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FatSmurf
09-20-2009, 07:21 AM
Alright so i don't mean to add this thread in order to show off, i do have a reason for saying what i am about to say. I recently got my girlfriend into ballbusting, and felt it would be a good idea to share with everyone here because i know i always enjoyed reading about how guys got there girls to enjoy bb before i had my own girl that busted my balls.

So a brief history, me and my beautiful girlfriend (both of us being 19 years old) have had a great relationship going for about a little over a year now (the entirety of our relationship has been long distance since we started going out just around the time we went away to college which put us 3 hours away from each other unfortunately. during high school we had mutual friends but werent really into each other until the summer before college) during that year we saw each other very often at school and during breaks and we found that we were both extremely sexually compatible (we both love having sex...especially kinky sex)

We are great sexual partners for each other and she eventually told me she was into being spanked during sex, i on the other hand was dying to tell her about my ballbusting fetish but felt it would be way too weird to tell her about, so i kept it to myself for a long time, but i wanted to tell her about it so badly. There were so many times that i thought would be a good time to bring it up (especially since she was so into kinky stuff like being spanked...and damn did i spank her hard) but i never did cause i thought she would think i was a freak. Some of those times included we were joking around on my bed and i wouldnt let her get off the bed, so she jokingly said "i could so easily knee you in the balls right now" which made me go crazy inside but on the outside i reacted normally because my roommate was in the room and let her off the bed. Another time we were walking and i made a joke that she didnt like very much so she slapped me on the thigh to which she made the comment "i thought about hitting you in the balls right then but i didnt cause i love you very much" and i came so very close to saying "why? you didnt want to give me a boner in public?" (at this point in our relationship i had her rough playing with my balls...she would slap them lightly and i would get hard, but she didnt know i was into having them hit hard as a fetish. there was one point though where i asked her to hit them while i was soft until i got hard, which was one of the hottest things we did at that point)

So i had been bringing her up to ballbusting slowly but surely throughout the summer while we were together during our summer break, but was always too nervous to actually saw it. Meanwhile we were very sexual open and had even watched porn together. It was getting close to the end of our summer together and i had wanted to tell her about my fantasies at the beginning of summer so she could bust my balls all summer long, but i chickened out every single time. Until this one time when we started getting so close to each other that she admitted to me "you wanna hear something sick? i get really turned on by the fact that you one time broke the blood vessels in my ass when you spanked me so hard" (actually happened). so as a response to that i told her "you think thats sick? that one time you threatened to knee me in the balls because i wouldnt let you off the bed, i really wanted you to do that and if my roommate wasnt there i would have asked you to" and she resonded "really? thats so hot!" and as a little background history, the day before she had asked me what my favorite porn was to look at. obviously its ballbusting porn but i wasnt about to tell her that, i got all nervous and didnt know how to respond when she asked me, so this day i said "you know how you asked what my favorite porn is? well its when guys get hit in the balls by girls. and i have a lot saved on my computer." We then proceeded to watch some together, our first video being brother love's first time ballbusters the scene with carmen mccarthy. And she loved it! Her immediate reaction was "i want to try that on you!"

So she did, and man was it awesome! She punched me in the balls, she stepped on them, she kicked them, she squeezed them, she hurt them in every way possible and it was great. As time went on i slowly introduced her more and more into the ballbusting world, trying not to freak her out with it by bringing her into it too fast, but she seemed to love it so much that i couldnt introduce it to her fast enough. There was one time, the day i told her about this forum, that i had to go to take a shower, and while i was showering, she asked if i could bring her to this forum so she could look around while i was gone. Just the other day (we're both at school now) we were videochatting and we can see each others screens if we want through the program we use. I was looking at the ballbusting legends store and she could tell i was jacking off, so she asked what i was doing, and i told her, and she asked if she could see it. I sent her the link to the store and she started getting off to the previews on the site. She even told me today that she got off to that site on her own, i wasnt even there encouraging her. She did it completely on her own, without my encouragement. She truly enjoys busting balls and watching it happen in a sexual way. When we're both horny and talking to each other often she'll tell me how much she wants to kick and punch and step on my balls til im writhing on the ground and my sack is swollen. And after 7+ years of watching ballbusting videos and fantasizing about having my balls beaten in, i couldn't have asked for more. My girl is so into me, shes gorgeous, and she loves to bust my nuts, and i love when she does it. She was getting off while we were videochatting once and i shared my screen as i was watching a ballbusting video. Her face would light up every time the girl started punching the guys balls hard, and it turns me on like nothing else knowing that she'll get just as turned on when its her punching my balls that hard. We're currently trying to figure out games we can play that invovle her beating the shit out of my nuts for fun, and i cant wait for her to have me rolling on the ground holding my aching balls the next time we see each other.

Ha, so i got really turned on even just talking about this and thinking how awesome it is when she busts my balls, but the reason i typed this long post was to let the guys who dont have girls to bust them know that there are girls out there that enjoy it, and to let guys who are too afraid or nervous to tell their girl about their fetish, to just go for it. It took me nearly a year to tell my girl and now i wish i had told her the day we started going out cause it really has enhanced our sex life infinitely. So i hope you guys enjoyed hearing about that, and that maybe it can help you out in the future. :)

blubalz
09-20-2009, 07:48 AM
Hey good for you dude! I have to say that from some of her comments she was into it all along and was hoping you'd ask her imo. You've got a natural there, don't let her go. It reminds me of vittoria:bananajum :iluvu:

teenguy
09-20-2009, 11:46 AM
Holy crap man, she is something else. My ex liked it, but she was too shy and embarrassed to really let herself go. I guess thats what happens when you are in high school. Glad those days are over with.

cracker
09-20-2009, 07:07 PM
I'd suggest trading shots in her pussy for shots in your balls. She seems to be into giving and taking pain so, why not? It only seems fair and I bet she likes it after a while :-). I bet you'll like it, too.

foppiz
09-21-2009, 12:03 PM
Nice girlfriend =)

FatSmurf
09-22-2009, 01:46 AM
Thanks for all the kind words. And in response to blubalz, shes told me she never even thought of it as something erotic, and that she never thought of doing it because she knows how much it hurts and sucks. But that once i told her how much i enjoyed it and we started trying it out she absolutely loved it from then on. I don't think shes all that into it when its not a sexual thing, like just an everyday hit in the nuts....or at least i hope so :-/

And in response to cracker, cuntbusting has actually come up between us. A little after i told her about my ballbusting fetish i asked if there was anything she was hiding from me that she was nervous bringing up and wanted to try, one of the things being cuntbusting and she said that there was no way she wanted to try that out cause that doesnt look like fun at all (i guess more groin pain for me!:)) Though that doesnt really upset because im not into dishing out some shots to the pussy. But if she were into it and really got off on it, that would be a different story. But because shes not into it, i have no real desire to try it out. Besides, shes into MANY other kinky things that keep me happy, such as being spanked (hard), slapped, called dirty names during sex, and basically being dominated in the bedroom and taken advantage of in general. But lucky for me she doesnt mind switching roles and dominating me when she busts me.

I'm lucky enough that she'll be visiting me this weekend (which means my balls will be swollen rather large by sunday...and i cant wait) but i was talking to her and she might start an account on here so she can post stuff. So keep an eye on this thread in case she does decide to start posting, and she'll most likely post in here (and around the forum a little id assume) as one of us will probably give a little recap of our weekend for you guys (i know i always loved reading those kinds of things from guys who had genuine busting sessions with girls) She even told me she was ok with me posting online conversations we have about ballbusting that i think are decent enough (it was her idea actually) but sorry guys, no vids :-/

msjstw
09-22-2009, 05:20 PM
thanks ! please do share your online dialogs!! thanks

petesnuts
09-23-2009, 04:12 AM
Great! thanks for sharing this :)

latenightpervert
09-23-2009, 05:44 AM
good luck with your journey.
Please let us know how it goes.

cracker
09-23-2009, 08:37 AM
go beyond slapping my pals. When in college I had a gf who obviously wanted to hit my balls (staring at them, making jokes, having taken karate, and so on); she was bitchy and I was only with her because I wanted to screw her. I was into ball busting (as a teen I busted my own) and it seemed like a perfect set-up: but with her treating me poorly (she had a tough childhood and really didn't like men) and not respecting me, I didn't want to let her hit my balls. She never knew how close she was to her dream --- I mean she never had and really, really wanted to do it --- if only she was a bit nicer. A shame, but no regrets.

Anyway, not hitting her genitals is a bit of a shame but just would have been icing on the cake (for me, anyway --- I want to try it and have found that those who like to give pain often like to get it, too --- for her, on her bottom, I guess). You "dominate" in other ways, so I'm sure that makes up for it.

Have a great weekend! I think you're a lucky guy!

FatSmurfette
09-24-2009, 09:16 AM
Hello, boys :)

I’m FatSmurf’s girlfriend. Yes, oh my god, a real girl is posting on a ballbusting forum. Anyway I realized that not a lot of girls post on here and that, well, some of the people claiming to be girls are a little unrealistic. Now that I see how much hearing real experiences from real people helps you guys out, I figured I would share some of my own. Have a blast.

So. FatSmurf (I feel absolutely referring to him like that, but I’ll make deal) and I have been dating for over a year now (one year, one month and three days to be exact, but who’s counting). Good sex has never been a problem for us. As he said in his post, we’re extremely compatible sexually and that is such a huge plus. His entire post was very true. He mentioned ballbusting one night when we were talking about what we’re into and, by the look on his face, he really expected me to be weirded out. He looked completely nervous about even bringing it up. As soon as he explained what it was and started showing me videos, I was definitely intrigued. No, this was not something I was into before. I have never in my life fantasized about kicking a guy in the nuts simply for my own entertainment. That’s now how I work. I’m actually a very nice girl outside of the bedroom. Anyway, he seemed so into that I figured it would be fun to give it a try.

Guess what, men? I loved it!

Usually my favorite part about sex is being taken advantage of. I like to be spanked, I like to be called names, I love being tied up and made into a complete and total slave. However, when handed the reins, I definitely have a good time with it. Ballbusting is the most fun I’ve ever had in sex (next to having an orgasm) and since it was introduced to me, I get myself off thinking about it all the time. I think my favorite part of busting my boyfriend’s balls is seeing the look on his face when I’m really getting into it. I can tell exactly what he’s thinking and it’s usually a mixture of “Shit. What is she going to do next?” but more so “I want her to touch me again right now.” Seeing all those different emotions playing out on his face is such a turn on for me and it always makes me want to work a little harder. I never expected bb to be as fun for me as it is.

There are a lot of things I like doing to my man’s nuts. I bite, kick, squeeze, punch, slap and anything else he wants. My favorite techniques are holding the balls in my right hand while punching with my left and squeezing his balls until he’s begging me to stop. I play this game with him where I’ll have a ball in each hand and squeeze them until it looks like he can’t take anymore. When he’s wriggling around trying to get out of my grip I’ll start counting down from whatever number I feel like and squeeze even harder until I get down to zero. He goes pretty crazy for that one. I love the feeling of total control I get when I’m busting his balls. Anything he has to say doesn’t matter because his nuts are mine and I’ll do whatever the hell I want with them. One of the best moments was when we were both standing up; I was holding his shoulders and I kneed him in the balls so hard that he actually had to take a step back, put his hands on his knees and take a minute to recover. It was a little disappointing because my knee didn’t bring him all the way to the ground, but it was satisfying enough. I like seeing how the little things I do can make him just keel over. He’s a tall boy and I’m a relatively small girl, so it’s an amazing feeling knowing that just one kick from me could take him down.

I’m going to visit him at school this weekend and I think everyone on this entire forum knows we are going to have a preeeetty good time. You’ll all hear about it eventually. I do have a favor to ask, though. We’ve experimented with a couple things, like putting a tennis ball in a sock and swinging it at him, putting a hair tie around his nuts to make them stick out, me kicking him from behind, him laying down while I’m standing, etc. It’s all been fun, but I’m relatively new to all of this and I’m always game for new ideas. I’d be up for trying mostly anything (EXCEPT CUNTBUSTING. Please stop suggesting that I’m going to like it. I will not.) so I was just hoping to get some suggestions as to what I can do to him this weekend. I’ll be bringing sneakers with me ;)

I think I’ve said enough. Mostly I just wanted to introduce myself.
And baby, I love you. Can’t wait to see you.

bleep master
09-25-2009, 03:56 PM
..just wow!

my girlfriend still feels weird about ballbusting..

she does it from time to time but is not really enjoying it..

consider yourself as l u c k y!

zsefv
09-26-2009, 11:18 AM
Lucky guy indeed.

Try spanking his balls with a flip flop shoes, he's going to like it. :)

ER_Doc
09-28-2009, 02:08 AM
Ok, I hae a few things you can try:

1: You can play a game where he gets to eat you out and you get to control how you are being eaten out by communicating with him. Trick is though...no words. You have to communicate with signals....naturally through his balls! So if you are sitting on his face, you can previously assign different things to each ball. So squeeze left means one thing, right another, and both together another. Obviously harder you squeeze the more intense whatever he is supposed to do

2: You should try the "nutcracker". Have him sit on the floor. You'll need to ties his balls up, either together or individually. You walk up between his legs with your butt on his face, standing. You'd need to wear some low heels (1.5 - 2 inch) with no back on them (a slip on type of shoe). Lift up your foot a little to make a space between your shoe and the bottom of your heel and have him put one ball of your choosing or both in that space for you to step on, and feel his ball get flat under your foot. Incidentally...you could sorta play game #1 with this method too. One ball under each foot, your bare ass bent over right in front of him (since his face would be at the perfect level)

3: pick a number range, whatever you think might be risque enough for fun (1-10, 1-100, 1-500), whatever range you're comfortable with. Call a friend of yours and ask her to pick a number between x an y, and that becomes the number of full force, hard as you can, kicks he has to take in a row...no matter what. Even if God shows up to earth to tell you to stop. that way it's completely up to someone else. You would have NO reason to feel bad that you had to kick him 200 times as hard as you can, cuz you didn't choose that number.

Have fun......what a lucky guy....I used to have a gf like you. Had to let her go though cuz I knew I probably wouldn't ultimately be the right guy for her (in terms of other aspects of life).

cheers,
Doc

busted2007
09-28-2009, 04:24 AM
Hi Fatsmurff and girlfriend, thank you for sharing your real stories in so much detail. Please keep us up to date with all the details.

A couple of things you may want to try. just the simple things but implemented right are my favourites:
1. GF lay on your back, while he is on all fours over you. You can kick him and after a while it will be very difficult for him to get off. When he tries to get off you kick him which will bring him back on all fours. This is a major turn on for me because I can't get off her and I'm completely exposed.

2. Sit on the edge of the bed and let him stand in front of you. If he has limited movement to back off it is even better. Keep on punching his balls and after a while he won't be able to move away and be at your mercy.

3. He is on all fours on the edge of the bed, while you stand behind him and punch his balls from behind like a boxing punch bag. His balls will go all over the place.

4. You can also try something like above but with a ping pong bat. They have nice padding and is ideal for smacking his balls all over the place.

FatSmurf
09-30-2009, 08:42 AM
Hey guys, sorry for the delay on the promised summary of my weekend with my girlfriend, ive just been busy as hell this week getting last minute details worked out for getting an apartment for next year, and i actually just got back from waiting over 12 hours overnight outside a realtors office in a line in hopes of getting my preferred place to live. So im kind of exhausted at the moment and going to sleep in a second so i dont really have time to sit down and type out a nice wrap up of all the awesome things we did this weekend, but i promise you guys i will get around to it soon, hopefully before the weekend, and maybe i can persuade my girlfriend to throw in her perspective of it all too (im sure you guys wont mind that)

i will say one thing, the flip flops idea stung like hell! it didnt actually hurt my balls in the normal sense, it just stung the scrotum badly, ha. but i really appreciate the idea, maybe next time we can try it out with a shoe so it wont hurt so bad. As for the other ideas, again thank you so much! but unfortunately she had left before those ideas were posted, but she told me she read them and really liked them, so im sure we'll be giving them a go next time as well. :)

As for any other ideas you guys may have, please please please keep them coming! Thanks

lisbonballs
09-30-2009, 03:50 PM
you have a girlfriend who understand your desire that's great !most of the girls i know think if someone have some kind of fetish it's a weird or a sick guy...but maybe it's my fault cause i don't the "balls" to tell someone my secret need...oh and i know a brunette who have great legs to knee and kick my balls...someday i do!
Best luck.

FatSmurf
10-02-2009, 01:13 PM
Sorry this took so long, ive been extremely busy this week with school and apartment searching. But now i have the time to sit down and organize my thoughts to give you guys the best summary of last weekend that i can (for those of you interested, that is)

So this may seem a little choppy, but thats because we did SO MUCH different ballbusting things that its tough to try to remember it all, but i will do my best. So as you all know my girlfriend LOVES ballbusting, and boy did she show me that over the three days we were together. The first thing i can remember her doing was while we were in bed fooling around lying across from each other and her ramming her knee into my balls unexpectedly. Those knees hurt like hell! Mostly because in that position my balls were hanging over my thigh so when she would hit them they really wouldnt have any room to swing around and lessen the blow, instead they were basically trapped for the full force of her knee, and man did she swing her knee hard...i cringe just thinking about it (but get a boner of course too):o

The knees were more of an addition to us fooling around in bed, but immediately after she got me out of bed and made it all about busting my balls. She started kneeing and kicking me while i was standing (the whole time nude by the way) and every time i would go to fall down or squat from the pain she would make me stand up again so she could keep kicking me. Then she started grabbing my (hard) dick, pulling it up so my balls were pulled up too, and started slapping them around. Then she just started mixing all three of them in there.

I dont really remember everything chronologically after that, but things i do remember her doing to me were:

We'd be lying on the bed facing each other and she would raise her knee into my crotch so my nuts were popping out between my body and her knee, and then she would just start smacking and punching my bulging sack (i could barely take 5 seconds of that, but it was amazing)

She had me lean against my bed bent over and she would kick me from behind. I loved that because i never knew when her foot was gonna come up into my balls. Very exciting.

Again we were lying on the bed facing each other and but this time she was kicking my nuts, and they felt great, until one kick just connected dead on with my sack and gave me the worst pain ive had down there in a long time. Definitely the hardest shes given me, and im really not into the whole extreme pain aspect of ballbusting, but whenever i think about it it is so hot to me. Especially since she was laughing at me while i squirmed around in bed. Another time i was on the ground and she was standing over me and was stomping down on my balls and i had to make her stop because her heel was coming down so hard i was afraid for my balls, she was disappointed, haha. But again, i found that really hot afterwards.

One great thing she does to me is she'll hit me in the balls whenever she feels like it, even when we're not alone in the bedroom. For example my friend was showing up something on his computer and as we're standing behind him looking over his shoulder, she smacks me in the crotch and then looks up at my face for my reaction. I obviously had little reaction so my friend wouldnt have found out, but inside it drove me crazy! I just wanted to do her right then and there, and im pretty sure that made her happy. She loves teasing me like that :iluvu:

We watched a few videos. The first being Bree Olson's scene in First Time Ballbusters and a video from Ballbusting Legends. She absolutely LOVED the Bree Olson video. She said it was the hottest bb video shes seen...i might have to agree with her :) Then after we watched the BB Legends one and in it Roxie was showing another girl how to grab and squeeze. She also loved that one, and even tried it out on me after. There was something so hot about her thrusting her hand into my crotch and grabbing me by the balls that it turned me on faster and more intense than anything ever has and i just ripped off her clothes and fucked her. It was beyond great.

I think my favorite part about the whole weekend was how into she really was. She would tell me during sex how much she wanted to bust my balls and then start telling me all the things she wanted to do to them. I would nearly cum instantly every time she did that. Another time she was busting my balls and i hadnt even touched her yet, and she took my hand and made me feel how wet her pussy was from just busting me. I didnt even think that was possible! We also kept checking back to this thread to see if anyone had posted anything decent for us to try out. (like i said before that flip flop idea stung like hell, but she told me shes really into trying out you guys' other suggestions, and please keep them coming if you have any others. Everything you can suggest is greatly appreciated)

I'll be seeing her again in 2 weeks so hopefully ill have some other good stuff to report then, if there seems to be enough interest in these posts that is. I'll also see if she wants to post any of her thoughts from the weekend in here. Thanks for reading if you've made it this far, haha, and please fell free to respond.

FatSmurf
10-02-2009, 04:13 PM
Oh and one other thing i forgot (i cant believe i did!) was what my girlfriend had posted in here about wearing these sexy white stockings we picked up at an adult store back home awhile back. So at this point in the weekend we had had quite a bit of sex (i had cum about 2 or 3 times leading in a short time span before this part of the weekend) so needless to say i may or may not have needed viagra even at the age of 19 :o
but of course we still wanted to have sex. I was on top of her and needed some help getting hard, so she told me to lean back. So im kneeling at her feet while shes lying on her back in the bed, and she begins to kick me in the balls repeatedly. Every time i leaned forward from the pain she would put the tip of her foot against my chest and push me back up, make me kiss her foot (keep in mind shes still wearing the sexy stockings. and im not even into feet but her making me do that was hot as hell) and then run her foot slowly down the middle of my body down to my junk where she would begin kicking me some more. Eventually she told me she wanted to make it into a game and that every time i leaned forward i would have to eat her out (win-win situation for me? i think so) In the end my balls were red and swollen, her pussy was sufficiently eaten out, and we both were as happy as could be. We didnt get to the sex part unfortunately because my dick was exhausted. The next morning wasnt so bad though ;)

HateMeOnTheFloor
10-02-2009, 06:34 PM
Whats up everyone? Good to know I'm not the only person who gets off on this stuff. I love it! I do it myself too! I got a lot fetishes that my girlfriend loves. Like you, FatSmurf, my girlfriend lives 3 hours away, but by plane! I only got to see her for a week in August, and we really didn't get to do much, but when ever she got the chance, she would squeeze as hard as she could. We always talk and text about what we want to do to each other! I got a few more fetishes other then beating the hell out of my balls. And she loves everyone of them. She's bi, so shes open sexually. Once she told me her fetishes, I told her mine. She loves everything! Name it, she wants to do it! She wants to do everything, and so do I! Although, she never did anything with a guy before me. Before it was all toys. And now she has more fetishes then ever because of me. She gets so horny so fast! I love this girl! I'm hoping to see her again Close to New Years. I live in NYC, so it's a good reason. So, until then, she tells me to hit the a certine number of times a day till she gets here. Then shes gonna punch them in the total amount! There is so much more then punching we want to do! So if you guys got any questions about her or me, or sugestions, don't hesitate to ask. Later! (if I posted twice, it's because I didn't see my first one go through. This is my second attempt lol)

FatSmurfette
10-04-2009, 11:44 AM
So. Remembering all the things we did that weekend has gotten me sufficiently turned on. I really didn't hold back at all and I could tell it made my boyfriend extremely nervous. We had some really amazing sex that weekend and I think it's all because we both get so horny from ballbusting. I get so wet every time a part of my body collides with his balls. I'm pretty positive nothing has ever turned me on faster. I love causing him that kind of pain because, even when he's literally squirming around in so much pain on the bed, I know he's going to get off so hard thinking about it later. I'm not going to have any mercy from here on, so FatSmurf, you should be prepared to get some seriously swollen balls the next time I see you. I don't think you'll be walking much that weekend. Consider it my birthday present. ;)

teapot42
10-05-2009, 07:06 PM
Certainly sounds like you two are having a lot of fun!

A regular thing I do with my girlfriend is that I finger her while she squeezes and punches my nuts. The hornier she gets the more my nuts get busted and the hornier I get from that the more work my fingers do! She frequently cums just from knowing how much she is hurting me from the moaning and groaning...

Other things we've done include her standing on them bare-foot - wonderful sensation if a bit painful. Great for the girl as she feels your nuts squish which you loose with shoes on.

Lastly, the hottest thing she's ever done is to tie me to the bed and just pound on them - similar to the 'on the doll' scene I guess but just pounding them rather than with the dice thing. You need to be in the mood for that - I don't know if you have the same but I find that my balls can take a lot more when they are 'warmed up'.

vela73
10-06-2009, 12:37 AM
She didn't want to try biting you like Bree Olsen does in that video? How about squeezing you with her feet instead of kicking?

I enjoyed reading about this and would like to hear of anything new you guys get up to (just love how into this she is).

FatSmurf
10-07-2009, 10:26 AM
Actually she has done plenty of biting on me. In fact she really loves doing that. Shes really into the ball biting thread on here she told me. She seems to often do most of her biting after a good beating which makes it much more painful :cryingblu
But she hasnt really done any crushing with the feet, we might have to give that one a go. Thanks ;)

And teapot - I've heard about people doing that, getting their partner off while they are in return beating their balls, specifically the story i heard was the girl had a tight grip on the guys nuts and as she had her orgasm that grip got only tighter. I'll definitely suggest that to her (though im sure she'll see this the next time shes on here....which probably wont be too long) And i definitely know what you mean about the balls being 'warmed up'. We were in the middle of having sex, i was horny as hell, and i cant remember the reason but i pulled out (hadnt cum yet) and she started hitting me in the nuts and i could hardly feel it at all. It was crazy!

And as my lovely girlfriend, Fatsmurfette (ha, thats still so weird) mentioned its going to be my birthday in a week and a half and that is when she will be visiting me. So if you guys have any good birthday related ballbusting games, by all means, please let us know. Also, there was a pretty good video i believe on youtube awhile back of this guy getting "birthday kicks" from his girlfriend. They were in a house (something like a living room) and the girl gave him 19 kicks, one for each year, and he had a tough time making it through towards the end cause she was kicking him pretty hard. The girl seemed semi reluctant to do it and you never really got to see much of her face until the end when he was joking around and annoying her. If anyone has that video or knows where it is please let me know, i would love to show my girlfriend that as an inspiration. Thanks

dec86
10-07-2009, 05:23 PM
My gf gave me this gift for my birthday: she get a good grip around my left nut and gave me 11 punch, then did the same with the right one in the morning, then did the same thing later, before sleep :iluvu:

Selftailer
10-08-2009, 02:34 AM
My gf gave me this gift for my birthday: she get a good grip around my left nut and gave me 11 punch, then did the same with the right one in the morning, then did the same thing later, before sleep :iluvu:


Un altro fortunello (another lucky guy) :)

cracker
10-09-2009, 01:06 AM
I have a date with a woman that wants sex bad and likes me a lot. I think I'm going to go for a standing-up version of her squeezing my balls while I finger her clit with one hand and jerk myself off with the other. I hope she goes for it. (She wouldn't hurt a fly and I'll really have to convince her I like it --- tying the good feelings in her clit to squeezing my balls could work or she might let up on squeezing as she gets closer and closer to coming, I'll hopefully find out this weekend). Unfortunately, I don't think squeezing will be a turn-on for her but one never knows. :-)

FatSmurfette
10-09-2009, 12:29 PM
I have a date with a woman that wants sex bad and likes me a lot. I think I'm going to go for a standing-up version of her squeezing my balls while I finger her clit with one hand and jerk myself off with the other. I hope she goes for it. (She wouldn't hurt a fly and I'll really have to convince her I like it --- tying the good feelings in her clit to squeezing my balls could work or she might let up on squeezing as she gets closer and closer to coming, I'll hopefully find out this weekend). Unfortunately, I don't think squeezing will be a turn-on for her but one never knows. :-)

I think you're going to be just fine if you go about it that way. That strategy would definitely work for me, especially if I saw how much you were liking it. I guess the more you show her how pleasurable it is for you, the more comfortable she'll be squeezing your balls. Good luck and have fun :)

painballs
10-09-2009, 10:24 PM
Nice girlfriend =)


very nice:)

FatSmurf
10-25-2009, 05:02 PM
Hey guys,
So if any on you guys are still interested in reading about my girlfriend busting me, ill let you know how things went last weekend. (i am a little late as this happened last weekend, well from wednesday til sunday (14th-18th). Five awesome days of ballbusting!

Being that it is over a whole week since this all happened (sorry it took so long, didnt really have too much time to sit down and type this out til now) my memory may not be so great, but i will do my best to recall each notable thing that occured and the best detail possible.

So the two absolute hottest things that happened that weekend were i was again on the bed on my knees at her feet, while she was lying on her back. She told me to spread my legs and that she would be kicking me up to 20. I didnt know what that meant at first but quickly found out it meant she would kick me once, then kick me twice, then three times, then four, all the way up to 20. And it was KILLER! She let me rest at 10 and gave me a quickie blowjob as a reward:jumpsmile. After that the kicks only got harder, and when we were half way done with the set of 20 kicks, she told me the last 10 were going to be very hard but i would be able to rest in between each. And she was not lying, those last kicks were brutal! the last one dropped me (though that wasnt the first time) what i loved about that little game though was that since she was giving me so many kicks, she had to do them relatively lightly or else i wouldnt have been able to make it. I mean yea, they all still hurt, but i was still able to take more after each which is the kind of busts that i love, i get to experience that awesome feeling of having my balls kicked, feel her foot make contact with them, but still have the pleasure of another one coming in less that a second. (though dont get me wrong, im all for a devastating kick now and then) Immediately after that last kick we had amazing sex due to the fact that we were both horny as hell from that little game.

The second amazing thing i can remember is the first day she was here we were leaving my dorm to go get dinner, and she was asking my roommate and i if there were cameras in the building anywhere, specifically the stairwell, just out of general curiosity she said. Though i knew something was up, but i was thinking her mind was on having sex in the stairwell at night because she really gets off on having sex in a risky public spot and has brought it up before (we've actually had sex in my car parked on a dead end street at night, and it was AMAZING sex. the funny part is that was the street i grew up on....oh goodbye innocent childhood memories.) So anyway, we leave to get dinner, we make it to the stairwell and she immediately grabs me by the shoulders ****** me up against the wall, and kicks me in the balls 3-4 times. I could practically feel the hormones exploding inside me as this happened. I wanted to do her right there, but unfortunately that would not have been a great idea given it was only like 6pm, my roommate was back in the room so that was off limits, so we had to just go to dinner while i ate my food with extremely blue balls.

Speaking of blue balls, well purple really, on sunday, we decided we would make a video of her busting me (sorry guys, we're not putting it online) and so clearly she wasnt going to hold back, and i was going to take as much as i possibly could, and then some. She punched and squeezed me for one rather long segment. Then she kicked me while i squatted on the ground (really sexy and great feeling since the squatting position makes your balls hang down below your body and it really gives you that exposed vulnerable feeling, and its great when they get kicked) another of her just straight up kicking me...preeeetty hard, and another of her kicking and stomping me while i lied on my back on the ground. the rest of the day my balls were HUGE! They were swollen so much, and you could really notice when my dick was flaccid and you could tell the size difference when it was resting against my sack. It was an awesome experience and without a doubt the sexiest thing ive ever done. Oh yea, and we made one of me fingering her to orgasm, but not sure how interesting that is to you guys...i loved it. I find it kind of funny though that we make a sex tape, yet there was no sex whatsoever in there. I wonder how many times that happens with a couple.

Another thing she did was to tie one of her stockings around my hands behind my back, and her other stocking around my cock and balls making my balls bulge out and she proceeded to kick me like that. It was awesome, but we really didnt do that for too long and i think that would have been great for punches and slaps - wink wink fatsmurfette) :)

Thats all i can really think of right now. If i remember anything noteworthy else over the next few days ill be sure to throw it in here. As always let me know what you guys think, we're only posting this stuff cause we hope you guys out there like it....and well, we kinda like talking about it with others too :o. And if you have any other fun ideas we can try out, be sure to let us know.
Thanks

poolman2
10-26-2009, 02:35 AM
FatSmurf,

You're a lucky man. Enjoy your bounty. :ibow4u:

poolman2

jerpears
10-27-2009, 08:27 PM
Wow fatsmurf you are one very very lucky man. Judging from your posts and from your girlfriends posts it seems like both of you really enjoy th dominance she has over you. You lucky lucky guy you.

What I would recomend, what has always been my fantasy but I've never been able to convince a girl I'm with to do is challenge your girlfriend the next time you see her to a nude wrestling match. You win if you pin her, she wins if she makes you 'give up' by busting your balls. if you win you get a blowjob if she wins you go down on her, or something to that degree.

Its a shame because I know she isn't into pain all that much but what I used to do with one of my ex's was in a sense have a mercy fight. She would grab and squeeze my balls and I would grab and squeeze one of her nipples, first one to give up loses.

Takethemboth
11-01-2009, 07:56 PM
Hi I'm mid 20's and in my first relationship.

I have to admit i have no idea how to bring up it up at all with my girlfriend.

I love her to bits, and we're very compatible in terms of everything else, but i don't think think there's a kinky bone, in her body (that i know of) .

And If I introduced it to her and didn't like it or worse she found it completely weird and sick, I don't think it could go well, it might not end it in itself end the relationship ,but it would always kinda be there in the background, like a point of no return.

having said that i think she's getting suspicious, it think once or twice she's noticed certain 'swellings' when she's been talking about kicking someone in the balls or ********** someone when she's really annoyed. Not to mention the fact I've had some near misses with 'downloads' folder, when she's using my computer.

I suppose i my current 'strategy' is to resume until, one day, I get bored of all this ball-busting malarkey,.. i have a feeling that's not gonna happen though.

I suppose if i have a question it's: are there anyway subtle ways of bringing up, perhaps not ball-busting (at least at first) but general Fem-Dom to a partner with no apparent kinks.

busted2007
11-02-2009, 05:51 AM
When you are standing on your hands and knees over her while she is laying on her back, tell her you want to know what it is like to be hit in the balls. That's not weird at all just curious. If she is reluctant because she is afraid to do damage, suggest she does not have to hit you hard. That's all you need they always enjoy it after a couple of hits.

lisbonballs
11-02-2009, 08:03 AM
When you are standing on your hands and knees over her while she is laying on her back, tell her you want to know what it is like to be hit in the balls. That's not weird at all just curious. If she is reluctant because she is afraid to do damage, suggest she does not have to hit you hard. That's all you need they always enjoy it after a couple of hits.

that's a nice advice...once i was in a bookstore with my girlfriend and i show her a book of self-defense for woman , right in the ballbusting action, ( just to see what she think ) but she didn't get to much impressiv about that ( damn it!! ). i will try another way to get her my atention to my fetish (...and she has nice legs to kick my poor balls!!:D )

Takethemboth
11-02-2009, 11:36 AM
When you are standing on your hands and knees over her while she is laying on her back, tell her you want to know what it is like to be hit in the balls. That's not weird at all just curious. If she is reluctant because she is afraid to do damage, suggest she does not have to hit you hard. That's all you need they always enjoy it after a couple of hits.

huh... that's, genius! has the right amount of non nonchalant-ness to work

One from the Vaults
11-02-2009, 02:01 PM
@Takethemboth
Rather than speculating whether she's kinky or not, why not ask her? Can be a great conversation after sex... "so, I was wondering, is there anything kinky you'd like to try?"

I'd recommend you focus on her, explore her fantasies and encourage her in them, make plans to fulfill them. Once she's already turned on from thinking of the things she's into, she'll be more receptive to you talking about yours. If she turns it around and says something like "not really. How about you?" and you're too embarrassed to admit it straight up, it might be easier for you to talk about it more generally at first, like "well, I'm kind of curious about some s&m stuff," and then only go into detail if she seems interested/receptive.

Doing this after sex I find is a pretty good time because the pressure is off, it's more like planning for the future than "let's do this thing right now." But, if the conversation gets sexy enough, you might end up both turned on again and ready to do it right then, in which case she associates it with getting twice as much sex as normal.

Something I've learned from going to a couple play parties where there was kink involved is the concept of "checking in." Idea is to create a nonjudgmental space where you can both let the other know about things -- with kinky stuff this is really important because sometimes you honestly can't tell whether they're liking it or not, but it works well for normal sex too. Something like... "Let's check in. How are things from your perspective? Anything I did that you really liked, or anything you'd rather I didn't do next time? Anything you want me to do that I haven't done yet?"

I find that conversation is very easy to start, most people are receptive to it, and it gives a perfect opportunity to floor anything you've been obsessing over but can't bring yourself to start talking about (such as wanting your balls hurt).

As far as whether she's into kink, you should know that way more people are kinky than most people realise, but many are too shy to talk about it and might never explore it, which is sad. My first girlfriend was weird about pain stuff at first, but I've talked to her since we broke up and apparently I awakened something within her and she really wants to do that stuff now. Other girls I've played with I thought were vanilla at first, but after we talked more about it, it turned out they're just as freaky as I am. Current girlfriend is moderately kinky... I haven't had much luck getting her to hurt me, but she does like to be tied up (most girls do, it seems), and she says she might be okay with busting me eventually, just unused to and uncomfortable with it right now, and "maybe in the right mood." Point is you don't know unless you ask, and it could be that she's got something she really wants you to do with her that she's too shy about too (maybe bondage, maybe public sex, who knows?).

poolman2
11-02-2009, 06:39 PM
Takethemboth,

Let action take the lead and words follow. I had a similar reservation about a girl I liked very much. Fortunately my hands were more aggressive about the issue than my mouth. By the time I got up the courage to discuss it with her, she responded with a virtual: Duh! What else is new. Let's cut the chatter and get on with it. We've been happily married 25 years now. :thumbup

You can start out with foot massages. No woman will ever decline having her feet rubbed. If you have a foot fetish, you're in business. Eventually a little kissing. Perhaps letting her legs fall out of your hand and land on forcibly on your equipment. You can remark that the impact felt good. Then add that you need heavy stimulus. Then encourage her efforts.

The girl isn't dumb. Even if she never thinks of you as as kinky or an S&M freak, she'll figure out what you like and explore things from there.

Even if she doesn't do kink, the most you'll need to do is backtrack a little and then revaluate. So you have little to lose and much to gain.

Good luck,

poolman2 :bananawin

Takkyuu_tama
11-03-2009, 04:53 AM
Yeah, I think that...for people who are open to exploring sexuality (read: not boring), the two major concerns of girls seem to be 1) that it's being overly mean/cruel to you and 2) it'll do permanent damage.

This may not work for everyone, but I think this isn't a bad way to go:
It's always a a tentative start, but the next time she's got her hands on you, guide one around your balls and ask her to squeeze a bit. Emphasize how good it feels--be confident, caring and...show your excitement a bit. If she's worried, squeeze them yourself to show her. Give them one solid thump just to demonstrate it's ok. Reassure her that they're really a lot tougher than she thinks, and again, that it's just a crazy good exciting feeling that really boosts your pleasure. Hopefully that's enough coaxing for her to squeeze a bit, or maybe try a few playful slaps.

She won't have any idea how hard she can squeeze or hit at first, so just ask her to start lightly and slowly build up--you'll tell her if it's too much. (she'll be surprised how hard she can squeeze before you say uncle--you can perhaps egg her on: "c'mon, don't stop, it's just getting good ;) " )The harder you get and the more pleasure you show on your face, the more she'll enjoy doing it for you.

Does that sound pretty reasonable? It's worked for me a few times now.
<-------as evidenced by the profile pic =D

Takethemboth
11-03-2009, 08:58 AM
:thumbup certainly some good advice there

I think perhaps i don't give her open mindedness enough credit.

So from what i've gathered, from "one from the vaults" "poolman2" and "Takkyuu_tama"


Engage her in her interests first
Introduced her slowly (preferably Coitus to relieve pressure) to the idea of trying S&M
Light ballbusting.Might be a while before i go there, but at least i know how now.

Someone should write a pamphlet for this.

jerpears
11-04-2009, 07:31 PM
Where has fatsmurf and fatsmurfette gone? I was hoping for more updates into what I'm sure everyone will agree is every man's dream on this board.

FatSmurf
11-05-2009, 10:51 AM
Ha, dont worry buddy, we're both still right here. Conveniently enough my girlfriend is coming to visit me for the weekend again tomorrow so if anything new and exciting happens ballbusting wise, i (or she) will be sure to let you know.

And just my own little piece of advice for takethemboth, definitely go with the whole easing her into it approach. If you're worried about her being freaked out by the idea, throwing out that you are into ballbusting right away is probably the worst possible approach. The way i went about it with my girlfriend was i originally told her that i liked having my balls played with when she was going down on me. Theres nothing freaky about ballplay so its a great start. After a lot of waiting, one time she finally kinda bounced them in her hand as she was playing with them, not exactly hitting them, but more like lightly tossing them up and letting them land back in her hand i guess. She did that a few times, and i jumped on the opportunity by saying something to the effect of "oh thats nice, keep doing that". So she did, and it started to get me even harder than i was, and she noticed that, and she loved it. So she would do that every once in awhile and on occasion i would just ask her to do it a little harder cause i liked the way it felt (which she could clearly see as i got harder and harder). Over a very long period of time of me asking her to do it a little harder, she was giving me extremely light slaps. She knew it was kinda kinky, but she didnt know i was into having them really hit. I then got her to do more not by saying i was into ballbusting, but by saying that i liked that feeling and i think i would like it even more if she actually hit them. I feel like actually using the word ballbusting can be a little much at first. Acting like you didn't know you were into it or that such a thing as ballbusting exists seems about the best way to ease her into it if you've gotten that far. After she agreed to do it i eventually just came out and told her that im not the only one who likes it, and that theres actually a lot of it online. We then watched a busting video together and its been great ever since :)

So hopefully that can help serve as somewhat of a guide/inspiration of how you might go about bringing it up with your girlfriend. Just remember, be patient, you might get lucky and get her into it pretty quickly, but most likely it could take a few months. I wish you the best of luck though.

jerpears
11-09-2009, 08:01 PM
Well with all this talk of taking the girlfriends and the random girls into ballbusting I figure I will add my two cents and my little story from this weekend.

In the past I have been very fortunate to date girls who have been extremly open and extremly kinky. The best part of that is that its easy to bring up ballbusting and then its just a matter of convincing them that you are really enjoying it when they are smacking your boys around.

This new girl I'm with now presents a bit more of a challenge. She is still fairly young (shes 20 I'm 25) and I'm the first person she has ever done anything sexual with. So I figure even introducing light ballbusting is probabally years upon years off. The one good segway that we have right now is that she absoloutally loves wrestling with me, though she is probabally a good 70-80 pounds lighter then I am she has amazing balence and used to wrestle in high school (same with me but I wasn't a great wrestler) so I would say she probabally wins a little over 50% of the time which in its own right is hot.

So 2 nights ago we are lying in her bed and I say to her "You know what is horrible? We still havn't wrestled naked yet." She imediatally rolls over and tries to pin me down, after a long very sexy shuffle topped off by two times where she tried to push me off of her with her foot directally planted on my balls we started making out which turned into very hot sex.

So, afterwords we are lying down cuddling and she says to me "you know, that wasn't really fair. I'll admit that you won but you cheated." I asked her how I cheated and she says "Well you distracted me and used unfair moves like tickling me and biting my neck". so I say to her "Well you know. You could use unfair moves too if you wanted. I mean I'm totally exposed and that is my most sensitive area. You could pretty much do whatever you wanted to it." She says to me "Well I wouldn't want to hurt you." So I take her hand and I put it on my balls and tell her to slowly start squeezing and that I will tell her when to stop because of the pain.

After a little bit of convincing she finally agrees to do it.Knowing this could be a big step into adding ballbusting into our relationship I decided no matter how bad it got I wasn't going to tell her to stop. It was a little painful but I've taken alot of punishment in the past so it wasn't that bad. Afterwords she said "Wow you must have balls of steel." and we laughed about that for a little bit. Sadly thats as far as it went that night but I'm pretty sure we will be wrestling again sometime in the future and judging by her competitive nature she might just use some underhanded tactics to beat me.

I'll keep everyone posted as more comes up.

Lionel
11-09-2009, 09:12 PM
Thought I might share my experience also:

Here's something that happened while my GF and I were on vacation in Montenegro. I had never talked to her about my fetish and wasn't planning to anytime soon figuring that we would ease into when comfortable enough.

So one day we were lounging around the apartment naked and drinking, getting ready to jump into the shower before going out for dinner, my GF started getting amourous ... I know she really loves getting her nipples licked, so I sort of dropped by her side there as she lay on the bed and I was going for her perfect tits, wanting to lick those very cute nipples.

As I slumped down onto the bed beside her, my balls sort of flopped right in between us ... I wanted better access to lick her pert, ever-hardening nipples, so I adjusted my balls to have them rest on top of her leg, and no sooner had I done that when she cooed "that feels great, keep licking ..." all of a sudden without any prompting or warning she just started stomping on my balls using her other foot to crush my balls laying on top of her leg.

OMG! I was really surprised, but loving it. Then after four or five stomps I let out a few moans of pleasure, and it seems that exclamation really spurned her on as she really got into it and raised her leg fairly high and started stomping my balls pretty hard.

A few days later I was going down on her (another thing I know she really loves) and I asked if she wanted to try a new position for this ... I lay on my back and had her on her knees facing towards me, her pussy right in my face. As I continued exercising my oral skills, it was her turn to moan, and after about 10 seconds in this position she reached back, grabbed my balls and started squeezing the fuck out of my balls!

Another surprise to me, but I was in heaven. Needless to say, it was a great Vacation! I'm looking forward to what this girl will do to me next .... and I never even had to mention ballbusting to her at all!
:bananajum :iluvu:

FatSmurf
11-16-2009, 04:01 PM
Sorry yet again for the late response, its been over a week since my girlfriend left actually. And ive even sorrier to say that i dont have too much to report about our weekend together in terms of ballbusting. It was not as much of a sex-filled weekend as we have had in the past for some reason, so the ballbusting was a little less frequent (though thats not to say that it didnt happen, i sure got some brutal hits, but my post wont be as long as some of my previous ones unfortunately)

So some of the things i can remember happening is:
we were at a party, both getting pretty drunk, we had taken a step outside and in the parking lot of the apartment we were at was a very wide and rather dark alley between two of the apartments, so we walked over there and started marking out very intensely and passionately. After a little bit of making out and feeling each other up, my girlfriend steps back, and knees me in the balls a few times (me being able to take more than i normally would because im drunk) kinda hard. And around the third or fourth one she gave me the best knee ive ever experienced. It was just so solid - the kind of knee you fantasize about getting when youre horny and getting off to a ballbusting video. I felt her knee first connect with the crotch of my pants, and then push up through the material not being slowed down by my jeans at all which can often happen, and then the flat part of her leg just above the knee (the best part of the leg to connect when being kneed in my opinion) got me dead on in the balls, not a little bit in the thigh and a litttle bit in the balls, it was perfectly placed. Then i felt, almost as if it were in slow motion, her knee continue to drive up, slamming my balls between her leg and my groin, and an explosion of pain shooting out from either my left ball or my right one (i cant remember which, just that one got it especially bad) and the mix of pain and horniness going crazy inside me. It hurt real bad and i had to walk around the alley doing the usual bending over, standing up, continuing to walk, exhaling, bending over again routine to walk off the pain, and then my girlfriend said one of the hottest things as i was doing this - "i'm not sorry about that" which just added to the whole thing even more as im walking around clearly in a lot of pain and hearing her say how much she didnt care. It was great times :)

Other than that, she kicked me in the balls again in the stairwell which was all kinds of exciting yet again. And one morning we were fooling around in bed after waking up, but we both had to run to the bathroom so we werent interrupting with a bathroom break later when things got more serious. So we both get out of bed (naked of course) and my girlfriend throws me up against the bed (i have a very high bed that i practically have to jump up into) and from the side, knees me in the balls so goddamn hard i fall to the ground. Usually when she hits me hard im able to just squat and it will eventually go away, but this time i was in so much pain i just fell to the ground in a ball and rolled around from the pain. It was really really intense.

And another thing we did, i cant remember the context, but she had hit me in the balls really hard while i was on the ground, and she could tell i couldnt take anymore right then, so she, without saying anything, straddled my head and lowered herself down onto me, making me eat her out with her sitting on my face. Im not really into watching the whole facesitting fetish online, but ive discovered that i really like when it happens to me. And there was just something extra hot about her kicking me in the balls, and since i cant take anymore and she has nothing else to do, so she makes me eat her out without even saying anything to me.

So i guess this was a bit longer than i expected, and ill be visiting her at school next weekend since my thanksgiving break will be starting on thursday, and hers doesnt start til next week, and her roommate wont be there the entire weekend (yay) :). So as always, please feel free to leave us any ideas about ballbusting games we can play or new techniques we can try. Or leave your reactions/thoughts about any of the stuff you hear from us, or if you have your own experiences, we'd love to hear them.

jerpears
11-16-2009, 05:19 PM
Not sure if I mentioned this before or not but fatsmurf you are my hero. To have a girlfriend like that who is into ballbusting and enjoys doing it to you must be absoloutly amazing. The scene that you described where she busts your balls and then sits on your face ******* you to service her needs sounds like the hottest thing I have ever heard of.

Always apricate the updates. Can't wait to hear more about your thanksgiving weekend. Again, ask her to wrestle, its your goal to try and pin her while its her goal to try to make you say that you give up or tap out. More then likly she will end up winning (which really makes everyone win) but you can make a reward for the winner. Or the winner can chose something they want after they win.

poolman2
11-17-2009, 02:03 AM
FatSmurf,

You've had some great experiences. Thanks for sharing them with us. I hope you'll continue to do so. The stories are great. :bananajum

poolman2

jerpears
12-08-2009, 10:10 PM
Fatsmurf, where have you been? Was hoping for a thanksgiving update or a preview of what is to come for chirstmas.


On my own behalf the last time I saw my girlfriend she wasn't feeling well but we had talked about the next time we wrestle. I told her that I didn't want her having any excuses for when I win so if she wanted to take a cheap shot she was more then welcome to hit me in the balls all she wanted. She said she would take me up on that offer and that I was welcome to hit her in the tit to get back at her but if I did she wouldn't hold back. I'm thinking I have to hit her in the tit now. I'll keep everyone posted.

One from the Vaults
12-09-2009, 03:42 AM
Grats, jerpears! Let us know how it goes.

Last night my girlfriend and I were at a mutual friend's sauna party, so we were naked (as were most others there), and somehow we got into a nipple grabbing competition. Not like squeezing painfully, but trying to grab each other's nipples and prevent ours from being grabbed. I was winning, as I usually do at such things (I do take martial arts after all), and a couple times she made comments about how there were "other things she could grab," to which I egged her on a little, implying it wouldn't work but that she's welcome to try. Couple hours later she actually did grab me by the balls, in front of a mutual friend of ours... she didn't squeeze or anything, but she got her hand around them and said something about how "that would stop you." I got hard almost immediately... that was the end of that for the night though. I'm just hoping me getting hard counts as positive feedback and encourages her to do it more in the future.

sebi40
12-09-2009, 11:26 AM
Great ...
Generally bringing some vanilla into BDSM world needs some effort but greatly repaid.
Also I like to have my balls busted by a girl that didn't know that I enjoy it.:wooow

snowman100
12-10-2009, 11:31 AM
I have an aggresive and strong GF.. She is a black belt in many martial arts. She has always been gentle with me, so she caught me totally by surprise when she got mad at me and her fist went straight into my balls.. well I doubled over .. and the look on her face was one of such delight.. things will get more interesting going forward.. I think

poolman2
12-11-2009, 04:07 AM
snowman100,

Congratulations!

You not only have a girlfriend that has blackbelts in numerous martial arts, but most importantly you have a woman who has a blackbelt in girlfriend! :bananawin

That's what really counts from our perspective. The others are only important as exercise, sport, and taking care of her boy friend. :jumpsmile

poolman2

FatSmurf
12-27-2009, 03:35 AM
I apologize jerpears and everyone else, its tough sometimes to sit down and tell myself to recollect my memories and order my thoughts when normally im on this forum or in a ballbusting mood im just looking to get off :o

So of the stuff I can remember over the past few weeks/month, one specific thing i can remember is i was fingering my girlfriend while visiting her at school and she was really getting into it and talking dirty, helping her get more turned on. And of all the things she was saying, right before she started to climax, she started talking about how much she wanted to hurt my balls, and then started saying "im gonna bust your balls! im gonna bust your balls!" as her voice was getting higher and higher during her orgasm until she finally couldnt talk anymore cause she was cumming. Seeing something like that happen....it was just beautiful :)

Other than that, something else that sticks out in my mind is we were in her kitchen (now at home) and we were playing with her dog, her on the ground, me leaning against a counter a few feet in front of her, the dog in between us. She had been tossing a tiny bone around for the dog to play with and then out of nowhere tosses it right into my crotch with a devilish smile on her face. Me clearly becoming instantly intrigued by this fortunate turn of events gives he back the bones and i spread my legs. She never really did get them good before we moved on from that little game, but not too many days later in my bedroom she was lying in my bed and i had walked over and she again threw something at my crotch. It didnt really do too much damage, mostly cause it was rather soft (i cant remember exactly what it was right now) so i grab a souvenir baseball i have lying around in my room and hand it to her, and i could see the excitement in her face from being given such a more powerful weapon. She gives it a number of hard tosses at my nuts, sometimes hitting my leg and hurting more than if it had hit my balls, but it was awesome nonetheless. She kept making me pull my pants tighter and point out where my balls were so she could hit them better. I really really enjoy her throwing objects at my balls, and so i later brought up how much fun it was with the baseball and she told me that she was excited to try it naked so she could hit my nuts better. (i love her)

Other than that she has been busting me regularly, lots of knees for no reason, and lots of slaps and squeezes when we're messing around. Its perfect. She'll knee me super hard, sometimes without warning, and ill collapse to the floor in pain, and she'll just stand there smiling, and let out a small noise of triumph. She'll often say something innocent like "good, i hope it hurt" or if i comment later how they are still sore she'll respond with "im glad".

So thats that, and hope to hear from you guys some more too and all your bb adventures. Hopefully i wont take a year to respond again, and maybe i can even get my girlfriend to post something on here again.

dark_herc
12-27-2009, 04:32 AM
its good to hear from you again fatsmurf. as far as bb adventures go i have had a couple. my most memorable to date was my girlfriends "power hour" as we like to call it. i whipped out the rope and was tied by my hands and feet to the bed while she went crazy. it wasnt exactly what we thought that we would make it. our original plan was to have her go balls out (ha pun) on me with no mercy but i had a little bit of a say in the matter. the best part of that night was her pain scale. she rates how mean she is going to be on a scale of one to infinity. ha. she likes to use a tennis ball in a sock bc she can be really brutal with it with her huge windups. the "game" that she liked was to start at 1 and go up a level with every hit in the series. i got 5 second breaks between hits and each hit was a level harder. we got up to 25 before i was in a world of hurt. it was awesome:jumpsmile. she plans to have another "power hour" with me as soon as we can but this time i will be at her mercy.:ibow4u: and she can be kinda unforgiving sometimes. when that happens ill give you the details about our painful session. oh and to those who have never been tied up with their partner, DO IT! Its amazing and both of you will love it. :iluvu:

jerpears
12-31-2009, 03:26 AM
Glad to hear from you again fatsmurf. Your stories of you and your girlfriend are always a great read and are inspiring for the rest of us to try to get our girlfriends into stuff like this.

With how things have been going with my girlfriend it seems only natural that eventually ballbusting will come up and I think she will be interested. Every time she visits we wrestle for no good reason, surprisingly she's a good wrestler and can hold her own, plus she never says we are done until she pins me or holds me down. So I'm hopefully guessing that sooner or later she will try a cheap shot to get the upper hand.

Here is the thing, though I would love to tell her now that I would love for her to bust my balls I don't want to scare her off. We only started having sex about 2 months ago and before we had been together the most she had done with someone is make out (shes 20 I'm 25). I don't want to scare her off or make her feel uncomfortable because she is really really special to me. Any advice on how or if I should even bring this up? I'm pretty sure she is open to new things as a while ago when we were making out she was biting on my lip, then later durring the night when she was giving me a blowjob I asked if she could bite me there too which after she said "I thought guys hated teeth on their penis?" she willingly did.

So yeah, after all that I dunno. Any advice?

glennpeach13
01-02-2010, 06:48 PM
Wow Smurf, your a lucky lucky man to have found a girl who loves ballbusting as much as most ppl on this forum! Hope I can be so lucky someday =)

michi
01-27-2010, 01:41 PM
Hey Smurf / Smurfette,

when do you post your next stories??? I loooooove to read them!


Bye, bye - have a nice day!

Michi

FatSmurf
01-28-2010, 11:16 AM
I can post some stuff now from what i remember. It just gets a little tough to remember things in my mind cause it tends to all blur together since she busts me all the time. I'm back at college now so i dont see her as much, but over winter break i can think of at least two things that sort of stand out in my memory.
The first being we were about to have sex, we were both naked and i was on my back on my bed and she was next to me on her side. She said that i had to take 20 hits before we had sex, one for each year of my life, basically the same idea as on my birthday if you remember back to that post. So she starts off with punching me with the fingernail part of your hand if you make a fist, not the knuckle part. So she starts off with decent strength hits and i can feel here slowly hitting harder with each one. They were getting tough to take and i was beginning to wish i was much younger than 20, and on number 10 she really unleashed on my nuts. She hit me with one of the hardest hits ive ever experienced. I obviously yelled out and rolled over on my side away from her clutching my nuts. She kept pulling me back trying to get more hits in and i could hear in her voice that she was smiling, enjoying seeing what she did to me. It was only the second time i have ever really experienced that nauseous feeling in my stomach from being busted and the first wasnt from her or even sexual. It was so painful that i had to tell her to stop touching me cause for some reason that made it worse. After a few minutes of agony she persuaded me to roll back over so she could finish the next 10 promising that she wouldnt hit as hard. She held up her end by giving me the last 10 as the tiniest little taps on my balls, but of course after the 20th she gave me one more moderate hit saying "and one more for good luck". When i brought up how hard that 10th hit was afterwards, she simply said "i just really like pushing your limits, and i know you like it too"

Another time, we were on the ground in my room, again both naked, and she was giving me a killer ballbusting handjob. mixing in both stroking and punching, mostly punching, haha. So she started to get really intense about it and i was squirming on the ground with each punch trying to ease the blows for myself, and while she was laying the punches on me, she said "you shouldnt have told your girlfriend that you like having your balls busted if you cant take it".

So those are the two hottest/most notable things i can think of since my last post. Other than that she still busts me on a regular basis, usually during sex, like if she wants to be harder, or just sometimes for fun, she'll start smacking my nuts around. Even not during sex, sometimes ill just leave my legs open when we're just hanging around and she'll notice that and stomp her foot into my crotch. Sometimes the stomp will miss or not hurt that bad and ill just stay there with my legs open and when after 2 or 3 hits im still there with my legs open, she'll say something like "where are you balls" and then ill have to point them out to her or pull my pants up tighter to make them easier for her to hit, which is always really hot for me. So ill try to keep you guys updated if any significant worth posting happens, the only problem is that now that i'm at school we wont be seeing each other as often.

oh and jerpears, my advice is to work it in slow, what i did (and i think i explained it in one of my first posts so you can check there for more detail) was tell her i love having my balls played with. Eventually she gave them a little bit of a slap (well, not even really a slap, she hit them so lightly i didnt even feel discomfort) and i asked her if she could do that again in a sort of "ooh that surprisingly felt kinda good, lets see if it does the second time" tone of voice. And then over a period of time after asking her to do it again and try it a little bit harder saying that each time it was harder it felt better than the last, it worked up into decent slaps. Luckily for me i got hard every time she did it so she liked it too, always being shocked at how rock hard i would be after a few little taps (it was exciting for me:o) We also started watching porn together and one day after doing that for awhile she asked what kind of porn was my favorite, so later, after she told me that she was really into being spanked, i answered that question by saying porn where guys get hit in the nuts kinda like what you do to me. And from then on its been amazing. Hopefully that helps a little and maybe you can use that as inspiration. Id work off the teeth thing if i were you, if shes into it then thats definitely a start to get kinkier.

gages
01-29-2010, 12:59 AM
I was lucky enough to have a girlfriend at one time (I miss her so much!) who was interested in ball-busting too, and she was amazing. Our experience with ball-busting actually began totally by accident. I was taking a shower with my new girlfriend when she started talking about self defense. (Perhaps, being a woman, the sight of my scrotum made her think of this subject.) She began telling me about what she would do if she were attacked. I was quite surprised when she reached her hands forward and grabbed my scrotum, holding one testicle in each of her little, feminine hands. Then the woman tensed her arms and exhaled as if to pretend to squeeze my balls with all her might. She didn't actually squeeze me at all, but I immediately got so-o-o-o-o turned on as I'd never been touched like that before by a woman. Almost suddenly, I got a really rigid, large erection that I couldn't hide. I felt slightly embarassed. My new girlfriend was surprised that her action had created such an effect, but she knew from that point on that my testicles were an intensely erogenous area for me.

Some time later, I wanted very much to experience what a woman's kick feels like so I asked her playfully to kick me in the groin. Of course, she thought that I was crazy, but she agreed to try it. We were both naked, and she approached me as I stood with my legs apart - my penis jutting upwards and my balls dangling unprotected between my legs. Her first kick hardly touched me, but I assured her that I wanted her not to hold back. Then, she stepped forward, and slammed her instep into my scrotum. I heard that loud, peculiar slapping sound - something between a "smack" and a "splat" - and my delicate balls were violently lifted by her pretty little foot. A jolt went through my whole body, and for a moment, I involuntarily jumped to my toes. As I landed, my body hunched forward, and I felt a nauseating pain radiating from my guts as my strength left me. I stumbled forward and fell to he ground on my hands and knees, letting out something between a sigh and a moan. Kneeling naked on the floor, I looked up and saw my lovely girlfriend gazing down at me curiously. She looked incredibly beautiful standing naked in front of me. "Are you ok?" she asked with a slight smile, almost laughing. I assured her that I was, but I had to rest for a while after that kick. I told her something like, "you are SO cute, and you kick really well with your pretty legs. That was fun, wasn't it?"

Though being kicked in the bare balls hurt alot, I was very turned on by the whole experience, and my girlfriend kicked me at other times afterwards as well - always naked and barefoot. I asked my girlfriend if it aroused her too, but she said simply that kicking me and seeing my reactions were "interesting" to her. Despite being a petite woman of only 5 feet, she had a remarkably fast and strong front/snap kick that stung when it connected with my genitals and took my breath away. Also, she was very accurate with her wicked little feet and usually kicked my scrotum squarely - targetting both balls at once. I guess that what they say is true: women (even petite ones) have excellent lower body strength and are very capable of delivering devastaing kicks to sensitve targets such as a man's soft testicles. I was really lucky to have such a playful and sexy girlfriend for a while... I don't know if I will ever be able to experience something like that again.

FatSmurfette
02-27-2010, 04:07 PM
I haven't posted on here in forever and I thought I'd share what I'm pretty certain was FatSmurf's favorite orgasm ever:

I had been busting his balls for maybe 20 minutes or so when I finally decided I wanted to see him cum. So I started jacking him off and punching him at the same time and as I punched harder, he asked if he could take over. I'm not sure what it is about seeing him stroke his dick that turns me on so much, but I really like it. I started slapping his balls really hard and usually he makes me hit them a little lighter, but this time he didn't stop me so I just basically went to town. I kept up some hard, consistent slaps until he came and his entire body was literally spasming like crazy. It was probably one of the most satisfying things I've ever seen.

In short, I really love busting my boyfriend's balls. :)

jm1803
03-21-2010, 11:03 PM
most of the girls i have dated loved the idea of bb me. just ask and dont waste your time anymore... If she trully loves you she will take care of you...communication is so imp

exstudent
03-22-2010, 11:19 PM
My girlfriend doesn't like ballbusting but she loves slapping biting and squeezing them. I just have to pretend it isnt hurting. If I moan she assumes it is just from the pleasure. If i let on that it hurts in anyway she will stop. I don't think she knows how sensitive they are. I miss kicking/kneeing but I'm not complaining though because she is obsessed with them:jumpsmile and any attention to them is good. She even talks to them and holds them while I sleep.

NonChris
03-26-2010, 02:06 PM
You and your "girlfriend" use a lot of the same words and have identical dialect and demeanor. Must be a match made in heaven.

FatSmurf
03-30-2010, 10:51 AM
Ha, well we do come from the same area and are extremely compatible so that doesnt come as too big of a shock to me that you would see that. It's not as if she's from the city and I'm from the country.

reginauld
03-30-2010, 10:23 PM
You and your "girlfriend" use a lot of the same words and have identical dialect and demeanor. Must be a match made in heaven.

I was about to say the exact same thing ;)

Srsly brah, the brackets did you in.

FatSmurf
03-31-2010, 12:04 AM
Call me crazy but I'm pretty sure parenthesis are a commonly used function of the English language. The fact that two people use them does not make them the same person. Looking back on it my girlfriend only used parenthesis in one of her messages so I really fail to see the validity of your claim.

Personally, I've always been annoyed by the people faking a ballbusting scenario, specifically a guy that was on here maybe a year or two ago by the name of agent_mouse i believe. I think that was him, I'm sorry if I'm calling out some other member incorrectly. Basically it was the guy who claimed to be busted by his mom constantly in all these crazy scenarios and then how he just so happened to get all these pictures of his mom bending over and her thong sticking out. It was so blatantly fabricated and really annoyed me at the time.

I assure you, everything I have said is 100% true, and whether you choose to believe it or not, it's not going to stop me from having an amazing time enjoying every second of it.

smackMyNuts
03-31-2010, 12:45 AM
So, since we have some doubters, I figured that I'd go ahead and give the "evidence" an in-depth look, mostly just to satisfy my own curiousity. After doing so, to me, the conclusion is obvious: FatSmurf and FatSmurfette are different people. Their writing style has distinct and consistent differences.

With the exception of his most recent message (which is short and he probably wrote very carefully), FatSmurf is not good about getting certain things correct. He almost always forgets to capitalize the word I when it doesn't start a sentence. He also almost always forgets apostrophes. For instance, he's never written "can't". It's "cant" everywhere it appears. Most of the time, he writes "dont" instead of "don't" and "ill", "im", and "id" instead of "I'll", "I'm", or "I'd". He does tend to remember it for "we're" and for possession. But he forgets it in most contractions almost every time.

By contrast, FatSmurfette almost never makes these mistakes. In looking at her messages, I didn't see any of those mistakes. I might have missed one somewhere, but it is clear that she usually avoids those mistakes. She uses the words "can't", "I'm", "I'd", "I'll", etc. with proper capitalization and apostrophes.

It is possible that these mistakes were introduced intentionally in order to create two personas, but that strikes me as being very unlikely. If someone were trying to create two personas, they would probably go with bigger, more obvious differences (notice that the doubters failed to even notice these differences). And if you were trying to create an alternate persona, you would probably not make the alternate the one who is more correct because it would require that you catch and correct your usual mistakes. Instead, you would probably introduce additional mistakes or other habits since it's easier to add new things than to break existing habits. Plus, having constructed this as a defense, he would probably use it when challenged which he has not done. As such, the simpler explanation is far more likely to be correct.

My conclusion: two separate people.

My advice to FatSmurf and FatSmurfette: Don't lose any sleep over the doubters. There are always doubters. I've frequented a lot of different ball-busting boards over time. There's always a minority which wants to believe that no women actually enjoy this. They either accuse the women of being fake or being in it only for the money. What their motivation is, I do not know. But, for example, I remember someone doubting that Barefoot Princess was real and then she started posting videos and the doubter disappeared. I'm not saying that you need to post videos, I'm just saying that there will always be doubters. Most of us won't pay them any mind, and I advise that you do likewise.

FatSmurf
04-09-2010, 01:21 PM
Sorry for the late response, but thank you very much smackMyNuts for the support and the logical perspective on the situation. I always felt my girlfriend and i did talk sorta differently with the phrases that we use and whatnot, and there has definitely always been a distinct difference between her using apostrophes and me not. Mostly because shes an english major and those kinds of things matter to her and im just too lazy to use them in most cases since my message gets across either way (though i must say, now im gonna be ultra aware of when i actually do use apostrophes so it cant be used as evidence against me, haha)

So yea, again thank you for that support, and i also just want to say how i loved your videos back when you were making them and i miss them. I wish you'd make more

FatSmurf
05-07-2010, 05:29 AM
Alright so i know my girlfriend wanted me to let you guys know about some of the things we have done lately, and in case the people that enjoy my previous posts are still out there i'll fill you in on what we've been doing. The last time we were together was 2 weekends ago so my memory may be a little hazy but i will do the best i can.

We had gotten back from a formal earlier that night and earlier in the day my girlfriend showed me the heels she would be wearing (basically flats with a little bit of a heel to them) and she told me would be using them to kick my balls after. I was obviously thrilled. She had used them on me once before but mostly she just swung them at my nuts with her hands. Now im not much of a shoes guy, but for some reason the idea of her using those on me was very exciting. So we were fooling around in my bed, i give her one of the best orgasms i ever have, and after a solid recovery session she tells me to stand up. She puts her heels back on and after sucking my dick for awhile begins one of the best ballbusting sessions shes ever given me (i guess my reward for getting her off so hard:)) she kicked me a lot while standing - something we dont do too often but is a nice change every once in a while. And we did one of my favorite things which is i squat down leaving my balls hanging exposed below my body and she stood over me kicking. I really love that one, it adds this extra kinky dominated feeling to it all. Then she sat in front of me while i was still squatting and kicked me. Very sexy.

Other things we did that weekend included a lot of biting and something we've only done 2 or 3 times but we both love is me lying on my stomach and her pulling my balls out from underneath me. For some reason im able to take a little bit more punishment this way and it really adds to the arousal of the busting for me for some reason. Oh, and after the whole squatting thing from before we tried out something new - i put my balls on a box and she stepped on them with her heels. Ive never been into it too much when seeing that online, but just recently really wanted to try it. It didnt go so well because my balls were very retracted and tight so it was tough to really put them out there on the surface for her to step on them but i hope to do more of it in the future.

Other things we plan on doing (i'll be seeing her this weekend and the following one and her roommate wont be there so we'll have a lot of time to experiment and have fun) is following along to videos, specifically ballbusting 101 with penny flame (which i am extremely pumped about) and other non-busting videos as well, a little bit of wrestling around with ballbusting (we've semi done that before without planning it and a few minutes into it we were both WAY turned on and really passionate so we're looking to explore that more) throwing a little bit of bondage in there (nothing serious, just being tied to the bedposts and possibly blindfolded - also pumped for that) and whatever new ballbusting games or techniques we can think of (or you guys feel like suggesting ;))

well, thanks for listening to me ramble. hope some of you enjoyed it.

msms
05-07-2010, 07:53 AM
well, thanks for listening to me ramble. hope some of you enjoyed it.

That's gotta be the understatement of the milennium!!
This is great stuff - it's good to hear from both of you as well.

I know there's no video, but we sure would love one.

Nadzilla
05-07-2010, 04:33 PM
Its really great to hear about another couple that is having such an amazing time. I'm happy to hear that you have found someone that is so into BB. It is such a rarity I have noticed. And I am sure that my boyfriend, feels the exact same way.

I'm glad I'm not in the situation where he was hiding it behind my back and getting kicked by someone else - because that would be a rather uncomfortable situation. I just wish we knew other couples/people that were closer in our age range. (I am 18 and he is 21) Or that it was easier to meet up with or talk to people about it. I love BB more than anything and sometimes I feel like I'm the lucky one. ;) That probably sounds super silly - but it is definitely the truth.

FatSmurf
05-12-2010, 05:14 AM
thats funny that you should mention a video, because my girlfriend mentioned a slight interest in making one to post a few weeks back, We are both extremely hesitant about it and I for one am not all about the idea as of right now, though one day I may possibly change my mind. We just both have many reasons against it, but i wouldn't rule it completely out of the picture.

As for you nadzilla i'm extremely glad to hear you found someone into it as well and thats pretty interesting feeling that you are the lucky one despite being the girl. I saw your other post about looking to meet other people and I wish you two the best of luck in finding someone to enjoy some ballbusting with ;)

mexbust
05-13-2010, 01:13 PM
You can use a mask to cover your identity and put a store in clips for sale

I hope you'll decide to do some awesome videos! :bananajum

smackMyNuts
05-14-2010, 12:18 AM
You can use a mask to cover your identity and put a store in clips for sale

I hope you'll decide to do some awesome videos! :bananajum

Why does everyone always jump to trying to make money?

Smack

FatSmurfette
05-16-2010, 01:18 PM
Hey there.

Just thought I'd come right out and let you know that I am, in fact, a real human and FatSmurf's real girlfriend. It's extremely unfair to make assumptions as to the validity of my posts and, frankly, it's a little insulting. I'm an English major. I use parentheses. I use periods, commas, apostrophes and, holy crap, I use semicolons too.

Get your stuff straight.

jerpears
05-16-2010, 05:39 PM
Lol I was going to say posting a video would prove that you are different people. (really I just want to see a video of this amazingness. All sounds very hot.) Regardless if you decide to or not its always an enjoyment reading your posts.
Although things have been kinda slow here what with my girlfriend and I ending it and me starting a new job I have had a friend come over a few times who has been into being rougher with me. Nothing crazy over the top just she will often take my balls into her mouth and bite down on them, a few days ago we were about to get into the shower and when she was jerking me off I told her to twist my cock which she gladly did (guys if you haven't tryed this before it feels amazing). She was the first girl to even sexually kick me in the balls. I'm hoping I can talk her into it again in the future. I'll keep everyone posted.
BTW Fatsmurf and smurfette, the people who say you are the same person are just the nay-sayers that are jelous that they don't have a hot 20 year old girlfriend busting their balls. Just enjoy and don't let the assholes get you down.

hunter1
06-16-2010, 08:56 AM
Most of you are lucky, my partner isn't into busting at all. I only ever had one partner that liked it, but they were dangerous!:autogun

Gen-ichi
06-24-2010, 03:45 AM
Well I like to announce that I'm also in a relationship with my gf (both of us are 19 too heh) and we both enjoy busting, but I'm not so good on it. Because, no matter how much it turns me on to have her bust me and watching all the videos etc... My balls just aren't tough enough for us to get any proper sessions going :( I want to get less sensitive/tougher down there so we can both have a lot of bb fun but I don't know how to go about it. So I guess my question is, does anyone have any advice for us or for me getting tougher balls? Cus I really really want us to have some good sessions :bananajum:bananajum

Also, FatSmurf/FatSmurfette, your experiences have inspired me to get better, you guys have so much fun and I want sessions like that:D:D

Alec Anaconda
06-24-2010, 02:43 PM
You want more action on your balls, Gen-ichi?

Try showing your gf this: http://femaledom.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9496


Alec Anaconda

teapot42
06-28-2010, 05:42 PM
I think the only real way to toughen your nuts is to get them busted on a regular basis. Certainly things I can take now would have me curled up in a ball for an hour when I first got in to BB.

There are a few things you can do to help though. Wearing something like cycling shorts that have some padding can help as it cushions the impact a little and also spreads it out over the balls which can reduce the overall pain.

The main thing I'd say is to start gently though. My GF loves squeezing my nuts but she starts fairly gently and works up to harder squeezing. My nuts often feel a little tender at first but after 10-15 minutes she is squeezing so hard her hand starts to hurt and my nuts go really squishy. At that stage she can crush them as hard as possible or pummel them with her fist and I just want more and harder. You need to get the adrenaline flowing and get over the initial stage.

Lastly, something I find can reduce sensitivity is to tie off my scrotum, either with a soft cord or with elastic bands. This seems to reduce the sensitivity but also reduces the sensation. Be careful not to restrict the blood flow too much for too long - this is one of the ways of ********** livestock...

Yamasusi
07-01-2010, 03:47 PM
man your hella lucky, i always get scared telling a girl that, i only did it a couple times, one thought i was wierd and the other liked it!

Winddancer
07-04-2010, 04:07 AM
Unfortunately, my ex-GF were not much into idea of ballbusting. Some of them refused immediately as I started to talk about BB and only one of them supported me, but she didn't go any further than slightly touching my balls with her feet while I was on my four above her.
That was not what I expected.:(

Luckily, my wife is crazy about ballbusting and crushing everything with her legs.
Remembering my previous experience, I didn't mention it when we started to have sex after dating for some time. She started it by playing with her legs when we were just walking in the park - she stomped something on the ground with her shoe and I asked her to stop as it was turning me on. She didn't and replied that she liked to crush things with her legs. When we were having sex next time I proposed to play with my balls and since then every time before having sex we play BB-related games.
She tries different dresses and shoes, but my favorite is a short white skirt and white socks, though sometimes she wears pantyhose (black, white, fishnet) and high heels.
We are not into real pain - only games.

Sometimes we use "toys" like grapes or olives or something that looks like testicles. She crushes them and pretends that my balls are next. That turns me on very hard, especially when she touches my scrotum with the sock that is still wet from the crushed grape's juice.
:thumbup
Once we were watching the TV and there was that cooking show. That time they were cooking sheep testicles, which were on the cutting board and a host woman started to peel and cut them to pieces. My wife said that if she were on her place she'd "accidentally" dropped one testicle down and flatten it with her feet. We had sex immediately after she'd told that, but it didn't last long - the understanding that the other testicles are being cut down at the same time as the pair of mine is having sex made me cum very fast.
That gave us another idea for a "toy" - real testicle, but we didn't try it yet.

FatSmurf
07-06-2010, 12:07 AM
As far as "tough nuts" go, i'm not so sure i can buy that. I dont really think i can take any more pain at one time than i could when my girlfriend and i first started out doing this and we do it plenty often. To me i think it really all depends on how much you want it and how horny you are. Pain is completely dependent on how your mind perceives it, so if you are all jacked up on hormones and really want to get busted, you can sit there and take quite a lot of punishment. On the other hand if you are sitting around doing taxes for a couple hours and your girlfriend walks by and socks you one in the crotch its probably going to hurt a ton more than if she did it when you were dying for a hit and really turned on.

Really thats just from my experience. If i'm really turned on i can take a lot from my girlfriend, other times she'll get me by surprise with a light tap that hurts more than a hard kick when i'm horny. Personally, im not much of a "pain slut". I really cant (nor do i really want) too much pain. I'm really more about the constant hits that build up for a solid sensation of pain rather than being able to take a big hard hit that takes me out for a few excruciating minutes.

Regardless of all that, I'm really glad to hear you and your girlfriend are enjoying it so much together gen-ici and same to you winddancer with your wife. it really is fortunate for us guys who are able to find open minded girls like that out there and i hope it encourages the guys out there who havent found such girls to keep trying and not to be afraid to open up to their girlfriends about it. you just never know, she may surprise you (my girlfriend sure did, i never expected the response i got from her) and you'll be glad you mentioned it. so with that i wish you luck, yamasusi and hope you find a girl again that is also willing to try it out with you

oh yea, and also thanks to all you guys like jerpears who support/believe us so for you guys i will share a recent story (havent had too much busting going on recently but no worries, she stills loves it :)). so we were watching tv on my couch and i had just sat down next to her and she was holding onto a container of cashews i had for me, and as i sat down i said "quick, give me my nuts" jokingly and she responded saying "ok but you'll have to get rid of that (pointing to the crotch of my khaki shorts that had became taught from my sitting down and my legs being slightly parted) cause i cant really get to them with that there". I was very confused and responded saying "no i just want my cashews". Turns out i must have slurred "give me" together making it sound like i said "quick, hit my nuts" and she was quickly and without question willing to oblige.....i love her :D. so obviously i got a couple nice punches in since she was so willing....and my cashews of course

kofh
02-08-2011, 10:12 PM
My girlfriend supports me simply because there are other people who like it. Thank you guys. =P

She hasn't done much, but that's because (according to her) she gets horny and doesn't want to do any ballbusting because she doesn't feel anything, and consequently gets bored. She also promised that one day, she'd do only ballbusting under the condition I stop making her so horny. xD