Well let me start by saying I am 22 and my g/f is 23 we have been together for 2 years I am in need of a woman to torture my bits, tie em up and beat em, kick em, stand on them among other things. I can get my girl friend to slap em (been doing that for about a year) and just started hitting closed fist (about 2 months)she does not like the idea of having them bound to hit em and she wont kick or knee me. I bought a humbler on ebay its cheap but I like the idea of it. I have played alone to try it out but, I want to get her into using it on me. how do people here involve them in to your play? Does the guy put the humbler on himself or the woman do it? how should I introduce it to her

Thanks in advance
Bayou