Poll - Clothing of Ballbusting Participants of Vids & Photos You Prefer

[iron horse]

When you are viewing (as opposed to participating in yourself) ballbusting situations, what do you most prefer seeing insofar as the clothing of the participants?

[agoknee]

I vote for all naked.

[jenniesweaters]

I just like it that way. I like it when the lady has a soft fuzzy sweater on and she's crushing his nuts.

Jen

[illusionweaver]

I love bb in stockings, sexiest combo for me. Males should be naked, so it doesn't look fake.

[darkwing]

It seems that at least the breasts should be visible if not the rest of the body. It just seems to fit with the idea of providing stimulation along with the discomfort (in this case, visual stimulation if not more)

[Magnum]

I just like it that way. I like it when the lady has a soft fuzzy sweater on and she's crushing his nuts.

Jen


This would be fine by me. Welcome aboard Jenny. BTW, love your blue sweater.

[gopballbustеr2]

I just like it that way. I like it when the lady has a soft fuzzy sweater on and she's crushing his nuts.

Jen


Hi gopballbuster. Nice avatar, did you find it on MySpace?

[crazy9]

chick topless or naked, dude clothed or preferebly completely out of shot

i don't want to see guys in the pictures

[pungdjur]

I voted for CFNM. For me, the least arousing videos are those old VK videos where the guy is wearing beige slacks which obviously contains lots of protective padding in the groin.

[Jedi]

CFNM all the way. Don't have a clothing preference other than some sexy shoes or boots. :thumbup

[dark]

CFNM too! I prefer women in casual clothes.

[reginauld]

The more nude the merrier;).

[chris028]

...hmmm with the women it depends. But the guy should definitely be naked so there's no way to fake things.

[Dragonsandr]

barefoot all the way :D .. + clothes

[enigma]

Leather against flesh

Girls wearing black leather jacket, mini skirt and thighboots --leather of course

also boxing gloves YEA:bananajum :bananad:

[crazy9]

I'm sorry but if you want the guy naked and the girl clothed, you might as well just yell out "i'm gay", or at the very least bi. (though i can't imagine why you wouldn't want the girl naked too then)

why the hell do you want to see another GUY naked, in the video's you're watching.


Also, on this topic, something that pisses me off, in mainstream porno's, why the fuck do they show a close up of the guys face? Like anyone who's bought the movie wants to see that? seriously, i'd imagine 99% of people who buy pornos are fapping off to them, and the other 1% might be married couples trying to spice up their life (so that 1% get's a benefit) but the rest of them? If i were them, I'd be fucking pissed if you're batting off, and just as it gets to the good part BAM, close up of some sweaty ugly dude. That's the sort of shit that'll mess you up in the head.

Personally, in porno made FOR men, the men should be out of frame, so you can just see the chick, and imagine you're the guy

[Jedi]

Wow...looks like thousands of blokes including me are going to be questioning our sexuality tonight! I better go and tell the wife that I've just realized that I like men!:rolleyes:

What more can I add to such I narrow minded comment?

[pungdjur]

I'm sorry but if you want the guy naked and the girl clothed, you might as well just yell out "i'm gay", or at the very least bi. (though i can't imagine why you wouldn't want the girl naked too then)Congratulations! This has to be the stupidest comment I've ever read on a BB forum. You do of course realise that this "gay" comment makes you look like a narrow minded George W Bush fan? Moron.


why the hell do you want to see another GUY naked, in the video's you're watching.
Personally, in porno made FOR men, the men should be out of frame, so you can just see the chick, and imagine you're the guyI'll try to explain it in words with 1 or 2 syllables. We like kicks to the balls. So we want to see the balls that are being kicked. A ball kick with the balls out of frame doesn't really count. You understand now?


Also, on this topic, something that pisses me off, in mainstream porno's, why the fuck do they show a close up of the guys face? Like anyone who's bought the movie wants to see that?I have to agree with you on that one, though.

[Jewels_4Me]

As a curious female interested in this fetish, I find it interesting that the men actually prefer for the men to be nude yet the females clothed. It seems to me that would be in reverse.

Regardless, I think it is great that the highest rating on this poll is for the men to be naked and the women to be clothed. I completely concur, and I'd bet most other women do too! :thumbup

It's not just the idea of seeing the guys' penis and balls dangling to be targeted, but the sound of hearing those balls slap hard against her foot knowing that there was absolutely nothing between her foot and his balls to buffer the impact.

I also enjoy the humiliation of the male, and with him naked for the world to see, every aspect of his manhood is laid out naked and vulnerable, yet the female is protected and at a very unfair advantage. And it also underscores her superiority.

The anonymity of forums like this allows us to explore the dark fetishes we harbor but never speak of. I can admit to all of you that down underneath, I enjoy this concept not because it makes for great foreplay to sex, but because I am sadistic and enjoy that side of me. I enjoy the eroticism of being powerful and using that to be mean to men. If I kicked a naked guy in the balls so hard he drops in pain holding them, rather than feel sorry I'd walk around to his backside as he laid there to see if his balls were protruding out, then I'd kick them again, but harder - and laugh in pure enjoyment then leave him crying! :Baahaha:

Hopefully, I can experience that one day. :D

[nijan0]

I'd rather underpants

[Mr.E Dood]

I'm sorry but if you want the guy naked and the girl clothed, you might as well just yell out "i'm gay", or at the very least bi. (though i can't imagine why you wouldn't want the girl naked too then)

why the hell do you want to see another GUY naked, in the video's you're watching.


Also, on this topic, something that pisses me off, in mainstream porno's, why the fuck do they show a close up of the guys face? Like anyone who's bought the movie wants to see that? seriously, i'd imagine 99% of people who buy pornos are fapping off to them, and the other 1% might be married couples trying to spice up their life (so that 1% get's a benefit) but the rest of them? If i were them, I'd be fucking pissed if you're batting off, and just as it gets to the good part BAM, close up of some sweaty ugly dude. That's the sort of shit that'll mess you up in the head.

Personally, in porno made FOR men, the men should be out of frame, so you can just see the chick, and imagine you're the guy

I'm a new guy here, so I always like to look for the biggest jerks as a way of introduction. This one jumps out immediately. These are often confused and sexually frustrated homophobes that freak out when their porno show nude guys and shout out that everyone is "gay! gay! gay!"

I prefer cfnm for ballbusting for a lot of reasons, but I am neither bi nor gay, nor have I ever even thought about it...just aint there.

So since we're hurling our insults at others without really knowing what they're about, I feel I should throw one back at this guy, and I know he'll understand what I'm saying.

Crazy9 dude - you're a closet homosexual. The biggest homophobes always are. Secretly, they are extremely fearful of confronting that internal desire to suck a dick and think it makes others seem them as a sick perverted sissy boy. So I say to you Crazy9, come out! Go suck dicks which we know it's what you really want to do because otherwise, you'd not be so freaked out about it and insist its actually the others that are gay.

So let it out dude. Go suck some dicks and come back comfortable with who you were. We of course won't be doing that, because we aint gay and don't have the issues you do.

[cigar4u]

Crazy 9 apparently has angered a number of people here for what appears to be homophobic comments.

But he is entitled to his opinion and we should not discourage him – or anyone -- from freely expressing their feelings on this or any other subject.

I think that instead of insulting anyone who contributes to a message board – even if that person’s thoughts are deemed undesirable by the majority – we should attempt to show that person why his thinking is archaic and try to make him more aware and enlightened.

I too am a straight man who indeed prefers all forms of female vs. male situations to be CFNM. And I am not surprised that the CFNM scenario is the most preferred by those who responded to this poll.

And I would go so far to say that the majority of the voters who prefer a CFNM scenario are heterosexual.

My comments to Crazy9 and anyone else who shares his viewpoint are that, first of all, if I were gay, it would not matter. Indeed, I would imagine that a number of gay men subscribe to this board. And there is nothing wrong with that. Go for it. Enjoy it. Life is too short to hate.

But the more important point I would like to make to Crazy9 and others is that eroticism takes many forms as does the subject of ballbusting.

Some people, like myself, prefer the illusion of being busted while others need to actually feel a powerful blow to the groin to be satisfied.

While actually getting kicked, punched or grabbed harshly in the family jewels by a woman causes me to feel a certain amount of uneasiness, I certainly am not critical of those who desire that rough treatment. And they should not be critical of my prefering just to play act a ballbusting scenario.

The reason I prefer CFNM over CFCM, NFNM or other potential scenarios is that I simply find it sexier if the male is nude and in distress and the female is clothed and in charge because of a combination of the contrast in attire and in traditional roles.

(For that matter, I also prefer CFNF over CFCF or NFNF c-busting.)

I enjoy any form of combat – wrestling, karate, boxing, bondage, etc. – when the superior woman is clothed and the subserviant individual is nude, be it a man or a woman.

Ballbusting is just one vehicle for a combat fantasy. The thrill is not so much for me to see another man nude, but rather to witness a clothed woman taking such liberties with a person who is in such a defenseless and hopeless state.

Society has taught us that it is proper to be clothed and that it is taboo to be naked and that women generally are weaker than men.

Therefore, in a challenge between two people of different sexes, if the seemingly weaker woman is able to denude a larger male foe, the seemingly superior man is relegated to a position of being at a great disadvantage, tremendously vulnerable and at her mercy. And that is hot.

I have no problem looking at a man and admitting that he is attractive or well-hung. In fact, I find the scenario even more steamy if an attractive clothed woman is attacking and seemingly destroying an impressive set of organs between the legs of a particularly good looking dude.

That does not mean I desire to ass **** or blow the handsome, well endowed guy who is featured in the ballbusting scenario. In fact, I don’t have any such feelings for that male.

I am however, excited by the mystery of the gorgeous clothed woman and, if her performance is believable, I fantasize about her and put myself into the position of the naked guy in the video. And I am sure many straight men – and maybe even some gay guys – do the same.

My adventures into wrestling, bondage, ballbusting, etc., have always been CFNM. I am turned on by being nude in the presence of a woman in a swimsuit or an equally sexy outfit. (I also prefer the woman to be barefooted instead of in boots, shoes, sandals, etc.)

And, don’t forget, curious women read this message board too and I reckon many of them would enjoy being clothed and ballbusting a nude man. (I have never had a woman turn down performing a CFNM ballbusting or wrestling fantasy with me, either for money or for fun.)

On another thread, I recently criticized the fetish wrestling video industry for still producing material where a scantily clad woman puts a fully clothed man in a scissors hold.

I was not saying the industry should not produce such videos because there obviously is a longstanding market for that scenario. I merely pointed out that the industry should produce more CFNM matches because I believe there is a strong market -- straight or gay -- who want to see more of that type of action.

If Crazy9 prefers his fetish a certain way, that’s fine. But to negatively label those of us who like CFNM is just counterproductive. And he is labeling an awful lot of people.

Though this was not a scientific poll, the results clearly showed that more than four of 10 people who responded desire the CFNM scenario – a significant majority as compared with the nearly 25 percent who prefer both individuals naked.

In fact, if you add the three categories where the man is naked in the scenario, it accounts for more than 80 percent of all those who responded!

I do not know what the gay population of the planet is, but I am pretty darn sure it is nowhere near that high of a percentage! LOL

The bottom line is that we should all try to be more tolerant of other people and their opinions, even Crazy9’s outdated beliefs. By the same token, Crazy9 should be more tolerant of those of us who perceive things just a little bit different than he does.

[Castratrix's pet]

I love to see women wearing long sleeve shirts with their sleeves rolled up above their elbows. I love watching a woman in a long sleeve shirt rolling up her sleeves rolling them up above her elbows, then watch her doing extreme and painful things to a male's balls especially to a man's balls, watching a male's manhood being totally destroyed at the hands of a woman with her long sleeves rolled up above her elbows.

As for myself as a man who is in the hands of a woman and totally at her mercy, I like only to be wearing a long sleeve shirt with my sleeves down and my arms covered completely to my hands in long sleeves.

So in pics and vids I want to see a man in a long sleeve shirt with his sleeves down and his arms covered completely to his hands in long sleeves having his manhood totally destroyed at the hands of women wearing long sleeve shirts with their sleeves rolled up above their elbows.

[crazy9]

I can't believe some people wrote massive essays argueing against my flippant remarks. Whatever i guess that's denial.


All I'm saying is, you're jerking off to a naked guy. That's it. That's the fact. Look at it from an outsiders perspective. What do they see? Deal with it.

:bananawin

[Snakelinux]

I am just curious. What you do think about people who like both parties to be clothed? I am simply asking because you seem to assume that sexual lust can only be drawn toward the naked person. So how would you explain someone masturbating to two clothed people?

P.S. I will not reveal my personal preferences for who should be wearing what here because they will only be bashed in this thread.

[Mr.E Dood]

I can't believe some people wrote massive essays argueing against my flippant remarks. Whatever i guess that's denial.


All I'm saying is, you're jerking off to a naked guy. That's it. That's the fact. Look at it from an outsiders perspective. What do they see? Deal with it.

:bananawin

The only "fact" is that your an absolute asshole and the biggest idiot on this forum. But I'm not telling you anything you and everyone else doesn't know.

Deal with it. ;)

[crazy9]

The only "fact" is that your an absolute asshole and the biggest idiot on this forum. But I'm not telling you anything you and everyone else doesn't know.

Deal with it. ;)

whatever, enjoy jerking off to me:bananajum

[Teardrop]

I voted for both guy and girl being naked.

However, if there was an "all of the above" option, I would have ticked that as I've enjoyed BB in every combination of nude/clothed on both participants. Guess I'm easy to please.

[iron horse]

The debate about nudity, particularly as it pertains to the male, has gone on for a very long time with some pretty vocal folks posting one way or another. This poll is very revealing as it has had a significant response this matter has gone on for a long time with people arguing one way or another. The poll was responded to by over 170 members, and no one can argue it's not representative of general opinion of the members.

My read on it is this...this forum's participants are mostly male. The fact that 42% prefer CFNM (the most voted upon) and, the fact that 85% prefer the men to be naked in the different scenarios of varying dress of the ladies indicates it can't be a gay thing at all but instead about being submissive and vulnerably exposed to the female. On average, gays comprise under 10% of the population, and further, one would think that the number of gays that would hang out on a board that involves a fetish focusing upon heterosexual encounters (ergo, with female/femdoms) would be even less as there are male-on-male BDSM forums out there. Thus, the being "gay" argument has no merit in how the majority of members voted.

[Altamesa]

I prefer wearing at least some clothing, and for sure not leaving too much of the good stuff exposed. I always want the guy wondering. The guy of course must be nude. I also love to bust barefoot since I‘m going for nothing more than some teeth-gritting pain. The slapping sound of my foot contacting a guys sweaty groin is pretty cool, and seeing the dangling targets taking on that abused red tinge of color following a bust is definitely something I want to see. For me it’s all about power tripping, and baby, with a good punt will certainly know I have the power.

[funballz]

OK, here is the strait n skinny. As a receiver of kicks punches and squeezes from women, I prefer to be naked with the ladies clothed. It is more humiliating to the men to have their ballz hanging and vulnerable with the women clothed and powerful. As a viewer of such videos, I prefer the same. You KNOW that the ballz are really being busted. There is no humiliation on the ladies part.
There is nothing gay about it.

[chefrn90]

As a curious female interested in this fetish, I find it interesting that the men actually prefer for the men to be nude yet the females clothed. It seems to me that would be in reverse.

Regardless, I think it is great that the highest rating on this poll is for the men to be naked and the women to be clothed. I completely concur, and I'd bet most other women do too! :thumbup

It's not just the idea of seeing the guys' penis and balls dangling to be targeted, but the sound of hearing those balls slap hard against her foot knowing that there was absolutely nothing between her foot and his balls to buffer the impact.

I also enjoy the humiliation of the male, and with him naked for the world to see, every aspect of his manhood is laid out naked and vulnerable, yet the female is protected and at a very unfair advantage. And it also underscores her superiority.

The anonymity of forums like this allows us to explore the dark fetishes we harbor but never speak of. I can admit to all of you that down underneath, I enjoy this concept not because it makes for great foreplay to sex, but because I am sadistic and enjoy that side of me. I enjoy the eroticism of being powerful and using that to be mean to men. If I kicked a naked guy in the balls so hard he drops in pain holding them, rather than feel sorry I'd walk around to his backside as he laid there to see if his balls were protruding out, then I'd kick them again, but harder - and laugh in pure enjoyment then leave him crying! :Baahaha:

Hopefully, I can experience that one day. :D
Jewels4 me that is incredibly sexy, right down to the laughing part.. what a lucky guy that will be..........................:jumpsmile

[iron horse]

This thread seems to have died out. It's very informative, both from a female and male perspective.

[justjon]

I voted for all naked, however, the cfnm aspect of a bb session is also highly erotic.
if it was me that was getting kicked/busted, i think i would preffer all parties to be naked, mainly because it's a sexual act...and i like naked women, it would take my mind off the pain! lol

[misterjover]

To me, it really depends on the features of the girl as well as the scenario.

In my real life, I had plenty of ballbusting experiences in the office, and it turns me on to see girls in an office or in professional attire dominate a naked man.

Then again, if the girl has a killer body, and she looks great on camera, I would prefer total nudity.

[dyshico]

hmmm...I like CFNM but in the end I think the all naked is best! :)

[dec86]

i think naked-naked is the best! but, for me, the necessary thing is the woman laughs :iluvu:

[22heat22]

I voted all nude. The guy should definitely be naked so he has absolutely no protection. As for the women I pefer them to be naked as well but never more than lingere.

[blkpatent]

CFNM only. If I want porn I'll watch regular porn.

[subsenmartin]

It is interesting how everybody has their own opinion. In my opinion it seems like many viewers like to see the man nude so they can see his balls get busted or grabbed, twisted etc. But their are a few who do not like that.

There does seem to be a movement toward nude/topless women busting a guy who may or may not be nude. This almost seems like regular porn. Especially when I see more sites that show hardcore porn like stuff with the ballbusting fetish mixed in.

I guess that is what mainstreaming things can do.....

Personally I like to see CFNM.

[zanado1980]

I like it when the chick is dressed and she undress the guy and torture his balls in each phase.
I prefer enjoy the underpants phase.

[iron horse]

This poll has been on this forum for over a year. I think the result speaks for itself.

[foryourpleasure]

then i hope u dont mind my opinion, idc what anyone has to say to this but naked all the way, bare nut pain and tits bouncing is the way to go.

[Andrew80]

My favourite is nude ballbusting, I like to see nude pussy kicking balls and tits swinging when girl kick dick:jumpsmile

[obedientesticle]

CFNM only. If I want porn I'll watch regular porn.

cfnm - I totally agree with blkpatent! The fetish is the femdom and the humiliation of the man.

[Mr.E Dood]

I've noticed a trend for about 10 years. Originally, the guys were clothed and the women were topless or nude, and now it's the reverse. I think that the market has spoken - CFNM is the best because the man is presented naked and vulnerable, and the level of humiliation is higher when he is at such a disadvantage.

I've read posts where guys claim CFNM is "gay", such a myopic and narrow-minded response I think stems from internal fears that their own sexuality is in question. History has shown that closet gays are often the most critical of any new laws or publication of gay stuff.

But as a healthy and confident heterosexual comfortable with his own orientation (I am neither gay nor bi), I don't have such phobias.

I say CFNM all the way! :thumbup

[kerrpop]

I've read posts where guys claim CFNM is "gay", such a myopic and narrow-minded response I think stems from internal fears that their own sexuality is in question.

I say CFNM all the way! :thumbup

They just don't understand the subtleties of power exchange. Their loss.

[fsdffsd]

the girls should be naked, cause i know myself i would love to stare at their tits and pussy when getting busted, adds to the whole domination and envy experience

[blkpatent]

the girls should be naked, cause i know myself i would love to stare at their tits and pussy when getting busted, adds to the whole domination and envy experience
The whole point of the male humiliation aspect is that he isn't supposed to be aroused so the woman being nude or partially nude kills the whole thing. It's about who has the power, who's in charge and a fully dressed woman standing in front of totally nude male is self explanatory. She's in charge and he is there to be abused.

[Alec Anaconda]

blkpatent:
The whole point of the male humiliation aspect is that he isn't supposed to be aroused so the woman being nude or partially nude kills the whole thing. It's about who has the power, who's in charge and a fully dressed woman standing in front of totally nude male is self explanatory. She's in charge and he is there to be abused.


Humiliation is part of the experience for some, but certainly not all, men.

For me, BB is more about a shared sexual togetherness, enhanced by naked skin-to-skin contact.

I think that a powerful woman’s control can be enhanced by her confidence in her unfettered body.

Alec Anaconda

[iron horse]

I think the great thing about this post is the poll. I've made it known I'm definitely in the camp of 100% CFNM, but think that the poll speaks for itself.

However, call something other men like as being gay with assurance one's right, particularly when they are definitely wrong, is the same as wearing a big sign "I'm an asshole!" Fortunately, most of us can read those signs and just ignore the jerk, which is the best way to deal with flamers who's IQ's are less than average for this board.

[Winddancer]

I like it when a woman's only dress is white socks :)
A man should be totally nude.

[jabbber]

male nude, female how ever she wants! it's the only way!

[eric B]

Personally I don't get cfnm because for me being naked is more of a liberty than a humiliation. I don't feel any more powerful having clothes on than being naked and I can't really imagine why a woman would...

[iron horse]

Personally I don't get cfnm because for me being naked is more of a liberty than a humiliation. I don't feel any more powerful having clothes on than being naked and I can't really imagine why a woman would...

Some "get it" and some don't. Regardless, we should all be able to pursue our own direction and erotic pursuits absent any condescending hypocritical accusations as to being freaks, gays, or whatever from those that may not "get it". Your enjoyment is certainly yours, and I would never criticize it or claim you're a freak, gay, etc.

[eric B]

Some "get it" and some don't. Regardless, we should all be able to pursue our own direction and erotic pursuits absent any condescending hypocritical accusations as to being freaks, gays, or whatever from those that may not "get it". Your enjoyment is certainly yours, and I would never criticize it or claim you're a freak, gay, etc.

Sure, I'm not criticizing. It's the most popular clothing arrangement so you couldn't really say that it's weird. Just saying I don't really get it...

[iron horse]

This poll remains fairly interesting. Sharon and the ladies of femaledom.com insist on CFNM in most shoots, as I think it is also preferred by women...gives them a sense of power and entitlement over the man, followed by his further degradation by them kicking him in the most manly of body parts, his balls.

For me, CFNM ballbusting makes all the sense in the world.

[blkpatent]

This poll remains fairly interesting. Sharon and the ladies of femaledom.com insist on CFNM in most shoots, as I think it is also preferred by women...gives them a sense of power and entitlement over the man, followed by his further degradation by them kicking him in the most manly of body parts, his balls.

For me, CFNM ballbusting makes all the sense in the world.

I'm glad to hear this and wish all women who do this would demand the same. She's in charge and she should demand he strip or strip him herself. There's also something sexy (as a man) to stand/kneel naked in front of a very feminine woman in heels/hose, etc while she plants them on your balls.:ibow4u:

[icarus1]

I'd say the woman can do whatever she wants, but I prefer the humiliation of being totally naked and her either clothed or dressed erotically.

[deivis19]

cfnm for sure

[spanked]

For me the most important thing in a ballbusting video is a sexy girl, the second most important thing is a nude male. I'd prefer the girl to be nude, but I like CFNM as well. The girl stripping while ballbusting, possibly as a reward for the male, is also great. My favorite is bikini ballbusting and lingerie/underwear ballbusting. Ideally, the male should be masked.