Regarding SadisticSara

To all users of the free forums,

As you all have noticed SadisticSara in no longer here
to moderate the boards.

A few things has caused this to happen.

I could post a long post about this with copies of
our PM (Private Messages) we have made back and forth to explain in detail why.
However i do not wish to make our private messages public here on the board and as Sara
since yesterday cant post here it will be objective information based on what the majority already
have seen on the boards or knows from either Sara or me.

The main reasons for her not moderating
you can read out of my 2 posts here:
http://www.femaledom.com/forum/showp...0&postcount=27
http://www.femaledom.com/forum/showp...8&postcount=28

As most of you already read it before it got deleted you can read it again:
http://femaledom.com/FemaleDom_com%20Forums%20-%20A%20New%20Question%20For%20All%20Members%20(Fro m%20Sara)-filer/sarasreply.txt

If the post should have stayed here I would have had to again reply and refer to PMs
and nobody would know what we where talking about with sentences taken out of context.
As you can see her post #28 was moderated where I wrote to her to mail me instead
of addressing my post wherein I ask her to mail us instead or use PM.
(Sara was showing with the title as "big supporter" instead of a "moderator" and by that was removed moderator functions
because she asked us to moderate for this month as it also says in the thread.)
After i moderated her post I had hoped to finally hear from her so we could have moved on.
(This is the last time i wrote to Sara or she wrote to me directly)

After some time we got some mails that someone had posted for Sara on our board.
http://femaledom.com/FemaleDom_com F...From Sara).htm
(The reason for the weird looking url is that it was deleted)

Note: We still didn’t suspend her from logging into the boards as Sara after this
or to post on the boards about ballbusting.

Then imlost568 where asked to post a PM for her on the boards (even do she was still not suspended
and could freely post here as Sara).

I can only understand this and the deleted post you have read either now or when it was previously posted
http://femaledom.com/FemaleDom_com%20Forums%20-%20A%20New%20Question%20For%20All%20Members%20(Fro m%20Sara).htm
as she don’t want to communicate with me personally herself about this and as of today i still haven’t heard from her this being
almost 2 weeks after she said she would reply to my PM. After all these things we don’t wish Sara to stay.

Until these things happened i personally liked Sara and was letting her pretty much do as she wanted with the forums.
We have communicated thru the last 2-3 years but for several reasons besides the above we couldn’t seem to work it out here
in the end unfortunate. Unfortunate because as i wrote i liked Sara and
until the last few weeks I appreciated her effort here but it seems due to language problems me being native Danish
and probably have some understanding difficulties and couldn’t express myself correct in my reply’s to her it ended up this way.
I wish Sara good luck with her studies and future and hope she will succeed in whatever she wants to do after school.

Hi Sharon, sorry to hear about the somewhat confusing dispute between you and Sara, but at least we still have an attractive moderator that seems to be a ballbusting fan!

In addition, I hope we see Sara around sometime.

Let's not take sides.

I am sorry too that you and Sara haven't been able to work things out. To be honest though, I really missed Sara's posts after she got into the moderator stuff. Hopefully she can come back as a guest or regular poster. Well Sharon, since I didn't get Sara to do this (I was working hard at it), will you stomp on my nuts? :iluvu:

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Originally Posted by Guitar Man

Hi Sharon, sorry to hear about the somewhat confusing dispute between you and Sara, but at least we still have an attractive moderator that seems to be a ballbusting fan!

In addition, I hope we see Sara around sometime.

Let's not take sides.

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Dear Guitar Man,
Thank you for the welcome :bananawin
As you seem to not know who i am il try and explain and answer your other question.

Yes i like ballbusting i created this site in 1999 where this board also was created. If you have ever been a member of FemaleDom.com you could look me up in the model section and click on pictures to see how big a fan i am ;)

I didn't know that you created the site, how entrepreneurial! Unfortunately I've never been a member, on the principle that I would never part with money for sexual stimulation (no offence).

Besides, university costs prevent me from having any money at all.

Do you retain all the site's earnings? (I'm a finance student)

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Originally Posted by Magnum

I am sorry too that you and Sara haven't been able to work things out. To be honest though, I really missed Sara's posts after she got into the moderator stuff. Hopefully she can come back as a guest or regular poster. Well Sharon, since I didn't get Sara to do this (I was working hard at it), will you stomp on my nuts? :iluvu:

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Dear Magnum,

Yes i feel sad it had to go this way too :(
However due to several things it was better that we decided to stop
communicating with each other.
About if she comes back then as i have written above
we have removed her yesterday from the forum
so she wont be back.

However when I think of her and the better times we have had
I sincerely hope Sara will get a great life and wish her the best.

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Well Sharon, since I didn't get Sara to do this (I was working hard at it), will you stomp on my nuts? :iluvu:

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Well if you keep it up you may succeed in me visiting you when i am going to tour the US ...Or maybe that wouldn’t be a good idea
as you seem to think of me in a positive may now :D

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Originally Posted by Guitar Man

I didn't know that you created the site, how entrepreneurial! Unfortunately I've never been a member, on the principle that I would never part with money for sexual stimulation (no offence).

Besides, university costs prevent me from having any money at all.

Do you retain all the site's earnings? (I'm a finance student)

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Dear Guitar Man,

Well you dont have to be a member of the site to post here and most are not members from these boards so no offence taken. :)

As for the money part yes i am the one that deal with our diffrent sites earnings and expenses. :)

Are you really going to tour here? If so please let us know when. I am in Sacramento and would love to see you in action. San Francisco is very big in the BDSM world so you would probably want to go there (I live about 100 miles from there), plus it's a place of interest to most tourists. Plus, you can finally stand on a guys balls (I don't see much ball standing at any of the BB sites). I'm not talking about standing on them while I'm laying on the floor, I mean when my balls are laying on a table or counter (I had to clarify). What got you into ballbusting? Have you kicked many guys in the balls?

I for one am happy to see Sadisticsara gone.
I felt disrespect for the site after what I felt was rude behavior on her part but have since changed my mind after discussing it with Sharon by e-mail.
I look forward to rejoining the official site again in the near future as I have found the content there second to none and the models are far more beautifull than any of the other sites.

Peace.

Sara was definitely a lot more strict than Sharon seems to be, especially regarding political opinions and not deleting people's accounts for trivial reasons (not that the latter bothered me at all). As much as I liked her, it seemed that Sara was running some kind of dictatorship on these boards!

Sharon, will you ever come to the UK? it's very nice here!

[QUOTE=Guitar Man]Sara was definitely a lot more strict than Sharon seems to be, especially regarding political opinions and not deleting people's accounts for trivial reasons (not that the latter bothered me at all). As much as I liked her, it seemed that Sara was running some kind of dictatorship on these boards!

I had the same feeling, especially when suspending a few people on this board for their political remarks when she slams Bush every chance she gets. I mean, either keep your views to yourself or let everyone say how they feel.

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Originally Posted by Magnum

let everyone say how they feel.

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I feel Ggggrrrreat :) This place is so free 'n' easy now

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Originally Posted by Magnum

Are you really going to tour here? If so please let us know when. I am in Sacramento and would love to see you in action. San Francisco is very big in the BDSM world so you would probably want to go there (I live about 100 miles from there), plus it's a place of interest to most tourists. Plus, you can finally stand on a guys balls (I don't see much ball standing at any of the BB sites). I'm not talking about standing on them while I'm laying on the floor, I mean when my balls are laying on a table or counter (I had to clarify). What got you into ballbusting? Have you kicked many guys in the balls?

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Dear Magnum,

Well I have been wanting to do that for several years now.
I don’t know when it will happen do but yes i do hope that it will
be something that becomes a reality!

What got me into ballbusting?
Well to do it short. It was a visit on a diskotek together with Marion
another Danish girl from the site that kinda triggered it all.
I kneed a guy there :Baahaha: for not letting me go and we laughed at it and talked about it several times on different occasions.
What happened next was that we talked about making some fun pictures of guys in pain getting kicked "where it counts" and so we did.
After we did this and published it :wooow we had to reconsider the whole funny thing and began to make serious material instead.

If you have seen a lot of the material on the main site you will notice me in several videos now holding the camera instead of being in front of it and i guess that’s how it happened creating FemaleDom and today other sites too and have made it a living to do what i like as a everyday work.
(Everyday work meaning 16 to 18 hours a day)

I want to be in front of the camera too however due to costs i have been busy behind the camera and with the sites where as you probably know are updating every second day for the last many months. :eek:
Its so time consuming making ballbusting material and run the sites that i haven’t spend much time here on our board for a long time.

If you notice it I haven’t even advertised like I could have done here as my time was requested elsewhere in regards to girls advertising server problems running of studio making material ready for all the sites answer email regarding login problems link exchange and i can go on.


I hope to be able to free more time posting here but i am reading the posts here even do so dont hold back in posting just because my comment is not there right away ;)

I hear you have very liberal attitudes and laws about sex in Denmark. Is this right? Some say that its even OK to have sex with animals there :eek: Can this be true or is it just rumor?

where on earth did you hear that rumour!?

i wonder if Sharon is a fan of Lars Ulrich.

Sharon, what did you think when you first discovered that some men are turned on by the idea of ballbusting and how did you discover it?

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Originally Posted by Troubled

I hear you have very liberal attitudes and laws about sex in Denmark. Is this right? Some say that its even OK to have sex with animals there :eek: Can this be true or is it just rumor?

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Dear Trouble,

Yes we have always been pretty open minded and if you look into the history you will see Denmark more or less invented the Porn. The animal thing is not true do :D

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Originally Posted by Guitar Man

where on earth did you hear that rumour!?

i wonder if Sharon is a fan of Lars Ulrich.

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Dear Guitar Man,

Im not the biggest fan of drumming however I have meet Lars Ulrich in person on several occasions and he is a very sweet person that i think highly about. So yes you can think of me as a fan of him :D

Im more into music like the song im playing right now which are Mario - Let me love you. ;)

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Originally Posted by lovetap

Sharon, what did you think when you first discovered that some men are turned on by the idea of ballbusting and how did you discover it?

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Dear Lovetap,

The answer to both your questions you can read here:
http://www.femaledom.com/forum/showp...4&postcount=13

It was pretty much how i found out about both the turn on but also since
i have been doing this for 6 years it catched my own interest and i think its great & kinky :D

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Originally Posted by Sharon.Femaledom.com

Yes we have always been pretty open minded and if you look into the history you will see Denmark more or less invented the Porn. The animal thing is not true do :D

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Any country that invented ‘the Porn’ has something to be really proud about. I LUV the stuff! :D

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Originally Posted by Batmons

I for one am happy to see Sadisticsara gone.
I felt disrespect for the site after what I felt was rude behavior on her part but have since changed my mind after discussing it with Sharon by e-mail.
I look forward to rejoining the official site again in the near future as I have found the content there second to none and the models are far more beautifull than any of the other sites.

Peace.

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Batmons you little devil you :cussing:
Your half the reason that this happend...nooo...just kidding :D
Actually this is what happend after i asked Sara about your ban.
I wrote it in story form as its now a pice of history of our site.
(Thanks to a native speaking English guy for weeding out all my spelling errors and rearrange some sentences so it make sense to all of you who have problems reading my Danish School English) :)


It all started when Sharon wrote to Sara about 2 users who complained about being banned from using this forum. Sara couldn’t remember exactly why she had banned these individuals and was unhappy about having to spend a lot of time in order to find out the reasons. In the absence of solid reasons for the bans, Sharon upheld the users' complaints and reactivated their accounts.

Sara disagreed with this decision, created a new profile as a regular user, and asked the forum membership whether they wished her to continue as moderator. Sara also asked Sharon to take over the board for a month. Sharon thought that Sara might leave the forum and asked her to stay on. Sara said she had no intention of leaving and that she would email Sharon to explain it all.

Sara had been using a lot of time keeping the forum tidy because new users had not read the forum rules in the sticky ‘read here before posting’ thread. Sara told Sharon that she wished to change the forum rules. Sara suggested that new users were asked to read the sticky thread automatically upon registration. Sharon wasn’t sure that the modifications to the forum would be helpful as the thread was called “Read here before posting” so it would be a double instruction to new users. Sara was not happy about this and again said that she’d explain why in her email.

Days passed and Sharon heard nothing. Finally Sharon got a Private Message from Sara that contained a link to the public forum where Sara had re expressed her feelings. Sharon thought that this was an unprofessional way to go about discussing their views. Sharon did not wish to play out the drama in public view. However, Sara continued to make her points in public.

Sharon then asked for the promised ‘long explanatory email’. This email never arrived. In the meantime there are questions asked by members as to who was now running the board. Sharon was unsure of whether the board was being administered at all and took over as moderator. Sara then immediately wrote to Sharon in public to say she felt that she had been overruled. Sharon pointed out that she’d only actually performed Sara’s wish that she administer the board for a month to allow Sara to become a normal user and asked Sara not to continue the debate in public. Sara continued to address Sharon via the public forum.

Sharon then edited Sara’s message on the public forum and again asked Sara to contact her directly. Sharon heard nothing for several days. Sara, and/or her friend, gained access to the forum and threatened FemaleDom.com. This is exactly when it ceased to be either a personal or professional disagreement, but a direct danger to the business here at Team FemaleDom. Sharon continued to wait to hear from Sara and hoped that everything could be sorted out by direct contact. Sara did eventually make contact but via another forum user on the public board. Sharon realized that they were not going to be able to resolve their differences in this way and suspended Sara’s ability to post.

2 forum members that supported Sara then became abusive towards Sharon and FemaleDom on the forum and were banned from posting. 3 Other members asked that their profiles be removed.

Sharon was saddened by the whole episode and still cannot believe how an innocent question about two users being suspended led to a threat of having her site hacked and users leaving the forum.

So Batmons you better begin typing some very interesting stuff :D (again just kidding)

Sharon,

Thanks for the history on the problem. I'll miss Sara. But sometimes things don't work out, and it is your board. And it really is an excellent and well run forum. I love it. Your models are gorgeous. I hope we get to see more pictures of you.

poolman2

Yes, thank you Sharon. Who knows, maybe sara had some stresses or problems going at home which sometimes can temporarily or permanently change people or how they react to different situations. Hopefully all is well with her and Sharon will kick and stomp us even harder than Sara would have.

BTW Sharon, your picture looks as if you are about to kick someone in the nuts.

I can't somehow help but think this is my fault. If Sara reads this please contact me. In fact can Sharon also contact me. The two of you should gag me, tie me up and beat and squeeze the hell out of my testicles.

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Originally Posted by velvetfog

I can't somehow help but think this is my fault. If Sara reads this please contact me. In fact can Sharon also contact me. The two of you should gag me, tie me up and beat and squeeze the hell out of my testicles.

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Dear velvetfrog (I hope you're not Kermit as he's been banned here!),
Sara’s signature used to include the donations website www.peacebunny.com. Yes, you remember it now don't you! I remembered this yesterday and tried it as I think she said her friend ran the site when she was asked about it in a post. The site seems to be shut down or changed :confused:. Curiously, it says ‘if you’re looking for Sara please click here’ at the top. I tried the link and reached this: http://www.dailyvisits.com/pages/sara.html :weryfun :weryfun :weryfun

PS. I hope its OK to post this here Sharon. It seems 'on thread' and made me LOL. I guess its likely that a bunch of forum members were well ahead of me on this anyway. If that's the case then I'm sorry for being so slow (again!).

PPS. Note her very strict rules of engagement! It's not just forums she's strict with!!

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Originally Posted by Troubled

Dear velvetfrog (I hope you're not Kermit as he's been banned here!),
Sara’s signature used to include the donations website www.peacebunny.com. Yes, you remember it now don't you! I remembered this yesterday and tried it as I think she said her friend ran the site when she was asked about it in a post. The site seems to be shut down or changed :confused:. Curiously, it says ‘if you’re looking for Sara please click here’ at the top. I tried the link and reached this: http://www.dailyvisits.com/pages/sara.html :weryfun :weryfun :weryfun

PS. I hope its OK to post this here Sharon. It seems 'on thread' and made me LOL. I guess its likely that a bunch of forum members were well ahead of me on this anyway. If that's the case then I'm sorry for being so slow (again!).

PPS. Note her very strict rules of engagement! It's not just forums she's strict with!!

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Dear Troubled,

Yes Velvetfog did ask about Sara and me contacting him. I thought he meant it as a joke. Seems you and Sara diden´t. Sara asked me to please contact him and let him know her email. I did and he wrote back it was meant as a joke. Your right this was on topic and lets keep that as the end of the Sara vs Sharon thing. Topic closed. :)