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Same girl that busted me said I was smaller than average. She said average was 7 inches or 8". She did say that size doesn't really matter since you're not just a cock, but a whole person which is what the woman gets off on. But she was straight up and adamant that she had seen a lot of cocks, mostly black, and that the averages she had were right.
So are the averages of popular ranges of 5.5 to 6.5 just baloney? Not that it matters.;)
I would say that you are closer to being right because I been told by many women that I am big (not bragging) and I am only about 8" but also very thick. I wouldn't worry about it though, I mean unless you want to be a porn star. Otherwise who cares. Its the balls you want big, easier for gals to bust and kick.
Technically, you're right and she's not.
I would guess that it's just her way of trying to humiliate you, by telling you that you don't 'measure up'. That usually works, since the 'average' guy feels unecessarily sensitive and inferior about the size of his 'manhood', and worries too much about it.
Don't believe her. And don't get obsessed about it. Just have fun!
- Sara :)
Sara
What is your take on the average? Please mention the number of guys you have seen erect, and whether you have ever measured one. What do you say the average is, and would you say that race makes a difference?
I would say that the "average range" of 5 1/2 to 6 1/2 inches that you mentioned is probably correct.
But remember that the "average range" is not the same as the "normal range".
In my experience, the "normal range" would be about 4 to 8 inches.
I've never lived in a country that doesn't use the metric system, so I have to translate inches to centimeters.
Less than 4 inches erect, I would consider short. But not "abnormal".
Over 8 inches I consider too big. Next time one of you guys think about bragging about being longer than 8 inches, remember that you are reducing your chances. Personally, if a guy tells me that he's 8 inches (or more), I either think of him as a liar or think he's just too big. When a big one bumps against a girl's cervix, it hurts! No thanks! Actually I'd rather be with a 3 incher than a 9 incher. Bigger is not always better.
A guy with a little 25 caliber handgun who knows how to use it properly is more effective and gets his target more often than a novice does with a 45 magnum.
That's my opinion, even though others may not agree.
The number of guys I've seen erect?
I haven't been counting. If I state any number, I run the risk of being called a slut by some or being called inexperienced by others.
So, I'll just be conservative and say that it's been over 100.
Have I measured any?
Only 3 have asked me to use a measuring tape, and I did it just to humor them.
I sometimes measure in terms of my hands and fingers, but I don't tell them and I don't write it down or even usually remember it. Just playing, you know.
Race makes a bit of a difference. I don't want to make any racist comments, but just think of yellow and black.
Body size also makes a bit of a difference.
But neither race nor body size is any guarantee of anything. So let's not get into any racial debates.
Interestingly, both race and body size make a difference in "average" female breast size as well. Just think about it.
- Sara :)
I'd never call you a slut Sara. As long as you keep busting balls (naked) you are going to see many, doesn't mean you get screwed by all. Hey, weren't we all working on a story somewhere?
Hi Sara,
i send your a private pic of myself ( or better a Part of me ) .
It took me a long to to consider answering the thread at http://www.femaledom.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2456 where velvetfrog asked the same question again and I have to ask WHY are men so hung up on the size of their penises??? I have seen quite a few over the years and, deformed porn stars aside, I would have to say that 5.5 - 6.5 would be about the average that I have seen.
I, personally, dont know a single woman that judges here husband or boyfriend solely on the size of his dick, that seems to be an almost totally male thing. I will add, that there are SOME size queens out there, but not nearly as many as men seem to think. My current bf is about 5inches, not that either of us are interested in its length, as we both get a lot of enjoyment out of it.
After reading so many 'size' questions on so many different boards dealling with so many different subjects, I can only assume that men WANT the average to be something like 12 - 15 inches so that then, for some rather weird reason, they CAN feel inadequate, or too many people spend way TOO much time watching WAY too many porno films and have totally lost touch with reality :)
I will now get down off my soapbox and go kick my bf in the balls :D
I doubt that many women care a whole lot, but the size of a big penis seems to be attractive to many women; just as the size of a woman's BOOOOOOBS (!!!!!!!!!!) doesn't matter to me, except that I find them attractive. I have been attracted to large-breasted and small-breasted women. I'll admit it's a factor, but it's a factor so unimportant as to be meaningless. Bring on the flat-chested cicks; Manuel Alphonse Rodriguez de la Rocha has the appetite to serve them all. Ariba!Quote:
Originally Posted by Julie18nz
Oh -- for statistical purposes, I have met about, ohhhh, MANY women, and only one thought that penis length was THE most important aspect of a male, unless you count my other friend who thinks that penis length is the ONLY important factor (she has SOME nerve, being a flat-chested chick!).
And now you know why we love her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Julie18nz
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Your right, no way is penis length the MOST important aspect. You are also right in that it can be an attractive trait however. But in my experience guys are way more hung up on size than girls.Quote:
Originally Posted by Trouble
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Agreed. Except, of course, for my friend who really DOES think the most important thing about a guy's his penis length. And my other friend who thinks it is the ONLY important thing. (I do not doubt that either of them would deny being "exceptional".)Quote:
Originally Posted by evilgrl
I have another friend who marvels at my ability to meet women whom she considers weird, disturbed, abnormal, and rather odd. She disaproves of bb and those who participate.
I'd try to convert her, but she's married, and her hubby really seems like a nice guy.
Back to the topic at hand: I find that women are interested in my penis size the first time they see it, and lose interest in looking at it thereafter. For my part, my obsession with BOOOOOOBS (!!!!!) tends to fade if I look at the same pair long enough....
Sara said:
"When a big one bumps against a girl's cervix, it hurts!"
I (respectfully) suppose, Sara, that you use your power on his balls to prevent him from hitting you too hard!
By the way, this proves as you mentionned it, that size is not all, and that the ability to use it properly and efficiently is more important.
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Originally Posted by crushee
Well, I certainly would if I were 'in a position to do so'. ;)
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Exactly!
And if some guy thinks that he'll improve his chances with me by telling me he has a ten-incher, I just silently think "Poor guy! I guess he knows that means we can't ever be anything besides just 'good friends'!"
Fortunately, most guys have 'average' (good) sized ones. Because if I asked them beforehand, they might exaggerate and there'd be no action. And a girl isn't 'supposed to' ask beforehand anyway.
"Dicks are like snow. You never know how many inches you're going to get, or how long it's going to last." :D
- Sara :)
except that cold temperature is not as good for dick hardness as it is for snow!
I'm less than ten inches! No, really, I swear it! Does that mean we can be more than 'good friends'? Oh, EVEN BETTER, I have BALLS!!! I don't mean that in the euphemistic sense, I mean I have nuts, cajones, testicles, knackers, eggs, you know, two very vulnerable Sara-palm-sized organs, roughly oval. Wannah play?Quote:
Originally Posted by SadisticSara
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BTW, do you always think silently, or just when you think it might be best to shield others from thoughts that might hurt their feelings?
Personlly, I ALWAYS think out loud. For example, when we met on the airstrip, I'd probably jump out of my plane and think, out loud, "BOOBS!!! Oh, look, there is woman attached. Hmmmm. Interesting."