After lurking for a while it seemed like agood idea to post.
I am kinda lucky as I have a wife who gets into the whole femdom, ball busting, cbt scene. She thinks its great. She keeps pushing the boundaries out trying new things and finding out what works and what doesnt.
One of her favourite activities is to have me bent over a stool with weights hanging from my nipples, a spreader bar to keep my ankles apart and then to kick me from behind wearing red leather boots. She makes me thank her for each kick. If I am too slow she starts again. We have lots of other games.
The ball busting pics and vids tend to have clothed guys - that is just not on.