beware twisted shit. think im quitting the forums

Hello there I am into ballbusting and femdom cock biting, ballbiting, and have **********/penectomy fantasies also with consenting adults, but I hit a link on here which sent me to a russian page which was sick. THere were alot of off topics on the link of the site which made me sick to my stomach. I did not see too much, but the content was vile. I do not wish to be associated with any of the stuff on their, and have decided to pack it in. I do not want my fetishes to be mistaken with some truly evil stuff which are linked with some of the femdom content. so im going to stick with cumshots and other porn to get me off, I hope i can beat this fetish as i dont want to see that kind of twisted shit ever again, i mean u got to be disturbed man to harm another human being like that, it was more violent then erotic. this was just the homepage by the way. I wont tell you how i came accross it, in case curiosity got the better of you. but it was related to a recent link. I have decided to diassociate myself with this incase people think i was into that sick evil stuff. Im going off for a while i might come back to some of the lighter topics someday, but seriously be carefull what u click on the web, as ya might feel sick like i do now. theres a thin line between erotic porn and sadistic evil, and its too thin for me to enjoy anymore. Enjoy your porn but watch out for the twisted shit my friends!

What did I miss? Can you link it in my pm box please?

I'm kinda curious where the link went to - I'd like to judge for myself.

Well srzl, it’s just horses for courses.

I also followed a forum link to a bloody-thirsty site (I think it was the one you’re on about), but I found it distasteful and left immediately.

To be fair, I don’t enjoy explicit mainstream horror films either, even though I know the gore is faked.

I also don’t indulge in **********/penectomy fantasies, but I consider this forum sufficiently broad for all tastes.

I visit the topics I hope will be interesting and ignore the rest.

For those whose curiosity has been whetted, I recall the word “Russian” in the OP.

Alec Anaconda

Sorry you feel like that,but i must say you are being a bit sensitive about this.So someone put up a link with extreme stuff in it,why did you not just close it and choose another link?I mean you sound like a total newbie to the net, lol just try entering something interesting into google and the chances are you will get thousands of links ALL nothing to do with what you typed!!!
I dont know which link your talking about but well done to who ever posted it, dont be put off by this 1 moaner, it may not be my sort of thing either, but thank you for sharing it, someone probably liked it! Thank you :) :thumbup

I do agree 100 % with Alec. Enjoy what is in your feeling and disregard what is not.

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Originally Posted by Selftailer

I do agree 100 % with Alec. Enjoy what is in your feeling and disregard what is not.

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Ok i am very broad minded,but people arent getting me on this when i say it was evil sick and revolting. to put things in perspective some of the material i am talking about that was on the link were mutilating dead bodies, gang **** possible murder and child molestation. Still want to see the link? didnt think so! I will not look at femdom on a site associated with that.

I totally agree, srzi, and I don’t want to gawp at the material you’ve described.

I only looked at a landing page for less than a second before moving on, and did not scrutinise it in depth. Perhaps we are talking about different sites.

However, anybody can join this forum and post almost any link, the same as many forums.

I don’t think you can reasonably expect this forum’s moderator to read every post and check every link.

It’s also feasible that this particular site’s content changed between the time of posting and viewing.

Will you reject this forum for one crap link?

Did you report your concerns with the post containing that link at the time?

If not, I suggest we don’t feed that link the oxygen of publicity, and allow it to either fade into obscurity or naturally resurface for any further action

Alec Anaconda

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Originally Posted by srzl

I hope i can beat this fetish

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Well, you cannot. If you have this fetish for a number of years you cannot simply go away.
There is also a medical term for this kind of fetish - paraphilia.

I'm afraid there is no cure.
You will be back in maximum 3 months.
This fetish will be your lifetime friend.

What matter here is to accept and control your fetish.

There is a ton of strange and gross stuff on the net. If I stumble onto something that disturbs me I just click away and never go back. If you have a fetish you can't just say I'm giving it up - it's a fetish for a reason.

I sometimes think of quitting the board for the same reason. Anything with blood makes me ill. The **********, brother/sister stuff turns me off as well. I wish the board was more segmented so I didn't stumble into things I don't want to see. Fortunately, most of the people on this board aren't into blood and warn the rest of us not to click on some links. It's a free site and we're free to choose, I don't want anyone to think I'm judging their choices. Those images are just too intense for me.

You could quit the site, or all porn sites and still have your fetishes. Unfortunately they won't just go away. I don't think you'd have to be back in 3 months. However, I think there is a 5% chance of you lasting that long if your like most of the people on this board. I managed to stay away for about 6 months and then my girlfriend at the time, now wife, went away for a weekend and it was all over. That was 3 years ago and I'm on this page and a few others just about every day.

Unfortunately its not really possible to switch a fetish off, and repressing it completely will simply make it stronger. Thats one reason why you get these scams with high end christian pastors watching pay per view porn in hotels and stuff like that.

Maybe you'll never come back here, or watch any ballbusting. But those thoughts will always be in your head. Things will always evoke them.

Its alright to not like the standard stuff. And I'm sure we all have different opinions on drawing lines. Mine is there should not be an intention of permanent harm. No damage beyond bruising. This field is roleplay, not a way of life. People who see switching one oppression for another as an actual realistic thing are insane..

Just stay away from bad things..

I think that most people make it pretty clear what their links point to. I assume that this was not the case with the one you clicked on. Perhaps it would behoove you to simply comment on the thread so that no one else makes that mistake, and so that poster can be aware of your distaste and anger at not getting a warning? or point it out to an admin?

In a forum where anyone can really post anything you are bound stumble on something that doesn't make you feel that good. This is the internet after all. I hear that sick people are on there and that some of them do illegal things! :wooow

Oh, and thanks for the warning. I have NO interest in seeing what you describe.

My view is this: keep it in the fantasy,

i'm into ********** fantasy myself i'll read stories about it, i'll look at cartoons about it and videos about (the acted stuff) I don't really think this is wrong or bad, because everything i enjoy is a work of fantasy,

Those BMEzine videos don't do a lot for me, as i'm more into the domination side of it.

if i ever saw a video about a guy being kidnapped and *********, i'd call the police.

I don't think such a way of looking at it is unique to our community, 'normal people' will happily watch an action movie/ or gangster, and laugh and cry as hundreds of fucking people get mowed down, ask them to watch the colombine massacre and they'll probably tell you to go fuck yourself.

I also tend to agree with earlier points, i don't think you'll be able to shake the fettish so easily, you will probably need to get therapy and really try to understand to root of it, or alternatively just accept it, and find a way to enjoy it which dosen't hurt yourself, or others.