Softer Ballbusting?

[skipperbob]

I definitely like the softer stuff, mainly because I want it to last a long time! I like being slapped on the balls by her foot over and over again and having the pain build over a period of time. There is also a big difference in what each of us consider "softer" - I want to feel the pain with each kick, just not so much that I'm done quickly. I love as the pain builds with each kick until I feel sick to my stomach! Also, love being kicked into a full erection with her foot slapping my stiff cock around!

[TeethFan]

getting hit really hard in the nuts in reality really isn't my thing - my preference would be for a very gentle beating, with the pretence its a testicle-wrecking busting

[Alec Anaconda]

I mainly indulge in action for arousal, eventually terminated by ejaculation.

I view injury as an unavoidable but undesirable risk, not as a goal.

Perhaps this is the softer side of BB, but many non-BDSM men regard my pleasure as unbearable agony.

Sometimes I enjoy this sport as a challenge, where the pain takes me to an almost out-of-body experience and shooting my load becomes irrelevant.

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As for my viewing tastes, I like realism, but I know that the camera has to lie to tell a story.
I watch vastly more variations than I practice.

Certainly, some interesting actions make dull videos; nettling and closed wrestling holds for example.

Alec Anaconda

[EricaBB]

I've never liked hardcore S/M or BDSM style ballbusting. The more colorful and playful the situation, the hotter. I like to wear colorful socks when I bust, not deadly heels...

[poolman2]

I have no interest in dungeons, leather, PVC, boots, whipping, caning and the like.

My interests are in woman herself, her feet, and her legs. We rarely use shoes, or even hose for that matter, except in the early stages. I have a strong foot fetish. What better way is there to enjoy it than in barefoot ballbusting and overall foot worship? This does not mean however that my wife does not do hard kicks, stomps, and other play, but she does it overwhelmingly barefoot.

So I guess the answer is that we prefer soft over hard ballbusting at least as it is defined here.

pooman2

[bthauronite]

While I absolutely love anything she does or threatens to do to me, it is always, in my mind about her pleasure. The psychological satisfaction from that is much more powerful.

Cumming is cool too, of course. >.>

[radababovic]

it`s better when there is an erotic side to it.