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foryourpleasure
11-22-2009, 06:22 PM
are there any ballbusting chatrooms out there?

lanius
11-23-2009, 10:55 AM
are there any ballbusting chatrooms out there?

http://www.kramtoad.com/chat4.html

here a ballbusting chatroom

Dreihundert
11-23-2009, 03:03 PM
I think a good sized ballbusting chat room would be nice. I think the BB community would grow a lot faster that way, with easier access to things you want to communicate across the web.

I havent found a good size chat room yet though.

foryourpleasure
11-23-2009, 04:01 PM
i use this site that pairs 2 ppl up and you, and the stranger so u and stranger talk completely anonymous. but id rather just have a strict bb chat room without the spammers and idiot lil boys that pretend to be women or get on there and say stupid junk like ghost are real and u lost the game/

Rebecca
11-24-2009, 07:50 AM
I'd join a BB chatroom. I think that would be cool!
There would be two problems though, and too much of either would make me stop using it.

One would be the guys who absolutely flood us women for requests to fulfill their fantasies. I'll accept a little bit of that, but I'm there for me, not to provide stroke material for some guy I don't know.

The other is the guys who will come on there and attack women for being into BB. Had it happen before. Because we like BB, we're suddenly man-haters who circumcise boys because of our contempt for all males.

If such a chatroom was moderated to prevent abuse, I think it would be great!

Rebecca

crushee
11-24-2009, 08:29 AM
Hello Rebecca,

You requests are legitimate. However, and that's a difference with the real world, one always thinks he is more powerful and clever in front of his screen and over his keyboard than in real life.

Anyway, good luck for finding a safe place!

foryourpleasure
11-24-2009, 10:43 PM
so rebecca do u mean like where a guy couldnt really private message u but instead a group of guys and women getting together and like dicussing a single topic, i guess that would be a good chatroom. if someone wants to create it lol

Dreihundert
12-01-2009, 02:04 PM
I'd join a BB chatroom. I think that would be cool!
There would be two problems though, and too much of either would make me stop using it.

One would be the guys who absolutely flood us women for requests to fulfill their fantasies. I'll accept a little bit of that, but I'm there for me, not to provide stroke material for some guy I don't know.

The other is the guys who will come on there and attack women for being into BB. Had it happen before. Because we like BB, we're suddenly man-haters who circumcise boys because of our contempt for all males.

If such a chatroom was moderated to prevent abuse, I think it would be great!

Rebecca

I would set one up to meet those specifications, but sadly I don't have the resources.

If I find a way to do it using some free web service, I might just make us one, and those shall be the rules ;)

OneBalledBoy
12-01-2009, 03:17 PM
The chatroom at http://www.kramtoad.com/chat4.html can be lots of fun, but it is mostly geared towards gay male/male ballbusting. I've had some really worthwhile chats there though, some exciting, some deep and quite interesting.

Some of the useful features there:

- registration of a unique username is required;
- usernames have to be requested (motivated, by mail) from the moderator;
- there is a shared chatroom, but most users go one-on-one for chats;
- anyone (once registered) can invite you to chat, but it is really easy to ignore or ban a user for a particular session;
- no logging (or persistence) of what is being said during a chat, which makes it a lot more 'private'
and spontaneous than any forum or board...

In my experience ladies and girls get inundated though... even there, on a gay site!

It might help to have chatrooms or chatspaces 'by invitation only', so the owner or moderator of the room can decide whom to alllow in - and female moderator(s) would be great fun obviously! :ibow4u:

O.



I'd join a BB chatroom. I think that would be cool!
There would be two problems though, and too much of either would make me stop using it.

One would be the guys who absolutely flood us women for requests to fulfill their fantasies. I'll accept a little bit of that, but I'm there for me, not to provide stroke material for some guy I don't know.

The other is the guys who will come on there and attack women for being into BB. Had it happen before. Because we like BB, we're suddenly man-haters who circumcise boys because of our contempt for all males.

If such a chatroom was moderated to prevent abuse, I think it would be great!

Rebecca

Dreihundert
12-01-2009, 10:04 PM
Indeed, Kramtoad is a good site. It totally slipped my mind, lol... :). I'm bi, so I don't think gay matters too much. But when it comes to Ballbusting, male-male isn't my thing. I've not tried it.

Chilly
12-04-2009, 10:53 AM
I'd join a BB chatroom. I think that would be cool!
There would be two problems though, and too much of either would make me stop using it.

One would be the guys who absolutely flood us women for requests to fulfill their fantasies. I'll accept a little bit of that, but I'm there for me, not to provide stroke material for some guy I don't know.

Fair enough. I think it is safe to say that all of us are here to get our own rocks off to one kink or another. I can see how it can be overwhelming to be among the few "she's" in an environment consisting mostly of horny "he's" who are tripping over each other for the chance to play with her.
Personally, if I was in that kind of situation only reversed, i.e, I would get inundated by females wanting me to help them get off, I, too, would accept a bit of that.:eek: Hell, who am I kidding? I'd accept as much as I could! Why? I guess it is because it never happens. Most females are simply not horny in "that way."
I've never had a problem with providing wanking material for total strangers, either. In fact, I've always found it rather gratifying whenever I got feedback saying how hot something I wrote made somebody. First, because it is an ego-boost to know I've got the talent for writing niche porn that really hits the intended audience's targets. And second, I brought another person some pleasure with my words. That's pretty cool.:)


The other is the guys who will come on there and attack women for being into BB. Had it happen before. Because we like BB, we're suddenly man-haters who circumcise boys because of our contempt for all males.

:Baahaha: Yes, I've noticed what a tightrope walk it is for all of you.

I think the kind of guy who gets offended, is often just uninitiated into what is really going on. I mean, if you just walked into a room where you heard screaming and saw what appeared to be a man molesting a woman, wouldn't you naturally think a crime was being committed?
And if both their faces turned red because the reality is they were caught by you engaging in fantasy play that they both find exciting, wouldn't that put it all in a different perspective?
Forwarned is forarmed. That's what disclaimers are for.:thumbup


If such a chatroom was moderated to prevent abuse, I think it would be great!

Rebecca

Well, if there's gonna be no abusin' goin' on, I'm takin' my masochistic self elsewhere!;) See ya!:bananawin

oliver291
12-05-2009, 08:55 AM
Here's the only one I'm aware of:

http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/chat

there are men and even some women on it.



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12-07-2009, 04:36 PM
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Nexus
12-07-2009, 06:34 PM
Interesting idea.

I have been meaning to set up some sort of chat room when I get some free time and have to do one for a project anyway so may get round to doing this at some point.

As others have pointed out. Allowing users to simply to choose a username and go will leave it open to all sorts of spamming/harrassing/name stealing. Would have to be one of those 'PM for access and an account with your femdom forum name will be created for you' things.

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12-09-2009, 10:36 AM
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12-09-2009, 11:20 AM
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