Finally went to the doctor

[Jet]

Some time ago I posted a thread about me being afraid consulting the doctor for a possible testicle injury due to squeezing my testicles too hard.

Today I finally went to the doctor. I told him I squeezed my testicle very hard a long time ago. So he did a little examination. He said everything was all right.

When I told him that I sometimes have a weird feeling in my abandon and chest he said we all have a weird feeling sometimes. He also argued that when you fall on the frame of your bike your testicles will still be OK so when you squeeze them very hard they still should be OK.

Anyway, he agreed on a 2nd opinion so very soon I will visit a specialist (urolog) who will do a sound scan.

[bbbb]

Great stuff. I'm glad you're well. At least you can ease your mind now and get back to the important stuff, getting them broken (not literally, of course!)

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[Alec Anaconda]

Hi Jet,
The only place I ever get a referred pain from my testicles is in the small of my back.
This is always at the same time as agony in the balls.
So if your nuts don’t hurt, then chances are that you are fine.
Did you squeeze with your hand?
If so, it’s almost impossible for you to have damaged yourself. Most men find that they cannot even cause sufficient sensation with their own hand (something to do with feedback) and get their woman to do the compression.
The weird feeling in your abandon and chest could be fear or guilt. However, I suspect that it is a mild adrenaline rush, due to the excitement that you know you are going to squeeze them hard, yet again.

[gopballbustеr2]

Hi Jet,
The only place I ever get a referred pain from my testicles is in the small of my back.
This is always at the same time as agony in the balls.
So if your nuts don’t hurt, then chances are that you are fine.
Did you squeeze with your hand?
If so, it’s almost impossible for you to have damaged yourself. Most men find that they cannot even cause sufficient sensation with their own hand (something to do with feedback) and get their woman to do the compression.
The weird feeling in your abandon and chest could be fear or guilt. However, I suspect that it is a mild adrenaline rush, due to the excitement that you know you are going to squeeze them hard, yet again.

Are you assuming or do you know? Not looking to put you on the spot, just wondering.

[Alec Anaconda]

Mostly personal experiences.
“Most men” is an unjustified and inaccurate generalisation.
Clearly, ball squeezing is a minority sport, so that already excludes most men.
To be more precise, I can only know about me and those with whom I have discussed this subject. Maybe some mentally ill people can injure their balls by squeezing; who knows?
I used the phrase “adrenaline rush” to describe the mixed feelings of excitement and fear that I have had many times, before the start of a session that I expect to push my limits. I think the meaning is clear, but it would be difficult to prove that the release of adrenaline was the cause.
As to weird feelings, I can only make suggestions. I hope the doctor took the time to rule out the obvious causes.

Has anybody reading this actually damaged their nuts just by squeezing with their hand?

[smackMyNuts]

Referred pain from testicles usually shows up in the abdomen. It's like an ache at the bottom of your stomach. It's actually that pain which is what sometimes causes guys to throw up as a result of ball busting.

Smack

[Alec Anaconda]

I’ve never had referred pain from my testicles in my abdomen, nor have I felt nauseous. I have read about this, but always assumed that it was an urban myth popular in fiction. I have not noticed this on the more extreme bb sites, where they play with serious devices such as the elastic bands used to ******** bulls (too dangerous for me!) When I slipped a disc, low down in my back, my balls ached like hell; my referred pain works both ways.
None of this implies that I think it cannot happen.

Have you personally felt referred pain in your abdomen or stomach?
I’m interested in all first hand experiences.

[smackMyNuts]

Oh absolutely, I have. It only happens when it's a harder busting, not for some light squeezing or slapping. Basically, if it's something that's more about hurting the scrotum than the testicles, then I don't get any referred pain. But something which really hurts the testicles themselves, like a good hard squeezing, especially a prolonged one, or hard thumpy hits to the testicles themselves, I start to feel pain in my abdomen and muscles in that area begin to clench up. I've never vomited from it, but if I know that I'm going to be doing serious ball playing, I always make sure to do it on an empty stomach, just in case.

And if my stomach is already feeling upset, I always ask my wife to either go easy on them or just not bust me that night.

Smack

[Teardrop]

When I told him that I sometimes have a weird feeling in my abandon and chest he said we all have a weird feeling sometimes.
The pain in your abdomen is completely normal. It's because nerves connect your testicles directly to your abdomen, and then to your solar plexus and respiratory system.

Getting hit in the balls sends a shock through the nerves, which transmits through your abdomen and solar plexus. This is the reason men sometimes cough and want to throw up when they get hit in the balls.

The nauseous feeling is normal too, it's the first thing I associate with groin pain, that sickly feeling in my stomach.

[mick_sl8ter]

The pain in your abdomen is completely normal. It's because nerves connect your testicles directly to your abdomen, and then to your solar plexus and respiratory system.

Absolutely true ! I had to see a doctor lately, because my junk was swollen and hurting like hell ! But it also seem to come from my lower abdomen etc... and even back, although it was the testicles !

And guess what motherfuckers !? Surprise , surprise... I made an appointment with a male doctor. I went to him before. I sat there waiting , till it was time, I saw the doctor looking at his chart, I expected he would call my name.
But then a 25 year old blond girl called my name ! I went into the office. She wanted me to undress and lie down immediately, but I refused for a moment, I asked her if she was also a doctor. She told me she was also a doctor.
Then I just went along and she examined my junk ! Motherfucker ! This is what you get because of feminism ! Cute little girls examining your testicles !

I was in too much pain to actually enjoy the experience. But she seem to know quite alot about testicles, even mine ! She also told me that my balls are fucking damaged permanently.
I knew shit was damaged, you don't need to be einstein to figure that out, but still when someone who is a medical doctor shows it to you, it is kind of confrontational.

Now things kind of healed up a bit and I feel 'all good' again. And I am still 100% man, because I just got news I impregnated a girl ! So unless I am not the father, my balls still work, damaged or not !

[tobby]

Mick, did you feel ashamed or embarrassed when that girl was examining you?

[mick_sl8ter]

Mick, did you feel ashamed or embarrassed when that girl was examining you?
No I did not feel ashamed or embarrassed, I did feel intimidated.
Why ? I was caught off guard.

Imagine this: you feel miserable, you are on (prescription) drugs, and I don't mean light-headed, but more like in another dimension.
Let me explain: I can drink 10 beer and still be OK, but when I smoke 1 joint I am in another dimension. I am extremely sensitive to psychedelic drugs.
Probably because my mind is already less balanced than most people.

Then all of a sudden a complete stranger, you have never seen before: a 25 year old girl tells you, you need to undress for her, so she can examine your balls !
You don't know anything about her, she aparrently has read your complete medical file, she knows everything about you. She has studied scan's of your testicles.
You are the big man, she is the 25 year old girl, but then you really feel a shift of power balance right there !

She was very controlling in this whole situation, she literally and figurally had me by the balls in that situation !
What went to my mind:
to be continued...

Because I typed like 15 minutes... then a server error occured and everything got lost and I have to leave now...

[tobby]

Thanks for the reply mick, I'd be interested to read further down if you'd like to share the rest of your thoughts. Still, it sounds like a case of being ashamed more than anything else. I mean, wouldn you feel intimidated in case that a male doctor would examine you as well? Perhaps yes, but probably not as much as you did in that incident.

[mick_sl8ter]

Thanks for the reply mick, I'd be interested to read further down if you'd like to share the rest of your thoughts. Still, it sounds like a case of being ashamed more than anything else. I mean, wouldn you feel intimidated in case that a male doctor would examine you as well? Perhaps yes, but probably not as much as you did in that incident.

I would feel uncomfortable with a guy if he was an arrogant bastard / dickface like some doctors are. And then I have to subject myself to such a bastard by lowering my pants, that would make me feel uncomfortable.
But this male doctor is just a normal nice guy, I feel he respects me, I respect him. Just 2 guys, no uncomfortable feelings there. He has to take a look, no problem, go ahead, its over before anyone feels awkward.

But this female doctor had terrible attitude: I am your doctor, you must do as I say, you are now in my office. She was probably thinking: I own you bitch !
And then she takes her time, she wants to let you know who is in control here, while she examines your balls. And when you feel completely humiliated, and you have accepted your fate, she tells you with great satisfaction that you can get dressed now.

At that point you are not sure how you feel, you have been disrespected, you have lost part of your value as a human being. And you think it is not fair. Life should not be like this. For a brief moment you consider suicide, because somewhere a long the way you must have failed in life, to let it come to this and be humiliated by a girl like this... and then you snap out of it, and just continue your miserable life.

I think patients should have choice in doctors, when it comes to these kind of visits. Nobody should have to be put in such a situation.
You need medical attention, sure, but does that mean you have to become someones bitch ? And they can shit on you ?
I say fuck that !

If I was not drugged and so weak at that moment, I would have never let this happen to me. And I will never let this happen to me again, no matter how bad I am in need of medical attention.

[mick_sl8ter]

Let me add to that: I don't always have problems with mixed gender, genital examinations.
But there must be relation of trust and respect between doctor and patient.

In the past I had a female doctor examine my penis.
She was also young, just a few years older than me, but I knew her, she was my doctor for some years and she was a very caring and respectful professional, I did not feel awkward at all back then.
If anyone felt a little awkward it was her, and I admit I am quite the pervert, but I behaved perfectly, because I did not want to make her feel awkward or disrespect her.

[sebi40]

She also told me that my balls are fucking damaged permanently.
I knew shit was damaged, you don't need to be einstein to figure that out, but still when someone who is a medical doctor shows it to you, it is kind of confrontational.


I will be worried only about this statement. Damaged testicle it is a serious condition. The part with a woman examining your testicles is irrelevant.

[tobby]

I would feel uncomfortable with a guy if he was an arrogant bastard / dickface like some doctors are. And then I have to subject myself to such a bastard by lowering my pants, that would make me feel uncomfortable.
But this male doctor is just a normal nice guy, I feel he respects me, I respect him. Just 2 guys, no uncomfortable feelings there. He has to take a look, no problem, go ahead, its over before anyone feels awkward.

But this female doctor had terrible attitude: I am your doctor, you must do as I say, you are now in my office. She was probably thinking: I own you bitch !
And then she takes her time, she wants to let you know who is in control here, while she examines your balls. And when you feel completely humiliated, and you have accepted your fate, she tells you with great satisfaction that you can get dressed now.

At that point you are not sure how you feel, you have been disrespected, you have lost part of your value as a human being. And you think it is not fair. Life should not be like this. For a brief moment you consider suicide, because somewhere a long the way you must have failed in life, to let it come to this and be humiliated by a girl like this... and then you snap out of it, and just continue your miserable life.

I think patients should have choice in doctors, when it comes to these kind of visits. Nobody should have to be put in such a situation.
You need medical attention, sure, but does that mean you have to become someones bitch ? And they can shit on you ?
I say fuck that !

If I was not drugged and so weak at that moment, I would have never let this happen to me. And I will never let this happen to me again, no matter how bad I am in need of medical attention.
You concluded it perfectly. The factor of gender domination is present in incidents like that. When a female doctor acquires this kind of power over a male patient it is her chance to subjugate him by compelling him to undress and accept her authority in ways that deliberately ridicule and humiliate him.

Of course patients should have choice in doctors in these kind of visits and I'm sure that there would be no way for them to force you if you refused to follow her when she called you.

[jabby]

You concluded it perfectly. The factor of gender domination is present in incidents like that. When a female doctor acquires this kind of power over a male patient it is her chance to subjugate him by compelling him to undress and accept her authority in ways that deliberately ridicule and humiliate him.

Of course patients should have choice in doctors in these kind of visits and I'm sure that there would be no way for them to force you if you refused to follow her when she called you.

That's dumb. If you go in complaining about your testicles, the doctor needs to see and feel your testicles. If you don't want that to happen then feel free to walk out or not go in the first place. You can't claim they are 'compelling' you to do something when you are the one ASKING for an exam.

[mick_sl8ter]

That's dumb. If you go in complaining about your testicles, the doctor needs to see and feel your testicles. If you don't want that to happen then feel free to walk out or not go in the first place. You can't claim they are 'compelling' you to do something when you are the one ASKING for an exam.

Your reasoning is valid, but you missed the description of the situation here.
Key is freedom of choice. The right to not be put in a situation where you feel you have no other choice than to comply, even though you feel strongly against it.

In my dictionary, tricking another person into an unwanted genital examination, knowing they are temporarily weakened and drugged, using medical authority is abuse.

Your claim is correct that I came for a medical exam ! That was by my choice, correct ! But I had an appointment with a specific doctor.
It can not be justified that I was not informed, that another doctor would see me.
Patients should be informed and given a choice to accept such a change, so the appointment can be rescheduled or canceled.
Especially when examination of genitalia is involved.

E.g. : When you make an appointment for a massage. And instead of your regular masseur, all of a sudden you are confronted with Bubba.
(Sterotype strong aggressive black homosexual rap1st, most commonly found in US prisons )
You (and most people) would make a run for it ! Unless you like violent anal sex :-)
We can all accept this right ?
And you do not have to know if this large black man is a homosexual rap1st, all that matters is that you feel very uncomfortable with him touching you half naked.
Because your freedom of choice as a client, is more important than Bubba's right to work as a masseur.

Now you might claim, I had that choice, I could just have refused to be subjugated in that situation.
Then you truly do not understand the pervers medical culture, the unbalance in power between patient / doctor.
Especially in hospitals where they still have a strong hierarchical structure, almost like military.
Where doctors decide everything and the rest of the staff is considered a lesser human being.
We as patients are not considered clients, we are considered live stock, that need treatment.
Patients have no say, they need to accept whatever the doctors decide, and be very thankful about it.
I no longer accept it ! I hope more people will folow my example, so this bizar travesty ends soon !

[sebi40]

E.g. : When you make an appointment for a massage. And instead of your regular masseur, all of a sudden you are confronted with Bubba.
(Sterotype strong aggressive black homosexual rap1st, most commonly found in US prisons )
You (and most people) would make a run for it ! Unless you like violent anal sex :-)
We can all accept this right ?


But you were in an opposite situation with a female gently touching your abused testicles.
You are afraid by homosexual rap1st, but you are requesting to be touched by a male doctor.
There is a chance that this doctor to be homosexual and to have an erection while checking your private parts.
Still, you can do this request next time:
"I do not want to be touch by a woman, only by a man and I am aware that is possible to encounter a homosexual rap1st man" :)

[mick_sl8ter]

Still, you can do this request next time:
"I do not want to be touch by a woman, only by a man and I am aware that is possible to encounter a homosexual rap1st man" :)

LOL , ok that is funny ! :-)
I think this is getting all a bit off topic. So lets end it here.

The reason I sometimes videotape events or write down stuff is because I have a 'special' brain.
Over time automatically all negative events are erased from my memory.
And I change other events so they best fit the way I would like things to be. That is how I get by in my life ;).

Chances are in a few weeks I might not remember what actually happened versus what my version of the truth is :wooow

[tobby]

We as patients are not considered clients, we are considered live stock, that need treatment.
I've been there myself and reached the same conclusion, incidents like the one you described are a fine example.
Good to see that not everybody is willing to accept this shitty attitude.

[mick_sl8ter]

I've been there myself and reached the same conclusion, incidents like the one you described are a fine example.
Good to see that not everybody is willing to accept this shitty attitude.

When you read it, you will shit bricks.

http://www.outpatientsurgery.net/resources/forms/2010/pdf/OutpatientSurgeryMagazine_1001_ent.pdf

She works as a Ear, Nose Troat surgeon and she has been molesting male patients for many years now , and still she is not FIRED !


Dr. Sparks, then chief of staff at the hospital, had just finished performing a tympanoplasty with mastoidectomy on a Hispanic male in his mid-30s. After applying
the dressing, Dr. Sparks threw back the covers on the patient, reached into the fly of his boxer shorts, pulled out his penis and held it in her ungloved hand toward the ceiling. Dr. Sparks noticed fluid-filled vesicles indicative of a sexually transmitted disease on the right side of the shaft and yelled, “Oh, gross!”
She then slapped the head of the penis 3 times to shouts of, “Bad boy , bad boy , bad boy.” The all-female OR team laughed. All except Ms. Garner.
“Everyone heard her and everyone saw her positioned in the location of the penis at the OR table,” say Ms. Garner. “I gave all of them the fish eye and we said nothing.”


The nurse Ms. Garner is now without a job ! OMG !!!

[mick_sl8ter]

Listen up guys : you all know me , overall I am a nice guy, but I am also a perverted weirdo and at times mentally unbalanced.
I would like your advice on something, because I want to pull a prank.
And frankly I am way out of touch with reality to know what is acceptable, so please let me know what you think !

I have another appointment, where my balls are scheduled for medical examination.
Remember I told you I fucked a female veterinarian: http://femaledom.com/forum/showthread.php?16836-Fuck-yeah-!!!-Mick-s-very-happy-now-!

She is willing to provide me with some fresh dog testicles put in a jar.

My plan: when I go to see the doctor, and she asks me to walk with her and undress, I tell her that it won't be necessary, then I pull out the jar with testicles and put it on her desk :D
LOL I would love to see her reaction ! Would she for a moment seriously think that I put my cut off testicles in a jar for her to examine ? LOL

Even though it would be hilarious, I also feel it might cause problems, or that I might offend her as a professional. What you say ? Crossing the line ? Or hilarious ?

[Selftailer]

I am not weirdo enough to give You the green light for this prank Mick.
Perhaps she has an acceptable sense of umor and you can both start laughing over.
In this case, once finished the examination she could ... arrive with another empty jar.... :D

[Selftailer]

How is gone Mick ? :wooow

[mick_sl8ter]

How is gone Mick ? :wooow

Ahhh nothing happened, I asked the girl behind the desk if a male doctor could check my balls.
I have enough crazy stuff going on in my life right now, so I decided to let this one pass ;)

[milton36]

embarrassing medical exam performed by a woman is great!
i will post a real story in next days

[mick_sl8ter]

http://www.radio.cz/en/section/talking/should-the-czech-republic-stop-surgically-**********-sex-offenders

[Jet]

Hi Mick

How do your balls come permanently damaged?

[mick_sl8ter]

Hi Mick

How do your balls come permanently damaged?


Hi Mick

How do your balls come permanently damaged?

How should I know ? I am not a doctor !

No but seriously the short answer is: trauma to the testicles by sexual activity, sports.

Sports: getting kicked hard in the groin, by accident of course during matches in martial arts. ( but I do not think this contributed much to damage, because I always wear protective cup )
Sexual activity : I never self-bust as some of the guys here describe, I am not into the pain or thrill of hurting my genitals.
Also I am not so much into sexual domination or being dominated.
Due to childhood experiences I have developed a psychological condition that can be best described as c.astration anxiety.
The fear of in my case a woman / women taking away my manhood , also in my case most focussed on the testicles not the penis.

Because I am very much sexually attrackted to women and in order to be able to deal with my c.astration anxiety, I have developed a sexual obsession.
I let women manhandle my testicles, this results in a very addictive sensation of fear and pleasure. In order to get the same sexual thrill, I go to extremes.
My testicles underwent almost all the abuse you could imagine, without the actual c.astration.
Pulling, twisting and biting, especially when combined, for me trigger the highest level of this kind of sexual arousal.

But I have decided for myself that I need to stop myself and my thoughts. It is not healthy.
And psychologically, it only empowers irrational fear. (c.astration anxiety)
I have a very loving relationship towards women closest in my life.
They love me, they support me, they have no intention to hurt me or emasculate me.

True, there are many women out there that do want to hurt me / emasculate me / men in general.
But besides physically, my body. It is not good for my psychological well being to focus on them.
Because they are severely psychologically damaged as well.
And it is also unfair for me to project my c.astration anxiety on lovely women, who just happen to love me for who I am as a person and want to be intimate with me, without being subjected to my psychological / sexual problems.

So as you can see I am working on it, to deal with my issues here , because I really want to heal my sexuality and change as a person.
And as always with psychological problems : who caused this shit in the first place ? -> parents, in my case my mother !
And trust me : if someone still has psychological issues, it is her !

People with psychological problems tend to deal with their issues by passing them on to the next person, especially to those people that are in a position in which they can not escape from the abuse. I have decided to deal with my problems myself, by becomming ZEN through meditation and self reflection and not pass them on to the next person (any more).

This world, this very sick world we live in, can only heal and become a very beautiful and loving place if people will stop hurting each other and deal with their own psychological problems.