How hard do you like bb porno or real bb to be? Amateur or professional?

[cracker]

I used to like both fake bb and real bb. Of course, having it done by a sexy woman makes it that much more satisfying in either case. :)

All used to get me off but then when I saw the real stuff via the net (or became adventuresome and tried a bit) the fake stuff didn't do it as much for me anymore (especially if fake sounds are added.) I also prefer amateurs (although professional is fine) --- I have a video of two amateurs and she hits him/kicks him with moderate force in the movie. Surprisingly, neither hide their face and they are obviously bf/gf (she was clothed but hot in a girl next door way --- maybe 21 years old with really good legs). I find this vid real hot.

(I must admit I did see a video that was too hard. The guy puked and he was a "slave" in a dungeon. The woman was obviously a hired dom and didn't really seem to enjoy it. I guess he enjoyed it though.)

On a personal level, feeling the pain there (as long as it's not too much --- I don't know how some guys take kick after kick) adds so much to the sex. If I like/trust my partner and she likes to cause me a bit of pain there so much the better. ;) Too bad there are not more women/gf who like to spice up their sex lives with some bb. I've only known two that really liked to do it. One white, one Asian.

More "typical" gf's typically humor me with some squeezing which I claim doesn't really hurt (bb handjob). What I would really like is to let her slap/punch them as she surprisingly finds that this turns her on. But I like regular sex, too, and don't want to lose a nice gf because she finds the bb too weird for her. It can be a fine line to tread in my limited experience :).

So, I like the real thing --- as hard or soft as is right for the participants. Not the obviously fake stuff. And amateur beats professional for me --- although both can be great and have their advantages.

Thanks for reading what I guess is a ramble!

[subsenmartin]

I prefer it hard. Not necessarily hard enough that it is the only kick you are going to be able to take, but hard enough.

To each their own though. I can see where lighter kicking, slapping etc can be very sexual. I find the pain a big turn on. Of course it is a bigger turn on when the lady doing it is hot. Not to underestimate the importance of attitude. Some women have it, and it is hard to explain it or how that obtained it. A cunning, seductive, and authoritative attitude pared with equally describable actions can make for a very nice time.

I think that all women are capable of doing/being this way, but not all are able or ready. It takes practice, and for some it can take a while to just coax it out. I enjoy watching the cunning lioness emerge from the shy lamb over time. You will find that many women are not willing (at least at first) to kick a guy really hard for fun. They all want to, but they may be afraid that they will hurt a "nice guy" or something like that. This is just a fear that they have to overcome to bring out that ballbuster that is inside them.

I have known many young ladies that have enjoyed busting. Some have always enjoyed it. Others enjoyed it after they being introduced to it.

... I guess those are my thoughts for now :)

[cracker]

That is, if doing it a bit might bring out the hidden desire to do it. Do it a few times and it could become almost habit forming to the right woman --- perhaps. I think it depends on the woman. Women who "secretly" like a bit of pain/submission (ranging from very hard thrusting to hard nipple play to spanking to ???) themselves would probably like a bit of switching to giving pain/dominance. I think they often go together. Moreover, modest pain seems to heighten the sexual experience overall for many of those willing to admit it. But I think women who only like to be touched softly and abhor mild sexual pain like rough nipple play would not like or understand applying a bit of pain to a man's genitals.

I've got to imagine that some women are curious about the sensitivity of testicles. Especially given how our society treats "low blows." Maybe young women more than more mature women (they tend to kid about hitting balls a lot more often) --- or maybe not. I know a few young women who take the martial arts would never dream of injuring their partner but are often curious about balls and how vulnerable they are.

I'm on the lookout for a gf who appreciates some rough nipple play. And seeing if I can't ramp it up a bit to tit-for-tat moderate nipple squeezing and ball squeezing or whatever. I don't want a man hater of dominant.

I'm really surprised more women don't want to try it. Then again, I'm surprised more men don't like receiving some pain (balls or otherwise) themselves.

[Dreihundert]

In reality, I like it hard, but not hard enough to ruin it with the first kick.

I like to keep going, and I like it clothes on because I like the sound of foot meets jeans, etc.

I like knees and kicks to be repetitive in reality.

Most of the ballbusting pictures and videos, I really hate. Especially those stupid spanish movies from 1980... :|

In fantasy - i like to imagine ballbusting doing serious damage. If you want to know the kind of ballbusting that I like -- just read some of Snoodle's posts, dear god she's a genius.

[arylinth]

Personally, I think the reason that I enjoyed Brother Love's first time ball busters vol 1 was the fact that the girls seemed, for the most part, to never have done ballbusting before. They started timid, but over time you could see the amateur get into it and start getting much harder as they started enjoying it.
I say amateur bb that starts soft and gets hard while enjoying it is the best.

[cracker]

pulse climbing as she gently hits my balls for the first time and asks if it hurts. If she likes it, I imagine a completely silent room except for the sound of gradually harder blows to my balls. If I jerk off at the same time, she'll know I like it and will presumably get into it. Oh, I hope to find this woman soon.

I'd be willing to pay a bit if she were incredibly beautiful --- maybe indirectly in the form of a great dinner and some type of jewelry.

In my fantasy, she is short, slim, shy, and very pretty. Her small hands causing such pain would really add to the turn on for me. Perfection would be her asking me to hurt her nipples at the same time she's hurting my balls.