Originally Posted by
curmudgeon
I like the idea of a "first time" thread. Maybe it will help some who have not had their cherries popped so to speak.
That said mine was a friend, we were both pretty young and still learning what we liked and what we didn't.
Julie suggested that we experiment with each other, where there would be no relationship tension involved. We tried as many different things as we thought up, there was no internet back in those days to get suggestions from. We each had some ideas that we thought people would judge us pretty weird for. They probably still would for most, but some have gone mainstream.
When I suggested that I wanted her to beat up my balls Julie thought I was just teasing her, she got into position and kept waiting for me to tell her that I was just kidding. She prepared to call my bluff. When I never told her to stop she punched me in the balls, and immediately began apologizing. When I asked her if she could keep doing it she just busted up laughing, and agreed. After several experiments we sort of found out what weird things we each enjoyed. It may be because of that start that to this day, I enjoy being busted more as a friendly game than as anything too serious.