BB games

My wonderful girlfriend (let's call her TB) is on a long trip through the middle of nowhere for the remainder of June, and will probably be out of contact, so before she left I sent her a rough game idea, sort of a 'fire-and-forget' plan for her to adjust as she pleased. The idea was to keep me focused on her for the long month, with minimal work for her to do--and it's working quite effectively.

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I sent her the email:
"Question 1A...how frustrated and eager should TT be when you finally return to japan?
We could roll a die or two, involving some of:

A- Cum now, after punishment
B- No Cum until you get orders from the road, somehow =P
C- No Cum for (roll three dice) days
D- No Cum until returning to Japan [I was also out of the country]
E- No Cum until TB makes you cum (That means...no cum in JUNE!)
F- No Cum until you can lick it all off TB (no cum in june!)
G- One orgasm per week until TB returns
H- Just cum whenever you want
I etc- ??

...so for example, with one die, you could make 1 and 2=A and 3,4,5,6=E... or choose one possibility for each number like ABCDEF...or have 1-12 all be F! >_<

I was thinking...
Question 1B: Am I really happy with that result, or....do I want to roll one more time for TT, and choose my favorite? :D

Question 2A: how can TT remind himself how nice it'll be when you return to japan (and boost his frustration considerably ? Maybe roll a die to choose one of the following--and one more time to set the number?

1- 200-1200 hard ball bashes with bonger
2- 4-24 min ball crushing
3- 200-1200 fast & light bashes
4- 2-12 minutes punching
5- 2-12 minutes squeezing
6- 2-12 minutes hitting with hairbrush

Question 2B: How about flipping a coin, to decide if I need one more reminder? (Heads no, Tails redo question 2! :cryingblu )

And lastly,
Question 3A: How often should TT do something a little more special to really focus on missing you? Every day...every monday...flip a coin every other day?
Question 3B: What reminder should he have this time? Roll a die...

1- sleep with metal ball collar on
2- IcyHot ball massage
3- no touching your cock for 24 hr
4- lock your cock in the chastity cage for 24 hr
5- stroke yourself to pictures of TB for 20 min (of course, No Cum!)"


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She had been mulling it over, but wasn't quite sure what my limits were...or what I really 'wanted.' And since, due to trip preparations, we were running out of time, I decided to send her simple options to make it easy:

"1A: roll me 1 die: 1-5=no cum till you make me. 6=cum once per week. (Or...you choose? )

2A: choose: on how many of those 27 days should I roll for basic abuse? Every day, every two days, or every three days?

3A: choose: on how many of those days in 2A should I also roll for heavy reminders? every time, every other time, or every third time?"

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She sent back the reply:

"1A: 4 : no cum till I make you.

2A: every two days

3A: every time

3B: do them all (every time different one in order)

but I don't think no cum for 27days is possible, so you can cum once. (in front of my picture ne)

I'll miss you a lot!

love,
TB"

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So, she's been gone for five days now...and I haven't cum for the last 11. I'm determined to hold out until she returns (she doesn't know my record is 52 days =P ). Tonight will be the third game session...and that coin flip in part 2B has been devastating so far >_<
Still, this is great fun, and I can't wait for her to come back. :iluvu:

--Takkyuu_tama

Does anyone know what happened to snakes webpage?

I was wondering that too :(

I know it seems like it just walked off and left us :(

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Originally Posted by dark_herc

i introduced a game to both my ex and my current girlfriends. i tell them to think of a number between 1 and 50 and when they have one picked a guess within the same region and we figure out the difference. i normally pick either 1 or 50 so my chances of a high number are bigger. and we play that twice so i could possibly get 98 slaps to the balls. its awesome. and if your wondering if you should tell your partner about this i say go for it. because i just flat out told both of them and they were at first weirded out by it, but when they were doing it they learned to love it because they saw how much i loved it. women are very accepting, you just need to tell them in a way that you would feel comfortable telling. oh and to highten the feeling, ask them to soften your balls up with some intense squeezing.

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This is an old thread. I thought I would revive it to see if we can get an exchange of ideas like this.

I have my wife spank my balls during handjobs, and I wouldn't want a 98 spank limit. I could see doing something like this to ease a woman into it, though, or playing this with harder slaps beyond what she normally does.

I have an idea for a ball-spanking game for husbands and wives to play. Lots of trust is needed.

Fairly early in our marriage when my balls were young and sensitive, when the pain would be like a long ring from a bell that resonated everywhere, instead of the dead thump of a non-snare drum I feel now, my wife and I played a simple game where she would hit my balls during a hand job and try to get me to close my legs.

I've just recently gotten the gear together for it. I've tried suggesting a variant with my wife, but she didn't feel like it and just wanted to spank and beat my balls, so I just went with it. I may suggest the game when if she seems to be in a more playful mood. I just got the hour glasses.

Materials:
- A 30 second hour glass.
- Velcro straps for thighs
- Velcro straps for wrists
- Carabiners or key rings
- Small bells
- Lube
- Eager testicles
- Eager woman with durable, reasonably strong hands.
- Beads (chips, game pieces, etc.)
- Two cups, labeled with both your names.
- Optional-- testicle separator.

More about materials. I bought little hour glasses online. You could sub out 1 minute or whatever time you can find. Read the game rules and see what makes sense for you. You can buy a roll of the two materials of Velcro straps with glue on the back of them. Glue them together with a ring or carabiner in the middle. You have to have two straps long enough to wrap securely around the thigh just above the knee. Attach bells to each thigh. Optional: create straps for wrists. Make sure carabiners on thighs are on outer thighs. She can strap your wrists to your thighs to prevent blocking if you want a scary version of the game and if trust is high.

I got the bells at the Dollar Tree. One of them says 'Kiss Me' on it.

Rounds
The game consists of three types of rounds with the sequence continuing until the game is over. Each round lasts the duration of the hour glass, which in this case is 20 seconds.
1. Ball spanking
2. Ball squeezing
3. Hand/oral stimulation of the penis.

Setting Maximum Strength
Some sexual activity before the game may help prevent having to reset maximum strength later. Before the game, the couple negotiate the maximum strength for various hits and squeezes used throughout the game. She can try various types of ball squeezes until he says 'mercy' to signify the maximum squeeze or each type. You can either agree on a maximum just below 'mercy' or agree that 'mercy' may be used for one hit or one second of squeeze per round. Techniques should be discussed also. For example, hand clap slaps should be tried out and negotiated. If she plans to isolate testicles using a ball separator and squeeze individual testicles between fingers, this can be discussed. She is not required to demonstrate one-ball only squeezes. She may save this for strategic advantage during the game and only negotiate out maximum pressure, angle, etc. during this maximum-strength-setting pre-game warm-up.

A man is encouraged to be honest and forthright about his limits, and not ask for lighter hits and squeezes to win the game, on an honor system. A few tries setting the maximum for each hit or squeeze may help it set in her mind, and also be a chance for her to give him a chance to be honest about whether she can use more strength.

Points
The ball-bustee, if his wrists are not bound, holds a bag of beads, 50 or 100 or 200, for example. For each round, 1, 2, or 2, if the man is able to endure without ringing the bells on his thighs, he wins a point. If he blocks with his hands she gets a point. When one wins a point, the beads goes in his or her cup. If he rings the bell, she gets a point. (The idea is not to flinch.) The game is not finished until all beads are in a cup. The man may forfeit. If he ejaculates during the game, the game continues until all the beads are used. The option to quit may be theoretical if he is tied up for the game.

Wimpy Version
If he ejaculates, she automatically wins. Since a man can forfeit, this version is not very necessary, not if she enjoys the game.

Negotiating Illegal Excessive Force
If the man feels the woman squeezed or slapped harder than the maximum force, he may contest a round and the couple may discuss. Game etiquette requires that the woman hold the man's testicles during this negotiation. If they determine a hit or squeeze was too hard, the bead may be returned and they can do a 'do-over' round.

Renegotiating Maximum Hits and Squeezes
If a man warms up to harder hits and squeezes, maximum hits and squeezes may be renegotiated. The woman has a right to ask for this at any point during the game if the man seems unresponsive and has gone for more than three or four rounds without ringing a bell. She should remind him of his responsibility to be honest while holding out a 'maximum' squeeze for however long it takes to remind him of the rule. A man may call for a renegotiation of maximum hits to increase the strength of hits if the game as become boring.

Renegotiation is a means to ensure that balls are properly and thoroughly 'busted' from the game.

Female Strategic Approaches
A woman can use psychological and physical factors to win points in the game. Feigning a death blow with a double fist that ends in a maximum allowed strike might cause some bells to ring. If she can feign a strike with one hand while hitting with another, that may confuse a man. Also, switching from two-ball to one ball strikes or squeezes might shock a man into flinching. Mixing up kinds of blows-- for example going from slaps to finger flicks on sensitive parts of the testicles, might cause a man to flinch. If maximum hits and squeezes are set well, the game may be challenging for a man unless he warms up later.

A woman can also cheat, of course, hitting harder, and either hoping a man does not call her on it, or else not giving in during the negotiation. Squeezing testicles beyond the maximum limit during the negotiation of illegally strong hits or squeezes is another method of cheating.

There is also the 'evil' water-melon seed testicle attack. This is where a woman squeezes balls and causes them to slip out of her squeeze, with her squeeze closing on the ball as it slips out. This can be jarring and painful. If this point is not negotiated, a woman may be able to water-melon-seed testicles without violating the maximum strength rule for a squeeze. A woman who does this may find that the topic comes up the next time they play the game and set maximum strength, so she may choose to save this for if she starts to lose the game.

A skilled hand or mouth bringing him to ejaculation may also help her win the game. Whatever seconds are left of post ejaculatory sensitivity during her 20 seconds might ring a bell. If her man is less able to endure ball spanking or squeezing after ejaculation, he may ring bells or forfeit and she can win. A woman may want her man to be erect at the end of the game, and this can be important for either male or female for the stakes of the game.

Stakes-- Benefits of Winning
It is recommended that the married couple have something intimate as the stakes of the game. For example, he might give her a massage. The winner may choose a position for intercourse or choose some specific sexual activity.