I for one am a huge fan of leash-play. In fact, I'll go one further and say that the whole "putting her in charge" aspect is why I play.
Really, it's almost like a parallel fetish. I can have an intense, mind-blowing scene without any pain whatsoever, so long as the control aspect is there. Which makes me and those like me, IMHO, very different from most people on this board. To put it simply, I don't like having my balls hurt.
There, I said it.
I don't like the pain, and I don't want it to happen. Therefor, I get my rocks off on the threat of the pain, and the control thereof. This does, of course, mean that most BB material on the net, and almost every single forum but this one, "misses" me. True, I've had the occasional BB-enhance orgasm from a lovely young thing "flicking" my balls with her fingers, but for the most part, for me, the threat is much, much better than the execution.
(Speaking of executions, I bet I get crucified over this post.
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Anyway, keep this in mind, I came out of my bizarre sub-closet rather than let you feel like you don't have a friend on this board. If we keep talking, maybe a few others will find their voices, too. Then we can have some really fun discussions, relative to us.