martinoooo
03-20-2008, 02:51 AM
Girl Power! Girls' Sexual Dominance of Men
A route to sexual happiness and feeling secure
Contents
1. Introduction
2. Inflicting Serious Harm to a Man
3. Enjoying Girl Power
4. How I was Broken
5. Conclusion
1. Introduction
This article is written with girl readers in mind. Girls who have been used, abused, or just badly treated by men often hate them or feel that girls are doomed always to be victims - inferior and weak. The purpose of this article is to explain that the female is the superior sex - and how Girl Power dominance can be achieved for the benefit and happiness of girls - and men too.
Most girls simply accept that they are weaker than men and assume that, when it comes to force or violence, and almost everything else, including sex, it is inevitable that men dominate and women submit. Men take that for granted. However, this ignores a crucial factor: girls may be the weaker sex, but men have one weakness that more than makes up for it - testicles! Most girls just don't understand (and men don't want them to!) that a man's testicles are extremely delicate and even a small knock can be excruciatingly painful for him. Used correctly by the girl, this knowledge is power! It can make the difference between being a loser, a victim of men, and subjected to their sexual needs on one hand, and a winner in control of men, satisfying her own sexual needs on the other. The main purpose of this article is covered in section 3 that examines the subtle use of humiliation in Girl Power domination of the male. Section 2 explains how a girl can use a man's testicles to overpower him and even to do him serious harm. Some readers may find distasteful, however, it is important for them to understand this fully both for a sense of security with men, and before using ball-pain in the humiliation of the male. Humiliation of the man is the best way to achieve Girl Power over him. His willing submission to her, in a loving and affectionate relationship ensures that both girls and men obtain maximum enjoyment both from sex and from their general relationships with each other. I should say here that Girl Power has little to do with the stereotypical, sterile "Femdom" scene with leather, rubber and whips.
2. Inflicting serious harm to a man
(a) Kneeing
The full-on knee in the bollocks has such a crippling effect on a man that it should be reserved for emergencies only and never be used in ordinary girl dominance or control of a man, in sex-play or at any other time. Nevertheless it is important for girls to understand the effects on a man and how to deliver it. By knowing about it her confidence is increased and she feels safer around men.
Except in the direst emergencies, it is best to lure a man onto a kneeing. Make yourself look vulnerable and receptive to him and put your hand on his buttocks. Then bring your hands up to his shoulders, from behind, with your fingers towards you. Take a step back (about a foot) with your left foot and pull downwards with your hands, at the same time smash your right knee up between his thighs. Do not aim for his crotch; aim for his chest so that you do not slow the blow before contact. A blow with the right knee is usually the stronger. Pulling forward on the buttocks is nearly as good and can be used if time is limited. Either way he will go down on his knees for a moment, then fall like a sack of potatoes - and stay down until he crawls, blubbing and mewing pitifully while you taunt and ridicule him.
(b) Kicking
A kick to the balls is not so effective because there is not usually any leverage, and it is best left to experts as you can easily miss and you also expose yourself to having your leg or foot caught and twisted.
(c) Stamping
Perhaps the most effective move of all if the man is on the ground and you are standing up facing him. If you are right "footed" take hold of his right foot (remember it will be on your left) and twist it to your left, away from the other leg. At the same time drive your right foot hard down into his crotch, pulling his foot towards you to brace yourself against, and either stamp hard, or put all you weight on your foot, grinding it into his balls until he succumbs. It is very effective with the advantage that you can look him in the eye as you put his lights out!
(d) I've got him by the balls!
The ball-squeezeis definitely best done when the man is lured into intimate contact. Hold the right hand, palm upward, with the fingers curled like a claw. Jab the fingers-ends upward into contact with his flesh underneath and behind his balls and drag your hand towards you, collecting up his balls. As you gather his balls into your hand, close your hand into a fist, trapping his balls inside and push the heel of the hand into his belly for leverage (you may contact his penis but it doesn't matter). Now squeeze as hard as you possibly can and do not let go under any circumstances until he is immobilised completely. If the man was standing you will have to follow him down as he collapses to the ground and bites the dust. You may find it helpful to put your other hand on top to assist the crushing hand in squeezing harder, but it is unlikely that you will need to. As long as you keep hold and subject him to ball-pain he is powerless and has lost control of himself. If he doesn't become *********** first, the man will beg and plead for you to let go, but only do so when you are sure that he is not threat to you. Make sure that you have your legs under you so that you can spring backwards when you let go.
(e) Testicular Pain
Ball pain is the most awful, excruciating, debilitating pain that blasts through the whole of a man's body rendering him completely helpless and defenceless. It is as if every nerve in his body is firing at once and he can't even locate the pain clearly - it seems to be everywhere! If you have ever seen a cat picked up by the scruff you will have noticed that it cannot move any part of its body. It is the same for a man in ball pain, he is physically paralysed - and that is important because he is not able to strike back and is no threat to you. At the same time he is mentally incapable of thinking about anything but the possibility that this awful searing pain will stop sometime, so he can't even think about retaliation. There is another effect: a man in ball-pain suffers the most catastrophic loss of morale and the willpower to do anything at all, so even if he could retaliate, he simply won't want to. The man will collapse and writhe in pain, clasping his hands to his stricken parts in a futile attempt to alleviate the pain. Sometimes he may lose consciousness. This is the time for the girl to either get away or immobilise him by tying him up. If she really wants to help him the best thing to do is to massage his testicles firmly but gently until he obtains some relief and suffer terrible indignity and shattered ego at the same time, while you taunt him.
You might want to seriously harm a potential ****** or attacker, but it is not advisable just so as to dominate the man for sexual pleasure. He may have to be taken to hospital and may suffer permanent damage. When he gets up he is going to stay as far away from you as possible, for good, and sex will be the last thing on his mind - especially with you! The male ego is so deep that he will not allow himself to admit the unbearable shame of being outfought by a girl, so he will spread all sorts of false stories about what happened. He will also try to say that you are un-feminine or masculine so that he can avoid the truth that a girl has beaten him. If a girl partner witnessed the event, he may finish with her simply to avoid accepting the shame of what has happened.
(f) Warning
Kneeing, kicking and stamping can cause permanent damage: as I found out when I ended up with a hernia after being kneed in a fantasy scenario. It’s a shame but I now have to be much more careful not to suffer actual injury. It is much safer to use squeezing in any fantasy scenario because, especially if a code word is used, both parties can control the effects.
3. Enjoying Girl Power
(a). Pain, humiliation and sexual arousal
Physical sexual arousal is usually vastly intensified by emotion: love, hate, fear, shame, humiliation, and pride all increase the enjoyment of sex. Most people are excited sexually by pain and humiliation only if they are already sexually aroused. If you hurt a man while he is not aroused sexually, you merely hurt him. So wear his favourite sexy clothes, get him excited, tease him, give him the come-on, use you hands and your body to turn him-on, make him plead for sex with a hard-on and then look him straight in the eye and knee him or grab his balls. He may lose his hard-on while the pain lasts but he will come harder still when he recovers! Then you use shame, humiliation and fear to get what you want, and enjoy the sexy emotion of pride of victory yourself. There is no more reason why a sexually dominant girl and a submissive man can't enjoy affection and tenderness than for a "normal" dominant man and submissive woman.
(b). Attitude: Transfer of Power
For me an erection is an acknowledgement of my partner’s power over me: Girl Power. Also, even in “vanilla” sex, ejaculation is either my gift to my partner or I surrender it to her: and in either case the result belongs to her and represents a transfer of power from me to her. I find that this attitude – from both partners - is very helpful in reversing the usual balance of power and increasing enjoyment.
(c). Gentle Dominance
It is worthwhile here examining the objective of ball-pain and humiliation. If you merely want to put a man down for good then just get stuck in and walk away afterwards. On the other hand, if you want to enjoy your power over a man it is no good incapacitating him or seeing him taken to hospital, that isn't the idea at all! Ideally you want a willing submissive compliant man to enjoy sex games with. To achieve that you should humble him, not cripple him! So you have to moderate your aggression. You can knee a man lightly and, if it is consensual, you can keep trying a bit harder each time until, down he goes. It is a bit easier with a ball-squeeze because your are in control of the pressure. Also, consensual or not, you can hang on until you get the desired effect. Furthermore, you can maintain the squeeze, or at least the hold it, while the man does anything you command him to, such as to give you a good licking! Don't forget to show a little sympathy, understanding, tenderness, talk about what you are doing (preferably beforehand), make sure that you are both enjoying it, and have a laugh and a giggle about it. It is also very important to agree a code word so that he can warn you if you have gone too far or there is an emergency - then he can whine and plead all he likes without you stopping to check. Choose a word that he is unlikely to use otherwise - "stop", “please”, “beg” and “mercy” are not good words to choose because he may be saying them anyway within the agreed limits or as part of a fantasy scenario.
(d). Learning to say what you want
For too many people, men and women, sex is something that is supposed to just happen: their partner is supposed to know what do, and what not to do, to please them. It takes only a little reflection to realise that this is a recipe for disaster, or at least disappointment. The fact is that if you don't say what you want, you probably won't get it! So take time to explain to your partner what you like and dislike and what turns you on or turns you off (we are all different). Take it in turns so that it is not a list of seemingly unreasonable demands. Cover things like what you like to wear and what you want your partner to wear, where any fantasy scenario is supposed to be and, above all, what your feelings are about these things. Some physical contact during this process helps things along and promotes mutual tenderness and understanding. Don't forget to have a giggle about it together. Whatever happens, don't show disgust at any suggestion - if you are unwilling, just say “No” without censure.
(e). Crushing the male ego
I explained the man's strong ego in a previous section. Everyone knows the stereotypical male bragging and bravado. Underneath this he is terrified of being beaten by a girls. If this happens to him, his brittle ego will shatter. If you want to break his will and his ego it is essential to get him sexually aroused before you crush him. A man can hardly say that you are un-feminine or masculine if he has just had a hard-on for all to see and has been pleading with you for sex or begging you to let him take your panties down can he?
(f). Humiliation
The next important thing is to rub-in the defeat - turning it into humiliation. If you have kneed your man in the balls, try, when he has finished writhing about, pulling off his clothes to leave him submissively naked and vulnerable. Use his pants as a "trophy" of his defeat, holding them high in triumph. Then, standing with one foot on his chest in the classic triumphant pose of the victor and the vanquished, look him in the eye and shout "Girl defeats male!" and "Pussy defeats cock and balls!" If he can see up your skirt so much the better, you can show him the panty crotch that was his undoing when he was trying to grope it before you fixed him. Threaten to kick his balls until you get him to admit aloud that he is a male and that he is defeated by a "pretty little girlie". This is easier if you have got him by balls because you don't let go until he has pleaded with you for mercy and admitted defeat. Jeer at him and make him use phrases like "defeat" and "shame" a lot and tease him some more until he begs, crawls and grovels for panty. It is very important that you are never naked yourself: always keep on at least your skirt and panties at all times, except, perhaps when face-siting him (remember to put you panties back on afterwards). Symbolically, the person with the clothes on is the one with the power, and that's you. The rule applies even when granting sex to the submissive man. Another rule is that eye-to-eye contact should be maintained whenever possible -it enhances the feelings of shame.
One way of increasing the humiliation of a man is to get him very excited and frustrated and force him to admit shame about his male urges. Get him going and he will confess to a multitude of shifting and almost unbearable urges. Another is to discuss **********, and watch his erection go harder!
Mocking is a powerful humiliation tool. Mock his pleadings "I beg you for sex!"; "Please let me have it!"; "Panties, oh panteees!" "Mercy Oh girlie" are some taunting phrases to throw back at him at any time. Giggling, laughing and pointing at him are good ones too, especially by girl onlookers.
(g). Bondage, Restraint, Corporal Punishment and Cock & Ball Torture
These can all be a turn-on if handled with subtlety and care as part of a humiliation scenario. Of course, this also achieves a physical transfer of power and the utter helplessness of the victim. Code words are especially important. Tying up a man’s balls is an extremely powerful message about his transfer of power you and is very highly recommended even when other forms of restraint are not used.
(h). Using the man's fears and fantasies to humiliate him
A strange but true anomaly: a man's deepest primeval sexual fears are also his most powerful and fascinating fantasies. Most men have deep-rooted fear and fantasies about being humiliated by girls, but their egos won't let them admit it unless they are seriously demoralised. The most powerful and unnerving of all these fears is of being beaten by a girl in a fight. Fighting is that most masculine of pursuits and men are both terrified and thrilled at the thought of being thrashed by girls. In fact a girl will always defeat man in unarmed combat for two reasons. The first is simply that his jewels are his weakness and he knows it. The second is that when he realises that you know it he is unnerved, tends to over-react to any threats to them and devotes half of his attention and energy on protecting them. You only have to feint an attack on his weakness to gain the advantage and will best him anyway even if you don't actually attack his maleness. It is important to realise that the more feminine, fragile, and weak you are and the more you play the cute, innocent, vulnerable, waif-like, giggly little girlie, the more powerful his humiliation at taking a beating from you. Wearing your hair in plaîts or bunches and giggling a lot and adopting a submissive demeanour even when dominant is extremely deflating for a defeated man. He won't be humiliated much by being thumped by a huge amazon of a female that he would never fancy in a million years, but he be deeply ashamed of pleading for mercy from a pretty little giggly girlie that he clearly wants to have sex with. Most men also have an even deeper fear and fantasies about being raped and ********* by a girl. Again fear and fantasy are in proportion to the strength of his male urges for the girl concerned and he needs to be beaten, defeated and scorned by a girl that he lusts for. Being humiliated in public intensifies the shame and humiliation of a man, especially if the onlookers are attractive girls. Talk about these humiliations with your man and plan your scenario accordingly. You might want to stage a wrestling match with him in front of your girl friends and make sure that you defeat him in a different way in each round. The scenario in "How I was broken" might provide a useful agenda. A mock ********** either during conventional sex or when he loses his disgusting, shameful male slime all over your pretty panties and skirt as you emasculate him is the most effective humiliation of all! Don't forget to have a girl "referee" announcing his every unworthy defeat for everyone to laugh at and poke fun at him.
(i). Breaking a man
The submission of a man to Girl Power for the first time is referred to as the man being "broken". It can be difficult for both partners if he has not confessed to his submissive fantasies yet but a good knee in the balls is a good start. Beware! An inexpert assault isn't sexy at all and may put him off sexually dominant girls for good. You can't have a code word either, so be very, very careful or you could have a death on your hands. Once he is well broken a man craves for more domination and humiliation and he will willingly submit to and co-operate with his partner. After breaking, it is nice to exchange tokens. She gives him a leather-studded dog-collar and fits it around his neck as a sign of her affection for him and his submission to her. He gives her a similar, but smaller, version and places it around her ankle as a sign of his affection her and her dominance of him. When they met again these tokens are a potent reminder that can transport the pair into sexual arousal more quickly than normal.
(j). Making Girl Power work for you.
Whatever you want from sex you can have! Talk to your man about his fantasies, but don't forget you own. Once he is broken he will confess to his fantasies about being beaten by girls and you can explore his most humiliating and thrilling scenarios, adapting them to satisfy your needs too - most men are also turned-on by seeing their partner enjoying sex. If you like pussy-licking make sure that it is included in the scenario. However, it is extremely important to realise that you must not let the man have the satisfaction of ejaculation - his "big bang" - before you are completely satisfied sexually. Once he has ejaculated he will lose interest in the fantasy and in sex altogether and an unwilling partner is no good for you. Also take note that most girls say that they achieve only stage four of their nine stages of orgasm in conventional sex. Indeed some girls don't even know about the higher levels of orgasm: So much for the ability of men to please their partners! The beauty of Girl Power is that once you have broken him you can force the man to satisfy you when you like, how you like, and for as long as you like to ensure that you finish properly before allowing him to finish. Even "conventional" sex can work for you because, if you have him by the balls he is helpless and you can turn him on and off at will while you work on your orgasm. If you "use" his tongue to get you ready it can make all the difference. A good humiliating ending for the man is to threaten to ******** him if he ejaculates and then make him plead to be allowed to do it - he may even beg you to ******** him to relieve his escalating need for release! A good tip is to keep a metal knife (preferably blunt) in the freezer until just before sex: keep it hidden and then run the blunt edge across his scrotum at the right moment. Immediately show him a couple of red grapes that you have kept hidden: put them one at a time between your front teeth and bite them, then chew them noisily, grinning in his face. He will think you have done for him - and I'll bet he has the most explosive ejaculation yet!
(k). Sexy clothes
The importance of sexy clothing cannot be emphasised too much! Wearing sexy clothes is not to pander to a man's wishes. Think of it as provoking him and baiting him, luring him into your girlie trap, exploiting his weakness. If a man says that he does not like "tarty" girl's clothes, he is lying! Do you think that prostitutes would have evolved a style of clothes for centuries if it didn't tease men? The first rule of seduction is to wear plain-coloured tight, shiny, wet-look fabrics such as ciré, satin, silk, or soft PVC. Cotton, lace and rough fabrics are not nearly so effective. Patterned fabrics tend to interfere with or hide the shapes underneath but shiny fabrics enhance them. Although some men like leather or rubber they are a specialised taste and should be avoided unless he asks for them. The second rule of leading a man on is to wear as short a micro-miniskirt as you can find and make sure that he can see your tight shiny panties peeping out underneath - you will have him hooked. Make the panties a contrasting colour from the skirt to increase the visual impact and give him plenty of opportunity to look up your skirt. If the panty emphasises your mound of Venus and girlie slit then all the better. Panties, briefs or thongs are very sexy if they have that alluring shiny "panty-vee" that is so effective. Shorts or hot-pants lingerie have an advantage in that, when worn under a skirt, he can rub and slide the sheer fabric of the skirt over the fabric of the shorts covering your bottom as well as your belly and that is very exciting for both partners. Some panty briefs have the advantage of being cut into a vee at the front and still cover the bottom at the back, but not many. Long skirts and trousers are defiantly out. If he feels good about your outfit he will let you know and then you will feel better too. For some men, being ****** to wear sexy girl clothes too can also be very shameful and arousing, especially when subjected to derision.
There isn’t much point in making a huge effort to wear sexy clothing and then putting the man off by having unattractive body hair. Some men may like body hair but most definitely do not: and most are likely to enjoy, and make a good job of, licking a nice smooth, bald pussy! Again, it is not a matter of pandering to male tastes – it is making the most of your feminine power.
(l). A word about "Femdom"
I'm afraid that the traditional big, unsmiling, frowning "Mistress" dressed in leather or rubber and wielding a whip is a very unsatisfactory role model. These scenarios usually involve little tactile contact, no emotional involvement, and no fun. For goodness sake, why don't these people loosen-up and have a laugh? Femdom scenarios also sometimes use gags: these can be very dangerous and best avoided unless you check continually that the victim is breathing properly. Forget to check and you could have a very embarrassing corpse to explain. Similarly, drugs are best avoided.
4. How I was broken
(a) The girl
Curiously, I was broken by a girl who didn't even know that it happened. I am a naturally very domineering man and most girls quite naturally tend to be submissive towards me. In my job I often tell their "bosses" what to do and the girls seem to respond to the power by being even more submissive. For many years just assumed that I would be the dominant one and my partner would be submissive - it never occurred to me that it could be any other way. Then I met Janet. Janet was pretty, slim, and very submissive to the point of not speaking to anyone in my presence because she thought that anything that she had to say was unimportant compared with what I might have to say. Sex was not good because I could see that she didn't enjoy it but she would not say what she wanted, and I had given up trying. I became bored with her, and because she would not go away, I treated her with contempt, just using her to relieve my sexual needs. I felt guilty and ashamed at the way I treated her.
(b) The dream
One night I had the most amazing experience: part dream and part half-awake fantasy. Janet had invited me to a party involving just her girl friends. She had her hair in two large plaîts and was dressed exactly how I like it in a "tarty" outfit of a shiny black ciré micro-minidress with her tight, shiny, white wet-look panties clearly on show. Janet looked ravishingly "timid sweet little girlie" and I was so turned-on by that that I wanted to **** her, gorging my overpowering male urges on her body. Then, to my utter astonishment, Janet challenged me to a fight! I was horrified, terrified and bright red with awful embarrassment, but her friends encouraged her and goaded me into it. The sweet girl completely outfought me. She squeezed my balls until I submitted, tied up my balls tightly with one of my socks, and then pulled-off my shorts, leaving me with a shamefully obvious hard-on. She stood with one foot on my chest and her hand held over her head in the classic victory pose and shouted "Yes! How does it feel to be beaten by a girlie? She sat on my face and then used my bollocks to force me to lick her panties. I refused at first but had to give-in and, purple-faced, kiss her panties and thighs and then licked them. She made me admit defeat to the crowd this time "Janet has defeated me". She then tied me up and raped me with a dildo so that everyone could see that I nearly had an ejaculation. Then she put my bollocks in her mouth and watched the visceral fear in my eyes as I screamed an apology for being a man, before she let me go, mercifully still with my jewels in-tact. She rode me around the room bareback, controlling me by using my bollocks just like a horse's bit, until I collapsed. Janet goaded me into standing up to fight her but she slammed a knee in my balls and I went down, writhing and screaming for mercy and help. She massaged my defeated manhood until, after what seems like hours of moaning, crying and pleading, she revived my erection. She pulled her panties aside and ****** me to give her a prolonged pussy-licking, commanding my tongue at every move until she was on the verge of climax. Finally, she rubbed my penis on her skirt and my bollocks on her panties until I pleaded with her for sex. She invited me to worship her girlhood with my penis and I had never been like this with Janet before - gagging and moaning with outright lust. Her thighs, belly, breasts, and panties tormented and provoked my gross male urges until she pulled her panties aside again and I rammed inside her sweet wet, tight pussy. She started writhing like a snake, wrapping her legs about me and this sent me wild, bucking against her pubic mound as I sought to obtain relief. I gripped her skirt and panties in a vice-like grip, grinding my pubic bone against hers and pressing my chest against her delightful tits. I grunted again and again like a wild pig, straining for release as she thrust against me invitingly: "Let me come, I beg you!" I shouted. "When you come, I am going to ******** you!" she said. My back arched and I knew I was a goner, but she crushed my balls to prevent it. "Oh God, yes! yes! Finish me off, ******** me!" I cried. At that moment I felt her take my bollocks in her hand and my body went rigid with anticipation and my back arched further like a bow. Just as my semen broke out and spurted like white-hot metal out of me, I felt her slice through my scrotum as she ripped my masculinity from my body. "Yes! Yes! Yes! she shouted in my face in exaltation, ramming herself against me, "Girlie's Revenge!" Girl defeats man! Pussy beats cock!" and she held the ruins of my manhood high above her head, the elated conqueror with her trophy, a trickle of my blood running down her arm, and grinning in my face, taunting me. I just couldn't stop myself and kept thrusting and gouting spunk inside her, desperate to release the last few drops of my last ejaculation inside the girl who had unmanned me. It was the most delicious sex of my life. For a moment it was surreal. It was as if my whole universe of aggressive masculinity was kissed by her sweet gentle girlishness and yielded to it. I meekly surrendered to her as she ripped my maleness from my body in the ultimate girlie revenge. The girlfriends all cheered and jeered and pointed at me prostrate, crawling, ridiculous and despicable as I hung my head in abject, crying with shame. I woke up in bed at home in the throes of a massive orgasm, having the most fantastically productive and satisfying ejaculation that I have ever experienced, followed by a wave of mini-orgasms. I tried to tell Janet about it but she didn't really understand and we stopped seeing one another shortly afterwards. That one dream changed my life sexually forever.
5. Conclusion
Follow this advice for a satisfying and full sex-life for you and your partner. You might even "break" some new men! If you need any help or a demonstration I would be glad to be the submissive man for groups of girls (no men). However, unfortunately I can’t demonstrate receiving kneeing, kicking or stamping because of a hernia inflicted in the cause – it’s such a pity but I just daren’t risk serious damage!, Just e-mail me and provide some details: I'm sure that you will understand the need to be discreet, as I want to avoid certain embarrassing contacts.
Martin Cooper
MartinOOOO@hotmail .com (for letters O not 4 numbers zero)
A route to sexual happiness and feeling secure
Contents
1. Introduction
2. Inflicting Serious Harm to a Man
3. Enjoying Girl Power
4. How I was Broken
5. Conclusion
1. Introduction
This article is written with girl readers in mind. Girls who have been used, abused, or just badly treated by men often hate them or feel that girls are doomed always to be victims - inferior and weak. The purpose of this article is to explain that the female is the superior sex - and how Girl Power dominance can be achieved for the benefit and happiness of girls - and men too.
Most girls simply accept that they are weaker than men and assume that, when it comes to force or violence, and almost everything else, including sex, it is inevitable that men dominate and women submit. Men take that for granted. However, this ignores a crucial factor: girls may be the weaker sex, but men have one weakness that more than makes up for it - testicles! Most girls just don't understand (and men don't want them to!) that a man's testicles are extremely delicate and even a small knock can be excruciatingly painful for him. Used correctly by the girl, this knowledge is power! It can make the difference between being a loser, a victim of men, and subjected to their sexual needs on one hand, and a winner in control of men, satisfying her own sexual needs on the other. The main purpose of this article is covered in section 3 that examines the subtle use of humiliation in Girl Power domination of the male. Section 2 explains how a girl can use a man's testicles to overpower him and even to do him serious harm. Some readers may find distasteful, however, it is important for them to understand this fully both for a sense of security with men, and before using ball-pain in the humiliation of the male. Humiliation of the man is the best way to achieve Girl Power over him. His willing submission to her, in a loving and affectionate relationship ensures that both girls and men obtain maximum enjoyment both from sex and from their general relationships with each other. I should say here that Girl Power has little to do with the stereotypical, sterile "Femdom" scene with leather, rubber and whips.
2. Inflicting serious harm to a man
(a) Kneeing
The full-on knee in the bollocks has such a crippling effect on a man that it should be reserved for emergencies only and never be used in ordinary girl dominance or control of a man, in sex-play or at any other time. Nevertheless it is important for girls to understand the effects on a man and how to deliver it. By knowing about it her confidence is increased and she feels safer around men.
Except in the direst emergencies, it is best to lure a man onto a kneeing. Make yourself look vulnerable and receptive to him and put your hand on his buttocks. Then bring your hands up to his shoulders, from behind, with your fingers towards you. Take a step back (about a foot) with your left foot and pull downwards with your hands, at the same time smash your right knee up between his thighs. Do not aim for his crotch; aim for his chest so that you do not slow the blow before contact. A blow with the right knee is usually the stronger. Pulling forward on the buttocks is nearly as good and can be used if time is limited. Either way he will go down on his knees for a moment, then fall like a sack of potatoes - and stay down until he crawls, blubbing and mewing pitifully while you taunt and ridicule him.
(b) Kicking
A kick to the balls is not so effective because there is not usually any leverage, and it is best left to experts as you can easily miss and you also expose yourself to having your leg or foot caught and twisted.
(c) Stamping
Perhaps the most effective move of all if the man is on the ground and you are standing up facing him. If you are right "footed" take hold of his right foot (remember it will be on your left) and twist it to your left, away from the other leg. At the same time drive your right foot hard down into his crotch, pulling his foot towards you to brace yourself against, and either stamp hard, or put all you weight on your foot, grinding it into his balls until he succumbs. It is very effective with the advantage that you can look him in the eye as you put his lights out!
(d) I've got him by the balls!
The ball-squeezeis definitely best done when the man is lured into intimate contact. Hold the right hand, palm upward, with the fingers curled like a claw. Jab the fingers-ends upward into contact with his flesh underneath and behind his balls and drag your hand towards you, collecting up his balls. As you gather his balls into your hand, close your hand into a fist, trapping his balls inside and push the heel of the hand into his belly for leverage (you may contact his penis but it doesn't matter). Now squeeze as hard as you possibly can and do not let go under any circumstances until he is immobilised completely. If the man was standing you will have to follow him down as he collapses to the ground and bites the dust. You may find it helpful to put your other hand on top to assist the crushing hand in squeezing harder, but it is unlikely that you will need to. As long as you keep hold and subject him to ball-pain he is powerless and has lost control of himself. If he doesn't become *********** first, the man will beg and plead for you to let go, but only do so when you are sure that he is not threat to you. Make sure that you have your legs under you so that you can spring backwards when you let go.
(e) Testicular Pain
Ball pain is the most awful, excruciating, debilitating pain that blasts through the whole of a man's body rendering him completely helpless and defenceless. It is as if every nerve in his body is firing at once and he can't even locate the pain clearly - it seems to be everywhere! If you have ever seen a cat picked up by the scruff you will have noticed that it cannot move any part of its body. It is the same for a man in ball pain, he is physically paralysed - and that is important because he is not able to strike back and is no threat to you. At the same time he is mentally incapable of thinking about anything but the possibility that this awful searing pain will stop sometime, so he can't even think about retaliation. There is another effect: a man in ball-pain suffers the most catastrophic loss of morale and the willpower to do anything at all, so even if he could retaliate, he simply won't want to. The man will collapse and writhe in pain, clasping his hands to his stricken parts in a futile attempt to alleviate the pain. Sometimes he may lose consciousness. This is the time for the girl to either get away or immobilise him by tying him up. If she really wants to help him the best thing to do is to massage his testicles firmly but gently until he obtains some relief and suffer terrible indignity and shattered ego at the same time, while you taunt him.
You might want to seriously harm a potential ****** or attacker, but it is not advisable just so as to dominate the man for sexual pleasure. He may have to be taken to hospital and may suffer permanent damage. When he gets up he is going to stay as far away from you as possible, for good, and sex will be the last thing on his mind - especially with you! The male ego is so deep that he will not allow himself to admit the unbearable shame of being outfought by a girl, so he will spread all sorts of false stories about what happened. He will also try to say that you are un-feminine or masculine so that he can avoid the truth that a girl has beaten him. If a girl partner witnessed the event, he may finish with her simply to avoid accepting the shame of what has happened.
(f) Warning
Kneeing, kicking and stamping can cause permanent damage: as I found out when I ended up with a hernia after being kneed in a fantasy scenario. It’s a shame but I now have to be much more careful not to suffer actual injury. It is much safer to use squeezing in any fantasy scenario because, especially if a code word is used, both parties can control the effects.
3. Enjoying Girl Power
(a). Pain, humiliation and sexual arousal
Physical sexual arousal is usually vastly intensified by emotion: love, hate, fear, shame, humiliation, and pride all increase the enjoyment of sex. Most people are excited sexually by pain and humiliation only if they are already sexually aroused. If you hurt a man while he is not aroused sexually, you merely hurt him. So wear his favourite sexy clothes, get him excited, tease him, give him the come-on, use you hands and your body to turn him-on, make him plead for sex with a hard-on and then look him straight in the eye and knee him or grab his balls. He may lose his hard-on while the pain lasts but he will come harder still when he recovers! Then you use shame, humiliation and fear to get what you want, and enjoy the sexy emotion of pride of victory yourself. There is no more reason why a sexually dominant girl and a submissive man can't enjoy affection and tenderness than for a "normal" dominant man and submissive woman.
(b). Attitude: Transfer of Power
For me an erection is an acknowledgement of my partner’s power over me: Girl Power. Also, even in “vanilla” sex, ejaculation is either my gift to my partner or I surrender it to her: and in either case the result belongs to her and represents a transfer of power from me to her. I find that this attitude – from both partners - is very helpful in reversing the usual balance of power and increasing enjoyment.
(c). Gentle Dominance
It is worthwhile here examining the objective of ball-pain and humiliation. If you merely want to put a man down for good then just get stuck in and walk away afterwards. On the other hand, if you want to enjoy your power over a man it is no good incapacitating him or seeing him taken to hospital, that isn't the idea at all! Ideally you want a willing submissive compliant man to enjoy sex games with. To achieve that you should humble him, not cripple him! So you have to moderate your aggression. You can knee a man lightly and, if it is consensual, you can keep trying a bit harder each time until, down he goes. It is a bit easier with a ball-squeeze because your are in control of the pressure. Also, consensual or not, you can hang on until you get the desired effect. Furthermore, you can maintain the squeeze, or at least the hold it, while the man does anything you command him to, such as to give you a good licking! Don't forget to show a little sympathy, understanding, tenderness, talk about what you are doing (preferably beforehand), make sure that you are both enjoying it, and have a laugh and a giggle about it. It is also very important to agree a code word so that he can warn you if you have gone too far or there is an emergency - then he can whine and plead all he likes without you stopping to check. Choose a word that he is unlikely to use otherwise - "stop", “please”, “beg” and “mercy” are not good words to choose because he may be saying them anyway within the agreed limits or as part of a fantasy scenario.
(d). Learning to say what you want
For too many people, men and women, sex is something that is supposed to just happen: their partner is supposed to know what do, and what not to do, to please them. It takes only a little reflection to realise that this is a recipe for disaster, or at least disappointment. The fact is that if you don't say what you want, you probably won't get it! So take time to explain to your partner what you like and dislike and what turns you on or turns you off (we are all different). Take it in turns so that it is not a list of seemingly unreasonable demands. Cover things like what you like to wear and what you want your partner to wear, where any fantasy scenario is supposed to be and, above all, what your feelings are about these things. Some physical contact during this process helps things along and promotes mutual tenderness and understanding. Don't forget to have a giggle about it together. Whatever happens, don't show disgust at any suggestion - if you are unwilling, just say “No” without censure.
(e). Crushing the male ego
I explained the man's strong ego in a previous section. Everyone knows the stereotypical male bragging and bravado. Underneath this he is terrified of being beaten by a girls. If this happens to him, his brittle ego will shatter. If you want to break his will and his ego it is essential to get him sexually aroused before you crush him. A man can hardly say that you are un-feminine or masculine if he has just had a hard-on for all to see and has been pleading with you for sex or begging you to let him take your panties down can he?
(f). Humiliation
The next important thing is to rub-in the defeat - turning it into humiliation. If you have kneed your man in the balls, try, when he has finished writhing about, pulling off his clothes to leave him submissively naked and vulnerable. Use his pants as a "trophy" of his defeat, holding them high in triumph. Then, standing with one foot on his chest in the classic triumphant pose of the victor and the vanquished, look him in the eye and shout "Girl defeats male!" and "Pussy defeats cock and balls!" If he can see up your skirt so much the better, you can show him the panty crotch that was his undoing when he was trying to grope it before you fixed him. Threaten to kick his balls until you get him to admit aloud that he is a male and that he is defeated by a "pretty little girlie". This is easier if you have got him by balls because you don't let go until he has pleaded with you for mercy and admitted defeat. Jeer at him and make him use phrases like "defeat" and "shame" a lot and tease him some more until he begs, crawls and grovels for panty. It is very important that you are never naked yourself: always keep on at least your skirt and panties at all times, except, perhaps when face-siting him (remember to put you panties back on afterwards). Symbolically, the person with the clothes on is the one with the power, and that's you. The rule applies even when granting sex to the submissive man. Another rule is that eye-to-eye contact should be maintained whenever possible -it enhances the feelings of shame.
One way of increasing the humiliation of a man is to get him very excited and frustrated and force him to admit shame about his male urges. Get him going and he will confess to a multitude of shifting and almost unbearable urges. Another is to discuss **********, and watch his erection go harder!
Mocking is a powerful humiliation tool. Mock his pleadings "I beg you for sex!"; "Please let me have it!"; "Panties, oh panteees!" "Mercy Oh girlie" are some taunting phrases to throw back at him at any time. Giggling, laughing and pointing at him are good ones too, especially by girl onlookers.
(g). Bondage, Restraint, Corporal Punishment and Cock & Ball Torture
These can all be a turn-on if handled with subtlety and care as part of a humiliation scenario. Of course, this also achieves a physical transfer of power and the utter helplessness of the victim. Code words are especially important. Tying up a man’s balls is an extremely powerful message about his transfer of power you and is very highly recommended even when other forms of restraint are not used.
(h). Using the man's fears and fantasies to humiliate him
A strange but true anomaly: a man's deepest primeval sexual fears are also his most powerful and fascinating fantasies. Most men have deep-rooted fear and fantasies about being humiliated by girls, but their egos won't let them admit it unless they are seriously demoralised. The most powerful and unnerving of all these fears is of being beaten by a girl in a fight. Fighting is that most masculine of pursuits and men are both terrified and thrilled at the thought of being thrashed by girls. In fact a girl will always defeat man in unarmed combat for two reasons. The first is simply that his jewels are his weakness and he knows it. The second is that when he realises that you know it he is unnerved, tends to over-react to any threats to them and devotes half of his attention and energy on protecting them. You only have to feint an attack on his weakness to gain the advantage and will best him anyway even if you don't actually attack his maleness. It is important to realise that the more feminine, fragile, and weak you are and the more you play the cute, innocent, vulnerable, waif-like, giggly little girlie, the more powerful his humiliation at taking a beating from you. Wearing your hair in plaîts or bunches and giggling a lot and adopting a submissive demeanour even when dominant is extremely deflating for a defeated man. He won't be humiliated much by being thumped by a huge amazon of a female that he would never fancy in a million years, but he be deeply ashamed of pleading for mercy from a pretty little giggly girlie that he clearly wants to have sex with. Most men also have an even deeper fear and fantasies about being raped and ********* by a girl. Again fear and fantasy are in proportion to the strength of his male urges for the girl concerned and he needs to be beaten, defeated and scorned by a girl that he lusts for. Being humiliated in public intensifies the shame and humiliation of a man, especially if the onlookers are attractive girls. Talk about these humiliations with your man and plan your scenario accordingly. You might want to stage a wrestling match with him in front of your girl friends and make sure that you defeat him in a different way in each round. The scenario in "How I was broken" might provide a useful agenda. A mock ********** either during conventional sex or when he loses his disgusting, shameful male slime all over your pretty panties and skirt as you emasculate him is the most effective humiliation of all! Don't forget to have a girl "referee" announcing his every unworthy defeat for everyone to laugh at and poke fun at him.
(i). Breaking a man
The submission of a man to Girl Power for the first time is referred to as the man being "broken". It can be difficult for both partners if he has not confessed to his submissive fantasies yet but a good knee in the balls is a good start. Beware! An inexpert assault isn't sexy at all and may put him off sexually dominant girls for good. You can't have a code word either, so be very, very careful or you could have a death on your hands. Once he is well broken a man craves for more domination and humiliation and he will willingly submit to and co-operate with his partner. After breaking, it is nice to exchange tokens. She gives him a leather-studded dog-collar and fits it around his neck as a sign of her affection for him and his submission to her. He gives her a similar, but smaller, version and places it around her ankle as a sign of his affection her and her dominance of him. When they met again these tokens are a potent reminder that can transport the pair into sexual arousal more quickly than normal.
(j). Making Girl Power work for you.
Whatever you want from sex you can have! Talk to your man about his fantasies, but don't forget you own. Once he is broken he will confess to his fantasies about being beaten by girls and you can explore his most humiliating and thrilling scenarios, adapting them to satisfy your needs too - most men are also turned-on by seeing their partner enjoying sex. If you like pussy-licking make sure that it is included in the scenario. However, it is extremely important to realise that you must not let the man have the satisfaction of ejaculation - his "big bang" - before you are completely satisfied sexually. Once he has ejaculated he will lose interest in the fantasy and in sex altogether and an unwilling partner is no good for you. Also take note that most girls say that they achieve only stage four of their nine stages of orgasm in conventional sex. Indeed some girls don't even know about the higher levels of orgasm: So much for the ability of men to please their partners! The beauty of Girl Power is that once you have broken him you can force the man to satisfy you when you like, how you like, and for as long as you like to ensure that you finish properly before allowing him to finish. Even "conventional" sex can work for you because, if you have him by the balls he is helpless and you can turn him on and off at will while you work on your orgasm. If you "use" his tongue to get you ready it can make all the difference. A good humiliating ending for the man is to threaten to ******** him if he ejaculates and then make him plead to be allowed to do it - he may even beg you to ******** him to relieve his escalating need for release! A good tip is to keep a metal knife (preferably blunt) in the freezer until just before sex: keep it hidden and then run the blunt edge across his scrotum at the right moment. Immediately show him a couple of red grapes that you have kept hidden: put them one at a time between your front teeth and bite them, then chew them noisily, grinning in his face. He will think you have done for him - and I'll bet he has the most explosive ejaculation yet!
(k). Sexy clothes
The importance of sexy clothing cannot be emphasised too much! Wearing sexy clothes is not to pander to a man's wishes. Think of it as provoking him and baiting him, luring him into your girlie trap, exploiting his weakness. If a man says that he does not like "tarty" girl's clothes, he is lying! Do you think that prostitutes would have evolved a style of clothes for centuries if it didn't tease men? The first rule of seduction is to wear plain-coloured tight, shiny, wet-look fabrics such as ciré, satin, silk, or soft PVC. Cotton, lace and rough fabrics are not nearly so effective. Patterned fabrics tend to interfere with or hide the shapes underneath but shiny fabrics enhance them. Although some men like leather or rubber they are a specialised taste and should be avoided unless he asks for them. The second rule of leading a man on is to wear as short a micro-miniskirt as you can find and make sure that he can see your tight shiny panties peeping out underneath - you will have him hooked. Make the panties a contrasting colour from the skirt to increase the visual impact and give him plenty of opportunity to look up your skirt. If the panty emphasises your mound of Venus and girlie slit then all the better. Panties, briefs or thongs are very sexy if they have that alluring shiny "panty-vee" that is so effective. Shorts or hot-pants lingerie have an advantage in that, when worn under a skirt, he can rub and slide the sheer fabric of the skirt over the fabric of the shorts covering your bottom as well as your belly and that is very exciting for both partners. Some panty briefs have the advantage of being cut into a vee at the front and still cover the bottom at the back, but not many. Long skirts and trousers are defiantly out. If he feels good about your outfit he will let you know and then you will feel better too. For some men, being ****** to wear sexy girl clothes too can also be very shameful and arousing, especially when subjected to derision.
There isn’t much point in making a huge effort to wear sexy clothing and then putting the man off by having unattractive body hair. Some men may like body hair but most definitely do not: and most are likely to enjoy, and make a good job of, licking a nice smooth, bald pussy! Again, it is not a matter of pandering to male tastes – it is making the most of your feminine power.
(l). A word about "Femdom"
I'm afraid that the traditional big, unsmiling, frowning "Mistress" dressed in leather or rubber and wielding a whip is a very unsatisfactory role model. These scenarios usually involve little tactile contact, no emotional involvement, and no fun. For goodness sake, why don't these people loosen-up and have a laugh? Femdom scenarios also sometimes use gags: these can be very dangerous and best avoided unless you check continually that the victim is breathing properly. Forget to check and you could have a very embarrassing corpse to explain. Similarly, drugs are best avoided.
4. How I was broken
(a) The girl
Curiously, I was broken by a girl who didn't even know that it happened. I am a naturally very domineering man and most girls quite naturally tend to be submissive towards me. In my job I often tell their "bosses" what to do and the girls seem to respond to the power by being even more submissive. For many years just assumed that I would be the dominant one and my partner would be submissive - it never occurred to me that it could be any other way. Then I met Janet. Janet was pretty, slim, and very submissive to the point of not speaking to anyone in my presence because she thought that anything that she had to say was unimportant compared with what I might have to say. Sex was not good because I could see that she didn't enjoy it but she would not say what she wanted, and I had given up trying. I became bored with her, and because she would not go away, I treated her with contempt, just using her to relieve my sexual needs. I felt guilty and ashamed at the way I treated her.
(b) The dream
One night I had the most amazing experience: part dream and part half-awake fantasy. Janet had invited me to a party involving just her girl friends. She had her hair in two large plaîts and was dressed exactly how I like it in a "tarty" outfit of a shiny black ciré micro-minidress with her tight, shiny, white wet-look panties clearly on show. Janet looked ravishingly "timid sweet little girlie" and I was so turned-on by that that I wanted to **** her, gorging my overpowering male urges on her body. Then, to my utter astonishment, Janet challenged me to a fight! I was horrified, terrified and bright red with awful embarrassment, but her friends encouraged her and goaded me into it. The sweet girl completely outfought me. She squeezed my balls until I submitted, tied up my balls tightly with one of my socks, and then pulled-off my shorts, leaving me with a shamefully obvious hard-on. She stood with one foot on my chest and her hand held over her head in the classic victory pose and shouted "Yes! How does it feel to be beaten by a girlie? She sat on my face and then used my bollocks to force me to lick her panties. I refused at first but had to give-in and, purple-faced, kiss her panties and thighs and then licked them. She made me admit defeat to the crowd this time "Janet has defeated me". She then tied me up and raped me with a dildo so that everyone could see that I nearly had an ejaculation. Then she put my bollocks in her mouth and watched the visceral fear in my eyes as I screamed an apology for being a man, before she let me go, mercifully still with my jewels in-tact. She rode me around the room bareback, controlling me by using my bollocks just like a horse's bit, until I collapsed. Janet goaded me into standing up to fight her but she slammed a knee in my balls and I went down, writhing and screaming for mercy and help. She massaged my defeated manhood until, after what seems like hours of moaning, crying and pleading, she revived my erection. She pulled her panties aside and ****** me to give her a prolonged pussy-licking, commanding my tongue at every move until she was on the verge of climax. Finally, she rubbed my penis on her skirt and my bollocks on her panties until I pleaded with her for sex. She invited me to worship her girlhood with my penis and I had never been like this with Janet before - gagging and moaning with outright lust. Her thighs, belly, breasts, and panties tormented and provoked my gross male urges until she pulled her panties aside again and I rammed inside her sweet wet, tight pussy. She started writhing like a snake, wrapping her legs about me and this sent me wild, bucking against her pubic mound as I sought to obtain relief. I gripped her skirt and panties in a vice-like grip, grinding my pubic bone against hers and pressing my chest against her delightful tits. I grunted again and again like a wild pig, straining for release as she thrust against me invitingly: "Let me come, I beg you!" I shouted. "When you come, I am going to ******** you!" she said. My back arched and I knew I was a goner, but she crushed my balls to prevent it. "Oh God, yes! yes! Finish me off, ******** me!" I cried. At that moment I felt her take my bollocks in her hand and my body went rigid with anticipation and my back arched further like a bow. Just as my semen broke out and spurted like white-hot metal out of me, I felt her slice through my scrotum as she ripped my masculinity from my body. "Yes! Yes! Yes! she shouted in my face in exaltation, ramming herself against me, "Girlie's Revenge!" Girl defeats man! Pussy beats cock!" and she held the ruins of my manhood high above her head, the elated conqueror with her trophy, a trickle of my blood running down her arm, and grinning in my face, taunting me. I just couldn't stop myself and kept thrusting and gouting spunk inside her, desperate to release the last few drops of my last ejaculation inside the girl who had unmanned me. It was the most delicious sex of my life. For a moment it was surreal. It was as if my whole universe of aggressive masculinity was kissed by her sweet gentle girlishness and yielded to it. I meekly surrendered to her as she ripped my maleness from my body in the ultimate girlie revenge. The girlfriends all cheered and jeered and pointed at me prostrate, crawling, ridiculous and despicable as I hung my head in abject, crying with shame. I woke up in bed at home in the throes of a massive orgasm, having the most fantastically productive and satisfying ejaculation that I have ever experienced, followed by a wave of mini-orgasms. I tried to tell Janet about it but she didn't really understand and we stopped seeing one another shortly afterwards. That one dream changed my life sexually forever.
5. Conclusion
Follow this advice for a satisfying and full sex-life for you and your partner. You might even "break" some new men! If you need any help or a demonstration I would be glad to be the submissive man for groups of girls (no men). However, unfortunately I can’t demonstrate receiving kneeing, kicking or stamping because of a hernia inflicted in the cause – it’s such a pity but I just daren’t risk serious damage!, Just e-mail me and provide some details: I'm sure that you will understand the need to be discreet, as I want to avoid certain embarrassing contacts.
Martin Cooper
MartinOOOO@hotmail .com (for letters O not 4 numbers zero)