What to do - a girl who's into it, but inexperienced

[SwollenBalls]

Hey all

Don't ask how, but through friends of friends of friends online, I have an MSN contact who is into ball-busting. Well, sort of. She's 21, has no experience whatsoever in real life, but is into CBT. Well, she's into whatever I've got to show on webcam, anyway. The thing is she doesn't know much about the topic - to the point where she just says "okay, so what are you going to do to yourself today?" :)

Naturally, I'd like her to take the lead a bit more, but I guess she's shy or just doesn't know what to do. Any suggestions?

[sunk]

Hey all

Don't ask how, but through friends of friends of friends online, I have an MSN contact who is into ball-busting. Well, sort of. She's 21, has no experience whatsoever in real life, but is into CBT. Well, she's into whatever I've got to show on webcam, anyway. The thing is she doesn't know much about the topic - to the point where she just says "okay, so what are you going to do to yourself today?" :)

Naturally, I'd like her to take the lead a bit more, but I guess she's shy or just doesn't know what to do. Any suggestions?

There are a lot of ways to go from here.

One way would be to just suggest some ballbusting porn in the general hope that she gets some ideas. However, from what you suggest she already saw dome of these. She may jsut be a bit shy or afraid to flat out tell you to do something. She may be thinking by letting you lead, well somehow it feels better to her.

I'd probably start pretty light with her and work up from there. You don't want to freak her out. It would be great if you get her to say something like "Awww come on, do it harder than that!", right? Then you know you are getting there!

Myself I 've always fantasized about letting someone pretend I was an asshole ex-boyfriend or something like this. That raw emotion would be a HUGE turn on for me. HUGE But most women don't want to play that game.

[SwollenBalls]

I guess so. Maybe she'll become an experienced dominatrix one day! It's a long road to ********** roleplay, though...

[Magnum]

It took me a while to turn my wife into the ball crusher that she now is. When you ask a gal to do this it usually goes way beyond what most people could imagine someone wanting to have done to their most prized posessions.Most guys cower at the thought of exposing their balls and letting some gal kick the heck out of them. If they themselves aren't into pain it's very hard if not impossible for them to understand the desire for it. Just tell her exactly what you like and coach her and soon you will be pleading with her to ease up, believe me, I know.:D