Poll - Clothing of Ballbusting Participants of Vids & Photos You Prefer

I'm sorry but if you want the guy naked and the girl clothed, you might as well just yell out "i'm gay", or at the very least bi. (though i can't imagine why you wouldn't want the girl naked too then)

why the hell do you want to see another GUY naked, in the video's you're watching.


Also, on this topic, something that pisses me off, in mainstream porno's, why the fuck do they show a close up of the guys face? Like anyone who's bought the movie wants to see that? seriously, i'd imagine 99% of people who buy pornos are fapping off to them, and the other 1% might be married couples trying to spice up their life (so that 1% get's a benefit) but the rest of them? If i were them, I'd be fucking pissed if you're batting off, and just as it gets to the good part BAM, close up of some sweaty ugly dude. That's the sort of shit that'll mess you up in the head.

Personally, in porno made FOR men, the men should be out of frame, so you can just see the chick, and imagine you're the guy

Wow...looks like thousands of blokes including me are going to be questioning our sexuality tonight! I better go and tell the wife that I've just realized that I like men!:rolleyes:

What more can I add to such I narrow minded comment?

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Originally Posted by crazy9

I'm sorry but if you want the guy naked and the girl clothed, you might as well just yell out "i'm gay", or at the very least bi. (though i can't imagine why you wouldn't want the girl naked too then)

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Congratulations! This has to be the stupidest comment I've ever read on a BB forum. You do of course realise that this "gay" comment makes you look like a narrow minded George W Bush fan? Moron.

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Originally Posted by crazy9

why the hell do you want to see another GUY naked, in the video's you're watching.
Personally, in porno made FOR men, the men should be out of frame, so you can just see the chick, and imagine you're the guy

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I'll try to explain it in words with 1 or 2 syllables. We like kicks to the balls. So we want to see the balls that are being kicked. A ball kick with the balls out of frame doesn't really count. You understand now?

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Originally Posted by crazy9

Also, on this topic, something that pisses me off, in mainstream porno's, why the fuck do they show a close up of the guys face? Like anyone who's bought the movie wants to see that?

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I have to agree with you on that one, though.

As a curious female interested in this fetish, I find it interesting that the men actually prefer for the men to be nude yet the females clothed. It seems to me that would be in reverse.

Regardless, I think it is great that the highest rating on this poll is for the men to be naked and the women to be clothed. I completely concur, and I'd bet most other women do too! :thumbup

It's not just the idea of seeing the guys' penis and balls dangling to be targeted, but the sound of hearing those balls slap hard against her foot knowing that there was absolutely nothing between her foot and his balls to buffer the impact.

I also enjoy the humiliation of the male, and with him naked for the world to see, every aspect of his manhood is laid out naked and vulnerable, yet the female is protected and at a very unfair advantage. And it also underscores her superiority.

The anonymity of forums like this allows us to explore the dark fetishes we harbor but never speak of. I can admit to all of you that down underneath, I enjoy this concept not because it makes for great foreplay to sex, but because I am sadistic and enjoy that side of me. I enjoy the eroticism of being powerful and using that to be mean to men. If I kicked a naked guy in the balls so hard he drops in pain holding them, rather than feel sorry I'd walk around to his backside as he laid there to see if his balls were protruding out, then I'd kick them again, but harder - and laugh in pure enjoyment then leave him crying! :Baahaha:

Hopefully, I can experience that one day. :D

I'd rather underpants

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Originally Posted by crazy9

I'm sorry but if you want the guy naked and the girl clothed, you might as well just yell out "i'm gay", or at the very least bi. (though i can't imagine why you wouldn't want the girl naked too then)

why the hell do you want to see another GUY naked, in the video's you're watching.


Also, on this topic, something that pisses me off, in mainstream porno's, why the fuck do they show a close up of the guys face? Like anyone who's bought the movie wants to see that? seriously, i'd imagine 99% of people who buy pornos are fapping off to them, and the other 1% might be married couples trying to spice up their life (so that 1% get's a benefit) but the rest of them? If i were them, I'd be fucking pissed if you're batting off, and just as it gets to the good part BAM, close up of some sweaty ugly dude. That's the sort of shit that'll mess you up in the head.

Personally, in porno made FOR men, the men should be out of frame, so you can just see the chick, and imagine you're the guy

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I'm a new guy here, so I always like to look for the biggest jerks as a way of introduction. This one jumps out immediately. These are often confused and sexually frustrated homophobes that freak out when their porno show nude guys and shout out that everyone is "gay! gay! gay!"

I prefer cfnm for ballbusting for a lot of reasons, but I am neither bi nor gay, nor have I ever even thought about it...just aint there.

So since we're hurling our insults at others without really knowing what they're about, I feel I should throw one back at this guy, and I know he'll understand what I'm saying.

Crazy9 dude - you're a closet homosexual. The biggest homophobes always are. Secretly, they are extremely fearful of confronting that internal desire to suck a dick and think it makes others seem them as a sick perverted sissy boy. So I say to you Crazy9, come out! Go suck dicks which we know it's what you really want to do because otherwise, you'd not be so freaked out about it and insist its actually the others that are gay.

So let it out dude. Go suck some dicks and come back comfortable with who you were. We of course won't be doing that, because we aint gay and don't have the issues you do.

Crazy 9 apparently has angered a number of people here for what appears to be homophobic comments.

But he is entitled to his opinion and we should not discourage him – or anyone -- from freely expressing their feelings on this or any other subject.

I think that instead of insulting anyone who contributes to a message board – even if that person’s thoughts are deemed undesirable by the majority – we should attempt to show that person why his thinking is archaic and try to make him more aware and enlightened.

I too am a straight man who indeed prefers all forms of female vs. male situations to be CFNM. And I am not surprised that the CFNM scenario is the most preferred by those who responded to this poll.

And I would go so far to say that the majority of the voters who prefer a CFNM scenario are heterosexual.

My comments to Crazy9 and anyone else who shares his viewpoint are that, first of all, if I were gay, it would not matter. Indeed, I would imagine that a number of gay men subscribe to this board. And there is nothing wrong with that. Go for it. Enjoy it. Life is too short to hate.

But the more important point I would like to make to Crazy9 and others is that eroticism takes many forms as does the subject of ballbusting.

Some people, like myself, prefer the illusion of being busted while others need to actually feel a powerful blow to the groin to be satisfied.

While actually getting kicked, punched or grabbed harshly in the family jewels by a woman causes me to feel a certain amount of uneasiness, I certainly am not critical of those who desire that rough treatment. And they should not be critical of my prefering just to play act a ballbusting scenario.

The reason I prefer CFNM over CFCM, NFNM or other potential scenarios is that I simply find it sexier if the male is nude and in distress and the female is clothed and in charge because of a combination of the contrast in attire and in traditional roles.

(For that matter, I also prefer CFNF over CFCF or NFNF c-busting.)

I enjoy any form of combat – wrestling, karate, boxing, bondage, etc. – when the superior woman is clothed and the subserviant individual is nude, be it a man or a woman.

Ballbusting is just one vehicle for a combat fantasy. The thrill is not so much for me to see another man nude, but rather to witness a clothed woman taking such liberties with a person who is in such a defenseless and hopeless state.

Society has taught us that it is proper to be clothed and that it is taboo to be naked and that women generally are weaker than men.

Therefore, in a challenge between two people of different sexes, if the seemingly weaker woman is able to denude a larger male foe, the seemingly superior man is relegated to a position of being at a great disadvantage, tremendously vulnerable and at her mercy. And that is hot.

I have no problem looking at a man and admitting that he is attractive or well-hung. In fact, I find the scenario even more steamy if an attractive clothed woman is attacking and seemingly destroying an impressive set of organs between the legs of a particularly good looking dude.

That does not mean I desire to ass **** or blow the handsome, well endowed guy who is featured in the ballbusting scenario. In fact, I don’t have any such feelings for that male.

I am however, excited by the mystery of the gorgeous clothed woman and, if her performance is believable, I fantasize about her and put myself into the position of the naked guy in the video. And I am sure many straight men – and maybe even some gay guys – do the same.

My adventures into wrestling, bondage, ballbusting, etc., have always been CFNM. I am turned on by being nude in the presence of a woman in a swimsuit or an equally sexy outfit. (I also prefer the woman to be barefooted instead of in boots, shoes, sandals, etc.)

And, don’t forget, curious women read this message board too and I reckon many of them would enjoy being clothed and ballbusting a nude man. (I have never had a woman turn down performing a CFNM ballbusting or wrestling fantasy with me, either for money or for fun.)

On another thread, I recently criticized the fetish wrestling video industry for still producing material where a scantily clad woman puts a fully clothed man in a scissors hold.

I was not saying the industry should not produce such videos because there obviously is a longstanding market for that scenario. I merely pointed out that the industry should produce more CFNM matches because I believe there is a strong market -- straight or gay -- who want to see more of that type of action.

If Crazy9 prefers his fetish a certain way, that’s fine. But to negatively label those of us who like CFNM is just counterproductive. And he is labeling an awful lot of people.

Though this was not a scientific poll, the results clearly showed that more than four of 10 people who responded desire the CFNM scenario – a significant majority as compared with the nearly 25 percent who prefer both individuals naked.

In fact, if you add the three categories where the man is naked in the scenario, it accounts for more than 80 percent of all those who responded!

I do not know what the gay population of the planet is, but I am pretty darn sure it is nowhere near that high of a percentage! LOL

The bottom line is that we should all try to be more tolerant of other people and their opinions, even Crazy9’s outdated beliefs. By the same token, Crazy9 should be more tolerant of those of us who perceive things just a little bit different than he does.

I love to see women wearing long sleeve shirts with their sleeves rolled up above their elbows. I love watching a woman in a long sleeve shirt rolling up her sleeves rolling them up above her elbows, then watch her doing extreme and painful things to a male's balls especially to a man's balls, watching a male's manhood being totally destroyed at the hands of a woman with her long sleeves rolled up above her elbows.

As for myself as a man who is in the hands of a woman and totally at her mercy, I like only to be wearing a long sleeve shirt with my sleeves down and my arms covered completely to my hands in long sleeves.

So in pics and vids I want to see a man in a long sleeve shirt with his sleeves down and his arms covered completely to his hands in long sleeves having his manhood totally destroyed at the hands of women wearing long sleeve shirts with their sleeves rolled up above their elbows.

I can't believe some people wrote massive essays argueing against my flippant remarks. Whatever i guess that's denial.


All I'm saying is, you're jerking off to a naked guy. That's it. That's the fact. Look at it from an outsiders perspective. What do they see? Deal with it.

:bananawin

I am just curious. What you do think about people who like both parties to be clothed? I am simply asking because you seem to assume that sexual lust can only be drawn toward the naked person. So how would you explain someone masturbating to two clothed people?

P.S. I will not reveal my personal preferences for who should be wearing what here because they will only be bashed in this thread.

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Originally Posted by crazy9

I can't believe some people wrote massive essays argueing against my flippant remarks. Whatever i guess that's denial.


All I'm saying is, you're jerking off to a naked guy. That's it. That's the fact. Look at it from an outsiders perspective. What do they see? Deal with it.

:bananawin

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The only "fact" is that your an absolute asshole and the biggest idiot on this forum. But I'm not telling you anything you and everyone else doesn't know.

Deal with it. ;)

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Originally Posted by Mr.E Dood

The only "fact" is that your an absolute asshole and the biggest idiot on this forum. But I'm not telling you anything you and everyone else doesn't know.

Deal with it. ;)

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whatever, enjoy jerking off to me:bananajum

I voted for both guy and girl being naked.

However, if there was an "all of the above" option, I would have ticked that as I've enjoyed BB in every combination of nude/clothed on both participants. Guess I'm easy to please.

The debate about nudity, particularly as it pertains to the male, has gone on for a very long time with some pretty vocal folks posting one way or another. This poll is very revealing as it has had a significant response this matter has gone on for a long time with people arguing one way or another. The poll was responded to by over 170 members, and no one can argue it's not representative of general opinion of the members.

My read on it is this...this forum's participants are mostly male. The fact that 42% prefer CFNM (the most voted upon) and, the fact that 85% prefer the men to be naked in the different scenarios of varying dress of the ladies indicates it can't be a gay thing at all but instead about being submissive and vulnerably exposed to the female. On average, gays comprise under 10% of the population, and further, one would think that the number of gays that would hang out on a board that involves a fetish focusing upon heterosexual encounters (ergo, with female/femdoms) would be even less as there are male-on-male BDSM forums out there. Thus, the being "gay" argument has no merit in how the majority of members voted.

I prefer wearing at least some clothing, and for sure not leaving too much of the good stuff exposed. I always want the guy wondering. The guy of course must be nude. I also love to bust barefoot since I‘m going for nothing more than some teeth-gritting pain. The slapping sound of my foot contacting a guys sweaty groin is pretty cool, and seeing the dangling targets taking on that abused red tinge of color following a bust is definitely something I want to see. For me it’s all about power tripping, and baby, with a good punt will certainly know I have the power.