We are sharing this account as a couple....I guess I'll create my own to clarify...
Thought we signed up as MrsMrCrush.
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We are sharing this account as a couple....I guess I'll create my own to clarify...
Thought we signed up as MrsMrCrush.
Now I've my very own ID!
So from now on, MrsCrush is her and crush is me!
Tks,
crush
my girlfriend and i were fooling around in my basement this morning and i told her to fool around with my balls. she was always hesitant to do anything to them because she didn't want to hurt them. i told her it was fine and instructed her with some light squeezing, i told her to squeeze harder and harder until i was in bliss. she was concerned about them and kept on asking if she was hurting them. i just said that it felt amazing and to keep on doing it. this continued while i was fingering her and we both loved every second of it. just felt the need to tell someone.:jumpsmile
:jumpsmileshe did it again tonight. this time was even better. i keep telling her that i like it but i dont know if she knows i like the pain or if she just thinks it feels good in general for me. she said she was squeezing as hard as she could and i was in bliss. im going to have her single out the nuts next time, and then maybe move on to some hitting. but i have a question. should i risk it and tell her im into ballbusting or should i just keep quiet and not bring it up. we have been dating for a while so i dont know if i should or not.:jumpsmile
It's generally unwise to treat what you like as the discrete set "ballbusting." Saying you're into it applies a label to yourself which may suggest to her some things which aren't necessarily true, or otherwise cause her to categorize you as "one of those guys who's into that," rather than just a guy who happens to like some thing which fall into that set.
Better to simply say what you like... and if she thinks it's weird, you can tell her that a lot of guys like it, and that they call it ballbusting. Make that explanation third person, not first person... "there exists a fetish and I'd like to try some of it" is a lot less scary than "I have a fetish."
That assumes you haven't done much of it before, and that you enjoy vanilla sex. If you can't get off without having your balls busted, you might as well just come out and say you have the fetish.
Also... how long you take to ease her into it depends largely on her sexual maturity, not yours. If she's new to the whole sex thing, or has only ever done vanilla and doesn't know much about fetishes, take it nice and slow. If she's done some freaky shit before and doesn't think anything of it, just say it upfront and save yourself the trouble.
thank you for your response, but im not going at it in a full on fetish way. i just tell her i like it when she does it. im not saying its the pain that gets me off, im saying that it feels good and thats it. she has not had much sexual exposure so its all new to her, but she seems to enjoy doing it because it makes me happy. :thumbup