straight sex?

[delusion]

are we the ballbusting fetishers may stop liking and wanting the straight sex? or straight sex and just a naked woman body may not turn us on?
and i'm afraid our things is a little about being "gay":confused:

[frostbyte252252]

I like BB on the web. You know as a fantasy. However presented with a nice female body I am turned on. I still love normal sex! Who doesn't?

[twistayours]

^ Agreed. nothing about being gay, personally couldn't be any straighter. love the women too much. also why so many people are into the pov fantasy stuff.
Though my bb fantasy has become an obsession a lil bit, don't watch that much non bb porn anymore.

[Dix]

Personally, there are many aspects of sexuality including ballbusting that excites me. No, I don't agree that it will spoil the excitment of a woman's body to me. As far as being a bit gay, I hear a ring of homophobia in this statement. The reality of sexuality is that one cannot appreciate the oposite sex sexually unless they can first appreciate their own sex. Homophobics; like it or not, we are a complex species who are blessed (or condemned) because we can feel from both perspectives at times. Unlike the lower forms of life who are driven by pure instinct to procreate, we strive to enjoy the subtlties of all that we possess sexually. Anything else is denial.
My opinion anyway.

[the_tree]

Edit: Oops, wrong thread. Sorry.

[delusion]

thank you for the answers.

after I found the bb stuff on the net day by day i get closer to stop watching straight sex movies I mean movies without ballbusting. I almost masturbate everday. that got me scared. and since I first masturbated I've always thought of women. and never liked or dreamed a man or smt. like that. it may sound homofobic but I'm afraid to be gay.:confused:

[uspsfanalan]

I share your concern about becoming addicted to the BB part of sex. When my fiance and I are having sex, I don't climax unless she either busts my balls or I think about someone busting my balls. It was bothering me so I stayed off the site for a few weeks, sex has never been better than it was for those weeks. I am still turned on by her and by sexy women in general so I wouldn't worry about being gay. I do worry that the fetish will take over, it may also be an issue because I had sex for the first time so late in life. ie 23 or 24. I can't remember. If it bothers you try staying off the site and avoiding the ball busting videos. I've tried to cum without thinking of BB and it doesn't work. The one nice thing about that is I can go as long as she wants and then I'll think of BB and I'll be set. Hope that helps, thanks for raising the issue.

[sunk]

Well, I still like regular vanilla sex. But the BB turns me on more and tends to make it a lot more "intense".

As for gay, I am very open minded, but I am not even remotely gay. I am into what is caleld CFNM (clothed female naked male) and for a lot of people they see that as gay. But I do not even get remotely turned on unless there is a FEMALE around. It is about the REACTIONS and the HUMILIATION. The empathy involved in mentally putting myself in the guy's place.

BB is like that for me too. If it is just a guy getting his nuts busted (liek self busting), I am not even turned on a little bit. There has to be a female element involved.

[delusion]

uspsfanalan (http://femaledom.com/forum/member.php?u=9993) and sunk you both understood what I said and all the others who replied.
I was just closing the page if I see a self busting video. but those days I got a little paranoid if u know what I mean. maybe i should stop cumming everday and get away from all the bb stuff for some time. what do u think?

[Vide]

I know what you mean...;)
Sometimes I was scared to death that I wouldn't be able to get a hard-on just for seeing a naked or semi-naked woman (like I can't when I see photos on the web)
It just scared the crap out of me!


But you know... When it gets to the real thing, I almost forget about BB and stuff... Not getting turned on by sex videos is kinda normal for people like us that are in a higher level of sexuality, mommy-and-daddy sex videos are boring and plus I don't like to see other cocks spitting on women besides my own... :jumpsmile

[delusion]

and last question. after the paranoia i've made a search and read a lot about that "secret gay" thing. when u r secret gay u don't even realise that u r gay but it's deep in ur mind. how the fuck that could happen? :confused:

[jm1803]

Cleary you are LOOKING AT TO MUCH PORN!!! LAY OFF IT!!! This will develop into erectile dysfunction. It prob happens to every guy in his lifetime. Believe me lay off it for a few weeks, and you will become aroused by the slightest attractive girl.

[mick_sl8ter]

I do not see the link between erectile dysfunction and watching porn. I have been watching porn all my life and I have never had any erectile disfunction.

Ohhh well there is one thing that causes 'erectile disfunction'. When you are dead tired and you could fall asleep in 1 second. But then it is normal that you do not want sex. But watching porn has no effect on erections, at least not in my case.

To me a sexy woman in real life is always more arrousing than watching any picture or movie. I never ignore a woman's presence, automatically my attention is drawn to her boobs and ass. If I really like what I see and I am able to keep looking I will get an erection, no matter how much porn I have been watching.

So much for that theory.

[dark]

Can't somebody have more than one fetishes? I like being dominant and spank my gfs ass, I like upskirts, I like thongs, I like female asses, I like ballbusting and cfnm.
The last two I think it is because I feel to much straight. In other words am proud of my cock and balls (like most of men) and any attention on them BY THE OPPOSITE SEX of course, turns me on really bad. My gf jerks it, play silly games with them, slaps them, pulls them, stares at them, punches them (all these occassionaly). She knows that her attention is the "click".