losttraveler
01-20-2009, 05:38 PM
Hello. I see this is a ballbusting forum. I have a question, mainly about women. I'm not into ballbusting myself, but I have a bit of a problem here, and I figured you all could answer it. I've dated six women, and four of them have liked ballbusting. The first relationship I had was fine, lasted 2 some odd years, but I was 15, so it doesn't really count haha. It's the second, third, and fifth relationship I've had, and now possibly the sixth. The second one I knew seemed to like the idea of kicking me in the nuts. I've seen this on TV sure, but nothing like this. She never actually kicked me, she just pretended to. The weird part was she got some sort of sexual release from it, like she would put her foot on my balls and give me the smile. You know, THE SMILE. Kinda creepy, but I got over it. It was like, "Hey, whatever turns you on girl...heh...??"
So then after her, my next girlfriend was like that too, only worse. I forget how it came up, but she brought it up somehow, and she pretended for a little, then one day, she dropped the bomb. "Hey, can I kick you for real?" I'm like, whaaaat? All this time I thought it was a fantasy or something, and now it's a reality? So my first reaction of course was "not just no, HELL no" but I didn't want to upset her, so I said "Ok, just don't kill me" Plus, I'll try anything once. I didn't like it, even though she honored my request. Still hurt like hell.
So my next girlfriend, number four, I fucked this one up. We were talking about kinky stuff, and I got all paranoid and called her a ballbuster, and to make a long story short, it escalated, and we broke up.
So I blew off some steam, and eventually after hating women for a while I got over it, and started dating again. So this one was kind of like my second girlfriend, as in she pretended to kick me, only she brought up the whole kicking for real thing. I was totally against the idea at first, and eventually I gave in, but at that point she didn't want me to be upset, so she kept pretending. I was totally weirded out at first, with yet ANOTHER ballbuster, but since I'm so used to it...lol at least she was a pretender.
So this is about 3 years later, I'm 26 now, and I'm in a relationship with this woman, and we have been dating for 9 months. So we started talking about stuff, and eventually the topic of past relationships came up, and I didn't want to discuss it. So she insisted, and I said its nothing. Well, you know where this is headed. She insisted, and when a woman insists... So I told her about it, and I asked her to explain, and she said something like it makes women feel powerful, or something. I kinda get it, I mean if I was being attacked by a really big dude, and I kicked him in the nuts, I guess I would feel powerful too. But I asked her about the sexual part, and she didn't know. All I got was, "Some people have weird fetishes". And I got the luxury of knowing that my current girlfriend has fantasized about it a couple times. Oh, but don't worry, she says, it's just a fantasy, not a reality. And I'm supposed to believe that, with all this I've been through.
So, long story much? Anyways, I was kinda hoping for some answers. I did a google search, and I found a forum. This one. Help?
So then after her, my next girlfriend was like that too, only worse. I forget how it came up, but she brought it up somehow, and she pretended for a little, then one day, she dropped the bomb. "Hey, can I kick you for real?" I'm like, whaaaat? All this time I thought it was a fantasy or something, and now it's a reality? So my first reaction of course was "not just no, HELL no" but I didn't want to upset her, so I said "Ok, just don't kill me" Plus, I'll try anything once. I didn't like it, even though she honored my request. Still hurt like hell.
So my next girlfriend, number four, I fucked this one up. We were talking about kinky stuff, and I got all paranoid and called her a ballbuster, and to make a long story short, it escalated, and we broke up.
So I blew off some steam, and eventually after hating women for a while I got over it, and started dating again. So this one was kind of like my second girlfriend, as in she pretended to kick me, only she brought up the whole kicking for real thing. I was totally against the idea at first, and eventually I gave in, but at that point she didn't want me to be upset, so she kept pretending. I was totally weirded out at first, with yet ANOTHER ballbuster, but since I'm so used to it...lol at least she was a pretender.
So this is about 3 years later, I'm 26 now, and I'm in a relationship with this woman, and we have been dating for 9 months. So we started talking about stuff, and eventually the topic of past relationships came up, and I didn't want to discuss it. So she insisted, and I said its nothing. Well, you know where this is headed. She insisted, and when a woman insists... So I told her about it, and I asked her to explain, and she said something like it makes women feel powerful, or something. I kinda get it, I mean if I was being attacked by a really big dude, and I kicked him in the nuts, I guess I would feel powerful too. But I asked her about the sexual part, and she didn't know. All I got was, "Some people have weird fetishes". And I got the luxury of knowing that my current girlfriend has fantasized about it a couple times. Oh, but don't worry, she says, it's just a fantasy, not a reality. And I'm supposed to believe that, with all this I've been through.
So, long story much? Anyways, I was kinda hoping for some answers. I did a google search, and I found a forum. This one. Help?