I kind of see what you were going for now, and I understand. Apply a little fantasizing to that video and you get him telling her to suck his cock, and then her coming towards him down off the bench like she was considering it, and then upon reaching him pounding her gavel (which he didn't see coming) on his nads until he repented!
Yes, the take-charge aggressiveness is good, but the bitchiness was WAY bad...but the aggressiveness was your point. I get it.