I really don't understand what "you" are raging about. You are fighting Windmills.
I, for myself, state: I don't know what happened in that special case and I don't have to, because I'm not the judge! I'm just a pervert observer and I'm free to speculate.
I don't speculate about
him havin done anything bad to
her in order to justify what she did, because no "moral" can justify this of course and women who dismember "moraly bad men" are NOT my fetish anyway.
But I DO "disgustingly and continually try to justify women who mutilate men by saying 'if'" because MY FETISH are women who cut off dicks because THEY ENJOY IT!
So I keep saying "IF", also in this case, because, who knows? All she sayed was he "deserved it" and she made no effort to conceal what she did, so she must be very certain about this.
So if I ever loose my dick, it may well look just like this case to you, but you would be wrong!