I don't care for the scenes where the woman is angry or upset, probably because she doesn't seem like she's in control of herself. I think it's better when it's a game to her, she's doing whatever she feels like and he's suffering and helpless. Like a game of cat and mouse.

[theczar]

Iwould say being brought down by a woman is a reak turn on.:ibow4u:

[fictionwriter]

Okay boys! I have a question for you!

What exactly is it you enjoy about a girl kicking you in the nuts? Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect; being brought down by a woman who is probably physically weaker than you, and doing it by attacking that which signifies your male-ness?

If it is more the later which I suspect, do you like additional humiliation along with the kicking/kneeing etc?

Rebecca

Rebecca, yes, the aspect of being brought to my knees by a Superior and Beautiful Woman and the very concept of the Superior Female attacking my manhood and using my male organs in a way that brings me to my knees in total submission and obedience to Her. I think that is the basic idea in my mind at least.

[jonahsub]

Okay boys! I have a question for you!

What exactly is it you enjoy about a girl kicking you in the nuts? Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect; being brought down by a woman who is probably physically weaker than you, and doing it by attacking that which signifies your male-ness?

If it is more the later which I suspect, do you like additional humiliation along with the kicking/kneeing etc?

Rebecca

I love both the pain and the humiliation. I especially like it when a sadistic women is enjoying ball busting and easily controlling me.

[kickedkarpet]

REBECCA, I have "developped" the theory that it's all about humiliation, not only BB per se but femdom in general. It's about being small (weak and helpless) on the receiving end - and about being big and powerfull on the giving side.

Being able to cause pain to somebody means to be in a higher position, being in control and power, which all sums up to the same position of being above. The male who experiences being hurt and damaged feels overpowered and humiliated. It makes no difference that a woman is normally weaker than a male, because in the very moment of kicking him in the groin and thus causing him terrible pain it is HER who is stronger now. She is stronger because she could do it, and she is stronger in that special instant, when she makes his neurons fire in agony.

These words/concepts are interchangeable in my opinion: delivering pain/humiliating. Humiliation means making someone visibly small, like making him kneel. If a man kneels in front of a woman, he becomes smaller than her - thats all that kneeling is about. Or making him beg. He who has to beg a woman is in the weaker position, he makes himself small through begging, in order to get something from her, which only she can supply, and which he is in need of. Begging is a more subtle humiliation, truelly a matter of the mind, but with this subtlety it gathers so much sweetness. No reason to say that kneeling and begging is beautifully bitter-sweet.

When a woman kicks a man in the nuts she makes him small as well, but the humiliation is not as visible as making him kneel. Being able to cause pain is more abstract, but in the end it's the same thing. It's all a matter of a female-male action that happens to take place on levels of different intensities of abstraction.

Others may say: wait there is still something as control, but thats only part of the story. Its not by accident, that the roman term "humus" means soil/earth. So humiliation means rendering someone as low as the ground that SHE walks on. BB often implies "flooring" a guy, so its not only controlling, it goes beyond that.

I love the humiliation part of it. Pain is another way of doing the humiliation thing. And being able to control again means being in a higher position. The circle closes even there.

BB is the lowest body part of a woman hitting the highest body part of a male. ;-) I adore female feet, so for me they aren't really "low", they can be very beautiful and utterly adorable, but concerning "humiliation logic" they ARE the lowest part of a female body. So a kick in the groin expresses the most intensive humiliation that a woman can dish out using only her body.

Another aspect: FEAR! How hard will she kick? Fear is there, because she could cause excruciating pain, she could cause damage. Control. Being able to strike fear into someone means power. I am repeating myself, but so does that humiliation sphere when we turn it and look at its many facet. Its that revolving ball with "humiliation" written on it, with the "different positions"-heart in its core (woman above - man below at her feet)

And: I absolutely love when women enjoy it, when they burst with laughter. This is cruel, it is sweet. It is humiliating.

Above all: Thanks for your question, Rebecca! and dont scold me for writing so much. This is a cardinal topic, and one could write page on page about it.

After all: how gorgeous having women like you who think about these questions. :-)

KK

[gitan]

The most important think is the humiliation of masculineness, so I prefere: "laughting and kicking"...in this way for a girl, beat a boy, seem too easy

[eric B]

It's humiliation for me, and the fear and adrenaline that comes with it. The pain is part of the humiliation.

[vonrick]

For me it is about the pain, the sensation from my balls. It is also about not being in control, about how much will I 'feel' it this time, next time? Add to this, the ultimate feeling of being vulnerable to my partner. I love to say "You've got me by the balls", because she does. LOL. It is about being vulnerable, about letting my guard completely down. Lastly it is about doing something I still consider taboo with someone willing and able to go along with it, this part is still the most exciting part for me. :-)
I would love to find a partner who is really 'into it'. My wife is more willing than 'into it'. Which I suppose I am happy enough with.

Oh, and for me, humiliation has nothing at all to do with it. It would be a real turn off for me if she started talking about how week or pathetic I am, or my anatomy is.

Cheers, I love this forum.

[Deviantadventures]

For me it is both the humiliation and the pain.

I think it differs for each person. For me humiliation by itself is a big turn on, and so is the pain. I love having my balls slapped. Its something that really makes my cock hard. Ive had more than one mistress comment on how much they like the fact that my dick gets hard while they beat on my balls.

It depends on if you are more into the physical or mental aspect for which one turns you on more. I really enjoy the mental aspects of both the pain and humiliation as well as the physical aspect of the pain.

[mosquitoperez]

Both for me. To know that the weaker sex can disable me and cause me that much pain:cryingblu and just stand there and laugh:D is a big turn on. I have no choice but to bow to the superior sex.:ibow4u:

[kickthem]

It is definitely both. There is no pain quite like that experienced after a solid kick to the balls. You lie on the ground and hear her laughing at you, defenseless. The best humiliation is when she makes you kiss the shoe that has just pulverized your balls. And you know you have to do it, otherwise she will kick you again.

[Ketchupman]

I did take a long time before I found an answer for myself so I think I can post it here now, hope you understand it :)

It's both, I like to feel the strange, unknown (in the beginning :P) pain that I never experienced before. The pain also turns me on, a little.

It's the most the pain I like, the humiliation, well, I don't think men or women are the best, a man is a man, a woman a woman, we didn't choose for it and we are not "the strong sex". Still, i think, the women are objects of lust in our society, men looks and wiistle. I think the women get mad of that behavior so I want to give them their pleasure, kick a men in the balls.
I do it so the women can have fun, that they can work their agressif away and I enjoy it.

Still, I think it's hard to say and to understand. I enjoy it, not only the pain and absolutely not only the humilitiation because I hate that last part, it's funny for her if she can get me down but I hate the verbal humiliation.

I keep reading to read what you guys think about this.

Greetings

[slavezero]

For me it is the humiliation part more so than the pain part. Great question BTW.

[john m w]

for me it's a combination of few things ... personally i do enjoy the pain a bit, a bit of humiliation like when a girl starts gigglig/laughing or making comments like ohh is that where it hurts or she'll grab her own crotch and pretend that she's in pain and then giggle about it, but i also enjoy the power exchange. Having a girl squeeze my balls pretty hard and having her tell me to keep my hands away or having my hands tied up behind my back so that i can't grab my balls when they are in agony is very hot.
i agree, this is how i feel, it depends on how hot the girl is too, and if you know her or not, one hard shot to the nuts by a hot girl that you dont know very well and or have lusted after makes me get off

[skweezme]

Okay boys! I have a question for you!

What exactly is it you enjoy about a girl kicking you in the nuts? Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect; being brought down by a woman who is probably physically weaker than you, and doing it by attacking that which signifies your male-ness?

If it is more the later which I suspect, do you like additional humiliation along with the kicking/kneeing etc?

Rebecca

For me, it's definitely the pain. But especially that it's being inflicted by a woman on my most male and most vulnerable bits by her strong legs.

And by the way, my Mistress is actually physically stronger and bigger than me - 6'2" barefoot to my 5'8", 230 lbs to my 147. She doesn't kick me too hard as she could seriously damage me. But hard enough, when I'm tied and vulnerable. I love to have a sense of vulnerability rather than humiliation, I guess. Must be why I chose such a formidable Mistress. And she doesn't humiliate me, can sense that wouldn't work for me.

It's all quite straightforward with us, really! She's bigger and stronger than me. I love her hurting me. She loves hurting me and pushing my boundaries every time. She hasn't given me a safeword, so I'm really in her hands (and my balls so love to be there!). And she loves extreme tease-and-denial, exploiting my male vulnerabilities even further!

[nuts4her]

I love being bound or just ****** to hold a position that leaves my cock and balls exposed, offered to her for anything she wishes to do with them and the anticipation of what is to come... knowing or not what it is to be.

Neither of us is into the humiliation thing but the pain gets me hard and her wet. We like the secret thrill of going out in public with my cock and balls bound or now, confined in its cage.

~n4h

[ludo63]

Thank you Rebecca for this very intelligent thread.
The pain isn't for me for sure but I'm not sure that the humilation is the thing that attracts me more in the ballbusting. I have say that I am a fetishist of women's feet and I like women's shoes too so I like the contact of these things to mai genitals. After I like women when they kicks and after yet I like them when they smile. I love when they smile because I am ridiculous in pain for a good kick! I also like the fact that she can hold all my maleness in one hand and make what she like of me in just one moment. Her's power to manage my situation is more strong that any pain.
What I like more over all?
When I am in front of her, spread legs, and she say: "are you ready?"
When she ask me to put the balls in her hand myself
When I (naked) get close to her to put my balls in her hand myself

[Selftailer]

There is a third issue Rebecca. When you allow a Female to abuse your family jewels (but… should be better say… you need, you wish, you beg) it means that further to pain & humiliation you also recognize the power of her superior sex. Because only a superior sex has the power to do such a thing where male are most delicate and vulnerable.

[Eric Menrhine]

I know this topic is old, but then again, so am I.
For me it is the humiliation. Not being able to do much about it, and being ****** into a situation that I really can't control. This is probably because my profession demands that I keep so much control, and I always have to step up and take the lead, whether I want to or not, that I kind of like being dominated (brutaly) and ****** to just go along for the ride.


Eric M.

[dharkbus]

for me its all about the pain. I think it links in with a feeling of hoplessness/worthlessness and thus being "punished" offers some sort of redemption.

[sanjaykool1]

For me its humiliation.. i love being humiliated by females.. and if female has got hold of my balls then.. she can do anything with me. which makes it more humiliating.

[jellylegs]

What a brilliant question Rebecca!

I hope you're still around as I would love to hear what you think of the replies to this topic...

For me, it's definitely about humiliation. I don't like pain generally and testicular pain is just way too much for me. But I absolutely love the IDEA of getting hit in the balls by a woman.

The kinky part for me is the whole psychological aspect of ballbusting, and the UNFAIRNESS of the fact that she can cause this overwhelming electric shock of pain to my genitals, that causes me to convulsively auto-react and I can't do it back to her.

And she can do it, WHENEVER SHE WANTS. This is a huge imbalance in the physical vulnerability of the sexes, and when a woman chooses to use that advantage she is reminding me, as a man, that she will always be able to use it against me, as will any other woman. Obviously a man could hit my balls too, but somehow the knowledge that I can do the same thing back to him lessens the fear of that. But with a woman, there is no equivalent humiliation that I can give her, and therefore that makes her irresistibly powerful.

I remember I hit a friend of mine in the balls once when we were play-fighting and he moaned "that's not fair! It's only fair when a woman does it!"

I was 10 at the time and I remember thinking to myself that he had it the wrong way round. That it was ONLY fair when a man does it, because then you can get him back! But if a woman does it? Now THAT'S unfair!...but such exquisite humiliation... :loveeyes

That idea just pushes me into overdrive horniness. For this reason, in my ideal ballbusting scenario I would be ballbusted by a girl wearing panties or a bikini, or tight jeans or any clothing that is tacitly emphasising the fact that she has no balls to hit, and when I lie on the ground, holding my dully aching orbs and looking up at her I can see the smoothness of her lines and I am reminded that she has one over on me FOREVER. :wooow

I remember reading a post on here by a guy who wrote that while his girlfriend was squeezing his balls, usually while wearing jeans, he used to pretend to try to grab her crotch, to heighten the sense that there was just NOTHING THERE to grab! And she just laughed and laughed..... This turns me on hugely. I wish I could find that damn post again!... or better yet, a girl who enjoyed not having balls that much! :ibow4u:

So in conclusion, I like the girl to taunt, to be explicit about the fact that she knows she has the advantage because she can't be busted back. I like her to say something like 'how does it feel to have balls NOW?'
or 'i will never know the pain you're feeling right now'
or 'i bet you wish you could get me back' or 'i'm glad i don't have balls'
or 'life's really unfair isn't it?' or 'i have no idea how much that hurts you'.

p.s. I realise I have gone on a rather long rant here but I can't help it. I LOVE Ballbusting so much!

So, forgive the long-windedness. Ciao! :bananawin

[teenguy]

For me, it's more of a sexual thing. Strangers don't work. If it's out of hatred and anger, I get mad at her. If it's not intimate, it loses all of its meaning. Kind of like having sex. Having a foot fetish certainly contributes to this. I'm not sure if I would like the pain, but the idea of getting kicked certainly excites me. It's also about trust. Is my secret safe with her? Or will she feel the need to go around telling everybody? Are my balls still going to function in the morning? Does she know when to stop?

As for how many girls are into this kind of thing...well, I don't know how to spot a guy that's into it, but I can certainly spot a girl that's into it. I can think of about 10 or so girls off the top of my head who I suspect (or know) that they like it. As for the fetish aspect, that's a matter of degree, but I haven't met too many women who wouldn't like it on some level or another.

[the-myth]

I personally just enjoy giving up the control. I THRIVE on feeling helpless... I love it. If I can't get way and she can do what she wants.... IDK what it is, it's just so hot.

[Drifter]

Psychological because in my daily life people say I tend to control everything that surrounds me. Once I read that people whom are into this kind of stuff enjoy the idea of being a vulnerable. Having that in mind, for me it’s the idea of my girlfriend controlling me with her hands in my balls, and having me at her mercy. Actually my last girlfriend used to play a lot with my balls. A game she loved was when we were having sex, she suddenly stopped, looked straight to my eyes, smiled, took one or both balls and starting squeezing, saying things like ‘sooo can we go tomorrow to buy a new LV purse honey?’, as long as I was refusing she put some more pressure, twists, etc, etc, hahaha, it was fun… :iluvu: Anyway, the other thing was about the sensations, and that is, not that much about the pain, it’s more like having someone playing down there and having some weird ideas of games, involving textures, or temperature, etc. :wooow

[kneefodder]

Okay boys! I have a question for you!

What exactly is it you enjoy about a girl kicking you in the nuts? Is it the physical sensation of pain, or is it the humiliation aspect; being brought down by a woman who is probably physically weaker than you, and doing it by attacking that which signifies your male-ness?

If it is more the later which I suspect, do you like additional humiliation along with the kicking/kneeing etc?

Rebecca
I love the expression of power and control that busting a guys nuts bestows upon a girl. The clear message that the male through the vulnerability of his balls is the weaker while she is in truth the stronger and ultimately superior. For me the naked knee is the weapon of choice and as for additional humiliation? For me it is the licking of her boots whilst she strikes a victory pose above her vanquished and humiliated inferior;) .