What do you guys think of your testicles being on the receiving end of a wooden spoon?
When my wife and I first got married, we had sex every night, which then turned into either sex or some kind of release for me every night, since she didn't seem to require as much. I explained to my wife I liked my balls squeezed and spanked during a hand job. She was hesitant at first, but got used to it. If I wanted it a little harder, and even to this day, she'll express concern or think I'm being a little perverted or something. :lol
Early on, I asked her if she would use a leather belt to spank my balls. She kind of freaked out like it was some sort of perversion, afraid I'd want her to cut me or something, so I withdrew the request.
But, years later, I wondered what a wooden spoon would be like. We had one we used to spank the kids when they were little (just a pop, more likely a threat if they misbehaved. We aren't too into spanking to kids.) So my wife was going to give me a hand job and I moved the spoon there onto the bed as if we had left it there. I had a bag of sex toy stuff there, too. She saw the spoon and she said if she used that, her hand may not get as tired. I said I was up to give it a try.
Then she started. "Ouch... too hard." So she lightened her blows. I asked for a break, went into the toy bag, and got some sort of thin rubber thing that had belonged to another sex toy and put that on the spoon. Still, it was too hard.
The wooden spoon felt like there was too much pain on the surface area of the balls, not the scrotum, but the balls themselves, instead of the deep thud I got from her more padded hand. I'm sensitive that way. (Yeah, I'm sensitive about how I'd like my balls beaten; I'll admit it.) Even her using fingers instead of palm on the balls doesn't feel right. We aren't really in a top and bottom situation. She's doing this for me, not tying me down and making me take it for her pleasure.
So we stopped the wooden spoon play that session and went back to the hand. I probably could go for a leather belt if it's done right and isn't all scrotum smacking, but I think we'll stick with the hand. I think it's less risky and less likely to freak my wife out.
(Btw, my wife totally freaked out at the suggestion of light bondage one time in spite of the ball stuff she does. I don't tell her just how hard she really pounds my balls sometimes and how they hurt. If she doesn't go hard enough, I'll put them in a penis ring to push them out from my body to take her punishment.)
What do you think about the wooden spoon? Is it too severe? Is the pain the wrong kind of pain?
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Originally Posted by pulleddown
