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Thread: Fetishism is desire without love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eric B View Post
    Fetishism is desire without love because real love is based in reality, not fantasy.

    Fetishism is like infatuation - love without a sense of reality - it's appetite that can never be satisfied because it is chasing an ideal that has nothing to do with the real world.
    This is true but what are you suggesting at the end? You have a fetish and I have a fetish and as hard we will try will never get rid of it. Even if we are not doing our fetish for years this will not improve our sexual desire based on pure love.
    That is a fact and we have to accept it.

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    ********** (Ball Busting) Sexual Fetish, Why Some Men Like This?
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRq3y3orZ4c

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    Talking Why Your Guy Likes Male Chastity

    Quote Originally Posted by virile View Post
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRq3y3orZ4c

    Another good one from same doctor

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9Sp_GJ76no

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    OP (virile) decided to live his fantasize and this is good
    More than that he also dare to post it on Internet
    https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8y...VNSzNtNE0/view

    I also decided to live them and I am doing this regularly.

    Now what is missing from here? Well this is love. I am , as viril, one of those BB lovers that have their BDSM fantasies outside marriage.
    Why me or viril or others did not find BDSM + love ???? Well I can talk a lot about but this will not solve the problem.

    In my opinion BDSM lover are divided in following categories:

    1. 60% of them are people who never live their fantasies. People that do not dare even to register. That never contribute. Just look here or there, a quick masturbation in the bathroom and this is all.
    2. 25% are people that live there fantasies, are actives on forums but have a high level of frustration. This frustration is also dropping in time. (This is virile)

    3. 10% are people that live there fantasies, are actives on forums and have a low level of frustration. (I am fitting here)

    4. 5% or less are men that live their fantasies with their wifes or long term partner. I am just speaking about straight people. I think for gay is easier to find a longterm BDSM partner.

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    Sorry, I did a mistake

    OP is not virile but is eric B. Apologizes virile
    You are probably also in 3th category

    OP , eric B has a psihological issue regarding his fetish.
    He just did not make pace with himself

    His post
    http://femaledom.com/forum/showthrea...l=1#post142744

    is relevant for this discussion

    At one point in time he wanted to move out of the closet showing a FB profile but he deleted after.
    He is still fighting with his demons but this is a fight you will never win.

    Anyhow I am an advocate for moderation.
    If you not run only for your own pleasure then you can still be able to have vanilla sex. Yes true, you will never be as good performer like a vanilla guy but always is a trade.

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