A Busting Delema

[Datasculpter]

So, here's the scenario. You and your lovely wifie have been trying to get her up the duff for a while (2 years) and in the process have found out your little swimmers are both lazy and not very plentifull. Common sense would dictate that when trying to conceve busting may not be the best idea, however, being a fettish it's not exactly rational. With the threat of busting removed sex drive drops right off, which in fact isn't good when you really need to shag like a rabbit at certain times of the month. When you do sneak in a good bust, (either by her, or a sneaky one on your own, it's riddled with guilt... i.e. are these moments of selfishness coming at the cost of conception?) Now based on video content, pix etc, i would guess my busting would be light to medium... ne'er a full force kick to be seen. Is there any info out there relating testicular trauma to sperm performance?
As spunk takes 3 months to grow... does 1 busting indiscression ruin 3 months of keeping the alcohol consumption low, and living healthy? Has anyone else had to deal with similar guilt issues surounding busting? Hate to be a downer on an otherwise stimulating forum, but i just felt the need to get some thoughts out.

Cheers

[crazy9]

Um yeah it's going to affect it.

Keeping alcohol consumption low? Mate unless you're drinking 8 a night i wouldn't worry about that.
hitting yourself down there is a lot, lot, lot worse.


If all else fails just IVF.

[Datasculpter]

I've heard quite the contrary with alcohol... I'd love to go back to a beer or two a day to wind down after work... That'd be fabu! Might take the edge off the lack of busting. Seems a lot of busters knocked up without any issue though, i wonder if they ended up going without busting for a while?

[Richter]

Just go with a different, lighter busting. Knees through jeans are good because they absorb a lot of the sharp impact.

[hurtlemon128]

I think this is a really important issue for us guys. I have been in a similar situation. My gf doesn't know I'm into busting, I think she could be persuaded to try it but the issue of having kids which she really wants has prevented me from telling her. I have asked her to squeeze my balls during sex and she does to an extent and apart from a few playful or accidental swing s at my nuts we haven't really done busting proper. However I done a few ballbusting sessions with a professional I know and loved it. I have been kicked kneed and squeezed extremely hard. My fantasy relates alot to the girls reaction to me being kicked very hard and falling over totally helpless so I felt I needed these releases.
Anyway after trying for about two years I finally made a big effort came off the booze and smokes took vitamins and within 6 mnths she was pregnant! So there is hope!
As for your question.. I would lay off the busting whilst you are trying for a baby.. there is plenty of time afterwards for that and sex can still be great with a few gentle squeezes and threats.. :)
Funnily enough the other day in bed she had me balls in her hand she looked me in the eye and said that she could cut these of now cos I didn't need them! When I asked her what she would do with them she replied she would put them in a velvet box so they could be just hers! I joked that at I was glad wasn't planning to make them into earrings..
I was quite surprised and turned on and pleased that she definatley show those sort of tendancies.. I honestly think most women do but like most men are too embarrased to say. My delima is whether I tell my gf what im into or wait in case she wants more kids.. which she probably will.
It would be interesting to see how the rest of you fell about this so..

[mick_sl8ter]

That is quite a poor excuse for being in a sexual situation with an other woman than your GF. It does not make any sense at all.

Why not just tell her you want your balls busted by a professional dominatrix ?

[atxballbustee]

Maybe for when you need your fix, her jerking you off whilst the both of you view ballbusting porn would suffice until you get her knocked up?

[iceburn99]

At times i've had those thoughts cross my mind too ..
how much busting is gonna cause some permanent damage?

[hurtlemon128]

I understand the critism that seeing a dominatrix is unfaithful to my gf. But I would never engage in any sexual activity and its just been my way to deal with this maybe not the best but thats life. My gf has said she would never kick me in the balls when Ive asked her indirectly it might be different if she knew i wanted her to but I just don't feel the time is right now. I love her very much and don't want to jeoparsise our relationship. Do you guys think most girls would be understanding to this sort of thing ? Alot of you seem to have told your WAGS .. do they always understand?

[hurtlemon128]

oh yeah.. I have been very surprised how much punishment my balls have been able to take.. I mean they have been kicked very hard many times and they still work! I think you will be fine unless you have had a really serious injury just lay off the boopze smokes and take vitamins till it happens!

[Datasculpter]

It's amazing anyone can get preggers given all the boozing and smoking that often leads to getting laid. hehe. Thanks for the insights, it's amazing how good it is to just get it off your chest, and know there's others around that go through the same shit. I think we're gonna give it a few more months, and i'll be sure to behave myself... After that i guess if it's gonna be IVF, then the balls will be free for a pounding, that's for sure.

I wonder ow many people mix doms and wives, or keep them mutually exclusive? Would need to be a pretty open minded wifie i'd imagine.