Christian Ballbusters?

[MYDM777]

Not to open a can of worms or anything, but quite a while back there was an idiot or two who came onto the forum and blatantly attacked the practice of ballbusting. They called it a sin, and claimed we should all convert. I've read the thread several times, and I have to say there was trolling, bad info, unconvincing arguments and all sorts of contradictions on both sides. My question is this, without attacking each other over beliefs and such... are there any christian busters or bustees out there?

I personally believe in God and Jesus, but I also believe God has nothing against ballbusting. As long as you do it with a single partner ect, I don't see why it would be considered wrong. To me its the same as a difference in sexual positions. Why would god care if a man is on top of a woman during sex or beneath her... to the same regard, why would he care if you get off while having your testicles hurt, or if you just rub your penis 'till you climax?

Anyone else have a take?

[pianoboy75]

I'm a Christian (and my wife too, even more religiously active!) and I agree with Your opinion.

The point is: Do "it" (only) with Your partner ;-) and in a way that respects the feelings and dignity of both. BUT: My wife likes to suck - so that doesn't degrade her, so we do it. And I like to be kicked sometimes - so since I want it there is no "disrespect" etc., therefore we do that too.

It is s shame that some fanatics get everything wrong....

[MYDM777]

Indeed, my pastor has a great line that I think is very true... The devils greatest weapon is an ineffective christian. So many things done in gods name, that aren't necessarily gods will.

[takingknees]

1 Corinthians 3:16-17 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are

Well, it is a sin outside of marriage, but inside marriage I don't know. Maybe, maybe not. :confused:

[pungdjur]

Back in high school there was a fairly religious girl in my class. She always went on and on about "no sex before marriage" and bullshit like that. Anyhow, once in gym class she smacked me in the balls with her bandy stick! It was totally on purpose. She missed an open goal, so I shouted something about how girls suck at sports. And the next time she was in range she just lifted her stick and - BAM! - hit me right in the balls! :)

[MYDM777]

1 Corinthians 3:16-17 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are

Well, it is a sin outside of marriage, but inside marriage I don't know. Maybe, maybe not. :confused:

I thought about that, that verse alone is very debatable. Its mainly taught that the verse was put there because alot of the Corinthians had a drinking problem. While its alright to drink in moderation, excessive drinking is unhealthy as are unprescribed drugs, ect. In more recent years, I've seen it used as an attempt to stop the more recent Emo/goth cutting of wrists trend. The thing in common with all these things are that they cause permenant damage, where as most ballbusting can heal overnight. Alchohol and drugs can all be addictive as well as seriously harm your health, and cutting your body is most likely going to leave a scar.. But a good kick in the sack will bruise you... maybe. Now of course theres a ********** fetish as well... but I myself am not into it so I feel no need to think about that in terms of sin.

Its also been said that you shouldn't take a verse out of context or you can make the bible say anything you want to. There's a joke I don't have time to search for but the general idea is that there's a man trying desperately to learn to be a better christian. So he grabs a bible and decides to open it randomly and do as it says. So he opens it up and finds a verse that says "And so, he killed himself." He figures this doesn't really apply, so he turns to another page. "Go and do as he did." Now he's starting to sweat, so he turns to yet another page. "Go and do what you were told to do with haste."

[Teardrop]

I remember reading a quote from a Christian priest who enjoys BDSM in his personal life. He says that if ever he is asked if he thinks that BDSM is wrong, he replies that he believes that God is love. Therefore wherever there is love, including in his own BDSM practices, God would not disapprove. I thought this was very interesting because it was a different point of view from the one I was expecting.

[aniMALE]

MYDM777, please, pretty please, make a video of her shouting like in a Japanese cartoon "In the name of Mary, DIVINE PUNISHMENT" and she kicks your balls really hard. I want you tied in a doggy style position and a kick from behind.

And then she says "God hates balls, that's why he put them hanging down there", grasping what's left of your balls.

And then "no more sins for you bitch, now you can go to heaven, or are you already in heaven?", squeezing your now flat balls.

Can her wear a t-shirt with written on it "christian ballbuster"? I want a sexy t-shirt very tight on her boobies.

She is already my super heroine. Mind if I wank at her?

[aniMALE]

Ehi people, wait a minute, I didn't notice it but my previous post raised some serious ethic problems.

You can't make a video of her doing that, right? God is pro ballkicking but against filming it for porn.

Is God against ballbusting pr0n? Can any person expert in superior immortal beings that are completely real and not invented reply to me?

[MYDM777]

"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Mathew 5:27-28

Yeah, it would appear he doesn't want us looking at porn. That is a clear cut verse, where as a verse against ballbusting doesn't appear anywhere in the bible to my knowledge. However, currently we're referring to ballbusting within marriage, one serious lover. Now premarital, or extramarital busting would be seen as a no no by god.

[darkwing]

Agree for the most part. If it is kept within the marriage, then there is not a problem:
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

In order to keep it within the marriage, everything should revolve around how different activities can be used to enhance the enjoyment of each other. I'd avoid lusting after particular "actresses" or "models" and instead consider how such things would work between you and your spouse.

[aniMALE]

ehi darkwing, are you a christian japanese girl into ballbusting? If so, you are my ultimate fantasy.

[sean209]

lol i have to be honest, i was expecting to be linked to a site or ballbusting directory full of christian/religious looking women into ballbusting..

[MYDM777]

aniMALE, I don't think you're exactly getting the concept here... >.>;

[aniMALE]

aniMALE, I don't think you're exactly getting the concept here... >.>;

What do you mean?

Was Christ flogged on the balls too??

[pianoboy75]

@MYDM777: just ignore AniMALE - he/she/it is not willing (or able?) to contribute to a serious discussion Spam!

[MYDM777]

@MYDM777: just ignore AniMALE - he/she/it is not willing (or able?) to contribute to a serious discussion Spam!

Yeah, but he's not doin' any harm thus far. And he's doing a decent job of keeping the thread active and up on the first page. xD


What do you mean?

Was Christ flogged on the balls too??

Er... I believe theres a verse that says he was beaten on EVERY part of his body... so... yeah.

[pianoboy75]

Yep, You're right, haven't seen it that way..... ;-)

Well, regarding the topic again: I think there are not too many believers around fetish forums anyway. Often I read atheistic or even outright blasphemic statements.

Maybe this has to do with the churches' (or religions') general approach to sex in the first place. Sometimes sex is being taught as being the original sin (which is clearly wrong if one dares to have a look into the "thick book" :) ) But there is no doubt about the fact that religion does set boundaries for promiscuity. And since visitors on forums like this one typically tend to have a "broader" view on moral values it shouldn't come to a surprise to find very few active believers around here.

But that doesn't mean that it is in itself inconceivable "to have Your balls and kick them too" (if such a paraphrase might be allowed). Just stay within the boundaries of matrimony for example and only do things to which both partners freely agreed. Then You should be "on the safe side" with regard to Your eternal blessings... :D

[MYDM777]

On the other hand we're only referring to ballbusting and only within marriage. The whole thing becomes much more questionable if we delve into the entire Female Domination fetish.

[pianoboy75]

Yes, that's right - especially since the female is meant to be guided by the male. So femdom fetishes reverse the Biblical "gender power structure". But maybe that's what makes it so interesting? Trying out "the other side"?

[guy228]

I'm Christian.

I don't see ballbusting as inherently sinful. There are a lot of different opinions on what is sinful and is not. I'm not condemning anyone here who practices differently, but here is my belief, since you asked.

I believe extra-marital sex to be a sin, that's just my belief. Once you're married you can do whatever you like with your partner, vanilla or hard-core. Just because you're a Christian doesn't mean that what goes on in the conjugal bedroom (cosplay, roleplay, role-reversal, domination, bdsm, ballbusting, etc.) is sinful. It's good and rather healthy actually.

So, to speak, just cause you're a Christian doesn't mean you can't have fun.

For those of you who do not share my beliefs, I am in no way condemning or even judging what you do. You have your beliefs and I have mine. I'm preaching to no one.

[pianoboy75]

Yep, that's exactly how I see it too. Thanks for the clear statement!

[hibrid24]

This is a very strange thing. I never thought I will find Christians here. But if I think about a little more maybe there are some in all of the sex forums. Some are active, some are just downloading thing, but they don't speak about religious things.

I think it is weird talking about Christianity and ballbusting. If somebody wants to do it in the "saint way" (if there is), I think they don't surf in a sex forum, where many adult and pornograph content is. And I don't think it is in the Bible that Christians are alowed to watch such videos.

Everybody can see everybody's posts in this forum...


So you can cast stones on me but I don't think this is ok.


+ I found a somewhere a biblical reference to balbusting:
(Deuteronomy 25,11-12 :
When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one approaches to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes his genitals, you shall sever her hand; you shall have no compassion.)

[gary198]

I think it is weird talking about Christianity and ballbusting. If somebody wants to do it in the "saint way" (if there is), I think they don't surf in a sex forum, where many adult and pornograph content is. And I don't think it is in the Bible that Christians are alowed to watch such videos.

The biggest collection of pornography in the WORLD is in the Vatican archives.

[MYDM777]

This is a very strange thing. I never thought I will find Christians here. But if I think about a little more maybe there are some in all of the sex forums. Some are active, some are just downloading thing, but they don't speak about religious things.

I think it is weird talking about Christianity and ballbusting. If somebody wants to do it in the "saint way" (if there is), I think they don't surf in a sex forum, where many adult and pornograph content is. And I don't think it is in the Bible that Christians are alowed to watch such videos.

Everybody can see everybody's posts in this forum...


So you can cast stones on me but I don't think this is ok.


+ I found a somewhere a biblical reference to balbusting:
(Deuteronomy 25,11-12 :
When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one approaches to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes his genitals, you shall sever her hand; you shall have no compassion.)

Well, generally speaking the thread title says a fair deal about the content within. Hence, if a thread says Ballbusting Pictures, I can safely assume that there will be ballbusting pictures within and that I might not want to click that link. Where as if a thread says Ballbusting Games, I might be interesting in finding a card game or such that I might be able to play with my partner. Not to mention the fabulous stories written by some of out counterparts, which ussually contain excellent ideas for different things to try.

As for Deuteronomy, that was written as a guide for the Hebrews before they entered the promise land, it was also written along with the laws that prohibit the eating of pork and such. This was a time before science had discovered bacteria, and god wanted to keep his people safe from unclean food. Most of these laws no longer apply and were declared no more by Jesus. The law also deals with the infighting of the Israelite, the law is simply given as an example of what a woman might do to break up a fight, and this of course would most likely cause more fighting, rather than resolving the issue. While it gives an example, you can see by reading in context its not specifically speaking out against ballbusting, but against the infighting of the Israelites.

[MYDM777]

The biggest collection of pornography in the WORLD is in the Vatican archives.


Not to mention, Song of Solomon is included in most bibles, and that can be pretty graphic.

[darkwing]

Well, generally speaking the thread title says a fair deal about the content within. Hence, if a thread says Ballbusting Pictures, I can safely assume that there will be ballbusting pictures within and that I might not want to click that link. Where as if a thread says Ballbusting Games, I might be interesting in finding a card game or such that I might be able to play with my partner. Not to mention the fabulous stories written by some of out counterparts, which ussually contain excellent ideas for different things to try.

As for Deuteronomy, that was written as a guide for the Hebrews before they entered the promise land, it was also written along with the laws that prohibit the eating of pork and such. This was a time before science had discovered bacteria, and god wanted to keep his people safe from unclean food. Most of these laws no longer apply and were declared no more by Jesus. The law also deals with the infighting of the Israelite, the law is simply given as an example of what a woman might do to break up a fight, and this of course would most likely cause more fighting, rather than resolving the issue. While it gives an example, you can see by reading in context its not specifically speaking out against ballbusting, but against the infighting of the Israelites.

It may also provide some guidance as to a "fair fight"

[Balloney]

It's kind of weird reading about people being Christians when they have naked genital pics beside their name.

I don't know why Christians would not be able to incorporate ball-play in sex as long as it is in marriage. The problems with ball-busting for Christians would be looking at porn with ball-busting, and doing things outside of marriage. In the Old Testament, if a woman grabbed a man's privates while he was fighting with her husband, her hand was to be cut off. She isn't supposed to touch (assuming a hard squeeze) another man's package. That's the only reference to 'ball busting' I know of in the Bible. But there is no restriction there on her touching her own man's package in an erotic way. I like my wife to 'bust' my balls because I enjoy the feeling of a good ball squeezing and spanking that works its way up harder and harder. She doesn't do it to truly hurt me.

I would expect Christians to have a problem with a woman ********** a man as a part of a fantasy or doing something that truly damages him. I don't consider relatively mild ball spanking or ball squeezing to be truly damaging either.

[darkwing]

I would not expect anyone to go to the point of actually causing damage.

There is the trust factor that exists in a marriage (and perhaps outside). Still, I prefer to keep it within a marriage relationship.

[MYDM777]

I agree, I also find ballbusting helps resolve some anger issues, probablly because its physically active, if not because it causes on partner pain ;P

[texasdog]

Everyone has their own opinion about Christians and sex. Some opinions are informed some are not. The fact that I'm on this forum reading about BB is not a sin. But Matthew 5:28-30 (NIV) states that:


But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.


When you look at porn and fap off to it if you only think about doing that act with your wife you are not committing a sin in my view. But, not thinking about anyone else is not likely. If you lust after anyone else you are sinning. Or, if you are not married and lust after anyone. Lust after means: jack off thinking about specific person etc. You can fap just because if feels good and it is not a sin. I cannot keep other women out of my thoughts when I do it. So every time I do it I sin. I am not strong enough to step away from porn. I feel bad, but I still do it.

Anything that both people consent to and dose not leave lasting damage is acceptable between a husband and wife. Is piercing a womans ears not in the same category? Your are inflicting possible permanent damage for aesthetics. I do not see any difference. And if earrings are acceptable at most churches why are tattoos not? Why is piercing your ears acceptable but not your nipple or private parts? All fall under body modification for looks. Is being overweight not also not taking care of Gods temple? Ever see a fat man in church? I do not feel that I or the church have any right to say fat people are following gods will, but people with tattoos are not. In my church everyone is welcome. EVERYONE. If you are sinning I will tell you that your are. But that dose not mean I haft to embrace hypocritical views that others have taken in the chruch. The reason I personally look at this website is because I cannot get my wife to BB me. I can get her to spank me, but that is it. I fantasize about a woman (my wife or not) doing it to me. I know that is a sin, but hear I sit. As far as Deuteronomy 25:11-12 goes, it dose not even apply to BB in the sexual sense. The verse is instructions on what to do with a wife if she grabs someones balls to save his from being beat up. You are to CUT OFF the ball grabbers hand. Ouch!

Deuteronomy 25:11-12:

If two men are fighting and the wife of one of them comes to rescue her husband from his assailant, and she reaches out and seizes him by his private parts, you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity.


In my view anything that dose not cause permanent damage is acceptable between a consenting husband and wife. I only know of only one Divine individual, God. He is the only one with the authority to judge my actions as holy or unholy. I will get into heaven because I believe Jesus came and died for me and I have asked for his forgiveness. I will none the less have to account to God why I visited this web sight and others today for the sole purpose of cheating on my wife. (God says if you cheat it in your mind, it still counts the same as sex in person).


Texas Dog M.Div Southwestern Baptist Seminary

[bbisfun]

I'd prefer a woman who views ballbusting as a religion!