Is going to a prostitute safe?

[cracker]

Whether for "regular" sex or even ball busting, is going to a call girl/prostitute safe? I've been considering it but I'm getting scared. I've done a bit of reading for herpes, say, and it seems to be super contagious. Indeed, 1 out of 3 adults in the Bronx has it! (Not prostitutes). Heck, I don't know if I can trust a casual gf or prostitute when it comes to herpes or HIV. There is no cure and it is often hidden and not disclosed by a potential partner. I'm not sure but herpes on the lips (face lips) is probably very contagious, too. That scares the heck out of me! Just kissing can be a high-risk activity!

In a weird way, another argument for s/m.

Any thoughts?

[abused berries]

anyone who would kiss a prostitute should punch himself in the balls.

[cracker]

some here (me, included) might like it if on female is around. Maybe a light bulb in the butt, assuming it's a non-gay (nothing wrong with being gay) guy.

Agree --- it's risky?

[Teardrop]

There are risks associated with nearly every activity, i.e. flying, driving, crossing the road. I personally would not have sex with a prostitute or a porn model as they have been around a bit too much.

Hiring a prostitute for BB is probably one of the safest things you can do with her. I don't see any problem with that... apart from losing your job/partner if you get caught by police with a call girl.

[Castratrix's pet]

No, going to a prostitute is NOT safe!

You don't know this person, who she is, where she has been, what disease she might have from being a prostitute. She could be the bait in a trap to rob men. She or others could then rob you, she or others could beat you up (and I don't mean ballbusting I mean really beat you up bad) or even kill you.

Prostitution is against the law almost everywhere in the world. Going to a prostitute is against the law so you could end up arrested and in jail, with everyone knowing you had gone to a prostitute for some kind of "weird sex."

There are just too many risks involved with going to a prostitute. Please don't do it.

If you must have a woman ballbust you then go to a friend or relative and have her do it. It will then be a woman who you know and who knows and cares about you. You will be much safer with her.

[mrsoul]

......duh!

[mrsoul]

I think the amount of risk for catching a disease depends upon what activities you have in mind.

If you live near a major city (NY), just try some personal ads...maybe you can find a girlfriend (if your not married).

...and I agree, DO NOT KISS THE PROSTITUTE!!!

[cracker]

I was thinking it would be safe (the disease perspective) depending on what you do, but then wondered if anything is safe enough in this time of herpes and HIV. I guess it's too high risk for almost anything unfortunately.

[don wake]

no is not safe they could be undercover pigs ( cops) :soomad :soomad to make money for judges pockets today judges are the best judges money can buy :soomad :soomad

[mick_sl8ter]

When looking for prostitution : I welcome you to Amsterdam !
I live in Amsterdam. Here are all sorts of prostitutes and forms of prostitution.


Hiring a prostitute for BB is probably one of the safest things you can do with her. I don't see any problem with that... apart from losing your job/partner if you get caught by police with a call girl.

No, going to a prostitute is NOT safe!
Prostitution is against the law almost everywhere in the world. Going to a prostitute is against the law so you could end up arrested and in jail, with everyone knowing you had gone to a prostitute for some kind of "weird sex."

no is not safe they could be undercover pigs ( cops) :soomad :soomad

Lets talk about freedom versus police state.

Having sex is not illegal and it is a private affair that is nobody's business except the ones having sex. It is definitely not police business !
Then why should paying for sex, or being paid to have sex be illegal (in some cases) ?

Because there are women all over the world being ****** / lured into prostitution by criminals. That is the only valid answer to that question.

Any other argument like stating that it is immoral is bullshit ! In a free country you are free ! And nobody should be able to force their bullshit moral to be adapted, not even the government !

So we have the freedom to provide sexual services versus the problem of criminals ******* women to have sex.

This is my idea of how a government should stop the abuse of women:

1. People who force women to have sex should be punished as if they were serial rapists. In other words: more jailtime when convicted.
2. To lower the risk of abuse, only women above the age of 25 are allowed to provide sexual services. (In the netherlands bar-owners must be at least 26 years old, so it is more likely that they will serve alcohol to customers in a responsible way. )

Of course this does not guarantee that women will not be ****** into prostitution.
Even a 30 year old can be ****** by criminals, but the chance of abuse is smaller, because she has lived part of her adult life without prostitution.

3. The government should encourage people to act against the sexual abuse of women.
If you or a customer suspects that a woman is not being a prostitute voluntarily, they should report this to the police. Also if a woman is under the legal age for prostitution.

This also means that police should not treat prostitutes or their customers as if they were human trash, but with respect. Moreover these women should be provided with serious police protection when they are being abused by criminals.

Under these conditions I think that prostitution should be legal everywhere.
Because everyone has the right to do what they want with their bodies and their lifes.
It is not up to other people or the government to come with a moral verdict.

My personal feeling about prostitution: There are enough sexually transmitted diseases in the world, please don't help to spread them. :D

But as far as I can see, you dont spread any more STD's by ballbusting than any other human interaction, so go ahead, you have my blessing :-)

[bobjoe12321]

Even if they are void of STDs they may have other illnesses like h1n1

[darthsidius]

I must say these days I hardly ever go to "professional women" - dominatrixes. I much prefer the amatuers. I live in London and go to the joints in and around soho and to women advertised in phone booths. I find that on the whole they offer a cheaper and better service than doms. In terms of physical safety the girls in the walk-ups are safe. I only do bb so kissing etc... doesn't come into it.

The main danger for me is when I go to far and bleed and then I will often stop. In fact there is only one dom that I have gone back to and that is mistress Dometria I have also gone to a wrestler once and she was good. Other than that I prefer prostitutes.

I have not and probably would not go to street girls. I think that is more dangerous the girl is not working from an adress so there is less likely hood she can be traced if she harms you. Especailly in the case of ballbusting where you are making yourself more vulnerable and also going somewhere "quiet" it would be tempting for her to incapacitate you with a single blow/squeeze/kick and take all your money or even keep hitting till they pop. This could also happen if the girl is high or drunk, which is more likely on the street.

[Teardrop]

People who force women to have sex should be punished as if they were serial rapists. In other words: more jailtime when convicted.
This has been my belief for years. In my view, if a woman or a man ****** a prostitute to have sex, the person doing the ******* is guilty of ****, regardless of whether he or she had sex with the prostitute.

My own personal view is I have no problem with prostitution or other people paying for sex (it's just not for me). After all, not everyone has a perfect partner to take to bed each night. There are many reasons why this is impractical for certain people, i.e. age, disability, lack of confidence. All persons should be able to have a sexual experience, even if they have to pay for it, without fear of the law intruding on their private lives. Unfortunately, we live in a society where there are consequences, both legal and in terms of social stigma, which we need to be aware of, even those of us who believe as I do that there is nothing wrong with consenting adults paying for sex.

[kickit99]

Dude, do you really even need to ask? It might be in Amsterdam. But if the act is potentially criminal you really should find an alternative.

[jlewis]

Everyone knows the answer to this question.

[cracker]

Everyone knows the answer to this question.

I see a lot of good info and disagreement in the answers. Ballbusting should be safe and just use your head vs. stay away at all costs vs. all decisions in life contain some risk.

[lisbonballs]

no it's not safe to go with a prostitute but if you need someone to make your fantasie come true , and in that moment you don't have any friend or relative...what would you do??...sometimes i go just for the ballbusting (nothing else more) and until today i don't have any problem.

[darkwing]

definitely not safe.

there are so many diseases that you could catch that it's scary

many are not preventable even with a condom:cryingblu

[lexxx]

Wtf ... what are you guys talking about asking friends or relatives to fullfill your sexual fantasies ... lol
Just wrap some rubber around your weewee and you ll be fine ...

[One from the Vaults]

definitely not safe.

there are so many diseases that you could catch that it's scary

many are not preventable even with a condom:cryingblu
Such as...?

Hm... colds, flu, hep C potentially... various communicable skin diseases... uh...

[darkwing]

Such as...?

Hm... colds, flu, hep C potentially... various communicable skin diseases... uh...

Well, for starters, there's genital warts. You can try to treat them, but there's no guarantee that they'll never return (caused by a virus). They are not always blocked by the condom.

All the other STDs -- condoms sometimes break.

Pubic lice, though curable are also considered STDs.

[Teardrop]

Well, for starters, there's genital warts. You can try to treat them, but there's no guarantee that they'll never return (caused by a virus). They are not always blocked by the condom.

All the other STDs -- condoms sometimes break.

Pubic lice, though curable are also considered STDs.
You could catch all of these from any man or woman you have sex with, they're not exclusive to prostitutes.

At least, you're not likely to catch a STD if the only reason you are visiting is to have the hooker's foot or knee hit you in the balls. :)

[erc]

Out of personal preference I wouldn't sleep with a prostitute. Partly through pride, partly through lacking expenses, partly through knowing that asking her to do half the things I like would probably drive the price up, and partly because I wouldn't know where to find one even if I did want to sleep with one.

Besides, I'm fairly sure prostitution is illegal here in England.

[darkwing]

Out of personal preference I wouldn't sleep with a prostitute. Partly through pride, partly through lacking expenses, partly through knowing that asking her to do half the things I like would probably drive the price up, and partly because I wouldn't know where to find one even if I did want to sleep with one.

Besides, I'm fairly sure prostitution is illegal here in England.

That and you would not have enough experience with her to know whether you can trust her with your privates - among other things. For all you know, she could have helpers who jump you while she has you by the balls and take everything that you have.:cryingblu

[One from the Vaults]

Well, for starters, there's genital warts. You can try to treat them, but there's no guarantee that they'll never return (caused by a virus). They are not always blocked by the condom.

All the other STDs -- condoms sometimes break.

Pubic lice, though curable are also considered STDs.Genital warts are inconsequential; they don't even hurt, just kind of look gross occasionally, and most people have them but don't even realise it. Same with herpes... usually the first outbreak is bad, but they're not all that dangerous, not too terrible, and most of the time you have no symptoms... plus most people test positive for the antibodies so you might already have it and not even realise. The others, except for HIV, are all easily curable (unless you're allergic to antibiotics), so there's really no reason to worry.

STIs are just our cultural way of projecting our uneasiness and guilt surrounding sex onto something so that we can pretend our feelings are rational. They aren't.

[eric B]

Is there a difference between a prostitute and a mistress?

[misterjover]

...prostitute, stripper, porn star, mistress... etc.

...Most of them will pretty much do ballbusting for a certain price, and there are risks involved with everyone.


Just have fun with it , and don't catch anything that you can't cure with a prescription!



:thumbup

[darkwing]

Genital warts are inconsequential; they don't even hurt, just kind of look gross occasionally, and most people have them but don't even realise it. Same with herpes... usually the first outbreak is bad, but they're not all that dangerous, not too terrible, and most of the time you have no symptoms... plus most people test positive for the antibodies so you might already have it and not even realise. The others, except for HIV, are all easily curable (unless you're allergic to antibiotics), so there's really no reason to worry.

STIs are just our cultural way of projecting our uneasiness and guilt surrounding sex onto something so that we can pretend our feelings are rational. They aren't.

Well, herpes is not life-threatening if you're an adult. But if you're an infant, it can be deadly, because their skin is not so thick and tough. That's why a pregnant woman has to keep tabs on whether she's having active genital herpes sores near the time of delivery. I'd be very careful about this. I would not want to pass this on to a wife and have her bear such a burden when we're preparing to have children.

Hepatitis B may be related to liver cancer, but there is a vaccine for it that almost all children receive as childhood shots. But hepatitis C can also cause liver cancer and there is no vaccine for this one.

I know that there is a vaccine for women for the human papilloma virus but the mixture does not combat all known strains for cervical cancer or for genital warts that are in existence -- just the four most common here in the USA. And it's only for women at this time. Some strains can progress to male genital cancers. Others can hide in men so that they are carriers and can pass it on to their female partners.

I'd just feel a lot safer, and able to enjoy the CBT play better if I know ahead of time what my risks are and what is under control.:o

Of course, others might not feel the need to take quite as many precautions in order to enjoy themselves. As long as they are aware of thier own risks and are comfortable with it.:thumbup

[billybucket]

The port of Amsterdam has been mentioned several times in this thread.

For good advice, this is an excellent website:
http://www.ignatzmice.com/

[blancanvas]

I just used www.backpage.com to get a 24-year old blonde, about 5'8 with big tits to come out and bust my balls, give me a blow-job, and ride my cock. Granted, she wouldn't do bareback (which protects both of us) so we used a couple of condoms. So it cost $100. Hell, I could spend that on pubs, clubs, and dates with girls with no guarantee of anything happening, or I could just cut to the chase and get some whore to indulge me in my kinky fantasies. Granted, be careful when 'donating' to her cause as you don't want to be busted in some police sting. Always ask if they're law enforcement and if you go to her place (which usually costs less than an outcall). Make it clear that it's just a donation for her time and that whatever happens is not a solicitation for sex. The police CANNOT entrap you and hope to win in court. Also, ask her to 'give you an idea' of what you hope to get. She should flash you her tits or something like that if she's a legitimate prostitute. Hope this helps! :)

[Sockmess]

As long as there wil be no sexual contact or transfer of fluids you should be safe from the majority of stds. You don't need to be a pro to get an std so going for friends (or realtives!?!) and your still facing the same risk. At least the pros usually demand condoms all the time, expect the crack hos of course they reek of disease.
So your real problem is legal, and to get around that is to offer to pay the woman to only take pictures! Of course they will be expensive and sexually theme pictures. Undercover cops on that offer will refuse while a pro will accept it.

[skweezme]

Is there a difference between a prostitute and a mistress?

Well, all professional mistresses would insist that what they do isn't prostitution. And from my experience I'd agree. Cleanliness and safety have to be paramount in a Pro Domme's line of work. And discretion.

And by "professional" I mean someone who's obviously investing time and money on her tradecraft - well-equipped dungeon etc, not just a few toys in a cupboard at home.

OK there'll always be something of a risk first time, stands to reason. But if you do your research and if there's plenty of quality communication beforehand you can probably minimise this.

[Anymous1]

Since so many people have weighed in on this issue it is unlikely that there is a need for another opinion but I will present mine. In general going to a Prostitute for any type of service, be it sexual or non sexual role playing, is a risk taking behavior. Excluding the most expensive Prostitutes (i.e Escorts) that exercise better judgment in the sexual risks they take, you are more likely to get an STI from a prostitute than the average person. Getting involved with a prostitute in the US (and many other countries) can get you into legal trouble not only from the sex that you pay for but also from drug charges, since a plurality of prostitutes have substance abuse issues. Prostitutes are often very desperate, due to their substance abuse issues and their desperate economic situation, so they are more likely to rob you than the average person you might get involved with. Unfortunately most prostitutes are not nearly as attractive, clean (hygienically speaking or with respect to substance abuse issues), or safe (non aggressive and STI Free) as many people might think. Highly
attractive and STI free pornstar types are the exception and they are more exceptional then people probably think.

Also I do not think there is qualitatively a real difference between a prostitute and a mistress. Even if the mistress does not specifically exchange sex for money the services that are rendered are sexually stimulating and are requested for the same general reason that one might request oral sex from a "prostitute." Both sets of activities involve sexual stimulation some activities are more directly sexual and some are more indirect. The word "prostitute" is so taboo that so many people that are prostitutes try to distance themselves from the word and use other similar terms to make them feel better about what they do. I do not seek to see prostitution vilified and continue to be illegal but everyone needs to stop trying to delude themselves and others but claiming to not be a "prostitute." It is still prostitution to me when a mistress whips, beats up, or humiliates a masochist. A masochist derives sexual pleasure from pain and when he/she pays someone to perform behaviors that cause him/her pleasure for money it is prostitution. The mistress knows that what they are doing is pleasurable to the person who is paying them and they accept money for their activities. Is that not prostitution, really?

I have never used the services of a prostitute and would not recommend it whether you exercise 100% safe sex all of the time or if you don't. Even highly expensive escorts are not STI free often enough because the often have unprotected sex with their regular clients to make more money and regardless of what anyone thinks rich people are not guaranteed to be STI free.

[skweezme]

Also I do not think there is qualitatively a real difference between a prostitute and a mistress. Even if the mistress does not specifically exchange sex for money the services that are rendered are sexually stimulating and are requested for the same general reason that one might request oral sex from a "prostitute."

A qualititative difference is that the power issues are completely different.

I've never visited a prostitute, so can't speak from experience there. But I would guess the dynamic is that it's all about pleasing the punter sexually, doing whatever he's paying for. And then there are the issues about exploitation - pimps, sex trafficking, etc. Not good.

With a Pro Domme it's different. And here I do speak from experience. Those I've been lucky to meet have been independent workers for a start. Not exploited at all. And they take their clients' expressed preferences into account, but won't work to a script or be "topped from the bottom".

OK, there may be some sexual stimulation involved. But if there is it's about her frustration of your sexual arousal - tie-and-tease, orgasm denial, orgasm ruining, etc.

OK, you're paying a woman to provide an intimate service if you're seeing a prostitute or a Mistress. But seeing a Mistress is nothing like requesting oral sex from a prostitute. They are worlds apart.

[Anymous1]

A qualititative difference is that the power issues are completely different.

I've never visited a prostitute, so can't speak from experience there. But I would guess the dynamic is that it's all about pleasing the punter sexually, doing whatever he's paying for. And then there are the issues about exploitation - pimps, sex trafficking, etc. Not good.

With a Pro Domme it's different. And here I do speak from experience. Those I've been lucky to meet have been independent workers for a start. Not exploited at all. And they take their clients' expressed preferences into account, but won't work to a script or be "topped from the bottom".

OK, there may be some sexual stimulation involved. But if there is it's about her frustration of your sexual arousal - tie-and-tease, orgasm denial, orgasm ruining, etc.

OK, you're paying a woman to provide an intimate service if you're seeing a prostitute or a Mistress. But seeing a Mistress is nothing like requesting oral sex from a prostitute. They are worlds apart.

Hey Skweezme

I agree with pretty much everything that you said and I do not see how one could disagree that there is definitely a different dynamic when one enlists the services of a Pro Domme (Mistress) as compared to the dynamic that exists when one enlists the services of a traditional "prostitute." I would not completely agree that the experiences are world's apart but are deceptively similar at the very surface when you think apart the true nature of the relationship between a client and a Pro Domme and a client and a "prostitute." Both the "prostitute" and the Pro Domme exist and receive direct compensation for the sexual arousal (indirect or direct) they provide to their client/customer. Most clients of a Pro domme prefer the non traditional scripts that one might expect from a traditional "prostitute" and pay for the Pro Domme to push boundaries and "run the show" as opposed to take orders and be led in a certain specific direction. Regardless of how you look at it the Pro Domme is still serving the client and being driven by his/her preferences.

I do not agree with the belief that in a Pro Domme client relationship the only pleasure/sexual stimulation involved concerns the Pro Domme's frustration of the client's sexual arousal (tie-and-tease, orgasm denial, orgasm ruining, etc). Most clients get off on believing that their Pro Domme actually hates their unconventional arousal and they select that attitude when the seek a Pro Domme and the Pro Dommes know it and mimic what their client wants. Much like a "prostitute" dresses, acts, and performs in the fashion that they expect will arouse their client. Some "prostitutes" legitimately get aroused by what they do just like some Pro Dommes get off sexually on what they do as well. "Prostitutes" and Pro Dommes mind screw themselves into believing that they are in a position of power and are empowered but the reality is they are both vessels that serve the sexual interests of their clients. Can you really think of the relationship between Pro Dommes and their clients and "Prostitutes" and their clients as world's apart? Pro Dommes operate in a perceived world of dominance and power and "prostitutes" operate in a perceived world of submission. The more objective reality to me is that both are operating in a world of submission because they are getting paid to serve. At the end of the day a "Prostitute" and a Pro Domme are like two sides of a coin. No matter how you flip the coin and no matter how different the visuals are on each side of the coin at the end of the day it is still a commodity that is redeemed for the pleasure of its holder.

Make no mistake about it the purpose of visiting a Pro Domme is to receive sexual stimulation. Even if there is absolutely no genital contact there is arousal and that arousal is knowingly caused by the Domme. The only exception is when the Domme is either naive or mentally handicapped.

Regardless of what one does and whatever one gets aroused by just enjoy your life as long as it does not harm another against their will. Live and let live!!!

:bananawin:bananawin:bananawin

[skweezme]

Most clients get off on believing that their Pro Domme actually hates their unconventional arousal

I wonder if that's the case? It isn't for me or any other masochistic subs I've met. On the contrary, I believe my Mistress actually loves my arousal - it's a testament to her female power. And the fact that it's within her power to arouse me but not let me cum. And the fact that an erect cock lends itself to more torment than a flaccid one e.g. urethral sounds and electrics.

But getting back to the thread, I stick by my original suggestion that seeing a Pro Domme is in so many ways safer than visiting a prostitute. It's her speciality, her area of interest and expertise.

Live and let live, like you say :)

[Julie18nz]

Dont kiss her for Gods sake, she may have the exact same thing as that random girl you just picked up at the pub. In all honesty most call girls will NOT allow you to kiss them for the exact same reasons you guys are saying not to kiss them for. As for it being illegal almost everywhere in the world, well the US is not almost everywhere in the world and a LOT of countries allow it, that way it can be controlled to some degree even if not completely and the girls have to have checkups and blood tests. Yes it is NOT perfect but better than being illegal where both could end up in jail so the girl cant get a check up or shes arrested. This may be surprising to some here but some girls wont kick you even if paid. If you want to use a call girl first be in a country that allows it as that is just a little bit safer and ask her if she will do it before she gets to you :)

[Castratrix's pet]

In a word, NO. Going to a prostitute is not safe. You do not know her or what she is about. She may have a bad disease that you can get from her. Maybe she is an angry woman and is angry at all men and seeks to vent her anger and she will hurt you badly and it will NOT be your femdom fantasy. Maybe she is the bait in an attempt to rob you and you will be beaten and hurt or even killed in the robery. Also you could be arrested by the police for soliciting sex, you could get a police record even go to prison. Going to a prostitute is NOT safe, it is a very bad idea, don't do it!

[Anymous1]

I wonder if that's the case? It isn't for me or any other masochistic subs I've met. On the contrary, I believe my Mistress actually loves my arousal - it's a testament to her female power. And the fact that it's within her power to arouse me but not let me cum. And the fact that an erect cock lends itself to more torment than a flaccid one e.g. urethral sounds and electrics.

But getting back to the thread, I stick by my original suggestion that seeing a Pro Domme is in so many ways safer than visiting a prostitute. It's her speciality, her area of interest and expertise.

Live and let live, like you say :)

Hey Skweezme

Although I do not know who your Mistress is I am not surprised to hear that you believe that she enjoys the fact that you are aroused by the things she does to you. Although I may not have specified it I believe that a plurality if not a majority of Pro Dommes (mistresses) enjoy sexually arousing their clients. However, it seems incredibly common for said Mistresses to proclaim a dissatisfaction with their client being aroused and I therefore believe that many clients enjoy the humiliation of their Mistresses not appreciating their arousal. I have yet to see any video where a Mistress seems happy to see or hear that their client is sexually aroused. The Mistresses also seem to humiliate and reprimand their client for getting aroused, although I suspect they enjoy it. Due to the popularity of humiliation (female domination) videos I conclude that there has to be a high demand on Mistresses to pretend to not appreciate the sexual arousal of their clients regardless of whether they do or do not enjoy said arousal. It would honestly surprise me to hear that most clients that visit a mistress would prefer to believe that their mistress enjoys sexually arousing them.

I will agree with you that seeing a Mistress is more likely to be a safer and more professional experience then visiting a traditional "prostitute."

I hope everyone enjoys being themselves and has a safe and respectably good time, however they define it.

:bananawin:bananawin:bananawin

[BeatMyBallsHard]

Yo seriously, come on - for ballbusting, YES DO IT - as long as you aren't tied up, you can stop it any time. Yes it is safe, as long as you use your head.

No fluid transfer. Don't get tied up. Hide your wallet in the car.

Just good time fun... & 99% of hookers LOVE busting a guys nuts, especially if you are the one that breaks them in, so to speak. Maybe a bit of pent up aggression to random men's balls ?:cussing:

Go spend some money, have some fun. Get your balls BUSTED. :thumbup

[Sockmess]

Yo seriously, come on - for ballbusting, YES DO IT - as long as you aren't tied up, you can stop it any time. Yes it is safe, as long as you use your head.

No fluid transfer. Don't get tied up. Hide your wallet in the car.

Just good time fun... & 99% of hookers LOVE busting a guys nuts, especially if you are the one that breaks them in, so to speak. Maybe a bit of pent up aggression to random men's balls ?:cussing:

Go spend some money, have some fun. Get your balls BUSTED. :thumbup

This guy knows his stuff. And if your afraid of undercovers and don't want to go with failproof picture route then you can always go the massage route

[Alec Anaconda]

Is any new relationship fully safe?

Is doing any fun activity safe?

Even doing nothing at all, is bad for your health!

You only get ONE life, so enjoy it while you can.

Alec Anaconda

[BeatMyBallsHard]

Thankyou Sockmess.

I must sday some of the best BB sessions I've ever had was from hookers - from utterly drop dead gorgeous girls I would never be able to get with , to really skanky old pros hehe ;)

Amsterdam is still the place to go. In the UK you're not always sure what the girsl are going to be like before you get there.

So long as you make it clear on the phone EXACTLY what you want then there will be little or no disappointment.

If you go to a regular whorehouse you won't always have to pay extra, as when they try & charge extra you can say that you don't want any sex etc.. & try & get it for the regular price - don't forget you're not paying a premium for a pro domme to give you a head trip using lots of special kit - you just want some slut to bust the hell out of your nads. Most of the time you can you can get it for the regular price.

I've found saying in a jokey way "...& the girl can even keep her clothes on!" clinches the deal - & remember they are always dressing in sexy gear anyway so they are bound to be looking sexy anyway - Nice :)

If you

[billybucket]

Is going to a prostitute safe?

Going to this one is:
http://www.mrs-irene.com/

[BeatMyBallsHard]

So anyone been for a session?

[billybucket]

Check the thread:
http://femaledom.com/forum/showthread.php?t=13951

[cracker]

And they were great! Went to a dungeon. S/M really is safer than "regular sex." (A non-pro woman gave me mono; now gone).

Anyway, the first dungeon woman was perfect --- knew what she was doing,
attractive, young, played it exactly as I wanted to play it, gave me much temporary pain but without injury. It was great.

I went back. She was out that day but had taught a new woman some of the tricks of the trade. This woman was about 21 and drop dead gorgeous. She had never kneed a guy before so it was her first time! She, being new, asked me to wear a condom and that was fine --- after all my penis wasn't getting the attention; my balls were.

Thinking of going back. It's a class place. And safe in all ways.

[sebi40]

If you must have a woman ballbust you then go to a friend or relative and have her do it. It will then be a woman who you know and who knows and cares about you. You will be much safer with her.

Good idea, how I did not think until now.
I will speak with my aunt and my cosine. Both love me so I think they will deliver responsible and careful kicks to my balls.