Ball busting and sexual arousal

[Troughton]

Does Ballbusting arouse you? It arouses the hell out of me. This means that I simply cannot understand what appear to be the vast majority of BB vids as the guy getting beaten is flaccid :confused:. Can somebody explain what that’s all about? I hate to be busted when I’m not sexually aroused. I’m with the guy from Ballbusting World etc. in that the harder the blows (within reason) the harder my dick gets. I guess if BB in the non-aroused state is as common as I see in the videos then there must be plenty of limp-dicked bustees here. Could one of you explain to me what you get out of it if it doesn’t turn you on in the obvious sense?
Cheers,
Pat

[snack marvin]

Obviously it has to do with sadism and masochism. There are several threads in this forum (for example "Is it the pain or the humiliation?"), explaining what's the turn-on when experiencing ballbusting...

[Troughton]

But there clearly is no "turn on" in the biological sense as the guys remain flaccid throughout. I just don't understand how the two things can be separated :confused: Are most guys into BB actually impotent? Is it this impotency that leads to a search for other types of stimulation? I’m a regular kind of guy in that if it turns me on I get a boner. I still don't understand the other camp.

[blkpatent]

I've never been busted before but I'd think I'd get aroused from it, I get aroused from watching it. Your videos are incredible, by the way. I'm glad you understand that the guy should be totally naked when being busted and the lady should be dressed. I just wish they wouldn't kick you so hard hard because I like to see a bunch of kicks in a row. Keep up the good work. :ibow4u:

[needingmilking]

I get extremelly aroused, but would loose my erection under extreme bullbusting. I have a friend who likes to kick my balls when I am about to cum, so I loose the erection and in a lot of pain. Yes, I asked her to marry me, she obviously won't.

[Troughton]

I am the same way so if I get too much I lose my lob and the desire to continue :( So far everybody is on my side of the fence here. Can we hear from some of the limp-dick community too?

[Thumper]

I own a lot of your video and have to say you have the best equipment in the industry. Though on a side note wish you would get a hair cut. so sixties.
I know its a personal choice so be it. Yes I agree with you just the thought of doing a session is enough. The harder the bust the harder the member. If the session lasts along time, it takes along time to go flaccid. And shooting a load with residual sore set is awesome. Best video shoot with you are the ones where the females grab your balls and pull them away from your body damn what a fat set. Question did your balls get larger with the abuse or were they always fat. P.S. don't care what other members think of my comments I love femdom vids and am Bi-any means to a nut works for me. :Baahaha:

[Jedi]

I have had my balls kicked while flacid and also while hard. Sometimes I am just more excited about it than others, but one thing is for sure...if I am hard and take a really hard crippling kick the little man will just die! Real bad severe pain doesn't arose me that much!:o
I think Troughton is merely pointing out that he is like Mathew from Ballbusting World and remains hard no matter what. He isn't the same guy.;)

[eunice]

I think that some of the guys in those flicks are like some porn stars. They do it so much that it becomes common-place with them and it is no longer arousing. Just another day at the office, especially if they do with the same woman every time.

Somebody in this thread mentioned the possibility that perhaps many men who are into BB are just limp dicks. This is true in my own case, at least without the aid of pharmaceuticals. Since I can no longer maintain an erection (unless I take a $15 pill), I seek out other avenues of sexual stimulation. I have always been turned on by ball-busting, both in reality and in my fantasies, but since my dickie went to sleep, BB (and femdom and humiliation in general) have assumed a more important place in my sexual universe than they once did. But just because my dick remains limp while my balls are being busted, that doesn't mean I am not turned on. In fact, my inadequacy as a man increases my humiliation, which is a very strong element of my sexual arousal. So having a limp dick actually increases my excitement.

Weird, eh?

eunice

[experiment]

Those into serious BB are not really as concerned about their erection. it is about the pain incurred and physical rush experienced during the BB. Endorphens are release as the pain increases and you just want more. Sometimes the erection will remain, most of the I have found time it will deminish as the session progresses. The intent of BB is not to ejaculate but enjoy the physical stimulation and excitement.

[Jedi]

I think that some of the guys in those flicks are like some porn stars. They do it so much that it becomes common-place with them and it is no longer arousing. Just another day at the office, especially if they do with the same woman every time.


I would agree with that. I used to get a lot more excited than I do now.

[Troughton]

I’d better clear a few things up here. Like Jedi says – I am not Mathhew from BBworld I just used him as an example and said I was like him as I get a boner when busted.

I can sort of see where Eunice is coming from if he can’t get a stiff dick and he gets off on humiliation. I can also understand getting off on the physical rush of pain but I guess I don’t see why this has to be testicular pain (although they do have a lot of nerve endings). I pity those for which BB just becomes “another day at the office” although I guess I can sort of understand the sentiment. I’m just plain bored with vanilla sex these days :( At first I just tried varying the woman but that only worked for a while. I then moved to having sex in public places and to sleeping with more than one woman at once but the thrill of that quickly wore off too. I’m now at the stage of just needing some kink to get me really interested. BB is one of the things that works OK [for me] in this respect and I hope it continues to do so. I just cannot stand BB when I’m not turned on. Without the sex its just pain - plain and simple. Can the guys into the pain get off if a woman hits their finger with a hammer?
Sorry to ramble so – I’m just kinda curious,
Pat

[eunice]

Troughton,

The most important part of my anatomy, when it comes to sexual pleasure, is my mind; my intellect and my imagination. I think that that applies to most of us, and I am sure that it does in your case. If it didn't, you would never have started this discussion. I am much like you, I have to go further and further down the road in search of new experiences, always looking for the thrill that I used to feel just about every time I was with a woman, even if it was plain vanilla sex.

Now my dick has gone limp on me, which is somewhat humiliating, I can assure you. But, as the saying goes, if life gives you lemons, make lemonade. That's what I'm doing and I get a lot of pleasure from doing so. And I am extremely turned on sometimes. My body just doesn't demonstrate it the way it used to. I sure as hell ain't gonna go blow my head off just because I can't get a hard-on anymore.

Take care and have fun.

[bustedballboy]

This has puzzled me too. I am definitely in the 'flagpole' camp LOL! I invariably get a full on, 110% hard-on when getting busted. Say it's a club situation, the adrenaline starts when the woman is intrigued and I can see she wants to play. Then there'll be a few minutes where we find a spot to play. The first stirrings down below usually start as I get into position, the background noise fades and I focus solely on her as I kneel at her feet and look up at her. Like most women she'll start curious and cautious and will spend a few moment gently caressing her foot between my legs just to get a feel of things, perhaps with an occasional playful tap. That's usually when my cock will start to respond, knowing that she's soon going to be smashing my balls for real! The first few proper kicks are usually hard to take, but once we're both in the scene and I can see she's enjoying it (it's in the eyes!) I'll be really turned on (and very hard) and mentally begging her to kick me harder and not to stop! In my experience I think most women are fascinated when a man is hard for her while she smashes their nuts again and again, and they enjoy the rush of aiming at such an obvious target, especially one that clearly indicates the man's desire for her.

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