Quote Originally Posted by eric B View Post
Fetishism is desire without love because real love is based in reality, not fantasy.

Fetishism is like infatuation - love without a sense of reality - it's appetite that can never be satisfied because it is chasing an ideal that has nothing to do with the real world.
This is true but what are you suggesting at the end? You have a fetish and I have a fetish and as hard we will try will never get rid of it. Even if we are not doing our fetish for years this will not improve our sexual desire based on pure love.
That is a fact and we have to accept it.