Bad experiences with a chastity device and possibly new ideas
Dear all,
I want to share with you my last experiences with my girlfriend and a chastity device. It's kind of a sad story. I also want to ask you some advice.
My girlfriend is not really into bdsm nor domination. However, she likes, I guess like any other woman, that I care for her, that I are lovefull and attentive. We started the relationship 6 years ago, but only since the two last years that we lived together. In this two years I've been introducing her to dominate me, always very slowly and a single step at a time. As I said, she is not really into bdsm and she doesn't want to make me any harm, I guess that she loves me in the first point and wants me to be happy, and that she is starting to enjoy all the massages and cares that can obtain from me when I'm submissive.
Lately, we had lots of stress from work and family, and her sexual desire has decreased a lot, and accordingly I've started to masturbate also a lot. She noticed I am not so caring and loving since then. I told her that I could not wait for her so long and that I started masturbating, but that I hated doing it. So I asked her if she could control anyhow my new filthy habit. First, we started with my word that I wouldn't touch me until she told me so, and it worked for a few weeks. After that, I started again to masturbate and told her so. At this time we started to joke about putting me a chastity device, so we checked some pictures on the internet. When she saw the photos, she was horrified, she related it with torture and didn't like it. If someone is at this point with his girlfriend, I propose to show only images of the devices and not guys wearing them... Well, the case is that after some months we had a talk about it, how I felt with our low sex activity and how I hated to masturbate and that I really would like to wear a device, so she acceded.
We bought a Bon4 chastity device. I loved when we opened it, I put it on and gave her the key. She wasn't totally convinced, just because my balls seemed to tight and we want to have kids together. Anyway, the device felt totally confortable. It was like if my girlfriend was just holding my balls and penis with her hand. Night boners were not so bad, I just woke up two times each night and not too much pain. We played whit it all the weekend, had to go to supermarket with it. Its quite hard to see the girls in the street while wearing it, you know for sure you can't fuck them. Along this weekend I totally worshiped my girlfriend and she was astonished all she could obtain, like me making the laundry and all the cores at home. Finally, sunday night she removed the device and I felt my balls were about to explode. She acceded that I could masturbate in front of her if I promised that I would still be caring after it. It was just great.
The problem started the next day in the morning. I woke up with lots of pain in my right testicle and nausea. A first search in the internet yield me to sites about testicular torsion or other diseases. I was really terrified that I could loose a nut for this. I also did not want to tell about it to my girlfriend, knowing that after she would not want to play with it. So I didn't tell her anything, but went to the doctor. The doctor said I could have epididymitis, the treatment was antibiotics and ibuprofen. After a few days all seemed to go well, but it got worse and at some point I had to tell my girlfriend. This was 2 weeks ago, and I'm still recovering. Eventually the pain got worse and went up to my kidney. I was totally in panic, thinking that maybe my balls hadn't enough blood supply when I was wearing the device could have killed them, or maybe a horrible infection that would end up with my balls removed. I went again to the doctor and checked that my balls were ok, and that the most probable is that I have an ongoing kidney stone. Now I'm more relaxed, but just thinking about having a chastity device around my aching ball makes me puke. I also think that my girlfriend will throw the device into the garbage for sure.
Have any of you experienced some pain like that? I will write again in a week or so, hopefully telling that my ball is alright.
Anyway, I think I'm recovering since my sexual desire is totally increasing. But I still desire that my girlfriend could control my orgasm, but just not with a hard device. I was thinking about some masturbation test, if it is possible to my girlfriend to know if I ejaculated or not. We already have tryed some simple method, where she just measures how big are my balls every night. The problem is that it is very easy to spoof. I have masturbated after the measurement without her noticing, and the next day my balls were again as big. I also have thought about some prostate size measurement, but I think that asking my girlfriend to stick a finger in my ass every night is too much to ask. Now I'm thinking about some other possibility. Maybe it is possible that she draws something in penis with a pen or a lipstick, so if I masturbate it gets all blurred. I am also thinking about using some kind of boner detector, like a decalcomanie around my penis, that gets broken with a simple hard-on.
Do you have any other ideas to prevent masturbation and/or detect boners and ejaculation?
Regards to everyone.
PS: Sorry for my bad english, it is not my mother language.
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Here's another link i was shown of something i won't experience again...
http://xhamster.com/movies/169742/aw..._evil_red.html
i also realized over the course of this orgasmless summer that i believe i am now a cuckhold to Her rabbit vibe!!! i giver Her several orgasms thru oral which primes Her pussy. She then satisfies it with Her vibe while Her cock strains and drools inside its prison. i love watching Her, but the frustration of no orgasm is nearly maddening at times. Most times the package is not even noticeable anymore, i am so used to wearing it. But those times she teases and denies my release - from the cage or thru orgasm - or tortures Her balls, have created feelings and sensations of lust and only what i can describe as a deep itch within my (Her) penis for stimulation i never could imagine... litterally an itch i can't scratch all the way back to my prostate which, i'm sure needs to be drained! :cryingblu
Will write more later... need to try to sleep, kept up late by Her achey, throbby, drippy penis.
~n4h (I NEED TO CUM!!!!)
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